FabSwingers.com forum: Being offered money

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am in shock! There is a guy that has been bugging me to meet him - asking for daytime meets despite being told I cant do daytime, asking for last minute meets etc.

Each time I have said no.

This evening I received a "ok, last offer, how about a meet for £50" message.

I found it really offensive that he thought I would change my rules for £50. No, I dont in anyway think Im so gorgeous it has made him so desperate - he hasnt even seen a face pic.

Why would he think that all my rules would go out the window for £50?

Am I over reacting or would any of the other women on here also be offended by this?

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By *iamondladyWoman
over a year ago

titsville

No I would be offended too. This man misses the point of swinging I feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

report him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would you believe I have been asked if I would Top a bi guy for cash !!!!!!

and Im a st man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just about to say that to

definitely report the guy, no need for this harassment

no means no

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Up until today he hadnt been rude or offensive. Yes, a bit keen but hadnt overstepped any lines.

We actually added him as part of a couple, but looking back on it now I realise the lady was never mentioned in him asking to meet.

And dont worry, he is NOT in our friends list now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

were all for that but that's nor right to be rude in that way

glad you remove the user in question

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

£50!! Bl88dy insult if you ask me..Tight sod it should have been at least £250

Report and block

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok the best way to deal with this is to REPORT it from the profile...as bringing it onto the forums just gets people abusing the person you are talking about even when they don't know them.

All reports get investigated and Admin think it fair to keep that private.

To the people who abused the person being talked about ( and who's posts I had to take off) you can be banned for abuse even if you don't name them.....and imagine being banned for abusing someone that you don't even know or know if the allegation is true.

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