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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been into this swinging lifestyle for years and been incredibly lucky to have some amazing meets with couples that have actually gone onto developing into a satisfying relationship. I have had around 4 long-term relationships with couples and even lived with a couple for 3 years whilst living down in Southampton. So, as a couple, I'm just wondering what your views are with this...

What do you both prefer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not our thing. My relationship is with Marc. I like friendships and regular meets, if that's what you mean. But I wouldn't want anything resembling a relationship with anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not our thing. My relationship is with Marc. I like friendships and regular meets, if that's what you mean. But I wouldn't want anything resembling a relationship with anyone else."

Agreed. We like the friendship part, but could never have someone move in.

We had a brief spell where a friend stayed for 3 months and following a night on the wine we had a 3some, which then went on for a few weeks, but it just became awkward and we had to ask her to leave because it was interfering with our marriage.

Friendships and regular meets is one thing, but our relationship is ours and ours alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not our thing. My relationship is with Marc. I like friendships and regular meets, if that's what you mean. But I wouldn't want anything resembling a relationship with anyone else."

Yes, a strong 'friendship' with sex - I really don't know what else to call it apart from a relationship! Hmm, I was like a fuck buddy with benefits, drinking partner, shopping partner and sleeping partner as and when required! No, I definitely didn't fall in love with them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I totally agree and think it is great to meet new faces and make friends. Fab has enabled to me to meet folk I would never have met normally and for me fab is not only about sex!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep. I totally agree and think it is great to meet new faces and make friends. Fab has enabled to me to meet folk I would never have met normally and for me fab is not only about sex!"

Hey - thank you!

...seriously thought I was on my own!

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

I'm open minded to the possibility, having known quite a few friends over the years who have been in a fully equal, three person relationship which has lasted many years together. It's not an easy one to get into and none of them were actually looking for a third, it just happened. It has to be the right three people, equally into each other and the relationship itself, or it will fail. It's hard enough to find one person though. LOL

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

Or did you mean a traditional two person relationship through meeting as swingers?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Our encounters are one offs...we aren't interested in developing anything longer term.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm open minded to the possibility, having known quite a few friends over the years who have been in a fully equal, three person relationship which has lasted many years together. It's not an easy one to get into and none of them were actually looking for a third, it just happened. It has to be the right three people, equally into each other and the relationship itself, or it will fail. It's hard enough to find one person though. LOL "

Yes, and none of the 4 couples that I met had intended for a 3 way relationship (ok, not 'relationship' friendship with benefits!) but they all just naturally went that way, and being a single guy, it was thoroughly enjoyable. The only negative thing that I could say is that once you're in that situation, full of trust and loyalty they don't want you playing with anyone else - total 100% exclusivity for themselves and unfortunately, I was caught out and burnt very badly when they (Mark & Emma) set up another false account (as David & Sue) and was messaging me on/off for weeks! Talk about lamb to the slaughter... Never again!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I'm open minded to the possibility, having known quite a few friends over the years who have been in a fully equal, three person relationship which has lasted many years together. It's not an easy one to get into and none of them were actually looking for a third, it just happened. It has to be the right three people, equally into each other and the relationship itself, or it will fail. It's hard enough to find one person though. LOL

Yes, and none of the 4 couples that I met had intended for a 3 way relationship (ok, not 'relationship' friendship with benefits!) but they all just naturally went that way, and being a single guy, it was thoroughly enjoyable. The only negative thing that I could say is that once you're in that situation, full of trust and loyalty they don't want you playing with anyone else - total 100% exclusivity for themselves and unfortunately, I was caught out and burnt very badly when they (Mark & Emma) set up another false account (as David & Sue) and was messaging me on/off for weeks! Talk about lamb to the slaughter... Never again! "

You mean they set you up by creating another account to lure you into meeting? Didn't they have anything better to do? That's the worst part of relationships right there ... jealousy and subterfuge. Whilst we met on here, I would agree with what other couples have said .... friendship with others stops ar the door, what we have is what we have and our meets are one offs or near enough as we aren't interested in anything else from anyone else.

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