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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi just wondered what people thoughts of age differences between swinging couples are?. We are fun loving mid fourties couple but get our fair share of young 20 somethings expressing an interest, for you is swinging all about experiencing new encounters or is the thought of playing with a couple the same age as your kids a big no no! Love to hear your thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My brother is 4 years younger than me so use that as a cut off so to speak, doesn't make sense to most but it would just get to me too much.

My cut off would be 46/47, again as my parents are just over 50.

If it was up to Adam the lower and uppers would be very different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My lowers are 32 and uppers are 59 xx as i have kids in their late 20's x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually play with someone that is around our age, we have had a couple of interest from 20 somethings and an interest from an 18 year old girl!! Although it is really nice having young ones think that old gits like us are sexy I dont think its apropriate to go with someone as young or younger than your kids, ours are 26 and 23

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I have met some nice much younger men on this site, i don't care if they are younger as long as we get on ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive meet a few a lot younger than me...as one poster said as long as we get on..its not a problem to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We usually play with someone that is around our age, we have had a couple of interest from 20 somethings and an interest from an 18 year old girl!! Although it is really nice having young ones think that old gits like us are sexy I dont think its apropriate to go with someone as young or younger than your kids, ours are 26 and 23"

We have our limits set at 30/60 but it doesn't stop the messages , suppose we are equally flattered you do meet very young swingers who are very mature thinkers then again we have met couple our age with all the maturity of a telly tubby xx

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We usually say no younger than 28 then up to early to mid 50s depending on the person/persons

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have met some nice much younger men on this site, i don't care if they are younger as long as we get on ok."

But we like to chat and our knowledge of popular youngsters topics might leave us floundering a little who is this Justin bieber character anyway lol xx

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I don't really think about them being the same age as my son or younger, not sure why people think like that.

Anymore than my husband having daughters who are about the same age as me, they are nothing like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about sexual attitude rather than age. So our age limits are fairly broad and not set in stone.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's all about sexual attitude rather than age. So our age limits are fairly broad and not set in stone.

Sarah "

Quite agree the attitude has to be right and ours are not set in stone either x

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Having never been blessed with children I don't have that yardstick and I'm quite open about meeting people much younger.

I can understand that different circumstances lead to other feelings though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like I'm slowly but surely losing you all. Hate my age

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By *irtydaddyfor youMan
over a year ago

corby

Being 70 nearly all are younger, but love the fact that it dosnt stop a lot of people wanting to meet, that get off with the dad or granddad likes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age isn't really an issue but I've yet to find someone very much below 30 who i can sustain a conversation with long enough to want to meet them. I haven't really found an upper limit...as long as i find them attractive that's the main thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The women I've met have all been much older than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that as I get older I get discarded lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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We have our limits set at 30/60 but it doesn't stop the messages , suppose we are equally flattered you do meet very young swingers who are very mature thinkers then again we have met couple our age with all the maturity of a telly tubby xx"

So annoying when people decide to tar us all with the same brush. Thanks for confirming there are still some people who believe some of us young people can still act maturely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have met some nice much younger men on this site, i don't care if they are younger as long as we get on ok."

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

If the lady likes me and I like them, then that's all I need to know. Age is never a factor with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive meet a few a lot younger than me...as one poster said as long as we get on..its not a problem to me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all about sexual attitude rather than age. So our age limits are fairly broad and not set in stone.

Sarah "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get asked a lot if it feels weird meeting men younger than my son (he's 28) and maybe it should feel weird .. but for me it doesn't. I'm attracted to younger men and I can't help that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age isn't really an issue but I've yet to find someone very much below 30 who i can sustain a conversation with long enough to want to meet them. I haven't really found an upper limit...as long as i find them attractive that's the main thing."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women I've met have all been much older than me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We have our limits set at 30/60 but it doesn't stop the messages , suppose we are equally flattered you do meet very young swingers who are very mature thinkers then again we have met couple our age with all the maturity of a telly tubby xx

So annoying when people decide to tar us all with the same brush. Thanks for confirming there are still some people who believe some of us young people can still act maturely."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the lady likes me and I like them, then that's all I need to know. Age is never a factor with me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going on the yardstick of doubling my age whilst I'm in my 20's still.

I've my dad is 54 so I don't think I'd ever go older than that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the responses to our post , glad were all different with differing views , life would be boring if we all thought the same xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's about how people hold themselves that matters.

In any case my personal preference would be 45+, due to people generally being more mature and settled at this age.

Each to their own really. If I had a woman and went swinging with her, there is nothing more I'd like that her to have fun with some nice virile fellas in their twenties, why not?

Go for it!

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By *andB6969Couple
over a year ago

Well worth a visit, East Coast, Norfolk


"I'm going on the yardstick of doubling my age whilst I'm in my 20's still.

I've my dad is 54 so I don't think I'd ever go older than that.

"

Don't know what you're missing out on! Many a fine tune played on an old fiddle... All this writing's worn me out, going for a nap

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

great

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'm similar to a previous poster in that I've never had any children so I don't have that emotional connection to younger guys (or girls). The vast majority of my work colleagues and girlfriends are also younger than me so I'm pretty comfortable around those age groups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met plenty of young people , younger than my kids .

It's neither better or worse than couples my wife's age . Which is still 20 years younger than me .

Most of the time we don't even think about it , just go with the flow and everyone has a good time .

I personally would be a bit worried if I started thinking about my kids when swinging .....

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"We've met plenty of young people , younger than my kids .

It's neither better or worse than couples my wife's age . Which is still 20 years younger than me .

Most of the time we don't even think about it , just go with the flow and everyone has a good time .

I personally would be a bit worried if I started thinking about my kids when swinging ....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tend not to go for much younger, it has nothing to do with my kids and their age, i just don't feel i have anything in common with guys 15/20 years my junior, i couldn't imagine sitting in a pub and having at mutually interesting conversation with a guy 20 years younger than me and i find a little mental stimulation goes a long way towards a good session plus i'd look like a twat

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

For guys 21-50 for women 18-50. But it's about mind and attitude 1st then looks. It's very interesting if you look at our profile you'll make a judgment on our ages.... But then look at our verifications.

We have walked into clubs and been judged. Then we will be chatting to friends of friends and as the chat flows do do the apologies. Never judge or worst of all listen to the judgment of someone who dosnt even know us. Only when you really get to know us will it all be clear to you. That said even couples were we all think each other are fab wouldn't touch belle as at 19 is gonna be younger than their kids. And belle might not be attracted to the older women I like because the perspective of someone so much younger is different.

But given all that this year has been super fun and priceless life experience for us both. X

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By *aysmitMan
over a year ago

walsall

I just love the older lady xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have met some nice much younger men on this site, i don't care if they are younger as long as we get on ok."

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By *aysmitMan
over a year ago

walsall


"I have met some nice much younger men on this site, i don't care if they are younger as long as we get on ok.

"

Hi Aww you look beauitful xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer older

Since...forever!

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By *he Ladies of the ManorCouple
over a year ago

Swansea - Guildford

People hugely younger than us is a big big no no . Equally people 5 years older than our oldest within our group is of limited interest to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no option but to look at either younger or older as most of the ladies in my area their upper cut off age is 46

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By *ni_ladMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I'm a big fan of a more mature woman, however I get discarded swiftly due to my age. However my levels of maturity are way in excess of my physical age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number we know lots of young people who look older and act older and the reverse with older people who look and act younger. If you are on the same wavelength go for it

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Nearly all are younger for me.....!!!!

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By *ni_ladMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"Age is just a number we know lots of young people who look older and act older and the reverse with older people who look and act younger. If you are on the same wavelength go for it "

Sadly a lot of people (in my opinion and experiences on here) don't share the same opinion as you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi just wondered what people thoughts of age differences between swinging couples are?. We are fun loving mid fourties couple but get our fair share of young 20 somethings expressing an interest, for you is swinging all about experiencing new encounters or is the thought of playing with a couple the same age as your kids a big no no! Love to hear your thoughts "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imho age does not matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number..as long as both have a connection and enjoy each others company !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 27 and the oldest women I have been with is 46 ..... Age really has no meaning to me

Like others have said its just a number , but saying that I would really like to sleep with a women in her late 50s early 60s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is only a num,as long as everyone is a willing player there should be no issues,after all we are all adults here lookingto have fun and enjoy sex.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We tend to meet those around our own ages. More so on private meets, parties we're more flexiable.

It's nothing to do with kids or parents ages, just that we find we generally have more in common with those around our age. For repeat meets, there has to be more of a connection than just good sex.

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By *amagustaMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

As long as you have fun, carry on

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