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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

local to us, who uses our local gym.now we not about to march up in gym and say hi.

however unsure weather to send message or a simple wink.

dunno if we want our gym time to mix with swing time.

but on the other hand some flirting and arranging a meet would make for interesting gym sessions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't have any public face pics so a message and a flirt won' t do any harm. Then if there is a spark, tell him and see how he reacts. If there is no spark give him a thanks but no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have a spotted member then I believe you can get cream for it. Try your GP or local GUM clinic!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you have a spotted member then I believe you can get cream for it. Try your GP or local GUM clinic!"

Ha ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dream scenario this !!! just back from the gym now and would love to have had you flirt with me.

Go for it it cant hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he gets a message from you then he'll be over the moon.

Tell him you've noticed him at the gym then he might have a great attack.

Break it to him easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow he is going to be one lucky dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know if it were me I'd want you to say something

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

You sure its not me from the gym or sauna???

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By *kexpat81Man
over a year ago

Aldgate

What's the gym called haha

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Message and at some stage, probably not first message, mention you like to keep fit and go to the gym without saying you have seen them. If they ask which gym and are keen to meet - happy days. If they don't want to meet, the swinger's code applies, nothing said and the gym is not mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are assuming the other person is suitably discrete. They could of course tell half the gym that you're swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are assuming the other person is suitably discrete. They could of course tell half the gym that you're swingers"

Exactly.

But we don't talk or know anyone else in there so not really a problem.

But am sure it could be problematic if some of the knobheads try it on with jools.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

Most people so far have assumed it's a he.....

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

no dont mix gym life with sexual needs ...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"You are assuming the other person is suitably discrete. They could of course tell half the gym that you're swingers"

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are assuming the other person is suitably discrete. They could of course tell half the gym that you're swingers

Exactly.

But we don't talk or know anyone else in there so not really a problem.

But am sure it could be problematic if some of the knobheads try it on with jools. "

Why would they do that just because they find out you're on this site? Makes it sound like she's some delicate little flower and all the Neanderthal men will ambush her or something. Men do have self control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message the guy. You don't have to say that you have seen him out and about or certainly not the gym.

If he seems ok, then meet him away from the gym. It only becomes problematical if he is not discreet, but being a single male doesn't make him indiscreet either.

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