FabSwingers.com forum: wife on a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So male here, as it turns out after days of texting/flirting and sexting. she has gone out on a meet. They've gone for a few drinks out of town first then back to his if shes happy to. No doubt she will lol It Isnt someone off here either, turns out a an old work friend stayed in touch with her. i dint mind we all have friends. but past few days they been non stop. He asked to arrange a catch up drink somewhere. which she agreed to meeting him. He knows that i know that they're going out for a drink and a catch up, BUT today whilst she was at work he dropped the bombshell about going back to his later on lol So we talked and i said go for it,he's a looker, genuine and you know him. If it wasnt with him it would be someone off here anyway ha

I havnt a clue what she's wearing as i went to gym and gave her a kiss before i left and said have a good night as she'd be gone by time i get back. dont know if shes out till early hours or turn up tomorrow morning

all excited by this tbh, only thing is she cant take pics..obviously lol so ill have to wait for her to tell me what they got upto

He even asked if they can see each other again but we said we'll see how tonight goes first. So she may have a fb for naughty times.

tbh most guys on here via fab messages are all nice as pie, then soon as they talk on kik they sound right idiots or just full of excuses and never reply at night. Maybe a good thing that we know this guy and hes not a randomer?

Just thought id share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot...continue...when you hear from her...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hot...continue...when you hear from her...

lol yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes much better knowing who it is and knowing she's safe x

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By *ackStrakerMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Do hope she's having a great time and comes back with a good tale to tell

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes much better knowing who it is and knowing she's safe x"

thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do hope she's having a great time and comes back with a good tale to tell"
im sure she is and im sure she will

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"Yes much better knowing who it is and knowing she's safe x"

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I could do this, it would drive me insanely jealous. Each to their own and I hope you both get out of it what you desire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope she has a good time and enjoys herself.

She's going to be tired and happy in her return I hope.

I've done this with a 'taken' woman before, she became a FB and they are still friends now and meet occasionally.

You'll have to post an update when she gets back.

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By *ohn DaddyMan
over a year ago

Kirkham

I've have been the other man doing the sex texting and eventually meeting.

It's was with a female friend at work. We had flirted a few times and got close at a Christmas party

Things progressed.

She told me that she had told her husband about our flirting and it had turned her hubby on.

So we arranged for all of us to meet for a drink. Well things went better than expected. I was fingering her in the pub while her hubby watched. Then he drove us back to their house. I was in the back of the car with my friend and removed her knickers and gave them to her hubby while he drove.

I'll tell you more if your interested

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey I couldn't do this not if I loved her so I'm kind of lost for words, not having a go but what do you get out of it ? By the lack of reaction to the thread I think a lot of people don't understand this but I may be the catalyst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a lot of people do this ..they just don't post it in the forums no 2 swingers are the same I hope the op get out of it what they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a lot of people do this ..they just don't post it in the forums no 2 swingers are the same I hope the op get out of it what they want

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you do this to then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did this very thing yesterday ! My Mrs met our old friend while I was at work mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We did this with g and a guy she worked with. He'd been flirting for ages with her so one day she gave him her number, couple of days texting and arranged for him to call in for a coffee when b was at work.

They both meet for a coffee and before the kettle boiled they had cloths off and enjoying each other. They had a couple more meets alone then we started going to clubs.

Would love to do this again

Good luck and can't wait to hear more of your meet

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By *now_and_SunCouple
over a year ago

North Dublin

The fact that your sharing this scenario with us tells me you not too sure about the setup and are looking for reassurance from others that this was the right thing to do.

If it were me I'd if wanted to tag along and be a by stander.

Hope it all went well all the same. Question would she let you go solo?

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

We've done this many a time and love it so much. The sex when I get home is awesome!!

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

This scenario would not sit so well with me, purely because he is an old flame and they have kept in touch all the time. That is ringing alarm bells. Personally I wouldn't be happy with that. A stranger it anyone without the personal connection would be a totally different matter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The fact that your sharing this scenario with us tells me you not too sure about the setup and are looking for reassurance from others that this was the right thing to do.

If it were me I'd if wanted to tag along and be a by stander.

Hope it all went well all the same. Question would she let you go solo?"

Defiantly not! Just thought I'd share

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We've done this many a time and love it so much. The sex when I get home is awesome!! "

Yeah that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This scenario would not sit so well with me, purely because he is an old flame and they have kept in touch all the time. That is ringing alarm bells. Personally I wouldn't be happy with that. A stranger it anyone without the personal connection would be a totally different matter. "

An old flame? He's not an ex.

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By *shtonwpMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Did she come home last night

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

We are doing this on Sunday evening and she is with an old friend. It's not about not being sure etc and of course there is people that don't get it but let's face it most people wouldn't understand about swinging lifestyle so each too their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it interesting how so many people are projecting their insecurities onto the OP. That's their dynamic and clearly they love and respect each other. Making comments like about love and the like clearly show you dont understand relationship dynamics.

I hope you get out of it what you want OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please keep us updated op . X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Updates needed op. We have both done this and would do again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I've got to agree with this take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a guy at a hotel.she set up her profile on webcam and went to a local cafe with wifi and watched him fuck her on cam. Was great to watch her enjoying cock.

We want to do it again. Only next time her have an overnight .just got to find the right guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We met a guy at a hotel.she set up her profile on webcam and went to a local cafe with wifi and watched him fuck her on cam. Was great to watch her enjoying cock.

We want to do it again. Only next time her have an overnight .just got to find the right guy"

Give me a shout, you won't be disappointed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Too bad you have had such experience. Call me, you won't be disappointed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've enjoyed this as both the guy meeting the lady and the hubby waiting at home! Great fun in both roles! Especially enjoyed my used girl returning home, such horny erotic sex!

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Tbh, we'd never even contemplate this. Kudos to you if that's how you get your kicks but, like others on here, it's not something we'd do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Each to their own end of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope see came back safe and well and happy

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

Could be fun X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bit of an update. She met up with him again last night

Didn't go out this time. Just purely went straight to his and came home after midnight. Least to say we had horny fun last night when she came home

She's met and fucked this guy twice now, think he wants to be regular as he wants a hotel meet next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit of an update. She met up with him again last night

Didn't go out this time. Just purely went straight to his and came home after midnight. Least to say we had horny fun last night when she came home

She's met and fucked this guy twice now, think he wants to be regular as he wants a hotel meet next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad it went well

We are going to do the same

Need to find a very stand out guy for the occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Glad it went well

We are going to do the same

Need to find a very stand out guy for the occasion."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done this! I have now spent 3 nights with a guy, I film it all for my husband and call him during the meet and keep in contact with pics etc.

We never thought we would do it like that but one day hubbie said did I fancy trying it so I did and we love it!

I don't do it with all my meets though and hubbie and I always decide together x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have done this! I have now spent 3 nights with a guy, I film it all for my husband and call him during the meet and keep in contact with pics etc.

We never thought we would do it like that but one day hubbie said did I fancy trying it so I did and we love it!

I don't do it with all my meets though and hubbie and I always decide together x "

I don't mean 3 nights in a row lol!

3 separate nights, different guys!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Was gonna say 3 nights in a row. I couldn't do that. How do you explain that to the kids

Seems hard meeting guys off here.. As she's now 'seeing' a guy she used to work with. How mad is that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit of an update. She met up with him again last night

Didn't go out this time. Just purely went straight to his and came home after midnight. Least to say we had horny fun last night when she came home

She's met and fucked this guy twice now, think he wants to be regular as he wants a hotel meet next.

Would you like him to be a regular or would you prefer your OH to meet others....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's love got to do with I it is all down to the ultimate trust x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bit of an update. She met up with him again last night

Didn't go out this time. Just purely went straight to his and came home after midnight. Least to say we had horny fun last night when she came home

She's met and fucked this guy twice now, think he wants to be regular as he wants a hotel meet next.

Would you like him to be a regular or would you prefer your OH to meet others....?"

A regular would be better as to meeting randomers all time when we're horny. But at the same time it wouldn't bother me if she wanted to meet others. We are on here for that reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's love got to do with I it is all down to the ultimate trust x"

That's it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP... In my book you guys are ultimate swinger's. Fair play to you sir. You're obviously happy with what's happening, are you happy because you know that she is having fun? Her pleasure brings you pleasure? Or is it purely a kinky way for you to get off too. I've never had the bravery to think like that about a partner I loved, but I do understand how I could get there.

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By *kexpat81Man
over a year ago

Aldgate

I'm looking to do this myself, but with the hubby watching from home via Skype

I'm back from overseas the first two weeks of May and will be staying in hotels so very flexible on location.

I am happy to do a social first, chat on webcam etc.

If any couples are interested please feel free to check my profile and message me.

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

Thanks for sharing details of your adventure. It really appealed to me. I sometimes joke about this with a very close non swinging friend of mine. His wife is absolutely stunning. Both him and his wife are aware of what I get up to and have read a couple of my blogs on the subject.

I can see the appeal of doing this with someone you already know and trust although in my case I won't be going down that path with them. We have been friends since childhood and would never put that at risk even if curiosity got the better of them.

If one of them were just an ex work college I would have jumped in head first though lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP... In my book you guys are ultimate swinger's. Fair play to you sir. You're obviously happy with what's happening, are you happy because you know that she is having fun? Her pleasure brings you pleasure? Or is it purely a kinky way for you to get off too. I've never had the bravery to think like that about a partner I loved, but I do understand how I could get there."

It's hard to explain. I do enjoy her meeting others and with the possibility of her fucking them. It drives me mad not knowing what she's getting up an all I can do us wait till she gets home so yeah he pleasure gives me pleasure

She wouldn't be doing it if I wasn't happy,this would stop straight away. It's a bit of fun and being naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can understand chow alien this may be to some people but, for us, there's nothing like it. The thrill of K being out playing and all that comes with that (texts, pics, vid clips, calls to listen) is NOTHING compared to the sex when she returns. It's indescribably good. Sex at another level entirely.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Thanks for the updates OP, Glad to hear it all went well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op are you hoping that it will lead into you being a cuckold?

It's early days but as long as your all enjoying what your doing then it's brilliant. ..been there..done it...and loved it.

Enjoy my friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op are you hoping that it will lead into you being a cuckold?

It's early days but as long as your all enjoying what your doing then it's brilliant. ..been there..done it...and loved it.

Enjoy my friend "

Its not early days. We've been here before. Met couples and guys for mmf. She's played alone and I've watched.

We know what we like thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds extremely hot

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