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Bdsm ladies? I'm after a more dominant woman....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi!

I've searched, I've trawled, I've enquired, I'm now posting a thread.....

I'm looking for a woman, a confident woman that demands the best from me.

A woman that likes to dress up, one who enjoys being sexually in control.

Come and say howdy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you have more luck on a more specialist site ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you have more luck on a more specialist site ?"

I did (sometime ago) join fet l I f e. I didn't find it very user friendly, it also appeared to be a little more 'extreme' than what I'm really after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many clubs have BDSM playrooms now, I believe it is rather popular at the moment. Would you make contacts in them, bit like going to socials to make new like minded contacts ?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I'm looking for a dominant woman who likes to be in control, as long as she dresses up how I like and does things as I want"

There may be a reason you're still looking, OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""I'm looking for a dominant woman who likes to be in control, as long as she dresses up how I like and does things as I want"

There may be a reason you're still looking, OP "

Always a negative twist from somebody.... Good day to you!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Having looked at your profile OP, you want to top from the bottom, not cool.

Better off seeing a professional if you want your kink needs met.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having looked at your profile OP, you want to top from the bottom, not cool.

Better off seeing a professional if you want your kink needs met."

Just a mutual interest. A woman that likes what I like and I what she likes.

Nothing more than that. A 'professional' isn't want I'm after, I don't view a sexually confident and (I use the term loosely) 'dominant' woman as a kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about going to a fetish party - Pedestal for instance is a Pro Domme oriented night.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

OP I don't think you want a BDSM or dominant lady, I think what you're probably looking for is a confident assertive woman. Very different but good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP I don't think you want a BDSM or dominant lady, I think what you're probably looking for is a confident assertive woman. Very different but good luck"

I agree, on a past post I put this.....

Many slated the post advising it was bdsm and dominant.....!

No winning on the forum, I have no interest in discussing anothers opinion of terminology!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"Having looked at your profile OP, you want to top from the bottom, not cool.

Better off seeing a professional if you want your kink needs met.

Just a mutual interest. A woman that likes what I like and I what she likes.

Nothing more than that. A 'professional' isn't want I'm after, I don't view a sexually confident and (I use the term loosely) 'dominant' woman as a kink."

Likes what you like...

I've returned pro because subs wanted me to be what they wanted. No. In my private life, personal subs do whatever I want and accept that otherwise, out the door.

As mentioned, sounds like you're after an assertive, confident woman rather than a Domme.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having looked at your profile OP, you want to top from the bottom, not cool.

Better off seeing a professional if you want your kink needs met.

Just a mutual interest. A woman that likes what I like and I what she likes.

Nothing more than that. A 'professional' isn't want I'm after, I don't view a sexually confident and (I use the term loosely) 'dominant' woman as a kink.

Likes what you like...

I've returned pro because subs wanted me to be what they wanted. No. In my private life, personal subs do whatever I want and accept that otherwise, out the door.

As mentioned, sounds like you're after an assertive, confident woman rather than a Domme. "

Agreed. I never mentioned wanting a Domme

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"Having looked at your profile OP, you want to top from the bottom, not cool.

Better off seeing a professional if you want your kink needs met.

Just a mutual interest. A woman that likes what I like and I what she likes.

Nothing more than that. A 'professional' isn't want I'm after, I don't view a sexually confident and (I use the term loosely) 'dominant' woman as a kink.

Likes what you like...

I've returned pro because subs wanted me to be what they wanted. No. In my private life, personal subs do whatever I want and accept that otherwise, out the door.

As mentioned, sounds like you're after an assertive, confident woman rather than a Domme.

Agreed. I never mentioned wanting a Domme"

Your threads asks for a dominant woman into BDSM. This is a Domme.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

We are around - you just gotta look.

Try searching on here for usernames involving keywords - worth a shot, although all done make it obvious.

I'm not looking for sub/dom play on here I will add, I have that at home....

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


""I'm looking for a dominant woman who likes to be in control, as long as she dresses up how I like and does things as I want"

There may be a reason you're still looking, OP

Always a negative twist from somebody.... Good day to you!"

A dominant woman who likes to take control is unlikely to be impressed by being told what you want her to wear and do.

That's not a 'negative twist', it's simply how it is. If you want someone who likes taking control, they are going to want to take control, not be told how you want them to do things.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Having looked at your profile OP, you want to top from the bottom, not cool.

Better off seeing a professional if you want your kink needs met.

Just a mutual interest. A woman that likes what I like and I what she likes.

Nothing more than that. A 'professional' isn't want I'm after, I don't view a sexually confident and (I use the term loosely) 'dominant' woman as a kink.

Likes what you like...

I've returned pro because subs wanted me to be what they wanted. No. In my private life, personal subs do whatever I want and accept that otherwise, out the door.

As mentioned, sounds like you're after an assertive, confident woman rather than a Domme. "

Exactly. I'm in control or I'm not interested. I don't expect a list of how I am to dress and what I'm to do.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hi!

I've searched, I've trawled, I've enquired, I'm now posting a thread.....

I'm looking for a woman, a confident woman that demands the best from me.

A woman that likes to dress up, one who enjoys being sexually in control.

Come and say howdy "

You are confused! You don't dictate how a dominant woman dresses. You want to Dom from the bottom. That's why you're struggling!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


""I'm looking for a dominant woman who likes to be in control, as long as she dresses up how I like and does things as I want"

There may be a reason you're still looking, OP "

indeed!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


""I'm looking for a dominant woman who likes to be in control, as long as she dresses up how I like and does things as I want"

There may be a reason you're still looking, OP

Always a negative twist from somebody.... Good day to you!"

She's spot on though.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Having looked at your profile OP, you want to top from the bottom, not cool.

Better off seeing a professional if you want your kink needs met."

Exactly!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"OP I don't think you want a BDSM or dominant lady, I think what you're probably looking for is a confident assertive woman. Very different but good luck"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub/Dom is something I'm also into but haven't really had the opportunity on this site.

F e t l i f e is pretty good though tbf, just search for groups in your local area and attend meet ups etc.

I've always found that there are so many submissive males and relatively few dominant females, so you do kind of have to put that little bit more effort in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey anyone into bdsm please add our kik. Dom women more than welcome x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are around - you just gotta look.

Try searching on here for usernames involving keywords - worth a shot, although all done make it obvious.

I'm not looking for sub/dom play on here I will add, I have that at home...."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi!

I've searched, I've trawled, I've enquired, I'm now posting a thread.....

I'm looking for a woman, a confident woman that demands the best from me.

A woman that likes to dress up, one who enjoys being sexually in control.

Come and say howdy

You are confused! You don't dictate how a dominant woman dresses. You want to Dom from the bottom. That's why you're struggling! "

No, I'm after a woman that likes to dress up. Yes I like a woman that likes to dress up. The whole statement is inclusive of the woman's likes in addition to mine. A mutual interest and mutual likes.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


""I'm looking for a dominant woman who likes to be in control, as long as she dresses up how I like and does things as I want"

There may be a reason you're still looking, OP "

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Bend over OP and let me smack you on the bottom with the womans weekly ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm into bdsm it's good scene with real domme full in leather using her whip and restraints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Want to set my submissive side free

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By *itchfieldMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Bend over OP and let me smack you on the bottom with the womans weekly .. "

Very Victoria Wood.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, any ladies want to introduce themselves?

I'm not soft, I just like a certain type of woman

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Bend over OP and let me smack you on the bottom with the womans weekly ..

Very Victoria Wood."

Not anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about going to a fetish party - Pedestal for instance is a Pro Domme oriented night."

Pedestal any good i got invited to go there with somone but known nothing about it

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By *itchfieldMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Bend over OP and let me smack you on the bottom with the womans weekly ..

Very Victoria Wood.

Not anymore "

Yeah I posted it before she died. Terrible loss

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