FabSwingers.com forum: To big

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So our question is aimed at the females here. Have you ever met a guy who you once you have started the fun thought. Shit that's going to hurt and no one its going in me. May seem an odd question but we have been chatting to a guy and we're going to meet, but then he sent a pic of his cock after us requestin it. The Mrs has said he is to big and is concerned it would be more pain than fun.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

how would you know until he's in?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Yes.

I met this French guy a few times who had the largest penis I've ever seen outside porn. This thing was 11.5in SOFT.

It was SOOOO big that he couldn't really get it up, it just got a bit bigger.

But he was a bottom, so it was all fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I have. I played with a few guys who were big and realized that it wasn't as enjoyable as I'd hoped (once I had a hard time sitting for a few days after

I know for many women the bigger the better, and that is great for them, but personally I will now turn down men who look too big or who profess to be really big.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So our question is aimed at the females here. Have you ever met a guy who you once you have started the fun thought. Shit that's going to hurt and no one its going in me. May seem an odd question but we have been chatting to a guy and we're going to meet, but then he sent a pic of his cock after us requestin it. The Mrs has said he is to big and is concerned it would be more pain than fun."

yes i've refused sex a few times because i've looked at it and i know its not going to be pleasurable

I've had sex in the past with big guys and there's no pleasure in fucking a guy your wincing away from every time he thrusts, plus i've noticed big guys seem to be a lot rougher when fucking, so now i decline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So our question is aimed at the females here. Have you ever met a guy who you once you have started the fun thought. Shit that's going to hurt and no one its going in me. "

No but I have thought ooooh I'm in for a treat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"how would you know until he's in?"

from previous experience

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

You need to use lube if he is quite gentle and maybe if he doesn't last too long it should be ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't be as big as a baby lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't be as big as a baby lol"

get me a epidural and i'll give it a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't be as big as a baby lol

get me a epidural and i'll give it a go

Haha

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

A couple of times I've thought

that's never going to fit. But it has, if it starts to get uncomfortable then I tend to change position or do something else for a bit.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Can't do big ones. Low cervix or something. Even with copious amounts of lube they frickin hurt

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

"yes i've refused sex a few times because i've looked at it and i know its not going to be pleasurable

I've had sex in the past with big guys and there's no pleasure in fucking a guy your wincing away from every time he thrusts... "

^^^ This. I've had "too big", and even after playing on several occasions (different positions, etc etc etc) it still hurt. So reluctantly, I had to say 'let's just be friends'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it was amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So our question is aimed at the females here. Have you ever met a guy who you once you have started the fun thought. Shit that's going to hurt and no one its going in me.

No but I have thought ooooh I'm in for a treat!

Then the day after my pussy is ridiculously tender!

For me though if I meet a guy with a big cock, I know what positions work in my favour more and which don't so I just work around it. Can't see me ever turning a man down due to his cock size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jay likes this thread it means there might be hope for him being average size as it seems bigger is not always better

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

I've turned down playing with a gut because he was to big. I'm sure he would have been careful and gentle but it was just a bit too scary for me. Than again I'm a wimp.

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

Guy not gut.

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By *ollipop77Couple
over a year ago

Dubai ( / Manchester)

With only being 4'11" I do sometimes worry about belly button bashers. Through lots of practise I have realised that doggy is out of the question as it is painful and that it is better if I am in control.

Don't want a guy thrusting away and tapping on my tonsils x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think the females height effects it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once had a mmmff in a club and one of the guys, who was 11 inches, had me doggy style. I can just remember thinking ' God hurry up' lol .

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I've had one where when I saw it, I was certain it wouldn't fit! Length and girth

still managed it though

But then last week had another which I wasn't worried about, but he must have hit my cervix pretty hard as I've been hurting ever since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I have. I played with a few guys who were big and realized that it wasn't as enjoyable as I'd hoped (once I had a hard time sitting for a few days after

I know for many women the bigger the better, and that is great for them, but personally I will now turn down men who look too big or who profess to be really big.

-Courtney "

Yes me to Courtney less is sometimes more,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't stop me trying!!

I only find big cocks painful from behind and it's a pleasurable pain..although I do get tummy ache afterwards!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Yes.

I met this French guy a few times who had the largest penis I've ever seen outside porn. This thing was 11.5in SOFT.

It was SOOOO big that he couldn't really get it up, it just got a bit bigger.

But he was a bottom, so it was all fine.

I'm sure there is a "Frenchmen are massice cocks" double-entendre in there somewhere.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy who I knew was vwe but when I actually saw it and realised the girth as well I did have a 'ouch' moment! Especially as getting it in my mouth was difficult

BUT I think it all comes down to the guy, if he is considerate and knows how to ease you in as it were then it can be bloody fantastic!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn't stop me trying!!

I only find big cocks painful from behind and it's a pleasurable pain..although I do get tummy ache afterwards!

This!

Part of the pleasure is the pain.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"I met a guy who I knew was vwe but when I actually saw it and realised the girth as well I did have a 'ouch' moment! Especially as getting it in my mouth was difficult

BUT I think it all comes down to the guy, if he is considerate and knows how to ease you in as it were then it can be bloody fantastic!! "

exactly - you don't need 10" to bring a woman off, so being faced with a 10" dick, why would a woman automatically think the man's going to use it or even use it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a guy in Spain a couple of years ago, hubby reckons that the bloke had had a transplant from a donkey

but it was very enjoyable, after about an hour he was worn out and decided to leave did'nt even cum. It was very hot though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The extra inch makes a lot of difference. A few years back I met a guy who had a penis over 10 inches in length, it was longer than my foot (size 4) and very girthy. Couldn't have full sex because he would thrust with the first few inches which was fine but then he'd go deeper and it felt like it was stabbing my last meal. Had to cut the sex short and just wank him into my mouth.

7 to 9 is ideal length.

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By *edonistic needsWoman
over a year ago

sexton

Think this just depends on the guy.There's lots of lovely vwe guys around.Personally I love vwe even if it's pleasurable pain afterwards

If any guy played rough with me irrelevant of size Id send him packing unless of course I d asked him to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such thing as too big

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me eyes water thinking about it...

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"No such thing as too big

Well there is. Based on experiences in this thread.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No this has not happened to me, any size is fine and I've been up to 9.25".

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I want a normal one not one that is going in one end and pops out the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been with a guy who's cock took my breath away.

An amazing experience but I won't do it again because I was stretched and ruined after so turning down everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

... or not to big.

That, is the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me ... I'd always turn them down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So our question is aimed at the females here. Have you ever met a guy who you once you have started the fun thought. Shit that's going to hurt...."
Yes. And more than once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never something I have had to worry about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't be as big as a baby lol

get me a epidural and i'll give it a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check out B10 on my verifications I thought there's no way I can handle that but after a bit of a warm up it was sooo good! Don't be scared relax and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may or may not be painful, your wife needs to try it out for herself as we're all different.

From my own experience if a guy's VWE it's not enjoyable for me, hurts my cervix & I spend a lot of time gagging.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I prefer small/average and my profile says so....I don't mind girth but length hurts when it bangs off the roof of my insides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I've never met anyone with one that was "too big" for me. Obviously you have to be aware of positions etc as some things are going to be more pleasurable than others, but that applies with smaller ones too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No such thing as too big

I'm with you. I haven't come across one I couldn't cope with. Not yet anyway lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do find it quite restrictive if a cock is substancially above average.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No such thing as too big

Well there is. Based on experiences in this thread."

Depends on where you get your pleasure...i quite enjoy having my insides bashed tbh...

If ive got my eyes crossed and feel a bit broke... I'm happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check out B10 on my verifications I thought there's no way I can handle that but after a bit of a warm up it was sooo good! Don't be scared relax and enjoy"
Flipping heck, woman! Good on you!

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