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Can men and women be 'just friends'?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After a big fall out with an fb, I've realised that I don't have any male friends (apart from gay guys) where the relationship hasn't been sexual at some point, either at my instigation or theirs.

Made me feel a little sad...

So just as devils advocate, can men and women have a purely platonic friendship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a tricky one.

Just make sure your male friends are mingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. I have loads of guy friends. Who aren't gay and I have never slept with them. Purely platonic. It's wonderful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously, just be friends with ugly guys or ugly girls, problem solved. Although the ugly girls might still not be a problem for most of the straight male population of the planet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have platonic friendships with women. It's easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally. My best mate of 9 years were male. We did absolutely everything together, even gossip.. But sadly he passed away several years ago!

I tend to form better friendships with guys if honest. Probably stems back to being young and hanging out with my brothers n their mates!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep , they can . I have a few platonic female friends

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Yup but when the lines do blur it gets messy.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a number of good female friends are are just friends. When I was 19 I had a very good and close female friend but one night we went out after both having ended a relationship and ended up in bed and it pretty much killed our friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely I have great male friends who I meet in the pub and socialise with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately yes. One of my closest friends is male and we have been mates for 16 odd years now

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Although I will add, that I'm bi and friends with other bi ladies yet that's never caused an issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a good friend and he always said to me " women can have male friends, men have women they haven't fucked yet" I don't know if that is true or not but going on my instinct I think there is some truth in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely. I have loads of guy friends. Who aren't gay and I have never slept with them. Purely platonic. It's wonderful. "

So the ones with GF's are happy that you both pop out to the movies together alone on a Friday night - and roll back home Saturday morning ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This question always makes me smile. When men try the cant just be friends with me routine i ask im bi does that mean i want to shag all my (older) friends lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to an all girls school and then a state sixth form college so talking to The Boys aged 16 was quite hard for me: I've always had female friends. But guys are also cool, and now I work with a few I can say yes, I can be friends without it being sexual. Of course there is the odd innuendo but I definitely don't want to fuck any of them!!!

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Yes; I have mostly female freinds and hardly any male freinds.

My two best freinds are women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only got one or two male friends, I'm much more of a woman's woman. But they are platonic friends and will always be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a big fall out with an fb, I've realised that I don't have any male friends (apart from gay guys) where the relationship hasn't been sexual at some point, either at my instigation or theirs.

Made me feel a little sad...

So just as devils advocate, can men and women have a purely platonic friendship? "

Impossible - how many hot hunks do you see with ugly girls as they are just "friends"

Ugly girl - hot Hunk friend can you pop round with a DVD and a bottle of wine, it's my period and I need cheering up

Hot hunk - sure I will bring over Bridget Jones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes; I have mostly female freinds and hardly any male freinds.

My two best freinds are women.

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If they asked would you shag them ?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup but when the lines do blur it gets messy....."

have had mixed experience with this over the years when lines get blurred - the good friends stay as friend+, others may not and others the lines have never been blurred!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yes, I have many more male friends, I love 'em, and I like the fact that there is a frisson with many of them, it makes the friendship even more appealing to me.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Let me think about that====== yes they can be friends,

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