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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you look for when reading a profile is it looks or what they say in the profile???

Wondered what the best thing to do to help me???

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I'm guessing here you mean your own profile?

I would say wit and humour are important, also show that you are respectful and not pushy. Be as honest as you can as well.

Face, torso and bum pics seem to be appreciated on a profile, or you can keep the face pic for your messages if you prefer.

Things to avoid are:

Overly sexual references, they put many people off if they are too graphic.

Cock shots on profile, have a couple in private if you like.

Bad grammar, text speech, block capitals etc.

Hope that helps, you will eventually find your own mix that works for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

My take on this is.......if you came across your own profile would you be inspired to send it a message?

If the answer is no then change it to something that would

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"My take on this is.......if you came across your own profile would you be inspired to send it a message?

If the answer is no then change it to something that would "

I frequently message myself, but I'm a time waster and never reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it were our profile, we'd be inclined to ditch the following line which you have in your profile:

"Looking for people within 1/2 hours drive as dont want to waste time travelling?????"

That could be construed in several ways

1) Lazy - not wanting to put too much effort into a meet because you cannot be fussed to drive more than a half hour

2) Being in a hurry i.e You don't have time to 'waste' travelling, the emphasis being on the word 'waste' what if the female was a real stunner and lived 1hr away - would it still be a 'waste' of time ?

Can you see where I'm coming from here ?

Otherwise add a couple more photos in your public gallery, add a bit of humour then your on more or less the right road

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"My take on this is.......if you came across your own profile would you be inspired to send it a message?

If the answer is no then change it to something that would

I frequently message myself, but I'm a time waster and never reply. "

I do too but got bored of waiting for a reply so blocked myself

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"My take on this is.......if you came across your own profile would you be inspired to send it a message?

If the answer is no then change it to something that would

I frequently message myself, but I'm a time waster and never reply.

I do too but got bored of waiting for a reply so blocked myself "

I would report yourself to Admin as well if I was you.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"My take on this is.......if you came across your own profile would you be inspired to send it a message?

If the answer is no then change it to something that would

I frequently message myself, but I'm a time waster and never reply.

I do too but got bored of waiting for a reply so blocked myself

I would report yourself to Admin as well if I was you. "

I did and the punishment was to be a mod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My take on this is.......if you came across your own profile would you be inspired to send it a message?

If the answer is no then change it to something that would

I frequently message myself, but I'm a time waster and never reply.

I do too but got bored of waiting for a reply so blocked myself

I would report yourself to Admin as well if I was you. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My take on this is.......if you came across your own profile would you be inspired to send it a message?

If the answer is no then change it to something that would "

if i come across my own profile, i would think gobby cow, then i would laugh, then i would want to shag meself haha!!!!!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"My take on this is.......if you came across your own profile would you be inspired to send it a message?

If the answer is no then change it to something that would

I frequently message myself, but I'm a time waster and never reply.

I do too but got bored of waiting for a reply so blocked myself

I would report yourself to Admin as well if I was you.

I did and the punishment was to be a mod "

Did you get a free moped, ox-blood docks and a parka then?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"My take on this is.......if you came across your own profile would you be inspired to send it a message?

If the answer is no then change it to something that would

if i come across my own profile, i would think gobby cow, then i would laugh, then i would want to shag meself haha!!!!! "

Perfect profile then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My take on this is.......if you came across your own profile would you be inspired to send it a message?

If the answer is no then change it to something that would "

but he's not a size 12 blonde with big tits who swallows

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"My take on this is.......if you came across your own profile would you be inspired to send it a message?

If the answer is no then change it to something that would

but he's not a size 12 blonde with big tits who swallows "

This is true but if he finds its a boring profile so will she

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own and all that.

Imagine being named in here and others picking over YOUR profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own and all that.

Imagine being named in here and others picking over YOUR profile."

yes, agreed.. Sorry for any offence caused

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Your profile's fairly good, and it's great that you're asking for feedback. My main criticism would be the use of question marks, after you've made a statement. This weakens the point that you're making, throwing doubt upon it. Eg, 'Looking for local females or couples who would like to play and have NSA adult fun???'

is one of several with multiple such question marks. If a question mark is needed (ie, you're asking a question), then it would be simpler and more elegant to use just one. I take it that you're not asking questions, so I'd dispense with them completely. If you're not sure about something, then you can make a statement to this effect, rather than by using a '?'.

This would make your profile seem cleaner, it will be easier for others to read, and won't throw your command of the English language into doubt.

As users won't know where you're located, except the county, then I'd also remove the half hour travelling statement, as another user points out above. Keeping it in means that you're leaving other members to have to evaluate whether or not they may be more, or less, than half an hour from you. What you need them to be doing is, instead, appreciating the qualities that you have.

To this end, I'd encourage you to add a slight touch of what it is that makes you unique, and different to the rest of us. As time goes on, you'll probably start to get some other ideas about how to shape your profile. Make a goal of revising it in a couple of weeks, and at regular intervals too.

Then just take your time, whilst you start to enjoy yourself on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Want to thank everyone for their input but would still like to know what makes a good profile page???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to look at other profiles and get inspiration from them

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

we is all different isnt we. i just like a good honest profile. explains what they want. and of course a hot woman in them lol. just nothing weird in my opioion. and hopefully great people to get on with. but you will find that in forum land lol. im moving in here next week! x

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Want to thank everyone for their input but would still like to know what makes a good profile page??? "

Many and varied, some short sweet ones grab me, some long and sensual ones do...hard to define when you're looking at profiles...

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"Want to thank everyone for their input but would still like to know what makes a good profile page??? "

Thers loads of info on this thread and your still wanting more?

YOU need to use your own imagination to promote yourself,you're the only one that knows you,your likes, your dislikes and what you want.....no-one else knows you or your personality and if you're struggling with creating a page thats all yours to do exactly what you want with to attract playmates then I think you're going to struggle with all the competition out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we received a mail today. nice mail,quite pleasant in fact,apart from the fact he didn't read our profile properly.we had a look at his profile and it was a copy n paste of a friend of ours who we have known for ages and has verified us. word for word. which is a bit of a faux pas

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Best profile?

Mine... next!!

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