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By *otwife and Me OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

Hi All,

I know this always comes up ( lol) , my hubby is 5.5 inches and my lover is 8 inches . Now I ' m very happy with the size of my lovers dick , fits just right not so happy with hubbies too small ..

However a lot of people think even 8 inches is too small , what do you all think ?? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 8 inches at home but I'm perfectly happy with 5.5 at other times. It isn't a big deal for me, big, average and small all have their pros and cons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos they who think 8" is too small, have watched too much porn lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm not keen on small either. don't mind touching it but not much else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know someone who likes 8 x 7

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a size thread started by a woman?

There has to be an exception to every rule...

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men with smaller willies tend to develop other skills, but 8" is great and bigger always appreciated. I like the fact there's a range of willies on offer

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By *otwife and Me OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

One day we may have a women prime minister lol

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By *otwife and Me OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

I love my lovers 8 inches and not too sure about small men having other talents ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love my lovers 8 inches and not too sure about small men having other talents .. "

If a mans sexual prowess is judged on the size of his willy, then thats pretty weird I think.

But to each their own

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By *otwife and Me OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

So true ... But I speak from experience ...

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Never measured,.. Never felt the need to..

I've said it before if a lady I'm with feels the need to get out a tape on a meet I'm doing something wrong..,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So true ... But I speak from experience ... "

Maybe you intimidate men with smaller willies and this effects their performance?

To answer your original question, I have an okay manhood I suppose, on some occasions, women have denied me entry as its "too big" on other occasions it has been appreciated, I suppose it depends on the woman and where she derives most pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you intimidate men with smaller willies and this effects their performance? "

that's the point.

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By *otwife and Me OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

Maybe it's not the size , its maybe you don't do it for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's not the size , its maybe you don't do it for them "

You are a nice person aren't you?

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By *otwife and Me OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

Maybe you intimidate men with smaller willies and this effects their performance? .... You don't know me ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you intimidate men with smaller willies and this effects their performance? .... You don't know me ... "

Now I ' m very happy with the size of my lovers dick , fits just right not so happy with hubbies too small" ..

If I was your partner, that would hit me a bit hard, but I am a sensitive soul . I would certainly feel intimidated if you got a tape measure out or commented how small my manhood was on a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not the longest bloke on here by any means but I'm constantly reminded that my girth is much more appreciated. I'd be interested to hear a broader response to this?!

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By *otwife and Me OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

Lol ... I would not say a thing ..maybe it's my expression lol

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

I would never call 8 inches to small, in all honesty it's about perfect, met a lot of bigger lads over the years but not always the most comfortable for long play meets.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Do any of the women who like big cocks consider that perhaps it's because they have big pussies?

OP, perhaps you husband would prefer someone with a smaller/tighter pussy?

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By *otwife and Me OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

It fits ping pong balls ok , thank you ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of the women who like big cocks consider that perhaps it's because they have big pussies?

OP, perhaps you husband would prefer someone with a smaller/tighter pussy? "

mine's just fine. small dicks do nothing for me and i'm honest about it that's all. i don't like sucking them either, and nobody ever moans about mouths not being tight enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of the women who like big cocks consider that perhaps it's because they have big pussies?

OP, perhaps you husband would prefer someone with a smaller/tighter pussy? "

I really dislike the implication that every woman who like a large one is 'slack' or 'loose' and somehow inferior. I don't see how it's any different to criticising someone for their penis being small, which is also a shitty thing to do.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"It fits ping pong balls ok , thank you .."

So does the channel tunnel....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck it mine is 8.5"

I don't even know why I am in this thread, its just plain old nasty

Cheerypops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh nobody mentioned the other stereotype, where if you like big dicks then that's all you care about and you don't care if the guy is attractive or if the sex is good.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"oh nobody mentioned the other stereotype, where if you like big dicks then that's all you care about and you don't care if the guy is attractive or if the sex is good."

Or if you're married to him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got to say I love a women to have a D cup or above but I've love a lot of women with less. Size ain't ain't an issue delivery is. Let's be honest if you order a take away you've decided on the SIZE of the tip before the guy delivers, if he's late you're disappointed and reduce the tip before he gets there. Build up and delivery is what counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh nobody mentioned the other stereotype, where if you like big dicks then that's all you care about and you don't care if the guy is attractive or if the sex is good."

There's still time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh nobody mentioned the other stereotype, where if you like big dicks then that's all you care about and you don't care if the guy is attractive or if the sex is good.

Or if you're married to him? "

eh? she's married to a cuckold.

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By *otwife and Me OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

Wow , how's pulled your chain ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP does your husband now have a complex about the size of his dick? I wouldn't be too impressed I'f I were him. Poor guy. Does he read the forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP does your husband now have a complex about the size of his dick? I wouldn't be too impressed I'f I were him. Poor guy. Does he read the forums? "
Just what I thought lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of the women who like big cocks consider that perhaps it's because they have big pussies?

OP, perhaps you husband would prefer someone with a smaller/tighter pussy? "

Lol

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By *otwife and Me OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

Wow this is getting good ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP does your husband now have a complex about the size of his dick? I wouldn't be too impressed I'f I were him. Poor guy. Does he read the forums? Just what I thought lol"

I'm wondering if this is part of cuckolding, they have it as an interest in their profile? Some guys like humiliation and get off on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP does your husband now have a complex about the size of his dick? I wouldn't be too impressed I'f I were him. Poor guy. Does he read the forums? Just what I thought lol

I'm wondering if this is part of cuckolding, they have it as an interest in their profile? Some guys like humiliation and get off on it."

That is right, it could be cuckolding as well there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP does your husband now have a complex about the size of his dick? I wouldn't be too impressed I'f I were him. Poor guy. Does he read the forums? Just what I thought lol

I'm wondering if this is part of cuckolding, they have it as an interest in their profile? Some guys like humiliation and get off on it."

it's why i joined in.

i especially hate men and willies today also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP does your husband now have a complex about the size of his dick? I wouldn't be too impressed I'f I were him. Poor guy. Does he read the forums? Just what I thought lol

I'm wondering if this is part of cuckolding, they have it as an interest in their profile? Some guys like humiliation and get off on it."

Is it op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know someone who likes 8 x 7 "

that's just purrrfect for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own surely I'm average size and like most blokes wish I had a few extra inches but I have never had any complaints just cus your average doesn't mean your inferior in that department and a lot comes down to technique,there was a thread not long ago about being too big and general consensus was yes it was aesthetically pleasing however it wasn't necessarily pleasurable due to some women's anatomy and position of cervix, glad your happy with 8" op but I'm sure a lot of women would be happy with your hubbies 5.5" and if he was to publish that he found another woman more pleasurable than you how would you feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slutwife likes a big one in her pussy and a smaller one for anal as she finds big ones too painful!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, perhaps you husband would prefer someone with a smaller/tighter pussy? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a 'lady' got out a tape measure, I would want her to use it first on herself!

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By *otwife and Me OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

It' odd that matter what you enjoy , there is alway someone to put you down . And it's mostly the TTs of this world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It' odd that matter what you enjoy , there is alway someone to put you down . And it's mostly the TTs of this world "

TT's?

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By *otwife and Me OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

Tiny tinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea how big my ex husbands or ex partners cocks were.

I never measured them or even thought of measuring them.

If I ever get to wanting to know the size of the cock of someone I'm in a relationship with, I hope they tell me to fuck off.

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By *otwife and Me OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

Well said

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"It' odd that matter what you enjoy , there is alway someone to put you down . And it's mostly the TTs of this world "

You do realise that your thread OP itself puts men with average cocks down and labels them inadequate?

Given they can't change it, that's not a very nice thing to do.

Yet you have an issue with being criticised yourself, and over something you can change.

How about if you can't be kind, not being unkind?

If you want to put your hubby down, find a way to do it without making other men doubt themselves.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Hi All,

I know this always comes up ( lol) , my hubby is 5.5 inches and my lover is 8 inches . Now I ' m very happy with the size of my lovers dick , fits just right not so happy with hubbies too small ..

However a lot of people think even 8 inches is too small , what do you all think ?? Xx "

I'm thinking why did you marry a man whom you think is too small for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi All,

I know this always comes up ( lol) , my hubby is 5.5 inches and my lover is 8 inches . Now I ' m very happy with the size of my lovers dick , fits just right not so happy with hubbies too small ..

However a lot of people think even 8 inches is too small , what do you all think ?? Xx "

do you not think this thread is a bit degrading to your husband.lets face it, it was that size when you married him and it did not stop you then......

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

I wouldnt mind 8 x 7 right now..... 1 x 11 is snoring his head off xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi All,

I know this always comes up ( lol) , my hubby is 5.5 inches and my lover is 8 inches . Now I ' m very happy with the size of my lovers dick , fits just right not so happy with hubbies too small ..

However a lot of people think even 8 inches is too small , what do you all think ?? Xx do you not think this thread is a bit degrading to your husband.lets face it, it was that size when you married him and it did not stop you then......"

if she is a hotwife I'm guessing the degradation is all part of their relationship.....

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

My 7inchs does the job that's all that meters

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

She doesn't need to insult the majority of men on the planet to degrade her husband though.

Statistics would suggest most men on this site are nearer 5.5" than 8".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi All,

I know this always comes up ( lol) , my hubby is 5.5 inches and my lover is 8 inches . Now I ' m very happy with the size of my lovers dick , fits just right not so happy with hubbies too small ..

However a lot of people think even 8 inches is too small , what do you all think ?? Xx "

Well get hubby and lover together in 3some and you have 13.5 inches of dick, if you thibk that is still not filling you up suggest you send application form to 'embarrassing bodies programme and ask them to give you a few stitches around ur pussy.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Hi All,

I know this always comes up ( lol) , my hubby is 5.5 inches and my lover is 8 inches . Now I ' m very happy with the size of my lovers dick , fits just right not so happy with hubbies too small ..

However a lot of people think even 8 inches is too small , what do you all think ?? Xx

Well get hubby and lover together in 3some and you have 13.5 inches of dick, if you thibk that is still not filling you up suggest you send application form to 'embarrassing bodies programme and ask them to give you a few stitches around ur pussy. "

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By *otwife and Me OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

You are do right ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She doesn't need to insult the majority of men on the planet to degrade her husband though.

Statistics would suggest most men on this site are nearer 5.5" than 8"."

that's very true...the average cock is 5.5'' erect...so hubby is the rule and lover is the exception

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By *otwife and Me OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

Lucky me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lucky me lol"

Unlucky hubby if you ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does nobody (except AB) get that this thread is a deliberate humiliation thread because that is their thing?

OP, I assume hubby is a sissy cuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does nobody (except AB) get that this thread is a deliberate humiliation thread because that is their thing?

OP, I assume hubby is a sissy cuck? "

Apparently not...which is why it's even more lame that it turned into "well you must have a big loose flappy fanny"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi All,

I know this always comes up ( lol) , my hubby is 5.5 inches and my lover is 8 inches . Now I ' m very happy with the size of my lovers dick , fits just right not so happy with hubbies too small ..

However a lot of people think even 8 inches is too small , what do you all think ?? Xx "

I feel bad for your husband, you married him but he's not good enough for you? This is why I choose to remain single, people sicken me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got to say I love a women to have a D cup or above but I've love a lot of women with less. Size ain't ain't an issue delivery is. Let's be honest if you order a take away you've decided on the SIZE of the tip before the guy delivers, if he's late you're disappointed and reduce the tip before he gets there. Build up and delivery is what counts. "

Well said. I believe in a holistic approach to sex. Of course I would be lying is I said I didn't appreciate an extra inch or two above above average, just as I'm sure men I play with would prefer me with bigger breasts. But there are so many factors that make up a great sexual experience, and I don't think anybody pocesses every factor to perfection. If I had to choose between a man who excites my mind mentally, or a man with a huge cock, I would go for the former. Which is probably why we meet men so infrequently - so easy to find a big cock from the 'Fab catalogue'. Much harder to find a man who can bring a lady close to orgasm without even touching her.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Does nobody (except AB) get that this thread is a deliberate humiliation thread because that is their thing?

OP, I assume hubby is a sissy cuck?

Apparently not...which is why it's even more lame that it turned into "well you must have a big loose flappy fanny" "

Dont you think it is a bit hypocritical to suggest a conversation about the size of male genitalia is fine for discussion but to discuss the size of female genitalia is somehow a taboo?

Just as men are different sizes, so are women. Im sure the majority of men on here will have felt tight pussies and looser pussies, why can't we say that?

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By *otwife and Me OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

He is and loves it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does nobody (except AB) get that this thread is a deliberate humiliation thread because that is their thing?

OP, I assume hubby is a sissy cuck?

Apparently not...which is why it's even more lame that it turned into "well you must have a big loose flappy fanny"

Dont you think it is a bit hypocritical to suggest a conversation about the size of male genitalia is fine for discussion but to discuss the size of female genitalia is somehow a taboo?

Just as men are different sizes, so are women. Im sure the majority of men on here will have felt tight pussies and looser pussies, why can't we say that?"

That's my entire fucking point! You were suggesting that it was a bad thing to be critical of men with small penises so I'm not sure why it's therefore OK to turn it it around and start criticising women for not having "small tight" pussies.

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By *otwife and Me OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

What are you on ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP is in a cuck relationship.

Providing what is said and done is within the boundaries of whats agreed, great.

Thing is the rest of the world isn't!

So just as ladies tend to get a bit upset at comments like 'bucket fannies' etc, so do men.

There will of course be people that want to just be trolls. This happens on all forums.

My wives have been with vwe etc. They enjoyed some and hated others.

They prefer me. Average 'non model' me.

To each his own! Lol

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Does nobody (except AB) get that this thread is a deliberate humiliation thread because that is their thing?

OP, I assume hubby is a sissy cuck?

Apparently not...which is why it's even more lame that it turned into "well you must have a big loose flappy fanny"

Dont you think it is a bit hypocritical to suggest a conversation about the size of male genitalia is fine for discussion but to discuss the size of female genitalia is somehow a taboo?

Just as men are different sizes, so are women. Im sure the majority of men on here will have felt tight pussies and looser pussies, why can't we say that?

That's my entire fucking point! You were suggesting that it was a bad thing to be critical of men with small penises so I'm not sure why it's therefore OK to turn it it around and start criticising women for not having "small tight" pussies. "

If you could highlight the post where I said it was bad to be critical of "small penises" that would be really helpful. What I was suggesting is that maybe big likes big, average likes average and small likes small.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does nobody (except AB) get that this thread is a deliberate humiliation thread because that is their thing?

OP, I assume hubby is a sissy cuck?

Apparently not...which is why it's even more lame that it turned into "well you must have a big loose flappy fanny"

Dont you think it is a bit hypocritical to suggest a conversation about the size of male genitalia is fine for discussion but to discuss the size of female genitalia is somehow a taboo?

Just as men are different sizes, so are women. Im sure the majority of men on here will have felt tight pussies and looser pussies, why can't we say that?

That's my entire fucking point! You were suggesting that it was a bad thing to be critical of men with small penises so I'm not sure why it's therefore OK to turn it it around and start criticising women for not having "small tight" pussies.

If you could highlight the post where I said it was bad to be critical of "small penises" that would be really helpful. What I was suggesting is that maybe big likes big, average likes average and small likes small. "

The inference was quite obvious.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Does nobody (except AB) get that this thread is a deliberate humiliation thread because that is their thing?

OP, I assume hubby is a sissy cuck?

Apparently not...which is why it's even more lame that it turned into "well you must have a big loose flappy fanny"

Dont you think it is a bit hypocritical to suggest a conversation about the size of male genitalia is fine for discussion but to discuss the size of female genitalia is somehow a taboo?

Just as men are different sizes, so are women. Im sure the majority of men on here will have felt tight pussies and looser pussies, why can't we say that?

That's my entire fucking point! You were suggesting that it was a bad thing to be critical of men with small penises so I'm not sure why it's therefore OK to turn it it around and start criticising women for not having "small tight" pussies.

If you could highlight the post where I said it was bad to be critical of "small penises" that would be really helpful. What I was suggesting is that maybe big likes big, average likes average and small likes small.

The inference was quite obvious. "

That's how you have interpreted it anyway.

So if we go back to the original point, are you saying the OP shouldn't talk about men's size and other posters shouldn't talk about women's size?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos they who think 8" is too small, have watched too much porn lol."

Agree.. The porn world is distorting our levels of acceptance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does nobody (except AB) get that this thread is a deliberate humiliation thread because that is their thing?

OP, I assume hubby is a sissy cuck?

Apparently not...which is why it's even more lame that it turned into "well you must have a big loose flappy fanny"

Dont you think it is a bit hypocritical to suggest a conversation about the size of male genitalia is fine for discussion but to discuss the size of female genitalia is somehow a taboo?

Just as men are different sizes, so are women. Im sure the majority of men on here will have felt tight pussies and looser pussies, why can't we say that?

That's my entire fucking point! You were suggesting that it was a bad thing to be critical of men with small penises so I'm not sure why it's therefore OK to turn it it around and start criticising women for not having "small tight" pussies.

If you could highlight the post where I said it was bad to be critical of "small penises" that would be really helpful. What I was suggesting is that maybe big likes big, average likes average and small likes small.

The inference was quite obvious.

That's how you have interpreted it anyway.

So if we go back to the original point, are you saying the OP shouldn't talk about men's size and other posters shouldn't talk about women's size? "

I'm saying it's equally cunty to criticise anyone for the size and shape and appearance of their genitalia, male or female.

And that it's entirely possible to have a preference for big without being big. Or a preference for small without being small. And women who express a preference for big shouldn't be immediately told "oh well it's obviously because you're loose" and chucking in references to tunnels and the like.

That's all.

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By *strokeC100Couple
over a year ago

chester

I'm 5.5" like your hubby. I do work hard at " other skills". But so do many bigger guys, and they have that something extra!

I think most of us smaller cocked guys ( and average for that matter) know really that our wives would mostly prefer a bigger cock- just like we would prefer, maybe an hour glass figure on her! But we have what nature gave us.

When we first married my wife said, and probably thought, that mine was perfect for her. We had frequent sex and she nearly always came. Then we went to a club and she had a very fit guy with a biggish cock- I'd say probably 7"- which stayed rock hard as he fucked her as she had never before experienced. I then saw the difference between the orgasms she had had with me and what a woman can have with a really good and well endowed stud.

We sort of naturally developed into a cuckold couple. She has had a great many men, including a lot who were very big. She rarely now comes just from fucking me- but always does as we use a vibe and oral. From time to time she does want the feeling of being " properly" fucked and filled, but has never wanted a lover.

We have a great marriage. Sex is a part of it. I'm much better off being a complaisant cuckold than the alternatives: wife having clandestine affairs, leaving me altogether maybe, or just becoming frustrated through never achieving sexual fulfilment.

In my opinion everyone is entitled to try to enjoy the best sexual experiences of which they are capable of receiving and giving. But we're not all equal- that's life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing I've discovered is that muscular abs can be phenomenal in making a cock seem bigger. A large tummy can get in the way a bit reducing penetration. That's my experience anyway. I've definitely found that a smaller man with a hard tummy can get it deeper then a larger man with a slight belly. But it's also worth asking your partner to pull their abs in whilst fucking, so as to get it deeper. Try it, I find it works. Not that any of my partners are small, but it is always nice to feel it a bit deeper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does nobody (except AB) get that this thread is a deliberate humiliation thread because that is their thing?

OP, I assume hubby is a sissy cuck? "

I got it...

It's a bit of an odd one this...

Obviously if hubby is a sissy cuck it will be acceptable for them to post such statements...

However it's the reactions of the so called 'open minded' 'boundary pushing' 'non judgemental' people on here which takes said statements and blows them

Up out of all proportion and turns them into something entirely different

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By *otwife and Me OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

Lol , people think they our open minded but when a post hits a nerve they show their true colours .... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does nobody (except AB) get that this thread is a deliberate humiliation thread because that is their thing?

OP, I assume hubby is a sissy cuck?

I got it...

It's a bit of an odd one this...

Obviously if hubby is a sissy cuck it will be acceptable for them to post such statements...

However it's the reactions of the so called 'open minded' 'boundary pushing' 'non judgemental' people on here which takes said statements and blows them

Up out of all proportion and turns them into something entirely different "

Yep I understood that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does nobody (except AB) get that this thread is a deliberate humiliation thread because that is their thing?

OP, I assume hubby is a sissy cuck?

Apparently not...which is why it's even more lame that it turned into "well you must have a big loose flappy fanny"

Dont you think it is a bit hypocritical to suggest a conversation about the size of male genitalia is fine for discussion but to discuss the size of female genitalia is somehow a taboo?

Just as men are different sizes, so are women. Im sure the majority of men on here will have felt tight pussies and looser pussies, why can't we say that?

That's my entire fucking point! You were suggesting that it was a bad thing to be critical of men with small penises so I'm not sure why it's therefore OK to turn it it around and start criticising women for not having "small tight" pussies.

If you could highlight the post where I said it was bad to be critical of "small penises" that would be really helpful. What I was suggesting is that maybe big likes big, average likes average and small likes small.

The inference was quite obvious.

That's how you have interpreted it anyway.

So if we go back to the original point, are you saying the OP shouldn't talk about men's size and other posters shouldn't talk about women's size?

I'm saying it's equally cunty to criticise anyone for the size and shape and appearance of their genitalia, male or female.

And that it's entirely possible to have a preference for big without being big. Or a preference for small without being small. And women who express a preference for big shouldn't be immediately told "oh well it's obviously because you're loose" and chucking in references to tunnels and the like.

That's all. "

I like the word 'cunty'

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By *otwife and Me OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hove

Well put ...

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Lol , people think they our open minded but when a post hits a nerve they show their true colours .... X "

Yeah, I guess the OP did hit a nerve, but probably not the one you are thinking. I have a cock, its average size, some people like it, some people want bigger, that doesn’t bother me in the slightest.

What I didn’t like what the humiliation of your husband, when it was really stated that he was consenting and enjoying this sort of humiliation. If that is the case, then great, but it should be stated, otherwise the OP just looks like a not very nice person.

If I had said my wife is really fat and I don’t want to fuck her, but my lover is really slim, I want to fuck her all the time, would people assume that it was consensual humiliation for sexual gratification, or would they assume I was a dickhead?

Don’t get me wrong, I am sex positive and however you and your husband want to play is great. Im fine with consensual humiliation, but it is not something common on the forum, so without stating that is what it is (which you still haven’t done), it just doesn’t come across very well.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Does nobody (except AB) get that this thread is a deliberate humiliation thread because that is their thing?

OP, I assume hubby is a sissy cuck?

Apparently not...which is why it's even more lame that it turned into "well you must have a big loose flappy fanny"

Dont you think it is a bit hypocritical to suggest a conversation about the size of male genitalia is fine for discussion but to discuss the size of female genitalia is somehow a taboo?

Just as men are different sizes, so are women. Im sure the majority of men on here will have felt tight pussies and looser pussies, why can't we say that?

That's my entire fucking point! You were suggesting that it was a bad thing to be critical of men with small penises so I'm not sure why it's therefore OK to turn it it around and start criticising women for not having "small tight" pussies.

If you could highlight the post where I said it was bad to be critical of "small penises" that would be really helpful. What I was suggesting is that maybe big likes big, average likes average and small likes small.

The inference was quite obvious.

That's how you have interpreted it anyway.

So if we go back to the original point, are you saying the OP shouldn't talk about men's size and other posters shouldn't talk about women's size?

I'm saying it's equally cunty to criticise anyone for the size and shape and appearance of their genitalia, male or female.

And that it's entirely possible to have a preference for big without being big. Or a preference for small without being small. And women who express a preference for big shouldn't be immediately told "oh well it's obviously because you're loose" and chucking in references to tunnels and the like.

That's all. "

x 1000

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Does nobody (except AB) get that this thread is a deliberate humiliation thread because that is their thing?

OP, I assume hubby is a sissy cuck?

I got it...

It's a bit of an odd one this...

Obviously if hubby is a sissy cuck it will be acceptable for them to post such statements...

However it's the reactions of the so called 'open minded' 'boundary pushing' 'non judgemental' people on here which takes said statements and blows them

Up out of all proportion and turns them into something entirely different "

I understood it too.

However, humiliation and degradation is part of the OP's relationship. Presumably the husband consents to that.

The majority of men in the world with average or smaller than average penises do not necessarily enjoy small penis humiliation and did not consent to it.

If being called inadequate is intended to be humiliating and degrading for the husband, it stands to reason it would humiliate and insult other men too. It's not an insult specific to the husband and it's going to hurt other men.

That's not ok.

It's nothing to do with not being open minded. Unkindness with consent is one thing but otherwise it's just unkind.

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

I'd rather have good sex off a guy with an average cock than bad sex from a guy with a big cock who thinks he just had to hammer away at me

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Does nobody (except AB) get that this thread is a deliberate humiliation thread because that is their thing?

OP, I assume hubby is a sissy cuck?

Apparently not...which is why it's even more lame that it turned into "well you must have a big loose flappy fanny"

Dont you think it is a bit hypocritical to suggest a conversation about the size of male genitalia is fine for discussion but to discuss the size of female genitalia is somehow a taboo?

Just as men are different sizes, so are women. Im sure the majority of men on here will have felt tight pussies and looser pussies, why can't we say that?

That's my entire fucking point! You were suggesting that it was a bad thing to be critical of men with small penises so I'm not sure why it's therefore OK to turn it it around and start criticising women for not having "small tight" pussies.

If you could highlight the post where I said it was bad to be critical of "small penises" that would be really helpful. What I was suggesting is that maybe big likes big, average likes average and small likes small.

The inference was quite obvious.

That's how you have interpreted it anyway.

So if we go back to the original point, are you saying the OP shouldn't talk about men's size and other posters shouldn't talk about women's size?

I'm saying it's equally cunty to criticise anyone for the size and shape and appearance of their genitalia, male or female.

And that it's entirely possible to have a preference for big without being big. Or a preference for small without being small. And women who express a preference for big shouldn't be immediately told "oh well it's obviously because you're loose" and chucking in references to tunnels and the like.

That's all. "

I didn't say that her vagina was a tunnel. I said that you can fit a ping pong ball in the channel tunnel! If you are trying to say something is small, you would pick something small, and say that it can't fit, instead the OP picked something small and said that it would fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does nobody (except AB) get that this thread is a deliberate humiliation thread because that is their thing?

OP, I assume hubby is a sissy cuck?

I got it...

It's a bit of an odd one this...

Obviously if hubby is a sissy cuck it will be acceptable for them to post such statements...

However it's the reactions of the so called 'open minded' 'boundary pushing' 'non judgemental' people on here which takes said statements and blows them

Up out of all proportion and turns them into something entirely different

I understood it too.

However, humiliation and degradation is part of the OP's relationship. Presumably the husband consents to that.

The majority of men in the world with average or smaller than average penises do not necessarily enjoy small penis humiliation and did not consent to it.

If being called inadequate is intended to be humiliating and degrading for the husband, it stands to reason it would humiliate and insult other men too. It's not an insult specific to the husband and it's going to hurt other men.

That's not ok.

It's nothing to do with not being open minded. Unkindness with consent is one thing but otherwise it's just unkind."

Whatever people may take from this whole thread....its obvious that you are a very nice, kind and thoughtful woman x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Does nobody (except AB) get that this thread is a deliberate humiliation thread because that is their thing?

OP, I assume hubby is a sissy cuck?

I got it...

It's a bit of an odd one this...

Obviously if hubby is a sissy cuck it will be acceptable for them to post such statements...

However it's the reactions of the so called 'open minded' 'boundary pushing' 'non judgemental' people on here which takes said statements and blows them

Up out of all proportion and turns them into something entirely different

I understood it too.

However, humiliation and degradation is part of the OP's relationship. Presumably the husband consents to that.

The majority of men in the world with average or smaller than average penises do not necessarily enjoy small penis humiliation and did not consent to it.

If being called inadequate is intended to be humiliating and degrading for the husband, it stands to reason it would humiliate and insult other men too. It's not an insult specific to the husband and it's going to hurt other men.

That's not ok.

It's nothing to do with not being open minded. Unkindness with consent is one thing but otherwise it's just unkind.

Whatever people may take from this whole thread....its obvious that you are a very nice, kind and thoughtful woman x"

Sometimes. Sometimes I'm hell with long hair and a total bitch. Some people will be falling about laughing at the suggestion I am kind, (though none of them actually know me).

I don't like seeing people insulted like this though. It creates insecurity, bad feeling and tit for tat insults. None of those are good things.

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By *oinMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Different strokes for different folk

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Anything between 4" - 6" is just fine for me. I am much more interested in who it is attached to than the actual size

If he is more than 7" then I find that painful and either he has to be very gentle and considerate or he has to find someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slutwife likes a big one in her pussy and a smaller one for anal as she finds big ones too painful!!"

Your Slut Wife is perfection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She doesn't need to insult the majority of men on the planet to degrade her husband though.

Statistics would suggest most men on this site are nearer 5.5" than 8"."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby is under 6" but lack of girth is bigger issue for me. Like others around 8" with good girth I really enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i been dogging and groups most men 8"+ dont get fully hard

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I have an average penis (not sure tbh, never measured it. But been told it's pretty lol). Wife loves it and with amount of gym I do now, I have tons of stamina. So not bad for 44 yr old guy.

In 9 yrs of swinging, we must have seen every size possible. Small avarage and hung to the knee. At first I wondered why a couple would bother swapping if he was hung like a horse, but Wiggles has mostly found huge cocks rarely go solid and leed to disappointment.

But it's swinging, enjoy what you find fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife is an absolute size queen , huge pussy but its great fun

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have an average penis (not sure tbh, never measured it. But been told it's pretty lol). Wife loves it and with amount of gym I do now, I have tons of stamina. So not bad for 44 yr old guy.

In 9 yrs of swinging, we must have seen every size possible. Small avarage and hung to the knee. At first I wondered why a couple would bother swapping if he was hung like a horse, but Wiggles has mostly found huge cocks rarely go solid and leed to disappointment.

But it's swinging, enjoy what you find fun."

I knew a girl once who did know a guy who was hung like a horse. The problem was however that when he became aroused...he would faint!

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By *i Lady Next DoorWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

My profile asks for men UNDER 7 inches - I know not many ladies look for the same but that's my preference xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife is an absolute size queen , huge pussy but its great fun "

Christ if a single guy said the above he would have been shot down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife is an absolute size queen , huge pussy but its great fun

Christ if a single guy said the above he would have been shot down. "

..that's why you cant say it and I can 21 years together think I can be myself in front of her and to others , thank you very much lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the best guys I've had the pleasure of are smaller then average. It is all about the foreplay for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It fits ping pong balls ok , thank you ..

So does the channel tunnel...."

Pmsl

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row


"Maybe it's not the size , its maybe you don't do it for them "

Maybe you just have a bucket crutchet?

*sniggers*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of the women who like big cocks consider that perhaps it's because they have big pussies?

OP, perhaps you husband would prefer someone with a smaller/tighter pussy? "

Fuckin brilliant reply!

Hate women that gag for big cocks if they want big why don't they just go fuck a concrete stump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of the women who like big cocks consider that perhaps it's because they have big pussies?

OP, perhaps you husband would prefer someone with a smaller/tighter pussy? "

Exactly that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of the women who like big cocks consider that perhaps it's because they have big pussies?

OP, perhaps you husband would prefer someone with a smaller/tighter pussy?

Fuckin brilliant reply!

Hate women that gag for big cocks if they want big why don't they just go fuck a concrete stump "

ha ha that's ace!!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"My wife is an absolute size queen , huge pussy but its great fun

Christ if a single guy said the above he would have been shot down. "

Well, a single guy wouldn't have a wife

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By *eloton40Man
over a year ago

Durham

Maybe some of the size Queens have a wizards sleeve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 inches is about perfect, bigger can get too uncomfortable xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"8 inches is about perfect, bigger can get too uncomfortable xx"
lol depends where tho I suppose

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