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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What if you found out your husband or bf was bi would you be ok with it ?

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By *ollipop77Couple
over a year ago

Dubai ( / Manchester)

Mmmm hell yeah. More scenarios, more fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes totally, an ex of mine was bi, great fun was had. And after all they are still the same person, bi or straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No im not into playing with guys who play with other guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

R told me when we first met and it was nice to hear as I had so many scenarios I'd wanted to act out and was now in a position to do so.

So yeh I love it.

L (fem)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nicely said wish people understood that when a woman is bi its fine but when a man is he's a wrongen

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Dublin


"What if you found out your husband or bf was bi would you be ok with it ?"

some will embrace it others would feel threatened by it guess it boils down to how secure you are in yourself.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Most probably never get caught..It is fairly obvious why (esp)guys hide it.

Even on this so called liberated site,some would have them hung drawn & quartered..

Best as a starting point to assume everyone is bi...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most probably never get caught..It is fairly obvious why (esp)guys hide it.

Even on this so called liberated site,some would have them hung drawn & quartered..

Best as a starting point to assume everyone is bi..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"R told me when we first met and it was nice to hear as I had so many scenarios I'd wanted to act out and was now in a position to do so.

So yeh I love it.

L (fem) "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the situation if the male in question was actively meeting males without the female partners knowledge, that's a totally different scenario.

If the male in question was not meeting males then at least he's come clean before playing, which quite often doesn't happen.

If the latter is the case then it's really up to the female in question if she wants to continue with the relationship, nobody can answer that question but her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always good fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr already knew I was bi before we got together, now he loves having a bi missus lol

If he told me he was bi I'd be fine with it, I'd probably encourage him lol

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Am I bovver'd?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being honest about your sexuality is important but I understand why people don't tell those close to them rejection from others for who are is heartbreaking and when it's someone you love more so .

I love bi men and who they are its damn sexy xxxx

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"What if you found out your husband or bf was bi would you be ok with it ?"

I'd be OK with it, as long as I could watch.

Katie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would divorce him and never speak to him again for not being honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nicely said wish people understood that when a woman is bi its fine but when a man is he's a wrongen "

Who said one was fine and the other wrong?

There is nothing "wrong" with either but if you have lied to your life partner about your sexuality or worse cheated behind his or her back then you cannot complain if the shit hits the fan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nicely said wish people understood that when a woman is bi its fine but when a man is he's a wrongen

Who said one was fine and the other wrong?

There is nothing "wrong" with either but if you have lied to your life partner about your sexuality or worse cheated behind his or her back then you cannot complain if the shit hits the fan."

Just because someone is bi doesn't mean they have to have sex with both men and women. Some people really don't get what being bi is about. There is no one box fits all. I had a relationship with a male for 16 years. Only him. No one else. I still identified as bi because I was attracted to women as well. Before that I had girl friends. Now its a bit of both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight men are sooooooo vanilla in our eyes ! Yet they ALL want to watch two bi girls fuck each other ! Bi men all the way for us . It's hot

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

We are both bi and love seeing each other enjoy ourselves in whatever situation. Neither of us will meet on our own without letting the other know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always good fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be absolutely fine with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straight men are sooooooo vanilla in our eyes ! Yet they ALL want to watch two bi girls fuck each other ! Bi men all the way for us . It's hot "

I wish that you were near Slough as you seem so much fun. Especially that strap on picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nicely said wish people understood that when a woman is bi its fine but when a man is he's a wrongen

Who said one was fine and the other wrong?

There is nothing "wrong" with either but if you have lied to your life partner about your sexuality or worse cheated behind his or her back then you cannot complain if the shit hits the fan.

Just because someone is bi doesn't mean they have to have sex with both men and women. Some people really don't get what being bi is about. There is no one box fits all. I had a relationship with a male for 16 years. Only him. No one else. I still identified as bi because I was attracted to women as well. Before that I had girl friends. Now its a bit of both. "

exactly!

As a bi girl I find myself trying to explain this so often it's ridiculous. I actually once walked out on a date when the guy basically said I'd make a terrible girlfriend as would be cheating on him with girls rather than 'doing without'

I like both, I don't need both

In answer to OP though, it wouldn't bother me if a male partner was bi.... we could swap tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if you found out your husband or bf was bi would you be ok with it ?"

If I found out after we were married id be rather pissed off for the lack of honesty.

but I have no issue - actually love bi guys that are comfortable with their sexuality,

its the lying I would have issue with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had several bi partners/FWB......only ever had one wife (ex). She was straight tho...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if you found out your husband or bf was bi would you be ok with it ?"
I keep some Japanese harikari knives for this very moment

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