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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am on here with my partner but I'd like to find a lady to play with either solo or with my partner......

If I messaged you as a couple would you read it or do you think id get a better chance if I had a single account for myself?

I've messaged two ladies and they haven't even read my message and yes they have been online! Making me feel like it's pointless with a couples profile!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Meeting a woman alone or with your partner, these are two totally different things .... I have a single profile for single female meets. Every woman is different but I don't meet couples .... on that profile.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"I am on here with my partner but I'd like to find a lady to play with either solo or with my partner......

If I messaged you as a couple would you read it or do you think id get a better chance if I had a single account for myself?

I've messaged two ladies and they haven't even read my message and yes they have been online! Making me feel like it's pointless with a couples profile! "

The ladies you messaged may well have looked at your profile first. It appears to be written by your partner who states what she is looking for. There is no mention at all on the profile of you meeting people separately. As a single female , I would have a quick look at your profile and unless I was attracted to you AND your partner, not take things any further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want fem/fem meets only without your partner I would definitely suggest getting a single account. I personally wouldn't respond to a fem who wanted to meet alone on a couples profile, just as I wouldnt a man.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I read all messages whether couple or single. If you message from a couple profile the most important thing for me would be to know it's an FF meet only and he's not want to sit in the corner and watch. But if your messages aren't even being read by those you want to meet then maybe single account is the way to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just as an aside, I couldn't tell if the OP was from the man or woman from the couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also your profile is very much "I" and "me". Nothing about "us" and "we" so messages might go unread if they think it's a single parading as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't reply I would think it was the male on his own reading your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy approached me asking if i would meet him but went on to say he had a partner. He said he was also on a couples profile and that she would give me his consent. A female did contact me from a couples profile and said i had her consent. I smelt a rat. It was a single guy also posing as a couple. I reported him because he gives all the genuine single guys and couples a bad name and a hard time.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

I have a couple profile with my partner and we each have single profiles to play alone. He runs any single meets by me, but I don't have an issue with anyone he wants to meet as I know he comes home to me, and vice versa. I do think its interesting though that lots of people meet him but say they don't meet attached people on their profile ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a couples profile. Jay has a single profile that I set up for him and I'm considering setting up my own single fem profile for meets with other single fems. No boys allowed xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice.

I shall take a look at this profile and also think about setting up a profile as a single female looking for single females! I understand how one bad experience can put you off from others I don't want that at all! Thanks again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am on here with my partner but I'd like to find a lady to play with either solo or with my partner......

If I messaged you as a couple would you read it or do you think id get a better chance if I had a single account for myself?

I've messaged two ladies and they haven't even read my message and yes they have been online! Making me feel like it's pointless with a couples profile! "

I won't communicate with just one person on a couples profile.

Why don't you make your own profile?

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