FabSwingers.com forum: Telling someone your a swinger

By *heSwingingCrewe OP Couple
over a year ago

crewe

Just wondering how many of u.. have told friends/family u r swingers ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few of our friends know xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not me...what I do in my private life is just that...private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, i've never felt the need to tell anybody

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not us, we don't discuss our sex life with anyone but those involved in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friend knows but then she also knows if I have someone at my house or if I'm out somewhere, just for my added sense of security, but she's the only one.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"not me...what I do in my private life is just that...private

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I have told people i am on dating sites but not on fab. But then I would not class myself as a swinger

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I told a best friend once..... Never again.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

The last friend I told was Flik....and see what happens when you do this stuff!!

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

My good friends know.

Most have known me since school (25+ years)

Most of them are quite kinky, even if they don't swing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've got friends from here and clubs and then vanilla friends who know nothing about our other friends if that makes sense lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've told quite a few people about me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've told a good friend but then again he's a swinger also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I told a best friend once..... Never again. "

I told a 'best friend' once too. She hasn't spoken to me since Christmas.

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Don't bother.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"not me...what I do in my private life is just that...private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never felt the need to discuss my sex life with anyone who's not involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have to add the friends that do know are also swingers x and we have met them on here x

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By *angtidy10Couple
over a year ago

wolves

A few of our friends know. A few of them have joined in lol

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By *espectful chap 99Man
over a year ago

Preston

I, male, has told most of my close friends: tracey is beginning to tell her friends and..

So far no issues...

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Nope.

I don't need to brag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Told my last 2 girlfriends, one was willing to experience it and we had a lot of fun andthe other never got over the shock as she was very straight laced and eventually we broke up.

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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We have a friend who we have known for over 20 years and trust with anything, we told him and after the initial shock he just accepted it as something we did. He has even played and been to clubs with us now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My best friend knows but then she also knows if I have someone at my house or if I'm out somewhere, just for my added sense of security, but she's the only one."

This is me too.

My mum also knows I meet guys for socials (only one who can have my kids) but as any kind of meet is rare, to her, I'm on a 'date'

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Just wondering how many of u.. have told friends/family u r swingers ? "

I don't discuss my sex life with anyone...and my friends/family don't discuss theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my good friends know if they do or don't like it that's up to them . I would say they are all supportive and intrigued and was not that surprised by my sexual choices . X

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"Yes my good friends know if they do or don't like it that's up to them . I would say they are all supportive and intrigued and was not that surprised by my sexual choices . X

They seemed to like the "in at the deep end" video clips too

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

None of my family, friends or colleagues know what I get up to in my spare time.

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Two close friends and my daughter know. So I rarely have to hide what I do from anyone.

One of the friends took it up herself and it's rejuvenated their sex life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My best friend knows but then she also knows if I have someone at my house or if I'm out somewhere, just for my added sense of security, but she's the only one."

Good idea x

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..

My advice would be "trust no one"

Simple!..

K x

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Told a room full of people during a show two weeks ago. Always been open about sexuality.

I appreciate people's need for secrecy but I reckon the more of us that are out, they'll be less of a social stigma about it

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By *ammieandalex12Couple
over a year ago

Mansfield

lots of our friends know and some family

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By *he Hobbit And MeCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Two of our children `adults now` know! so we do not have to sneak around like teenage lovers, Secrets are bad things sometimes and we would never live a lie. They were surprised, envious and jealous that the old folks are enjoying life to the full

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Two of our close friends know. One since signed up herself and has had a fair bit of success! The other is very curious and wants to visit a club. We're very open about our sex life with them both anyway and swap pics and videos regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two of my closest friends both were surprised but not judgemental at first asked a hell of a lot of questions but now just see it as a standard thing we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told my best friend last week, she wasn't as shocked as I thought she would be! She was more intrigued and asked lots of questions!

Mrs Tee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two of our children `adults now` know! so we do not have to sneak around like teenage lovers, Secrets are bad things sometimes and we would never live a lie. They were surprised, envious and jealous that the old folks are enjoying life to the full

Ours don't know yet but I guess in time they'll work it out. Maybe the new massive bed, the handcuffs, the toys and the pile of sexy underwear will give the game away. Not to mention the long nights out every week dressed up in heals etc.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Just wondering how many of u.. have told friends/family u r swingers ? "

No we've never felt the need to tell anyone, it's none of their business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told my Mother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of our friends know and aren't bothered, we told his mum and dad too which was amusing

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

I've told all my new friends about my swinging..... Oh wait you're all here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People i have known since school have found me on here and my mother knows but we have that kind of relationship but thats it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my best friend, took me ages to tell her but she was great about it, so nice to have someone to openly talk about it with now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not find necessary to declare my private sexual activity with others, it's not something special, how you satisfy your wild needs nothing to do with family and friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just been into a small barbers and told the girl that I was off to a naughty party on Saturday.... she replied with a 'swingers party?'..

I couldn't lie... lol..

She was fine, even asked her to come along... I think she was quite surprised about how professional the parties are, especially with the effort on food!

Roll on Saturday..

Harry x

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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago

bournemouth

A few of our friends know and are very curious but too hung up to have a go, although one young couple are thinking about it, a few more ask if we are naturists as we go to "studland" a fair bit and they know part of its a naturist beach when we say yes get our kit off as often as poss they go quiet as not sure if we are taking the pee

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