FabSwingers.com forum: Large woman. Fat (no curves)

By *manda63 OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

No im not feeling down on myself. Grey adores the way I am but I just thought I'd post a thread on this subject as I don't consider im curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get the cakes out

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Of cause your curvy everyone on fab can be curvy

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By *manda63 OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Get the cakes out"

Cake and eating sweets are my downfall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok Cool

Have a rum and

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By *manda63 OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"What about us? "

Can't see you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maria you are fabulous and grey is a very lucky man indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about us?

Can't see you "

Take my word for it,I'm fat,not curvy. Was this a thread about assessment to see if someone is fat or curvy?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"No im not feeling down on myself. Grey adores the way I am but I just thought I'd post a thread on this subject as I don't consider im curvy

As long as grey adores you, that is all that should matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No im not feeling down on myself. Grey adores the way I am but I just thought I'd post a thread on this subject as I don't consider im curvy

And the winner of the most pointless 'look at us' thread goes to......

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By *manda63 OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"No im not feeling down on myself. Grey adores the way I am but I just thought I'd post a thread on this subject as I don't consider im curvy

And the winner of the most pointless 'look at us' thread goes to......"

but it wasn't one, I was just airing my feelings, I didn't ask anyone to look at me but if you did, then thank you

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By *manda63 OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"What about us?

Can't see you

Take my word for it,I'm fat,not curvy. Was this a thread about assessment to see if someone is fat or curvy? "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever you class yourself as just own it girl xx I would say I'm "flumptuous" haha there is something for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a fat guy - trying to change it slowly by losing weight because I'm not happy with it.

I like sex with fat partners. Everyone has needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You feel how you feel, I don't understand the sugar coated "nah, you're not blah blah" Surly you / she knows your / her body better than us.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I would be worried about anyone who based their feelings about themselves on someone else's opinion ... because its all good when that someone finds you attractive but what happens when they don't? Does your sense of self worth go out of the window? Not aimed at anyone personally, just a discussion point ... I live in my body so the choices I make with it are mine

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I'm a fatty. Some days I can dress it up and say I'm curvy but others I just see it for what it is.

That said being on here has shown me that size doesn't define who you are.

It's hard to break a cycle of self loathing. I've done it for so long but it's important to try as much as you can to put it into perspective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a fatty. Some days I can dress it up and say I'm curvy but others I just see it for what it is.

That said being on here has shown me that size doesn't define who you are.

It's hard to break a cycle of self loathing. I've done it for so long but it's important to try as much as you can to put it into perspective. "

Some good advice/opinion right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy a curveometer try googling it, or eBay.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"No im not feeling down on myself. Grey adores the way I am but I just thought I'd post a thread on this subject as I don't consider im curvy

If you're not happy (and it sounds like you're not), then change. If there's one thing that a person is truly in control of, it is themselves.

There's loads of ways to get started, and there's loads of help available. Ultimately though, it's actions which make the difference, choose something and then DO-IT... tell everyone you're going to do it and they'll support you.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonders if anyone will actually try looking for one?

For those lacking in humour It was tounge in cheek.

Meaning who is anyone else to judge what we are?

There are so many blurred lines and descriptions these day's no wonder everyone has some sort of complex about one thing or another.

Usually based on looks or wealth.

Take myself for example.

By definition I could not be described as a gym fit guy.

However I go to the gym 4/5day's a week, watch my diet and train very hard.

But to some I am fat.

To others I am just big built.

Point being everyone views us differently, it's how we view ourselves that matters.

If you are happy with yourself then who cares.

But honestly have you ever met anyone these day's who are happy with their bodies?

Being healthy is far more important in how you look.

You can be stick thin and be very unhealthy.

Also you can be overweight and be healthy.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I would be worried about anyone who based their feelings about themselves on someone else's opinion ... because its all good when that someone finds you attractive but what happens when they don't? Does your sense of self worth go out of the window? Not aimed at anyone personally, just a discussion point ... I live in my body so the choices I make with it are mine"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well from the one clear body pic I can see, you go in at the waist which makes you look curvy.

I wouldn't worry about fab definitions for body types it's a crock of shite. If you're happy with you, then that's all that really matters.

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By *ordy1971Man
over a year ago

North west

All that should matter is you and your partner if he says your curvy and loves the way you look fuck what anyone else thinks. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And the winner of the most pointless 'look at us' thread goes to......"

A bit "below the belt" this comment. Kinda reflects the kind of guy you are really

As to the OP, if someone is loving you why worry

and from what I see your definitely getting what makes our world go around!!! xxx

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By *manda63 OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"No im not feeling down on myself. Grey adores the way I am but I just thought I'd post a thread on this subject as I don't consider im curvy

If you're not happy (and it sounds like you're not), then change. If there's one thing that a person is truly in control of, it is themselves.

Cal"

I'm trying to lose weight but I do have a sweet tooth and things are a bit stressful just lately, the sweet things are my thing I lean on but we've had a great time tonight and I'm feeling good

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By *manda63 OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Well from the one clear body pic I can see, you go in at the waist which makes you look curvy.

I wouldn't worry about fab definitions for body types it's a crock of shite. If you're happy with you, then that's all that really matters."

The dress he brought me helped with the curve but thank you for the comments and support

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By *manda63 OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"And the winner of the most pointless 'look at us' thread goes to......

A bit "below the belt" this comment. Kinda reflects the kind of guy you are really

As to the OP, if someone is loving you why worry

and from what I see your definitely getting what makes our world go around!!! xxx "

I did respond to his post. He says he adores me and yes I'm definitely getting whst makes our world go around. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curves are awesome. ...size 18 plus...mmmmmm

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By *layer oneMan
over a year ago

mirfield

"No im not feeling down on myself. Grey adores the way I am but I just thought I'd post a thread on this subject as I don't consider im curvy

You look curvy to me and incredible sexy

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By *manda63 OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"No im not feeling down on myself. Grey adores the way I am but I just thought I'd post a thread on this subject as I don't consider im curvy

You look curvy to me and incredible sexy "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course you have curves...OK, so they may be bigger curves than some peoples. That's no reason to get down though! Many men prefer larger curves...Grey certainly seems to do so, enjoy your own body shape and don't feel you need to change to fit in with somebody else's "norm"!

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By *manda63 OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Of course you have curves...OK, so they may be bigger curves than some peoples. That's no reason to get down though! Many men prefer larger curves...Grey certainly seems to do so, enjoy your own body shape and don't feel you need to change to fit in with somebody else's "norm"!"

Thank you but as I said, I wasn't down, was just posting in here. I know he does but I need to change for myself and other reasons, not to fit in with the "norm"

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Decent knockers, no arse, no hips, huge tummy.

Non curvy fatty here

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"Decent knockers, no arse, no hips, huge tummy.

Non curvy fatty here

Snap. I'm like a ribena berry as have skinny arms and legs too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No im not feeling down on myself. Grey adores the way I am but I just thought I'd post a thread on this subject as I don't consider im curvy

What's the question??

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Your curvy Maria

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By *manda63 OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"No im not feeling down on myself. Grey adores the way I am but I just thought I'd post a thread on this subject as I don't consider im curvy

What's the question?? "

There was no question, just a statement. I wasn't after replies either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No im not feeling down on myself. Grey adores the way I am but I just thought I'd post a thread on this subject as I don't consider im curvy

What's the question??

There was no question, just a statement. I wasn't after replies either "

What was the point of it so?

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"Decent knockers, no arse, no hips, huge tummy.

Non curvy fatty here

Snap. I'm like a ribena berry as have skinny arms and legs too

Ha!! All my weight goes to my belly. Would quite like a curvy arse but isn't to be

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By *mrandyMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Maria you are fabulous and grey is a very lucky man indeed."

Hear, Hear!! I love curvy women ... Gosh! You are so sexy!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot, sexy, sensual, ... Is not a look but an actitude so does it matter the curves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Fat Curvy BBW Who cares.

Grey loves you that's what counts.

I'd jump in your shoes.

Your a Lucky lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im fat and staying fat ,who dont like it then tough titty

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im fat and staying fat ,who dont like it then tough titty

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