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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We use our private gallery for our face pics and a few others that show us having fun and invite those we fancy meeting up with or like the look of so they can see what we look like so does anyone else get fed up when you send a friends invite and their private gallery only contains pics they could have put on their profile that show a pair of tits or a cock..what are your views..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always a bit disappointing when someone's got no face pics either on public show or not sent you one, then you acccept a friends invite, rush all excited to their private gallery, only to find the 3 pics there aren't face pics either. But hey ho

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

for people like ourselves who dont mind showing our faces there no point having a pvt gallery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got face pic on my private for friends, but people have asked to be friends to see pic then blocked me or got abusive, so im wary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for people like ourselves who dont mind showing our faces there no point having a pvt gallery"

Same as us we have nothing to hide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just want discrection, cos of work,etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accept friends invite unless I am likely to meet the person(s) in the flesh, and only after I have exchanged PMs with them first.

My face pics are not in my gallary that can be viewed by friends only - they are private and out of sight, except when I wish to attach them to PMs.

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By *oupleup4funCouple
over a year ago

Ashton

We have MSN with CAM for faces, we have met a couple of couples of here and SDC that have found their pic inc faces on spoof profiles...

We are not against sending face pics but do not like the thought of someone useing ours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

might do that, attach to PM, didnt think of that

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I don't keep any interesting photos in my photos viewable by friends. If someone wants to be on my friends list just to see the extra 'special' photos they are gonna be sadly disappointed

I keep my face pics private and send them with pm's.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The only pictures i have in private are ones theres not room for to show to everyone

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I keep my donkey pics in private.

They are not to everyones taste, it turns out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i just want discrection, cos of work,etc"

Who at work will see you on here?

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

We only show selected pics in private.. we used to accept friends requests then 10 mins later after they had perved our pics they de=friend, so now only have tame ones and save the good ones for private invite only.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I keep my donkey pics in private.

They are not to everyones taste, it turns out."

Neigh! surely not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for people like ourselves who dont mind showing our faces there no point having a pvt gallery

Same as us we have nothing to hide "

You say that a little as though it's a negative thing to hide your face pics.

I don't mind, as long as I get to see one so I know who I'm talking to. But I'd not want to put mine on public view - there are a lot of people who work for my organisation who are members here and I prefer to keep my private life just that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever you receive a friends request, why not ask if they have face pics in their Private folder before you accept?

If they don't, then don't accept.

If they lie, just block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't keep any interesting photos in my photos viewable by friends. If someone wants to be on my friends list just to see the extra 'special' photos they are gonna be sadly disappointed

I keep my face pics private and send them with pm's."

..... Pfft you didn't send us one when you last pm'd us lol

* creEps roUnd graVeyaRd *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whenever you receive a friends request, why not ask if they have face pics in their Private folder before you accept?

If they don't, then don't accept.

If they lie, just block them.

"

Or you could just be crafty..........wait until the requester is offline, accept, check out the P.G then delete if your not happy.

XXXX

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"i just want discrection, cos of work,etc

Who at work will see you on here?"

I think you are missing the point, and that is that some people have careers that would be ruined if their face photos were found on a swingers site.

That's not difficult to accept is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would swinging ruin a career unless your a teacher, MP or royality I can't see anyone really caring what someone does as a job on here personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We use our private gallery for our face pics and a few others that show us having fun and invite those we fancy meeting up with or like the look of so they can see what we look like so does anyone else get fed up when you send a friends invite and their private gallery only contains pics they could have put on their profile that show a pair of tits or a cock..what are your views..? "

I like to see just normal face pics in public galleries and the more intamet shots in private galleries seen one cock shot youve seen um all lol its all down to atraction for me not the size of their manhood lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So am I led to believe that as an adult I'm not allowed to have sex with lots of peeps incase I lose my job . Swinging as nothing to do with work so why should they care.

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By *slandcplCouple
over a year ago

canvey island

I lost my position as a teacher because it became known that I am a swinger last week. Believe me its no fun being told that you can no longer be a member of the profession that you love and have trained for. Its also no fun being the freak show while shopping. Its not that people care or not, its whether they can cause someone pain. Believe me I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed - our private pictures are just "ruder" versions of our public ones, and our face pictures are sent privately. But nobody can really complain about this, because we spell it out in full in our longwinded profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really sorry to hear that _slandcpl some people are so small minded. I think in this day and age peeps should be more openminded.

Cecilia x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lost my position as a teacher because it became known that I am a swinger last week. Believe me its no fun being told that you can no longer be a member of the profession that you love and have trained for. Its also no fun being the freak show while shopping. Its not that people care or not, its whether they can cause someone pain. Believe me I know."

sorry to hear of this, cant you go to a tribunal after all if doesn't affect your job as a teacher and its out of work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whenever you receive a friends request, why not ask if they have face pics in their Private folder before you accept?

If they don't, then don't accept.

If they lie, just block them.

Or you could just be crafty..........wait until the requester is offline, accept, check out the P.G then delete if your not happy.

XXXX"

Never thought of that its a bit naughty but I might try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So am I led to believe that as an adult I'm not allowed to have sex with lots of peeps incase I lose my job . Swinging as nothing to do with work so why should they care. "

If work in a role that involves vulnerable people or children or involves sensitive documentation etc then it can be a major problem. It's not about your views on it, it's about the views of other people. It's not a case of "who cares what they think of me" either it's a case of how it can effect your professional life, as per the cautionary tale below.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading this thread I understand it now. I suppose we have jobs where it doesn't matter but some do. I feel for those that have lost jobs because of swinging. My thoughts on this matter have changed now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the imput ..but i think the thread has lost its direction i wasnt going on about why people need to hide their face pics i can understand all that as we dont put ours on public view but we do have some in the private gallery.What i was getting at is why people post pics in their private gallery which show next to nothing that can identify them when they could just put them in their public one..?

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

totally agree with essexcouple, we too wonder why some people put some of their pics into their private gallery. ours show our faces and some of our more hardcore fun, pics we think may interest couples who are seriously thinking about playing with us.

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