FabSwingers.com forum: First message preference ? For woman..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do woman on here prefer to read about on the first message from a guy?

Straight in with it or polite with compliments etc.?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Since not all women like the same thing (a fact of which I'm sure you're aware

)that's going to be pretty difficult to answer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes that is very true !.. I dont think you can go wrong with a small compliment x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yes that is very true !.. I dont think you can go wrong with a small compliment x"

In general I would agree as long as its genuine and relevant.

Are you originally from Crete?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No, that's Corfu isn't it...sorru

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Gizzashagyabitch" works a treat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello, when are you available tonight? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Clean Compliments*. Haha

Just be interesting to see what the majority of woman prefer.

Not crete, but yes from Corfu, how did you guess ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahaha. Brilliant !

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Clean Compliments*. Haha

Just be interesting to see what the majority of woman prefer.

Not crete, but yes from Corfu, how did you guess ?

The clue is in your name

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Clean Compliments*. Haha

Just be interesting to see what the majority of woman prefer.

Not crete, but yes from Corfu, how did you guess ?

The clue is in your name

It sure Is. .but it's in greek (+English letters)..I am impressed that you knew that ! Have you visited ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Cream 3.14.....

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Clean Compliments*. Haha

Just be interesting to see what the majority of woman prefer.

Not crete, but yes from Corfu, how did you guess ?

The clue is in your name

It sure Is. .but it's in greek (+English letters)..I am impressed that you knew that ! Have you visited ?"

Yes and I took Greek lessons very briefly, but I can't say that I know Greek or could hold a conversation

. I was able to go to a pharmacy and say "o andros mou eho ema ke ithiaria" which at the time was most useful as you might imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something that gives a clue they have actually read my profile and not just a generic message that could be copy and pasted to anyone and everyone!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Clean Compliments*. Haha

Just be interesting to see what the majority of woman prefer.

Not crete, but yes from Corfu, how did you guess ?

The clue is in your name

It sure Is. .but it's in greek (+English letters)..I am impressed that you knew that ! Have you visited ?

Yes and I took Greek lessons very briefly, but I can't say that I know Greek or could hold a conversation

. I was able to go to a pharmacy and say "o andros mou eho ema ke ithiaria" which at the time was most useful as you might imagine

Oh wow..that doesn't sound nice haha. Bet that was a relief* for him you managed to say that at pharmacy.

Well done on the lessons, not the easiest of languages. Bravo sou.

Where did you go in corfu ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Gizzashagyabitch" works a treat.

Ill give this a go!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Something that gives a clue they have actually read my profile and not just a generic message that could be copy and pasted to anyone and everyone!"

Can't say I have ever copy and pasted.

I guess you could tell if someone has though and a way to spot fakes too, not that I have come across any yet. X

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Clean Compliments*. Haha

Just be interesting to see what the majority of woman prefer.

Not crete, but yes from Corfu, how did you guess ?

The clue is in your name

It sure Is. .but it's in greek (+English letters)..I am impressed that you knew that ! Have you visited ?

Yes and I took Greek lessons very briefly, but I can't say that I know Greek or could hold a conversation

. I was able to go to a pharmacy and say "o andros mou eho ema ke ithiaria" which at the time was most useful as you might imagine

Oh wow..that doesn't sound nice haha. Bet that was a relief* for him you managed to say that at pharmacy.

Well done on the lessons, not the easiest of languages. Bravo sou.

Where did you go in corfu ?

??"

We went on holiday once to Acharavi Beach

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh very nice. Up north of the island. I am sure you enjoyed it !. Did you visit sidari, canal d'amour whilst you was there ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon a cover all message works for everyone, especially if its cut and pasted...

or even a multiple choice/delete as appropriate message just to make us feel extra special...

if that doesn't work then just come back on here and rant about what it is you're doing wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think some woman are out off by too lengthy messages that's all.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Oh very nice. Up north of the island. I am sure you enjoyed it !. Did you visit sidari, canal d'amour whilst you was there ?

We didn't do very much at all because we were involved in a hit and run car accident and everyone except me came down with the tummy bug

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh no, im sorry to hear that.. I hope you can one day go back and enjoy it properly and make sure to visit the south west beaches ( the best)

?? x

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By *ancscleanguyMan
over a year ago

Preston

"What do woman on here prefer to read about on the first message from a guy?

Straight in with it or polite with compliments etc.?

What women want? Are you mental?

Who the heck knows that, they don't know themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah you most certainly are not wrong there !! And they say men are bad ah.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Personally I would just want a message that reflects that you have read my profile. If indeed you had you would get a reply if you hadn't the message just gets deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clean Compliments*. Haha

Just be interesting to see what the majority of woman prefer.

Not crete, but yes from Corfu, how did you guess ?

The clue is in your name

It sure Is. .but it's in greek (+English letters)..I am impressed that you knew that ! Have you visited ?"

Our youngest daughter is called Keira as she was conceived in sidari in kerkyra lol it's our favourite place in the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First messages matters not a jot as long as i can decipher it without assistance and it isn't offensive. If i like your profile/pics I'll even respond to a simple "hi".

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Be nice and friendly but you don't have to be a creep. Just say something like.

Hi, I have read your profile and I think we may like the same sort of things. Then on the next message if shes interested, say Hi, I think we would get on ok, I am easy to get on with and very clean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's awesome ! It's def a passionate island, lots of conceiving going on there I imagine ??

And have to agree with you (but then i would say that) I don't know anyone who has visited it and not fallen in love with corfu !. G?a µa? !! ?

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By *he Ladies of the ManorCouple
over a year ago

Swansea - Guildford

No one size fits all but anything other than a normal social introduction and some clear indication that they have actually read our profile is virtually an automatic lack of interest from us

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes. I would have to agree !seems like most female comments on this are very similar and just as I thought

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I started a similar thread a few days ago. I never really got an answer or anything too surprising anyway. Quite obvious stuff I guess...

Be polite and respectful. Some ladies like a face pic as well. Read their profile as well, that helps. And after that you'll just be hoping to a bit of luck I guess.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

""Gizzashagyabitch" works a treat.

Ill give this a go! "

Perhaps alter it to say Gizzashagyaoldbird?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can sniff out a copy and paste message a mile away and for some reason I really don't like them

Including a face pic is always good and compliments are fine but don't go overboard so it sounds insincere and leave the filth til you know her better :p Oh and the cock pic is entirely unnecessary! Lol x

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By *he Ladies of the ManorCouple
over a year ago

Swansea - Guildford

"I can sniff out a copy and paste message a mile away and for some reason I really don't like them

Oh yes cock pics no thanks

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By *issNightshadeWoman
over a year ago

I like something brief, polite, and that shows they've read my profile and can demonstrate their kinks (I like bi guys and subs) overlap with mine.

And, it goes without saying, no cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried them all. Compliments, reading profiles and mentioning what I read in the profile, adding a face pic. You name it. They don't seem to work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had more success being on the forums and having a connection through the subjects posted up than going in cold, there must be a knack to sounding genuine in a first message that I don't have!

But when it's a message that's a continuation of something from the forums they go better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm fairly new to the site so still finding my way around it. The initial message is and

Always will be the hardest and people may perceive it differently to how you think it sounds..

Think the forum things is a valid point though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find using the forums more easier as there is no pressure on trying to come up with what to say whereas when trying to come up with a good opening message, the mind goes blank

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By *he Ladies of the ManorCouple
over a year ago

Swansea - Guildford

"I like something brief, polite, and that shows they've read my profile and can demonstrate their kinks (I like bi guys and subs) overlap with mine.

And, it goes without saying, no cock pics."

It can't be that hard to write a reasonable message surely - aimed at posters above - so how about we try one to this lovely lady. ? Live and public so to speak !

Sparkle ! ( not twinkle ? )

Hello ! We are Rachel Simone and Jon . We are a bi trio of two girls with our chap in tow,

We perused your profile and thought we would be so bold as to drop you a line . We are reliable and verified and in response to your profile questions we have few limits and like most things !

We are all fully bisexual with zero bi hang ups as seem so common on here and are hoping to meet a girl compatible with ourselves !

Our profile has many more details and we have enclosed our private photos . All are very recently taken we hasten to add !

If we are of interest please feel free to respond at any time but if we are not for you please feel no obligation to make any polite response .

Xxx Rachel Simone Jon

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By *he Ladies of the ManorCouple
over a year ago

Swansea - Guildford

"I like something brief, polite, and that shows they've read my profile and can demonstrate their kinks (I like bi guys and subs) overlap with mine.

And, it goes without saying, no cock pics.

It can't be that hard to write a reasonable message surely - aimed at posters above - so how about we try one to this lovely lady. ? Live and public so to speak !

Sparkle ! ( not twinkle ? )

Hello ! We are Rachel Simone and Jon . We are a bi trio of two girls with our chap in tow,

We perused your profile and thought we would be so bold as to drop you a line . We are reliable and verified and in response to your profile questions we have few limits and like most things !

We are all fully bisexual with zero bi hang ups as seem so common on here and are hoping to meet a girl compatible with ourselves !

Our profile has many more details and we have enclosed our private photos . All are very recently taken we hasten to add !

If we are of interest please feel free to respond at any time but if we are not for you please feel no obligation to make any polite response .

Xxx Rachel Simone Jon "

Now doing that in a rush ( 3 mins total read and write ) spot our glaring error ?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

As long as it shows he's read my profile it will dignify a response even if it's a polite no thanks messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like something brief, polite, and that shows they've read my profile and can demonstrate their kinks (I like bi guys and subs) overlap with mine.

And, it goes without saying, no cock pics.

It can't be that hard to write a reasonable message surely - aimed at posters above - so how about we try one to this lovely lady. ? Live and public so to speak !

Sparkle ! ( not twinkle ? )

Hello ! We are Rachel Simone and Jon . We are a bi trio of two girls with our chap in tow,

We perused your profile and thought we would be so bold as to drop you a line . We are reliable and verified and in response to your profile questions we have few limits and like most things !

We are all fully bisexual with zero bi hang ups as seem so common on here and are hoping to meet a girl compatible with ourselves !

Our profile has many more details and we have enclosed our private photos . All are very recently taken we hasten to add !

If we are of interest please feel free to respond at any time but if we are not for you please feel no obligation to make any polite response .

Xxx Rachel Simone Jon

Now doing that in a rush ( 3 mins total read and write ) spot our glaring error ? "

I don't see any errors with that !. Hope you manage to succeed though ??

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By *he Ladies of the ManorCouple
over a year ago

Swansea - Guildford

"I like something brief, polite, and that shows they've read my profile and can demonstrate their kinks (I like bi guys and subs) overlap with mine.

And, it goes without saying, no cock pics.

It can't be that hard to write a reasonable message surely - aimed at posters above - so how about we try one to this lovely lady. ? Live and public so to speak !

Sparkle ! ( not twinkle ? )

Hello ! We are Rachel Simone and Jon . We are a bi trio of two girls with our chap in tow,

We perused your profile and thought we would be so bold as to drop you a line . We are reliable and verified and in response to your profile questions we have few limits and like most things !

We are all fully bisexual with zero bi hang ups as seem so common on here and are hoping to meet a girl compatible with ourselves !

Our profile has many more details and we have enclosed our private photos . All are very recently taken we hasten to add !

If we are of interest please feel free to respond at any time but if we are not for you please feel no obligation to make any polite response .

Xxx Rachel Simone Jon

Now doing that in a rush ( 3 mins total read and write ) spot our glaring error ?

I don't see any errors with that !. Hope you manage to succeed though ?? "

It's there and would have made a better intro had we got it write and not been so hsir trigger

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am sure you will be just fine ! . You need to point out the error, is it a spelling mistake ?

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