FabSwingers.com forum: My wife fantasises about black cock but how do i get her to take it one step further ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I want my wife to sleep with a well hung black guy she loves the idea but wont act out this fantasy how do i get her to do this ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes people keep things as fantasies for a reason.. She may not be doing so for a number of reasons...

She may not be totally happy that you will be okay with it, she may actually while loving it as a fantasy, think it should stay there..

Lack of confidence even....

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and there is also the, is it your fantasy or hers...

as sometimes you can think your woman wants something because you brought it up and she said maybe while watching porn.. Oh mmmm but doesnt mean she would want it for real.

I havent looked at your profile but see that your on as a single man... do you swing as a couple at all..

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im want to try more sexually and im sure she does but she wont go past that line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and there is also the, is it your fantasy or hers...

as sometimes you can think your woman wants something because you brought it up and she said maybe while watching porn.. Oh mmmm but doesnt mean she would want it for real.

I havent looked at your profile but see that your on as a single man... do you swing as a couple at all..

Katie. x"

Agree! No mention of wife at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So is this about YOU, or your wife ?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Im want to try more sexually and im sure she does but she wont go past that line"

well its not about what YOU want though lol !! its should be what BOTH OF YOU are happy with .if she has a line then you absolutly must respect that !! yes by all means discuss the situation but be very carefull that its a discussion and not feeling youre rail roading her in to doing something shes doesnt really want to . she knows your thoughs and im sure if and when she wants to take things further shes perfectly capable of letting you know !

just worrys me that if youre married ,living with a women or what ever relationship that youve already set up a single guy profile ... doesnt seem like you want to go into this as a partnership and you have your own agenda which shes maybe picked up on already and put her off .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want ? ..................get her to do this ?....oh dear...

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I try not to judge things based on what is 'missing' from peoples profiles, especially as yours lacks any detail on your status, but I would say you need to be on here as a couple to pursue this from this angle...

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"I try not to judge things based on what is 'missing' from peoples profiles, especially as yours lacks any detail on your status, "

PC Clap Trap!

I'll tell you what is missing from his profile.... His partner!!! You don't need to judge! It has been admitted he has a partner! That means, as he is on here as a single male, he intends to cheat!!! Sheesh!

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

"I want my wife to sleep with a well hung black guy she loves the idea but wont act out this fantasy how do i get her to do this ???"

Talk to her, tell her you would like to live out the fantasy. You can't make anyone do anything it has to be her choice but without talking to her she won't know your really serious about carrying it out.

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

"I want ? ..................get her to do this ?....oh dear..."

Indeed...

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

"I try not to judge things based on what is 'missing' from peoples profiles, especially as yours lacks any detail on your status,

PC Clap Trap!

Lets not pre judge his wife may be well aware he is on here. Single profile or not, he may even have another couples profile but didn't want to post from it we really don't know. He has obviously discussed some things with his partner as in his original post.

Also to all those saying its what HE wants. Well he put the thread up so that is his viewpoint. He by his admission is not sure if she does as she won't cross a line. Don't pull the man down for opening up as it will just cloud his view of swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I think that he is speaking about himself rather than his 'partner' maybe he wants to do this but he cant bring himself to the next step !

Could be wrong cause I normally am lol but this time I think im right

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

"I want my wife to sleep with a well hung black guy she loves the idea but wont act out this fantasy how do i get her to do this ???"

If you really want some positive advice i would try and put more detail in about your situation and what you have and haven't talked to your partner about and under what circumstances. If you do that your more likely to get some constructive help

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

Well said, Big Bad.

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