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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay do you get put off someone by who they have already played with? I.e chatting to someone see there verifications and there's people on there who you wouldn't play with or thought hmmm do they just sleep around and thought oh no I cannot do it? Just wondered...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a swingers site... Everyone sleeps around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all.

I've got some very sexy friends (totally out of my league!) that have been with people I wouldn't go near but that's their choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've felt 'out of my league' with someone because of who's verified them, but now I simply don't look

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I never look at other people's veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I get put off. I always look at people's verifications, not so i can see what someone is like, but so I can see who they have met previously.

If there are a lot of mingers, then I will not meet them. I like someone who has standards, not someone who will stick his dick in anything that moves. Ewwww!

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"It's a swingers site... Everyone sleeps around"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay do you get put off someone by who they have already played with? I.e chatting to someone see there verifications and there's people on there who you wouldn't play with or thought hmmm do they just sleep around and thought oh no I cannot do it? Just wondered..."
yes some do ,some see veris as notches ,some don't want to know what the other person gets up to ,some aren't swingers ,some love to wind people up with status and veris and some get jealous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a swingers site... Everyone sleeps around"

Speak for yourself. Swinging doesn't mean you have to fuck everything in site,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, I get put off. I always look at people's verifications, not so i can see what someone is like, but so I can see who they have met previously.

If there are a lot of mingers, then I will not meet them. I like someone who has standards, not someone who will stick his dick in anything that moves. Ewwww! "

agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never look at other people's veris"
I do I want to see who's been in there before I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a swingers site... Everyone sleeps around

Speak for yourself. Swinging doesn't mean you have to fuck everything in site,"

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I don't look at veri's it's none of my business who someone had sex with before me and you can't see mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If said person is verified by someone with bareback pictures they are a no go for me. I use protection as it is with others but I wouldn't chance it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a swingers site... Everyone sleeps around

Speak for yourself. Swinging doesn't mean you have to fuck everything in site,"

Did you not notice the wink..

Jeez some ppl need to get a sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I get put off. I always look at people's verifications, not so i can see what someone is like, but so I can see who they have met previously.

If there are a lot of mingers, then I will not meet them. I like someone who has standards, not someone who will stick his dick in anything that moves. Ewwww! "

but who are you to say they are mingers ? I often say no to couples and ladies and Mr will ask why as he thought they looked okay.. But I didn't find them to my liking... And vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay do you get put off someone by who they have already played with? I.e chatting to someone see there verifications and there's people on there who you wouldn't play with or thought hmmm do they just sleep around and thought oh no I cannot do it? Just wondered..."

Yes there is 2 local girls that if I saw they had verified a man who I wanted to meet I could then cancel the meet. Both are competitive head cases who try to out veri and stalk local fabbers and cause drama and upset. Fuck that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't read verifications really.. If I do it's not for that reason anyway.. Who people have previously met is none of my business.. Nor would it affect my decision on meeting them.. Or not.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"It's a swingers site... Everyone sleeps around

Speak for yourself. Swinging doesn't mean you have to fuck everything in site,"

I don't fuck everything in sight but this site was set up to allow people to meet people for sex should they choose to.......I don't get why some need to slut shame others for using the site for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a swingers site... Everyone sleeps around

Speak for yourself. Swinging doesn't mean you have to fuck everything in site,

Did you not notice the wink..

Jeez some ppl need to get a sense of humour"

Pmsl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a swingers site... Everyone sleeps around

Speak for yourself. Swinging doesn't mean you have to fuck everything in site,

I don't fuck everything in sight but this site was set up to allow people to meet people for sex should they choose to.......I don't get why some need to slut shame others for using the site for sex "

It's called individual choice. I'm certainly not slut shaming anyone. If someone chooses to work their way through the site, well good on em. I choose not to & I won't meet the people that do.

Everyone is different, so I shouldn't be shamed for not wanting to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So called 'open minded' people need to stop being so judgey ...

This IS a swingers site and people DO sleep around...

I don't but that's my preference but I won't be made to feel I am in a minority for posting a jokey comment!!

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"If said person is verified by someone with bareback pictures they are a no go for me. I use protection as it is with others but I wouldn't chance it. "

I have got bareback pictures on my profile.......shockingly my husband is allowed inside me without a condom and I veri people we meet

*prepares for the stoning from judgmental swingers*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If said person is verified by someone with bareback pictures they are a no go for me. I use protection as it is with others but I wouldn't chance it.

I have got bareback pictures on my profile.......shockingly my husband is allowed inside me without a condom and I veri people we meet

*prepares for the stoning from judgmental swingers* "

Careful you don't get prodded in the bum with their pitchforks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So called 'open minded' people need to stop being so judgey ...

This IS a swingers site and people DO sleep around...

I don't but that's my preference but I won't be made to feel I am in a minority for posting a jokey comment!! "

What are you on about? If you read my post above you will see I think the same as you. Everyone has a choice.

Just because I didn't put a wink face after my comment, doesn't mean I'm having a pop at you.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Yes, I get put off. I always look at people's verifications, not so i can see what someone is like, but so I can see who they have met previously.

If there are a lot of mingers, then I will not meet them. I like someone who has standards, not someone who will stick his dick in anything that moves. Ewwww! agreed "

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"It's called individual choice. I'm certainly not slut shaming anyone. If someone chooses to work their way through the site, well good on em. I choose not to & I won't meet the people that do.

Everyone is different, so I shouldn't be shamed for not wanting to. "

How do you know the people who do so you can avoid them? I don't show any veri's so you can't tell how many people I have had sex with....yes my summary says I have met over 140 but I have had sex with only 12 people in my whole life. I could turn the summary off and just show the tick and two recent veri's - would that make me more acceptable to someone who doesn't want to meet someone who is fucking their way around the site?

My point is you can't always tell by they veri's how many peoples someone has had sex with

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

yes it can put me off. I may think he hasn't got very good taste in women so what does that say about him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define "mingers"?

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"If said person is verified by someone with bareback pictures they are a no go for me. I use protection as it is with others but I wouldn't chance it.

I have got bareback pictures on my profile.......shockingly my husband is allowed inside me without a condom and I veri people we meet

*prepares for the stoning from judgmental swingers*

Careful you don't get prodded in the bum with their pitchforks "

I am well padded and I do like to play rough so I will assume the head down bum up position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's called individual choice. I'm certainly not slut shaming anyone. If someone chooses to work their way through the site, well good on em. I choose not to & I won't meet the people that do.

Everyone is different, so I shouldn't be shamed for not wanting to.

How do you know the people who do so you can avoid them? I don't show any veri's so you can't tell how many people I have had sex with....yes my summary says I have met over 140 but I have had sex with only 12 people in my whole life. I could turn the summary off and just show the tick and two recent veri's - would that make me more acceptable to someone who doesn't want to meet someone who is fucking their way around the site?

My point is you can't always tell by they veri's how many peoples someone has had sex with "

Well obviously if the veris aren't shown, then you can't read them.

The post is referring to those who do show them though.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod

over a year ago

My Own Little World


"It's a swingers site... Everyone sleeps around

Speak for yourself. Swinging doesn't mean you have to fuck everything in site,"

He is a very lucky but sore and exhausted bloke if he fucks everyTHING on site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define "mingers"?"

Google it - I'll prob get shot down on here if I define it, ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it wouldn't bother me who they fuck. The only thing needed is a pulse lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define "mingers"?

Google it - I'll prob get shot down on here if I define it, ha ha ha "

but no one can define it for another.. As its personal

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Well obviously if the veris aren't shown, then you can't read them.

The post is referring to those who do show them though."

So if everyone hid their veri's and didn't show their summary then we would all be happy

No one would have to decide how many veri's is too many or if someone had been with someone else who was unacceptable or ugly and they could just get on with having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, it wouldn't bother me who they fuck. The only thing needed is a pulse lol. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"No, it wouldn't bother me who they fuck. The only thing needed is a pulse lol. "

I love you Shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a swingers site... Everyone sleeps around

Speak for yourself. Swinging doesn't mean you have to fuck everything in site,

Did you not notice the wink..

Jeez some ppl need to get a sense of humour"

hey I have one but some have selective humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So called 'open minded' people need to stop being so judgey ...

This IS a swingers site and people DO sleep around...

I don't but that's my preference but I won't be made to feel I am in a minority for posting a jokey comment!!

What are you on about? If you read my post above you will see I think the same as you. Everyone has a choice.

Just because I didn't put a wink face after my comment, doesn't mean I'm having a pop at you. "

Sorry it was a general comment ...not aimed at anyone in particular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define "mingers"?

Google it - I'll prob get shot down on here if I define it, ha ha ha but no one can define it for another.. As its personal "

I agree, I make my own decision as to whether I think someone is a minger. Lol

We all like different things. I have my own personal list of things I look out for on someone's profile which helps me to decide whether I would be interested in meeting someone.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I check that there are verifications, although having none is not a deal breaker. I do not then check every verification to see whether the person they've chosen to spend time is up to a personal standard of mine. Life is far too short for that!

If someone has set standards, then the way they achieve those is totally up to them.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"hey I have one but some have selective humour "

When do you sleep?!? You were on at 4 this morning when I couldn't sleep and you were on last night before I went to bed......do you get maybe 10 minutes out of every hour?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, it wouldn't bother me who they fuck. The only thing needed is a pulse lol.

I love you Shag "

Thanks, love you too, it is all about having fun

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"No, it wouldn't bother me who they fuck. The only thing needed is a pulse lol.

I love you Shag Thanks, love you too, it is all about having fun "

I need to get my bootie down to Penge

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"It's a swingers site... Everyone sleeps around

Speak for yourself. Swinging doesn't mean you have to fuck everything in site,

Did you not notice the wink..

Jeez some ppl need to get a sense of humour"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, it wouldn't bother me who they fuck. The only thing needed is a pulse lol.

I love you Shag Thanks, love you too, it is all about having fun

I need to get my bootie down to Penge "

That is right you do, I got extra haribos as well

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"No, it wouldn't bother me who they fuck. The only thing needed is a pulse lol.

I love you Shag Thanks, love you too, it is all about having fun

I need to get my bootie down to Penge That is right you do, I got extra haribos as well "

Oh well that just seals the deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup

im only interested in deflowering virgins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yup

im only interested in deflowering virgins "

Another mythical creature along with unicorns

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Swingers who sleep around...who'd have thunk it?

The only conceivable circumstance in which I might choose not to play with someone due to their verifications is if several of them were from people who frequently have bareback sex.

And that's just my preference, to protect my health and the health of those close to me.

Otherwise it's of very little interest if they have played with someone who I personally find unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a swingers site... Everyone sleeps around

Speak for yourself. Swinging doesn't mean you have to fuck everything in site,

Did you not notice the wink..

Jeez some ppl need to get a sense of humour hey I have one but some have selective humour "

You're just annoying!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We absolutely don't care who anyone has met , it's a swinging site ffs .

Some people display veris , some don't , so anyone could have met anyone for all you know !

And remember this isn't the only place where people have sex .

So for you , who scour the veri trail and decide that potential meets have too many , or have met people not up to your standard , think on ....

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Haha yep... some of the ppl on here let's be honest are nasty

Looks like they haven't had a wash

Please ppl dnt drop your standards

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Yes, I get put off. I always look at people's verifications, not so i can see what someone is like, but so I can see who they have met previously.

If there are a lot of mingers, then I will not meet them. I like someone who has standards, not someone who will stick his dick in anything that moves. Ewwww! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha yep... some of the ppl on here let's be honest are nasty

Looks like they haven't had a wash

Please ppl dnt drop your standards "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define "mingers"?

Google it - I'll prob get shot down on here if I define it, ha ha ha "

I know how the term is used. I'm intrigued as to how or why a straight woman would define other women as mingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, it wouldn't bother me who they fuck. The only thing needed is a pulse lol. "

Oooh me!!! I have one of those

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Define "mingers"?

Google it - I'll prob get shot down on here if I define it, ha ha ha

I know how the term is used. I'm intrigued as to how or why a straight woman would define other women as mingers?"

You'd be surprised (or maybe not) at how horrible some women can be about other women, on here and otherwise.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Okay do you get put off someone by who they have already played with? I.e chatting to someone see there verifications and there's people on there who you wouldn't play with or thought hmmm do they just sleep around and thought oh no I cannot do it? Just wondered..."

Exercise in futility as who's to say the playmate you deem worthy hasn't taken on their local pub first eleven plus reserves bareback and hidden the verifications?

I don't get this pseudo snobbery from people trawling for sex with strangers on a swingers site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay do you get put off someone by who they have already played with? I.e chatting to someone see there verifications and there's people on there who you wouldn't play with or thought hmmm do they just sleep around and thought oh no I cannot do it? Just wondered..."

Yeah loads of things put me off and my profile reflects this. I'm not naive enough to believe that every guy I meet will be untouched and pure but I don't want to see it. I tend to go for unverified guys anyway because if I see who they've met previously 9 times out of 10 it will put me off.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"It's a swingers site... Everyone sleeps around"

Only after being vetted, forensically washed and dressed in a haz mat suit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define "mingers"?

Google it - I'll prob get shot down on here if I define it, ha ha ha

I know how the term is used. I'm intrigued as to how or why a straight woman would define other women as mingers?

You'd be surprised (or maybe not) at how horrible some women can be about other women, on here and otherwise."

Some women are very horrible & make openly bitchy & judgemental remarks to each other. I like to keep my opinions to myself, and if I've never spoken to someone, I would never try to make a judgement as to what they are like, based on a physical appearance!

There are some mingling profiles on here - but this is in terms of cleanliness etc. I don't see how my being straight has anything to do with things. As someone has just mentioned above, some of the profiles on here do look like the people haven't bee been washed in weeks. I make a personal judgement, which I'm allowed to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay do you get put off someone by who they have already played with? I.e chatting to someone see there verifications and there's people on there who you wouldn't play with or thought hmmm do they just sleep around and thought oh no I cannot do it? Just wondered...

Exercise in futility as who's to say the playmate you deem worthy hasn't taken on their local pub first eleven plus reserves bareback and hidden the verifications?

I don't get this pseudo snobbery from people trawling for sex with strangers on a swingers site! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a woman defining another woman as a minger..is quite disrespectful to be perfectly honest...we all have our own criteria of selection on here...some go for looks....some go for body type and some go for personality...so i suppose its really quite subjective in classing what a minger is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a woman defining another woman as a minger..is quite disrespectful to be perfectly honest...we all have our own criteria of selection on here...some go for looks....some go for body type and some go for personality...so i suppose its really quite subjective in classing what a minger is "

It's not disrespectful, if you see my post above you will see why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say that I've ever seen any pictures of people that look that bad. Maybe we're particularly fond of the bathtub in this neck of the woods

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Swingers who sleep around...who'd have thunk it?

The only conceivable circumstance in which I might choose not to play with someone due to their verifications is if several of them were from people who frequently have bareback sex.

And that's just my preference, to protect my health and the health of those close to me.

Otherwise it's of very little interest if they have played with someone who I personally find unattractive.

"

This for me too!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"We absolutely don't care who anyone has met , it's a swinging site ffs .

Some people display veris , some don't , so anyone could have met anyone for all you know !

And remember this isn't the only place where people have sex .

So for you , who scour the veri trail and decide that potential meets have too many , or have met people not up to your standard , think on ....

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a woman defining another woman as a minger..is quite disrespectful to be perfectly honest...we all have our own criteria of selection on here...some go for looks....some go for body type and some go for personality...so i suppose its really quite subjective in classing what a minger is "

I think she meant someone that came across unhygienic etc. as opposed to the way they actually look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't say that I've ever seen any pictures of people that look that bad. Maybe we're particularly fond of the bathtub in this neck of the woods"

Pmsl, I used to live in Wales. Trust me, not everyone there likes the bathtub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a woman defining another woman as a minger..is quite disrespectful to be perfectly honest...we all have our own criteria of selection on here...some go for looks....some go for body type and some go for personality...so i suppose its really quite subjective in classing what a minger is

I think she meant someone that came across unhygienic etc. as opposed to the way they actually look"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a woman defining another woman as a minger..is quite disrespectful to be perfectly honest...we all have our own criteria of selection on here...some go for looks....some go for body type and some go for personality...so i suppose its really quite subjective in classing what a minger is

It's not disrespectful, if you see my post above you will see why."

I read your post...and beauty comes from the inside out

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a woman defining another woman as a minger..is quite disrespectful to be perfectly honest...we all have our own criteria of selection on here...some go for looks....some go for body type and some go for personality...so i suppose its really quite subjective in classing what a minger is

I think she meant someone that came across unhygienic etc. as opposed to the way they actually look"

but how can she tell from a picture if there unhygienic...its all assumptions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't say that I've ever seen any pictures of people that look that bad. Maybe we're particularly fond of the bathtub in this neck of the woods

Pmsl, I used to live in Wales. Trust me, not everyone there likes the bathtub. "

Oi watch your mouth good girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a woman defining another woman as a minger..is quite disrespectful to be perfectly honest...we all have our own criteria of selection on here...some go for looks....some go for body type and some go for personality...so i suppose its really quite subjective in classing what a minger is

I think she meant someone that came across unhygienic etc. as opposed to the way they actually look

but how can she tell from a picture if there unhygienic...its all assumptions "

That is a different debate entirely and not one I can answer.. I was just saying she wasn't calling anyone ugly so ur initial statement although valid wasn't quite what she was trying to communicate...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hey I have one but some have selective humour

When do you sleep?!? You were on at 4 this morning when I couldn't sleep and you were on last night before I went to bed......do you get maybe 10 minutes out of every hour? "

yep you guessed it and I'm always cheerful to what a combination

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over a year ago


"I think a woman defining another woman as a minger..is quite disrespectful to be perfectly honest...we all have our own criteria of selection on here...some go for looks....some go for body type and some go for personality...so i suppose its really quite subjective in classing what a minger is

I think she meant someone that came across unhygienic etc. as opposed to the way they actually look

but how can she tell from a picture if there unhygienic...its all assumptions

That is a different debate entirely and not one I can answer.. I was just saying she wasn't calling anyone ugly so ur initial statement although valid wasn't quite what she was trying to communicate... "

I beg to differ..in my neck of the woods..the definition of a minger is ugly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a woman defining another woman as a minger..is quite disrespectful to be perfectly honest...we all have our own criteria of selection on here...some go for looks....some go for body type and some go for personality...so i suppose its really quite subjective in classing what a minger is

I think she meant someone that came across unhygienic etc. as opposed to the way they actually look

but how can she tell from a picture if there unhygienic...its all assumptions "

How to cause an argument - express an opinion then wait for the response!!

Im hardly going to message the person in question & say 'hi, I've seen your profile pictures and they look unhygienic, can I just ask how often you wash please?'

Of course it's based on assumptions, it's a picture!! If I decide to make a judgement based on the pictures, then that's my choice. I'm not asking you to agree with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a woman defining another woman as a minger..is quite disrespectful to be perfectly honest...we all have our own criteria of selection on here...some go for looks....some go for body type and some go for personality...so i suppose its really quite subjective in classing what a minger is

I think she meant someone that came across unhygienic etc. as opposed to the way they actually look

but how can she tell from a picture if there unhygienic...its all assumptions

How to cause an argument - express an opinion then wait for the response!!

Im hardly going to message the person in question & say 'hi, I've seen your profile pictures and they look unhygienic, can I just ask how often you wash please?'

Of course it's based on assumptions, it's a picture!! If I decide to make a judgement based on the pictures, then that's my choice. I'm not asking you to agree with me. "

I dont !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a woman defining another woman as a minger..is quite disrespectful to be perfectly honest...we all have our own criteria of selection on here...some go for looks....some go for body type and some go for personality...so i suppose its really quite subjective in classing what a minger is

I think she meant someone that came across unhygienic etc. as opposed to the way they actually look

but how can she tell from a picture if there unhygienic...its all assumptions

That is a different debate entirely and not one I can answer.. I was just saying she wasn't calling anyone ugly so ur initial statement although valid wasn't quite what she was trying to communicate...

I beg to differ..in my neck of the woods..the definition of a minger is ugly lol "

You don't know where I come from! Where I come from minging means disgusting & not aesthetically pleasing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a woman defining another woman as a minger..is quite disrespectful to be perfectly honest...we all have our own criteria of selection on here...some go for looks....some go for body type and some go for personality...so i suppose its really quite subjective in classing what a minger is

I think she meant someone that came across unhygienic etc. as opposed to the way they actually look

but how can she tell from a picture if there unhygienic...its all assumptions

How to cause an argument - express an opinion then wait for the response!!

Im hardly going to message the person in question & say 'hi, I've seen your profile pictures and they look unhygienic, can I just ask how often you wash please?'

Of course it's based on assumptions, it's a picture!! If I decide to make a judgement based on the pictures, then that's my choice. I'm not asking you to agree with me.

I dont !!!"

Well that's good, if we were all the same, the world would be a boring place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a woman defining another woman as a minger..is quite disrespectful to be perfectly honest...we all have our own criteria of selection on here...some go for looks....some go for body type and some go for personality...so i suppose its really quite subjective in classing what a minger is

I think she meant someone that came across unhygienic etc. as opposed to the way they actually look

but how can she tell from a picture if there unhygienic...its all assumptions

That is a different debate entirely and not one I can answer.. I was just saying she wasn't calling anyone ugly so ur initial statement although valid wasn't quite what she was trying to communicate... "

Thank you. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the words of Ron Burgundy

'That escalated quickly'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Thank you. Xx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If said person is verified by someone with bareback pictures they are a no go for me. I use protection as it is with others but I wouldn't chance it.

I have got bareback pictures on my profile.......shockingly my husband is allowed inside me without a condom and I veri people we meet

*prepares for the stoning from judgmental swingers* "

It's different for a couple as I don't meet couples I don't look at their profiles. I'm on about single profiles

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"If said person is verified by someone with bareback pictures they are a no go for me. I use protection as it is with others but I wouldn't chance it.

I have got bareback pictures on my profile.......shockingly my husband is allowed inside me without a condom and I veri people we meet

*prepares for the stoning from judgmental swingers*

It's different for a couple as I don't meet couples I don't look at their profiles. I'm on about single profiles "

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think a woman defining another woman as a minger..is quite disrespectful to be perfectly honest...we all have our own criteria of selection on here...some go for looks....some go for body type and some go for personality...so i suppose its really quite subjective in classing what a minger is

I think she meant someone that came across unhygienic etc. as opposed to the way they actually look

but how can she tell from a picture if there unhygienic...its all assumptions

That is a different debate entirely and not one I can answer.. I was just saying she wasn't calling anyone ugly so ur initial statement although valid wasn't quite what she was trying to communicate...

I beg to differ..in my neck of the woods..the definition of a minger is ugly lol

You don't know where I come from! Where I come from minging means disgusting & not aesthetically pleasing. "

well I wouldn't stick it in if I seen she has fucked a guy who I thought was a bit of wrong un just my preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've felt 'out of my league' with someone because of who's verified them, but now I simply don't look "

This!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haha yep... some of the ppl on here let's be honest are nasty

Looks like they haven't had a wash

Please ppl dnt drop your standards "

let's be honest some people would fuck anything

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over a year ago


"Haha yep... some of the ppl on here let's be honest are nasty

Looks like they haven't had a wash

Please ppl dnt drop your standards let's be honest some people would fuck anything "

Need a like button on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha yep... some of the ppl on here let's be honest are nasty

Looks like they haven't had a wash

Please ppl dnt drop your standards let's be honest some people would fuck anything

Need a like button on here "

Tbh I have spoken to some men on here who have admitted to dropping there standards cos they just wanted a bit ...

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

*grabs popcorn*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*grabs popcorn*"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh blimey. This won't end well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haha yep... some of the ppl on here let's be honest are nasty

Looks like they haven't had a wash

Please ppl dnt drop your standards let's be honest some people would fuck anything

Need a like button on here

Tbh I have spoken to some men on here who have admitted to dropping there standards cos they just wanted a bit ... "

some men cannot fight the hard on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be a factor I'd take into consideration when looking at new people.

One of the reasons not to show verifications.

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford


"The only thing needed is a pulse lol. "

Now you're just being picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't say that I've ever seen any pictures of people that look that bad. Maybe we're particularly fond of the bathtub in this neck of the woods

Pmsl, I used to live in Wales. Trust me, not everyone there likes the bathtub. "

Ah well, one of the quirks of Fab is that it doesn't realise that Shropshire isn't in Wales

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