FabSwingers.com forum: Strange question: fucked or had sex with ?

By *otgirl32 OP Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Here's an odd question - did you fuck your last meet or have sex with your last meet ?

Is there a difference?

For me, most of my meets, I FUCK the guy. Some of them I have sex with. The latter implies some degree of friendship or familiarity.

Or is this all BS and they're both the same ?

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By *angzMan
over a year ago

Manchester, London & sometimes Newcastle

I think its the same.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Yes, I've always graded it:

* Making love

* Having sex

* Fucking

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Yes, I've always graded it:

* Making love

* Having sex

* Fucking"

I agree with Joe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's an odd question - did you fuck your last meet or have sex with your last meet ?

Is there a difference?

For me, most of my meets, I FUCK the guy. Some of them I have sex with. The latter implies some degree of friendship or familiarity.

Or is this all BS and they're both the same ?"
I'm always familiar and friendly so on that basis I only have sex with a friend

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By *otgirl32 OP Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"Yes, I've always graded it:

* Making love

* Having sex

* Fucking"

Yes I'd agree with. In the last few years I've not made love to anyone, have had sex with several guys and fucked a whole boatload of men.

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By *exySocksAndCoCouple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

I agree with you. For me it depends on the connection and how many times we've met. Starts off as a fuck which can turn into sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fuck my meets. Unless she gets on to and fucks me silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'd class fucking as legs around my neck balls deep hell for leather , working up a real hard sweat and maybe a bit biting pulling and choking

For fun. Scratches grunts and groans, sex is anything from a nice gentle Sunday morning shag before the kids get up to anything like above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is this thing called sex/fucking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I've always graded it:

* Making love

* Having sex

* Fucking"

Same here

And I fucked my last meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually just fuck on my dates, but on my last one, we wine and dined first and lots of kissing during the meal, then we shagged. I would say it was sex as it was a more of a passionate date

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Neither just had oral as girl on girl not sure what you'd class using toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I've always graded it:

* Making love

* Having sex

* Fucking"

Based on this, last meet: fucking on the night. Sex in the morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I've always graded it:

* Making love

* Having sex

* Fucking

Based on this, last meet: fucking on the night. Sex in the morning. "

(apart from last week which was none of the above

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By *otgirl32 OP Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"I usually just fuck on my dates, but on my last one, we wine and dined first and lots of kissing during the meal, then we shagged. I would say it was sex as it was a more of a passionate date

I always kiss the men I fuck so not sure if kissing changes the category.

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By *otgirl32 OP Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Sex in the morning after a fuck the night before, as said above, now that makes a fair bit of sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually just fuck on my dates, but on my last one, we wine and dined first and lots of kissing during the meal, then we shagged. I would say it was sex as it was a more of a passionate date

I always kiss the men I fuck so not sure if kissing changes the category. "

No kissing makes sex fucking awesome!

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Yes, I've always graded it:

* Making love

* Having sex

* Fucking"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually just fuck on my dates, but on my last one, we wine and dined first and lots of kissing during the meal, then we shagged. I would say it was sex as it was a more of a passionate date

I always kiss the men I fuck so not sure if kissing changes the category. "
Yes I think it changes the category as well, cos it is more intimate.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

I make love to my husband and I love to fuck with meets. I love to fuck my hubby too but I don't make love to meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shagged

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By *unmeisterMan
over a year ago

London & West Midlands

If it's anal ....it's always fucking

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)

"Yes, I've always graded it:

* Making love

* Having sex

* Fucking

I agree with Joe. "

100% with the above!

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By *XHNHWoman
over a year ago

Stokeish...

I call it all fucking, but it might be "slow, sensual, intense fucking" or "hard, hot, sweaty fucking"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I'd class fucking as legs around my neck balls deep hell for leather , working up a real hard sweat and maybe a bit biting pulling and choking

For fun. Scratches grunts and groans, sex is anything from a nice gentle Sunday morning shag before the kids get up to anything like above

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This

By this definition I definitely fucked my last meet. Perfect haha x

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Just had lovely bit of sex with a good friend. We stopped fucking ages ago, no desire to make love.

That's why he's a griend with benefits, not a fuck buddy. Nicely in the middle

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Griend?

Friend

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By *otgirl32 OP Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I have several very good male friends and we have sex from time to time. I'll say I have sex with them because I've known them for years and there's definitely a bit of affection. My FB I used to fuck frequently - he was definitely not someone I had sex with, it was pure fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's an odd question - did you fuck your last meet or have sex with your last meet ?

Is there a difference?

For me, most of my meets, I FUCK the guy. Some of them I have sex with. The latter implies some degree of friendship or familiarity.

Or is this all BS and they're both the same ?"

on this premis i had sex. known the lady a while and can class as a friend. though if was hard pure intercourse to meet an an urge i would class that as a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's an odd question - did you fuck your last meet or have sex with your last meet ?

Is there a difference?

For me, most of my meets, I FUCK the guy. Some of them I have sex with. The latter implies some degree of friendship or familiarity.

Or is this all BS and they're both the same ?"

I think there is a difference and the borders are not clearly defined but can be blurred.

For example when you say you fuck a guy, that implies that you select him for your own use and satisfaction. It implies a sense of domination,being in charge.

Making love involves some form of emotional understanding.

Sex,,well it falls somewhere in between

simples

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Depends on my mood, our last meet with each other was definitely fucking and it was great. The time before it started as fucking and became making love for me as we carried on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely having sex for me, it wasn't rough enough for fucking but it wasn't slow and sensual for making love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I'd class fucking as legs around my neck balls deep hell for leather , working up a real hard sweat and maybe a bit biting pulling and choking

For fun. Scratches grunts and groans, sex is anything from a nice gentle Sunday morning shag before the kids get up to anything like above

Hello from Newcastle I agree with 1. making love 2, having sex, 3, fucking

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

Its normally (in my opinion) when you first meet raw fucking.. If its more than once with the same person, its sex.. like regular sex and with a partner or wife its making love but the other two of course apply..

Kissing and fucking in the morning after a night of hard fucking is great

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Here's an odd question - did you fuck your last meet or have sex with your last meet ?

Is there a difference?

For me, most of my meets, I FUCK the guy. Some of them I have sex with. The latter implies some degree of friendship or familiarity.

Or is this all BS and they're both the same ?"

Of course there is a difference.

If someone fingers you they have had sex with you, If you suck a man off you have had sex with him.

Borth acts are acts of sex and neither act covers the entire range of sex acts.

On the other hand fucking someone involves your penis entering the other person, again this is not all the is to sex but is one sex act out of many

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Does nobody remember the Monica Lewinsky Bill Clinton "I did not have sex" debacle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's an odd question - did you fuck your last meet or have sex with your last meet ?

Is there a difference?

For me, most of my meets, I FUCK the guy. Some of them I have sex with. The latter implies some degree of friendship or familiarity.

Or is this all BS and they're both the same ?"

if there's no itimacy or passion apart from the physical act then you might as well start charging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No fuck no sex never had a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what either of them is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making love is what women do while men are fucking them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I've always graded it:

* Making love

* Having sex

* Fucking"

Definitely agree!

When I meet another woman, it's somewhere between loving and having sex...

But when I meet a man, I much prefer to just enjoy some hard, basic fucking - nothing else, thank you very much...

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I've always graded it:

* Making love

* Having sex

* Fucking

I agree with Joe. "

im with these 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I've always graded it:

* Making love

* Having sex

* Fucking"

Me too!

The best meets I've had combined 'making love' with hard, raw, screaming, biting the pillow sex!!

And that's why I love fab!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

haha odd question, what if you had a sexy fuck OP

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Yes, I've always graded it:

* Making love

* Having sex

* Fucking

Me too!

The best meets I've had combined 'making love' with hard, raw, screaming, biting the pillow sex!!

And that's why I love fab!

seem to be replying after you somehow ..

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

"Yes, I've always graded it:

* Making love

* Having sex

* Fucking"

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Making love is with my husband

Getting fucked

Or fucking them

Is with other,s

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By *rey NomadMan
over a year ago

Calne

Yep i also agree

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By *zbookMan
over a year ago

St Albans

I had sex with John's wife :p :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's an odd question - did you fuck your last meet or have sex with your last meet ?

Is there a difference?

For me, most of my meets, I FUCK the guy. Some of them I have sex with. The latter implies some degree of friendship or familiarity.

Or is this all BS and they're both the same ?"

What a great question !

We would love to give you a better answer , but it's as simple as this .

Guys we meet sometimes have sex with Sabrina , and some fuck her . Some she fucks , and others she has sex with ...... Hang on where was I ?...... Oh yeah , there is a difference . Mainly in so much as that where there's a real attraction , the build up before penetration can lead to it being more than just a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I've always graded it:

* Making love

* Having sex

* Fucking"

Another who agrees with this.

My last meet, a couple I play with regularly I would suggest we had sex.

A week ago tomorrow I had a meet that was just fucking.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"Yes, I've always graded it:

* Making love

* Having sex

* Fucking"

Making love is for in a relationship.

Having sex is when you know someone well or have a connection.

Fucking is just fucking, doesn't matter in what context/relationship, it's just different to the others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I've always graded it:

* Making love

* Having sex

* Fucking"

I agree with joe too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I've always graded it:

* Making love

* Having sex

* Fucking

Making love is for in a relationship.

Having sex is when you know someone well or have a connection.

Fucking is just fucking, doesn't matter in what context/relationship, it's just different to the others."

All of those things you said is right! I love having all three of those with my mr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to have sex I like to know the person I like to kiss be sensual then shag I call that have sex

A shag and go I say would be fucking

I just like there to be some intimacy too

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"Yes, I've always graded it:

* Making love

* Having sex

* Fucking

Making love is for in a relationship.

Having sex is when you know someone well or have a connection.

Fucking is just fucking, doesn't matter in what context/relationship, it's just different to the others.

All of those things you said is right! I love having all three of those with my mr!"

True, all 3 have there place in a relationship. I would never call sex with a stranger "making love" though!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Fucking and having sex are the same thing to me. I don't see the difference.

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