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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does this put you off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope. most guys on here will fuck anything. if they haven't been verified much then nobody finds them attractive that's all.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Does this put you off?"

Does it put you off with your 24+ verifications?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Why would it put me off unless i was planning on keeping them to myself

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I don;t think I have that many verifications but it did put someone off the other day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it its ok for women to have 30+ lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have quite a few veris but would not just fuck anything . I have just been lucky enough to meet some lovely ladies xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I have 25 veris myself apparently, admittedly they are mainly socials but as I've chosen not to display them at the moment you wouldn't know. I'd rather think they were successful and actually the person they say they are on their profile

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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Not at all, we only glance at these to see the likelihood that people will turn up. So a handful or a bucketful is much the same to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't give a shit less about verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this put you off?

Does it put you off with your 24+ verifications?"

Haha well said! What a hypocrit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had about 20 on my old profile but some were piss take ones and don't really count. I don't think you should use the number to judge if you want to meet someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this put you off?"
no really depends like if it's over 3 years then no ! If it's over like 2 weeks omg you lucky person lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So all verified meets must stop at 29

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I had about 20 on my old profile but some were piss take ones and don't really count. I don't think you should use the number to judge if you want to meet someone "

Exactly - I'm sure people don;t always take the time to read them either - met for a coffee, nice chap, whatever, is not the same as fucked in every county in the UK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this put you off?"

And it's OK to have 22+ veris and 'won't meet unless you have a few veris' on your profile? Sheesh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also if you do not display them then people just see lots of veris. but don't know if they are socials . Repeat meets or anything. So no I do not judge

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to get one meet from this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly ever read verifications anyway as they have no bearing on whether I will meet someone or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ! I can't remember how long Fab has been around - but if someone has been here 5 years. 30 isn't many annually.

Plus lots could be socials. Veris are a funny thing anyway - it's the veris that aren't written that are the ones we should probably all pay more attention to - but many won't write a bad one, so they just don't write one at all.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I have been here for over six years and attended many socials! What would my summary say to you compared to yours after being on here for 10 months?

Not a lot to say really is there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they were all from one gang bang saying he took 30 loads up his arse,maybe.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"If they were all from one gang bang saying he took 30 loads up his arse,maybe. "

Oh god, woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isnt it better to have more verifications though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it wouldnt put me off

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I have over 30 veries but have many more meets than that i don't want a verie for every meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So all verified meets must stop at 29 "

I stopped asking if people would veri me after 3 or 4. I'd rather people didn't know just how many I've played with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I check other veris to see if I'm better looking than the men they usually meet, if I am, I message them. Still get fuck all luck tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us verifications are extremely important, as many times they have given us an insight into that individual. Although verifications are always polite, if you read between the lines it's possible to get an idea if it's a good match. For example, if a man was only verified by single ladies, I may question whether he is comfortable playing with a couple, or understands the dynamics of couple play. If a man has only had social meets, I would wonder why none of his meets progressed.

With regards to large numbers of verifications, not sure why that would bother anyone. Although I'm not in favour of just fucking someone for the sake of it, having a variety of partners over a period of time is nothing to be ashamed of. We are after all swingers. If someone goes to a party once a month and plays each time, it would be quite normal to achieve one or two new verifications each time. Over some years that's a lot of verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this put you off?"

Is multi veris the same attraction or off put as a guys profile with pics of his meets?

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

You don't meed 30+ to put some people off. Here and there some people will rant & tell you what they think on contact based on my profile having a more than a few veri's.

Nothing more than a 'they aint for me, i aint for them' moment. Sometimes I wonder if some people are lost in understanding what swinging is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are so misleading. If I had a verification for every time I'd met someone just for a drink, I'd have bloody loads.

People just look at the amount of veris, not what the veri actually was for.

It's stupid. No, people are stupid. They don't read. They don't read profiles I suppose, so why would I expect them to read verifications?

Anyway, I like my verifications. They make me sound fucking amazing

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

Personally, I look at verifications to show that the person is a real person who has put the effort into meeting others. I don't want to know what went on, whether it was at a social or for sex and I certainly don't want a blow by blow account of what happened (literally).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this put you off?

Is multi veris the same attraction or off put as a guys profile with pics of his meets?"

I never knew multi veris or pics of meets was objected to until now. The people we know on the party scene all have loads of veris, and many have in action pics of partners. It's all very normal. We meet the same friends at parties, and everybody has played someone you know, and nobody judges. This is swinging. It's great. It's liberating. Why hide it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this put you off?

Is multi veris the same attraction or off put as a guys profile with pics of his meets?

I never knew multi veris or pics of meets was objected to until now. The people we know on the party scene all have loads of veris, and many have in action pics of partners. It's all very normal. We meet the same friends at parties, and everybody has played someone you know, and nobody judges. This is swinging. It's great. It's liberating. Why hide it?"

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Phew! i only have 28...no seriously people will meet you if they like you veri's or not.

I like to flick through someones veri's to get the real picture of the person before contacting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were all from one gang bang saying he took 30 loads up his arse,maybe.

Oh god, woman "

I said maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So all verified meets must stop at 29

I stopped asking if people would veri me after 3 or 4. I'd rather people didn't know just how many I've played with "

People don't verify me,I'm thinking they must be embarrassed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mean to suggest that swinging means fucking everything that moves....

but....

isn't complaining about promiscuity sorta....um.....

We're literally all fucking about by definition say whaaaaaa!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

....if you read them 90% of mine are social meets only

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Not in the slightest.

In fact if he's got loads of veris I might hope the practice has made him a really good fuck.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I've currently got 21 veris showing. Every single one is a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all my veris are fuck meets. i don't even care.

i have less than 100 though. for both my single profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would probably put me off if they were meeting a lot of people for sex in a short space of time yes!! I have more than 30 veris but a lot are socials or repeat meets , some are jokey ones and they span 6 years!! It's all in perspective and down to your opinion, if you like someone enough does it matter??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy with no verifications may have fucked hundreds on here and just doesn't want to be verified, and probably even more off site.....so I'm not sure how the number of verifications on here matter in the slightest!....in fact I'd rather hook up with someone that knows how to enjoy nsa sex. Multiple verifications might provide an insight into that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your replies....a few have assumed wrongly that I disapproved of anyone with lots of verifications. They are important to me and I do get an idea if this is a person I would like to meet when I read through them after they have messaged me. I won't meet anyone with none, particularly if he has been on fab for a while. My personal choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your replies....a few have assumed wrongly that I disapproved of anyone with lots of verifications. They are important to me and I do get an idea if this is a person I would like to meet when I read through them after they have messaged me. I won't meet anyone with none, particularly if he has been on fab for a while. My personal choice."

Ok.....so What's your stance on those with 30+ verifications then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If the profile and verifications read well and I like the sound of the guy I am happy to take things further with a view to meeting. I hate timewasters and a guy with a number of verificationa is also less likely to be one. I have however met ladies who find more than ten verifications off-putting on a profile. Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If 'promiscuous' is a turn off for you, (and that's fair btw) you should probably turn around and give some thought on the road that brought you here.

I mean, it's called fab swingers.

Fucking about is kinda implied!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If 'promiscuous' is a turn off for you, (and that's fair btw) you should probably turn around and give some thought on the road that brought you here.

I mean, it's called fab swingers.

Fucking about is kinda implied!?"

no need to be rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this put you off?"

As long as it is not your partners 'private profile' they all have them!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yeah it does put me off sometimes, I'd prefer to meet people with a few good veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this put you off?

Is multi veris the same attraction or off put as a guys profile with pics of his meets?

I never knew multi veris or pics of meets was objected to until now. The people we know on the party scene all have loads of veris, and many have in action pics of partners. It's all very normal. We meet the same friends at parties, and everybody has played someone you know, and nobody judges. This is swinging. It's great. It's liberating. Why hide it?

Totally agree on the freedom of swinging to just enjoy it for what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No ! I can't remember how long Fab has been around - but if someone has been here 5 years. 30 isn't many annually.

Plus lots could be socials. Veris are a funny thing anyway - it's the veris that aren't written that are the ones we should probably all pay more attention to - but many won't write a bad one, so they just don't write one at all. "

- if fab could say how long there here be far better than saying over a year.

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By *ordy1971Man
over a year ago

North west

I think it depends on the actual verification as a lot of them can be social meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it shows he proberbly has a bit of confidence and isn't about to run away from swinging at the first sign of monogamy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this put you off?"
I don't show mine summary don't want people judge me like I say been on here over 4 years now . Plus if I meet a straight horny guy just for a quick suck I don't give verification unless they ask me too . And I keep there's hidden out of respect .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't normally display verifications from people we met briefly at a party, had a quick chat with, and are not likely to come across again. Those verifications don't really give an insight into what we are about. However, we display all our verifications from people we have played with. Why on earth would we take them down? We not ashamed of these experiences.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I struggle to understand why people put such importance on verifications. The only men I'd avoid with loads of verifications are those from the same women with increasing blow by blow description of the meet and the ubiquitous "I want him for myself!"

I'd be worried a molotov cocktail would come hurling through my window should the mad bunny boiler stalk him to mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, unless it was 30+ from the same woman

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"No, unless it was 30+ from the same woman

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Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, unless it was 30+ from the same woman

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Does this put you off?"

never really looked at em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this put you off?"

Sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't.

I have more profiles than just this one. Only I know the truth about who I've fucked.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"No, unless it was 30+ from the same woman

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Surely nobody would do such a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they've been on Fab for 90 years that's only 1 fuck every 3 years

Lazy Bastards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they've been on Fab for 90 years that's only 1 fuck every 3 years

Lazy Bastards"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never been a "fuck anything" kind of guy. However on my previous profile I had over 240 verifications (Brighton Steve, Shag and a few others who remember me will verify this)

They were, however, not all from "sex" meets. (Maybe half were...couples and single ladies) Some were social, many from party guests (my parties and those I attended), also from clubs etc.

Before you judge you should look at what the verifications are or say. Not simply the quantity!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Its such a mind boggling double standard.

We hound and push guys with little or no verifications to work on getting more because they will be seen as timewasters.

The ones that take that advice, get proactive, attend socials and meets and acquire veris are then told that they'd "fuck anything".

And the ones with lots of veris that don't display all of them are accused of having "something to hide".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I met Mr had well over a 100... By the time he closed his singles profile it was well over 200..

Doesn't bother me

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Does this put you off?"

I have a fair few veris - but the majority of mine are social ones. I think they show I'm a nice, safe bloke to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its such a mind boggling double standard.

We hound and push guys with little or no verifications to work on getting more because they will be seen as timewasters.

The ones that take that advice, get proactive, attend socials and meets and acquire veris are then told that they'd "fuck anything".

And the ones with lots of veris that don't display all of them are accused of having "something to hide".

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The fickle world of Fabs

Same for women though, too few & she's not serious about meeting anyone, too many & she's a slag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this put you off?

I have a fair few veris - but the majority of mine are social ones. I think they show I'm a nice, safe bloke to meet. "

you are a nice safe person to meet and easy to get on with

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"The fickle world of Fabs

Same for women though, too few & she's not serious about meeting anyone, too many & she's a slag!"

Spot on. Swinging imitates life in some cases. Such a shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verifications are so misleading. If I had a verification for every time I'd met someone just for a drink, I'd have bloody loads.

People just look at the amount of veris, not what the veri actually was for.

It's stupid. No, people are stupid. They don't read. They don't read profiles I suppose, so why would I expect them to read verifications?

Anyway, I like my verifications. They make me sound fucking amazing "
yes i like my veris to and rather publish then hidden ones x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No - it wouldn't!

I'd probably think 'Oh lovely - here's a guy who may actually show up when he says he will!'

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Does this put you off?

Does it put you off with your 24+ verifications?

Haha well said! What a hypocrit!"

She did not say that it would put her off. She asked if it would put others off

No, it would not put me off. I rarely ever check the verifications in detail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the shit attitude that many veris must mean you will shag anything!

People need to take a reality check on here, and realise in the vanilla world all us girls would be classed as slags just having a profile on here! !

I love guys having lots of veris, it's like a form of TripAdvisor! Lol

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Too many, not enough, too many in a short space of time, too graphic, just socials...everyone has their own preference how they judge others.

Just shag the people you want to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never been a "fuck anything" kind of guy. However on my previous profile I had over 240 verifications (Brighton Steve, Shag and a few others who remember me will verify this)

They were, however, not all from "sex" meets. (Maybe half were...couples and single ladies) Some were social, many from party guests (my parties and those I attended), also from clubs etc.

Before you judge you should look at what the verifications are or say. Not simply the quantity!"

We always look very carefully at the verifications, as part of our vetting process.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I've got 29 veris .. Does this mean I'm on the verge of disappearing into veri hell?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the shit attitude that many veris must mean you will shag anything!

People need to take a reality check on here, and realise in the vanilla world all us girls would be classed as slags just having a profile on here! !

I love guys having lots of veris, it's like a form of TripAdvisor! Lol

"

Quite agree. Let's not forget that we are all swingers, and having multiple partners is what swingers do. Nobody is suggesting that being sexually liberated means one shags indiscriminately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the shit attitude that many veris must mean you will shag anything!

People need to take a reality check on here, and realise in the vanilla world all us girls would be classed as slags just having a profile on here! !

I love guys having lots of veris, it's like a form of TripAdvisor! Lol

Quite agree. Let's not forget that we are all swingers, and having multiple partners is what swingers do. Nobody is suggesting that being sexually liberated means one shags indiscriminately."

even if they do i don't see anything wrong with that either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its such a mind boggling double standard.

We hound and push guys with little or no verifications to work on getting more because they will be seen as timewasters.

The ones that take that advice, get proactive, attend socials and meets and acquire veris are then told that they'd "fuck anything".

And the ones with lots of veris that don't display all of them are accused of having "something to hide".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the shit attitude that many veris must mean you will shag anything!

People need to take a reality check on here, and realise in the vanilla world all us girls would be classed as slags just having a profile on here! !

I love guys having lots of veris, it's like a form of TripAdvisor! Lol

Quite agree. Let's not forget that we are all swingers, and having multiple partners is what swingers do. Nobody is suggesting that being sexually liberated means one shags indiscriminately.

even if they do i don't see anything wrong with that either."

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By *allfungent24Man
over a year ago

city

I think people go overboard with the verifications. Nobody needs to know how well someone sucks etc. Has to be some privacy on here.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I think people go overboard with the verifications. Nobody needs to know how well someone sucks etc. Has to be some privacy on here. "

Privacy??? Really??? Why??? Says a guy with his c**k on display

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I think people go overboard with the verifications. Nobody needs to know how well someone sucks etc. Has to be some privacy on here.

Privacy??? Really??? Why??? Says a guy with his c**k on display "

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"I think people go overboard with the verifications. Nobody needs to know how well someone sucks etc. Has to be some privacy on here.

Privacy??? Really??? Why??? Says a guy with his c**k on display "

ZING!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Does this put you off?"

Yes from mr hypocrite

Not at all. Why would it?

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I've learned that it puts people off, I don't like showing "sex" veris anyway, because they always read like the letters page of a porn mag and make me wince slightly.

If I show my summary, that tends to put people off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they had 30 verifications all from clubs or gangbangs or glory holes or something then yeah that might put me off because it's not the way I meet. Similarly I've been put off by the people a bloke has verifications from - if they're all the same "type" and it's nothing like me then I won't be going there.

But 30 isn't that many especially if someone has been on the site a while. Hell I've got 8 on this profile and I don't even really meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So for everyone who thinks that showing veris is not a good idea .....

All our more recent meets have happened as a result of single women checking our veris , and saying the veris gave them a level of assurance .

So it's bollocks to suggest that there's no point showing them .

And anyone who doesn't like the fact that we show some can do one .

As for having too many , that's a load of hypocritical crap too . The quality over quantity brigade can do one too .

We would far rather meet with non judgemental people who see it for what it is , and not those who want to feel like they are something special or above anyone else .

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over a year ago


"So for everyone who thinks that showing veris is not a good idea .....

All our more recent meets have happened as a result of single women checking our veris , and saying the veris gave them a level of assurance .

So it's bollocks to suggest that there's no point showing them .

And anyone who doesn't like the fact that we show some can do one .

As for having too many , that's a load of hypocritical crap too . The quality over quantity brigade can do one too .

We would far rather meet with non judgemental people who see it for what it is , and not those who want to feel like they are something special or above anyone else .

"

For you. And that's great.

For me, there's literally no point me showing them because if someone needs the reassurance of what bullshit someone else has written to decide whether to meet me, then I'm not going to be meeting them because they seem like a spineless loser who can't apply a bit of common sense to a situation.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"If they had 30 verifications all from clubs or gangbangs or glory holes or something then yeah that might put me off because it's not the way I meet. Similarly I've been put off by the people a bloke has verifications from - if they're all the same "type" and it's nothing like me then I won't be going there.

But 30 isn't that many especially if someone has been on the site a while. Hell I've got 8 on this profile and I don't even really meet. "

I've had this - "you meet people who aren't the same physical "type" as me, therefore you aren't really interested in me". It's bollocks. Am I not allowed to have a "type" that is not soley based on physical attributes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they had 30 verifications all from clubs or gangbangs or glory holes or something then yeah that might put me off because it's not the way I meet. Similarly I've been put off by the people a bloke has verifications from - if they're all the same "type" and it's nothing like me then I won't be going there.

But 30 isn't that many especially if someone has been on the site a while. Hell I've got 8 on this profile and I don't even really meet.

I've had this - "you meet people who aren't the same physical "type" as me, therefore you aren't really interested in me". It's bollocks. Am I not allowed to have a "type" that is not soley based on physical attributes?"

Well if you have a "type" that's not solely based on physical attributes, why would all the people you meet have the same physical attributes?

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over a year ago


"So for everyone who thinks that showing veris is not a good idea .....

All our more recent meets have happened as a result of single women checking our veris , and saying the veris gave them a level of assurance .

So it's bollocks to suggest that there's no point showing them .

And anyone who doesn't like the fact that we show some can do one .

As for having too many , that's a load of hypocritical crap too . The quality over quantity brigade can do one too .

We would far rather meet with non judgemental people who see it for what it is , and not those who want to feel like they are something special or above anyone else .

For you. And that's great.

For me, there's literally no point me showing them because if someone needs the reassurance of what bullshit someone else has written to decide whether to meet me, then I'm not going to be meeting them because they seem like a spineless loser who can't apply a bit of common sense to a situation. "

If you've met people who verify you with veris full of bullshit , then that's a shame .

Happily we feel pleased to show a selection which show the type of people we meet , and how they felt about meeting us . If you , or anyone else , thinks they or we are spineless losers for using veris as part of our selection process , we sure won't be losing any sleep over that .

And furthermore , how exactly is it not exercising common sense to look at a potential meets veris to get an idea of what to expect ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many, not enough, too many in a short space of time, too graphic, just socials...everyone has their own preference how they judge others.

Just shag the people you want to?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So for everyone who thinks that showing veris is not a good idea .....

All our more recent meets have happened as a result of single women checking our veris , and saying the veris gave them a level of assurance .

So it's bollocks to suggest that there's no point showing them .

And anyone who doesn't like the fact that we show some can do one .

As for having too many , that's a load of hypocritical crap too . The quality over quantity brigade can do one too .

We would far rather meet with non judgemental people who see it for what it is , and not those who want to feel like they are something special or above anyone else .

For you. And that's great.

For me, there's literally no point me showing them because if someone needs the reassurance of what bullshit someone else has written to decide whether to meet me, then I'm not going to be meeting them because they seem like a spineless loser who can't apply a bit of common sense to a situation.

If you've met people who verify you with veris full of bullshit , then that's a shame .

Happily we feel pleased to show a selection which show the type of people we meet , and how they felt about meeting us . If you , or anyone else , thinks they or we are spineless losers for using veris as part of our selection process , we sure won't be losing any sleep over that .

And furthermore , how exactly is it not exercising common sense to look at a potential meets veris to get an idea of what to expect ?

"

I'm referring to people who won't meet you unless they can see what other people have said about you, or who refuse to meet people who don't have verifications or don't display their verifications. I prefer to make my own mind up; not go off what others have said.

Of course verifications written about me are bullshit. It is all bullshit. You don't describe a person to someone in real life in the way people describe people in verifications.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I do hope my colleagues at work don't describe me as my verifications on a swinger's site do

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"I don;t think I have that many verifications but it did put someone off the other day "

Why you are gorgeous

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I have one that says I'm a shit shag. Explain that!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I have one that says I'm a shit shag. Explain that! "

You have one honest verification

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"If they had 30 verifications all from clubs or gangbangs or glory holes or something then yeah that might put me off because it's not the way I meet. Similarly I've been put off by the people a bloke has verifications from - if they're all the same "type" and it's nothing like me then I won't be going there.

But 30 isn't that many especially if someone has been on the site a while. Hell I've got 8 on this profile and I don't even really meet.

I've had this - "you meet people who aren't the same physical "type" as me, therefore you aren't really interested in me". It's bollocks. Am I not allowed to have a "type" that is not soley based on physical attributes?

Well if you have a "type" that's not solely based on physical attributes, why would all the people you meet have the same physical attributes?

"

They don't, but bitches be crazy.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Too many, not enough, too many in a short space of time, too graphic, just socials...everyone has their own preference how they judge others.

Just shag the people you want to?"

Amen sister!!!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Does this put you off?"

No....

Same as it wouldn't on a couples or woman's profile.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I have one that says I'm a shit shag. Explain that! "

Err you're a shit shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So for everyone who thinks that showing veris is not a good idea .....

All our more recent meets have happened as a result of single women checking our veris , and saying the veris gave them a level of assurance .

So it's bollocks to suggest that there's no point showing them .

And anyone who doesn't like the fact that we show some can do one .

As for having too many , that's a load of hypocritical crap too . The quality over quantity brigade can do one too .

We would far rather meet with non judgemental people who see it for what it is , and not those who want to feel like they are something special or above anyone else .

For you. And that's great.

For me, there's literally no point me showing them because if someone needs the reassurance of what bullshit someone else has written to decide whether to meet me, then I'm not going to be meeting them because they seem like a spineless loser who can't apply a bit of common sense to a situation.

If you've met people who verify you with veris full of bullshit , then that's a shame .

Happily we feel pleased to show a selection which show the type of people we meet , and how they felt about meeting us . If you , or anyone else , thinks they or we are spineless losers for using veris as part of our selection process , we sure won't be losing any sleep over that .

And furthermore , how exactly is it not exercising common sense to look at a potential meets veris to get an idea of what to expect ?

"

A lot of people won't agree with us, but we have personally found that since we started insisting on only meeting men who had been verified by couples beyond being a social meet, our 'bad choice' rate has gone down and we find ourselves being messed about much less. We're not interested in sexual detail, but we do feel we need to know if a man understands the dynamics of playing with an MF couple. Of course we don't make our judgement solely of verifications. We also insist on extensive chat too. But when we agree to meet someone we have to get it right because we cannot waste any more evenings. So the more information the better. This is our personal choice, and don't wish to cause offence to those who are not in favour of verifications. But it works for us.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I have one that says I'm a shit shag. Explain that!

Err you're a shit shag? "

You'll have to test me out

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

No problem with multiple veri's, we've all got life's outside of Fab, so having a bit of a reference can nly be seen as good. Do i go on TripAdvisor and say no to a hotel with more than 30 veri's!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was the sign of being a study to have so many verifications on a blokes profile.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm not a shit shag, actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, I look at verifications to show that the person is a real person who has put the effort into meeting others. I don't want to know what went on, whether it was at a social or for sex and I certainly don't want a blow by blow account of what happened (literally). "

this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The number of veris doesn't put me off but i always read them and check out the meets theyve had and cam be out off by this!! That's just me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nope. most guys on here will fuck anything. if they haven't been verified much then nobody finds them attractive that's all."

Thank God I'm not most guys...

I'd rather be unattractive than fuck anything

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago


"most guys on here will fuck anything"

That comment says much about the person/brain that said it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The number of veris doesn't put me off but i always read them and check out the meets theyve had and cam be out off by this!! That's just me!! "

No I'm the same!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most guys on here will fuck anything

That comment says much about the person/brain that said it "

so? i don't have a problem with guys who are like that. and most people expect that for a relationship anyway, that their partner would still fancy them if they changed, don't see why it should be any different for NSA sex.

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