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Is 55 the age when all swingers are past it ??

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By *at1-1y OP   Couple
over a year ago

Evesham, worcestershire

Has anyone noticed how over 55 seems to be the age that most people are deemed TOO old lol even by people that are only a couple of years younger !!

Makes us laugh !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey....I hope not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hadnt noticed?

lots of over 55's on here message me.

And ive seen lots of 'older' swingers have a great time in the clubs!

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Has anyone noticed how over 55 seems to be the age that most people are deemed TOO old lol even by people that are only a couple of years younger !!

Makes us laugh !! "

What a load of rubbish you keep swinging guys your never to old, some of my best meets have been with mature cpls far better sex keep it up

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over a year ago

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

OMG i better get a move on then...pmsl only got 3 years to go!!!!

grrrr haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And me better get as many meets in as I can before I'm too old!

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Oh fuck! No-one told me.

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By *elen HewieCouple
over a year ago

Gateshead

my boyfriend is 61 ans we are still swinging.the older the better

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

1954 was a great vintage - well I think so anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem with the older scene ,just allow more time for them to remove their incontinance pants first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so who deemed this magical cut off age ?? im n ot lacking in requests here..... 55 and loving the sttention .....

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

I am not grumbling either.

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 55 is past it?? You better not tell Hubby that, he adores the more mature women on here!!!!

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

well im going for as long as i can. as long as i remember my own nane, can get it up, and know where to put it lol x over 55 is no where near past it x

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By *eteandeeCouple
over a year ago

chester

Bout time someone opend a site for the over 50's as there are pleny of us about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bout time someone opend a site for the over 50's as there are pleny of us about"

would u only want toplay with over 50's???? i want variety in my life

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I'm fairly certain we've played with an over 50 year old. Don't know about 55, but hey. You never know until you try.

To be honest I don't check the drivers licence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, I might have a bit to go till I reach that milestone, but I'm ballsed if I'm giving up in 22 years! Besides which when I finally retire I'll have so much more time....and I guarantee I'll be over 55 by then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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would u only want to play with over 50's???? i want variety in my life "

Amen to that sister!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so do we stop getting horny at 55 god i hope not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weve played with plenty of guys in there 50s and they are usually relly good lovers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet the OP is making the same assumptions younger members do about age. I have a feeling the people they are contacting have upper age limits so it appears ageism is rife. Younger members complain older members don't want to play with them as they're the same age as their kids!

We could all find an "ism" if we looked for it instead of accepting we'll never appeal to everyone and respecting the preferences of others!

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

whats the problem.i am coming up for 59 and wife 49 and we still enjoy this lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not as I (Lynne) was 55 last year, but luckily Andy is five years younger than me so when you first spot couple and age it's Andy's age that shows. Can be a good excuse though as any guys contact us that I don't like the look of I just point out that I'm out of their age preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we're doomed ...... doomed I tell you.

The end of the Swinging World is nigh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow im 24 n mr d is 48 i love the older ppl i think it depends on person thm selfs u cart judge everyone by a number xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OMG i better get a move on then...pmsl only got 3 years to go!!!!

grrrr haha x "

but you won't consider guys over 50!

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon


"I'm fairly certain we've played with an over 50 year old. Don't know about 55, but hey. You never know until you try.

To be honest I don't check the drivers licence."

but your limit is 45

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

just looking at the posters and suprised at the no, that say good to over 55`s yet have limits much lower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

55 certainly not too old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"55 certainly not too old. "

not in "dog" years it's not, but I'm nearly 54 but feel 104 some days

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By *hitecumloadsMan
over a year ago

cannock

I my self love the more mature lady the couples are far more easy to get along with one of my best meets was with a couple in there 50is just wish I could find some more

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond


"55 certainly not too old.

not in "dog" years it's not, but I'm nearly 54 but feel 104 some days "

Second that feeling Jack!

This year any meet we have tried to arrange seems to have dried up like a prune, beginning to wonder if its age related. maybe time to take a couple years off our profile

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

seen a regular swinger at chams who celebrated his 70th there so no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly hope not! I'm having more fun lately than I ever had before!!

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow

There is an implied bias against the more mature swinger. More flab and wrinkles, less stamina and so on. It isn't true. There is plenty of testimony to the skills, sensitivity and just plain 'up for fun' ness of the life experienced amongst us.

I do think as a generalisation that the online world better suits the younger swingers, but also believe the more experienced relax and get the most out of their real life situations. And with age comes experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is an implied bias against the more mature swinger. More flab and wrinkles, less stamina and so on. It isn't true. There is plenty of testimony to the skills, sensitivity and just plain 'up for fun' ness of the life experienced amongst us.

I do think as a generalisation that the online world better suits the younger swingers, but also believe the more experienced relax and get the most out of their real life situations. And with age comes experience"

Absolutely and i see a 60 yr old, is a repeater and wears me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bet the OP is making the same assumptions younger members do about age. I have a feeling the people they are contacting have upper age limits so it appears ageism is rife. Younger members complain older members don't want to play with them as they're the same age as their kids!

We could all find an "ism" if we looked for it instead of accepting we'll never appeal to everyone and respecting the preferences of others!"

"nods in agreeance" just a shame some people dont read profiles before they send messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess ive only got another 3 years in me i best make the most of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it fuck.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Has anyone noticed how over 55 seems to be the age that most people are deemed TOO old lol even by people that are only a couple of years younger !!

Makes us laugh !! "

well if age is only a number as you say in your profile then why do you have an age range of "38 upwards" on yours...

arent you then guilty of the same sort of "ageist" stuff as those who you claim are guilty of not meeting people over 55?????

ladies and gents of the jury.... the defence rests.....

some people just don't want to meet people old enough to be mum or dad.. or granny and grandad.....

just as some people don't want to meet people young enough to be son or daughter.. or grandchildren...

such is life.........

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

p.s.... wasn't this the same complaint that you made a while back, not use to having a good memory... but the "green arrow" is a wonderful thing.....

hopefully this time all the answer people give you are taken in more than it looked like last time....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone noticed how over 55 seems to be the age that most people are deemed TOO old lol even by people that are only a couple of years younger !!

Makes us laugh !! "

I have no limits on my profile. I always think its the person no the age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We keep getting contacted by a guy way over 60 and all we keep asking for is a facial pic, which he never sends.

Like I say to him you could look really good for your age, or you could look like my old grandad. I'm not against his age, just the fact that he won't send a photo to us, he just keeps telling us he looks good and I won't be disappointed!!!

No pic, no meet, easy as that.

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch


"There is an implied bias against the more mature swinger. More flab and wrinkles, less stamina and so on. It isn't true. There is plenty of testimony to the skills, sensitivity and just plain 'up for fun' ness of the life experienced amongst us.

I do think as a generalisation that the online world better suits the younger swingers, but also believe the more experienced relax and get the most out of their real life situations. And with age comes experience

Absolutely and i see a 60 yr old, is a repeater and wears me out "
lol just fabulous xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i wouldnt, as ive said ive a 60 yr old and is a repeater, rock hard almost as soon as he has come

What for me though is where a guy looks his age, i just think they wont be any good so i dont go there, my friend i see looks late 40's and is yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I posted this on another thread a couple of days ago,

Most single guys don't have an age preference.

Most young women want to meet young guys.

Most older women want to meet younger guys.

It's not a hard and fast rule, but neither is it a sweeping generalisation.

60yr old studs are rare, they are around, and good for you if you are one, or you play with one, but unless they operate in certain popular circles a 60yr old guy will struggle to get a meet.

Another major consideration is aesthetics. Nature is kind to some people. Some 60yr olds could pass for late 40's whereas some look quite the opposite. Looks, physical stature and dress sence are all influencing factors.

Signed

Anoth old fucker

Truro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I posted this on another thread a couple of days ago,

Most single guys don't have an age preference.

Most young women want to meet young guys.

Most older women want to meet younger guys.

It's not a hard and fast rule, but neither is it a sweeping generalisation.

60yr old studs are rare, they are around, and good for you if you are one, or you play with one, but unless they operate in certain popular circles a 60yr old guy will struggle to get a meet.

Another major consideration is aesthetics. Nature is kind to some people. Some 60yr olds could pass for late 40's whereas some look quite the opposite. Looks, physical stature and dress sence are all influencing factors.

Signed

Anoth old fucker

Truro "

Thats exactly my point, to me if you look your age, its more likely you will be a crap fuck, whereas those that dont look their age, are much fitter, and to be honest old fucker you dont look your age

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