FabSwingers.com forum: Desensitising sprays/creams any good?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??

Advice guidance please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No advice from anyone?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Try something with benzocaine in it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is that from personal experience or hear say?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Is that from personal experience or hear say?"

From medical knowledge that benzocaine cream numbs the skin.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok thanks

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You can get condoms with desensitization properties. Beware though if someone sucks your cock after you've removed a delay condom or used a spray, their tongue and possibly throat will go numb and it can be quite scary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bonjela

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'd be worried that it was a de-erectionifying cream as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bonjela"
I have not used Bonjela for my penis as I have not got one, but I can see the replies from men are a bit on the slow side.

I have used Bonjela for my nipples applying it before the moment of the heat but it seems to only work for about 20 minutes before the effect wears of. Still only leaving that lavender fragrance, and, assumably, taste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??

Advice guidance please "

Sertraline from doctor if you have never had it before as

It's not right to buy other people's prescription medicine

It's used as an anti depressant one 50 mg tablet 6 hours before Sex not much help unless your on a promise

If you take it a while it will mean you won't come until you stop taking it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There are sprays/creams available that offer this, has anyone used them?

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

"There are sprays/creams available that offer this, has anyone used them?"

Benzocaine cream is supposed to work, but if you have a hair trigger, it really doesn't slow things down by much.. Its far better to be multi cummer, get the first one out the way and the second and subsequent ones are a little slower..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every day's a school day. I really didn't know this was a thing!

Back in my day, we used to have a tactical wank. Timing was an art form.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Every day's a school day. I really didn't know this was a thing!

Back in my day, we used to have a tactical wank. Timing was an art form. "

They've been around for a longer than you have

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Perhaps I'm on my own in needing something like this lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had some PM advice, anyone else wish to comment/help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps I'm on my own in needing something like this lol"

Sometimes watching too much porn makes you think your performance etc is not upto standard

Best advice is fuck her . Then spend time giving massage etc and a bit of vagina licking till your ready to go again

Or make her come first but no point worrying about it .

if it's hard use it to fuck

If it's soft get someone to give it a suck

I didn't read your profile but drinking smoking and illegal drugs can all have an effect on you

As so can diet and exceecise

And most importantly self confidence. Any male that says he has had no difficulty getting or maintaining an erection or with delayed or prem ejaculation when any of the above are a factor is a liar

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks, I'm just keen to be able to fuck hard and for long without the need to stop for a while. So was thinking perhaps creams are the way forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a wank first.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

If sex is so painful, then best not to do it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol

It's not painful, I just want to better satisfy and not feel self conscious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just crack on until I get the money shot and start thinking about Thora Hird!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thanks, I'm just keen to be able to fuck hard and for long without the need to stop for a while. So was thinking perhaps creams are the way forward. "

The condoms I mentioned further up no good to you then?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Also have a look on Lovehoney.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just crack on until I get the money shot and start thinking about Thora Hird! "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks, I'm just keen to be able to fuck hard and for long without the need to stop for a while. So was thinking perhaps creams are the way forward.

The condoms I mentioned further up no good to you then?"

No I haven't but don't wish to desensitise her so guess this maybe a downside

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thanks, I'm just keen to be able to fuck hard and for long without the need to stop for a while. So was thinking perhaps creams are the way forward.

The condoms I mentioned further up no good to you then?

No I haven't but don't wish to desensitise her so guess this maybe a downside "

The desensitising cream is on the inside. I know this because ages ago we had a mixed lot of condoms and used one of this type.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Thanks, I'm just keen to be able to fuck hard and for long without the need to stop for a while. So was thinking perhaps creams are the way forward.

The condoms I mentioned further up no good to you then?

No I haven't but don't wish to desensitise her so guess this maybe a downside

The desensitising cream is on the inside. I know this because ages ago we had a mixed lot of condoms and used one of this type."

Nods in agreement

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thanks, I'm just keen to be able to fuck hard and for long without the need to stop for a while. So was thinking perhaps creams are the way forward.

The condoms I mentioned further up no good to you then?

No I haven't but don't wish to desensitise her so guess this maybe a downside

The desensitising cream is on the inside. I know this because ages ago we had a mixed lot of condoms and used one of this type.

Nods in agreement

It wouldn't be much good on the outside really

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Just call the first time a test firing.. You'll last longer the next time around

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just call the first time a test firing.. You'll last longer the next time around"

Lol

Not quite what I had in mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks, I'm just keen to be able to fuck hard and for long without the need to stop for a while. So was thinking perhaps creams are the way forward.

The condoms I mentioned further up no good to you then?

No I haven't but don't wish to desensitise her so guess this maybe a downside

The desensitising cream is on the inside. I know this because ages ago we had a mixed lot of condoms and used one of this type.

Nods in agreement

It wouldn't be much good on the outside really

Point well made!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anymore experiences of shall I put this post to bed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BonjelaI have not used Bonjela for my penis as I have not got one, but I can see the replies from men are a bit on the slow side.

Lavender? You must have the posh stuff

I have a penis and it's been Bonjela'd and it was pretty much the same experience your nipples had by the sound of it.

I have nipples too but I haven't had them Bonjela'd...yet..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??

Advice guidance please "

I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??

Advice guidance please

I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything."

Ok thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??

Advice guidance please

I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything."

Successful?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??

Advice guidance please

I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything.

Successful?"

Yup, takes away most of the enjoyment of sex for him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??

Advice guidance please

I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything.

Successful?

Yup, takes away most of the enjoyment of sex for him."

As in makes him last longer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??

Advice guidance please

I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything.

Successful?

Yup, takes away most of the enjoyment of sex for him.

As in makes him last longer?"

No, it stops him feeling anything so he doesn't enjoy it at all. he doesn't come because he's not enjoying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??

Advice guidance please

I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything.

Successful?

Yup, takes away most of the enjoyment of sex for him.

As in makes him last longer?

No, it stops him feeling anything so he doesn't enjoy it at all. he doesn't come because he's not enjoying it."

is it prescription or over the counter

Will it make your vagina less sensitive by transfer of cream

When you say feel nothin do you mean it's like he doesn't feel your vagina at all like he is using his cock but using a strap on ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??

Advice guidance please

I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything.

Successful?

Yup, takes away most of the enjoyment of sex for him.

As in makes him last longer?

No, it stops him feeling anything so he doesn't enjoy it at all. he doesn't come because he's not enjoying it."

Not sure that's quite way in after lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??

Advice guidance please

I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything.

Successful?

Yup, takes away most of the enjoyment of sex for him.

As in makes him last longer?

No, it stops him feeling anything so he doesn't enjoy it at all. he doesn't come because he's not enjoying it.

is it prescription or over the counter

Will it make your vagina less sensitive by transfer of cream

When you say feel nothin do you mean it's like he doesn't feel your vagina at all like he is using his cock but using a strap on ? "

It's over the counter.

You must use condoms.

I don't know, I don't have a point of reference. He just says he can't feel anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??

Advice guidance please

I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything.

Successful?

Yup, takes away most of the enjoyment of sex for him.

As in makes him last longer?

No, it stops him feeling anything so he doesn't enjoy it at all. he doesn't come because he's not enjoying it.

Not sure that's quite way in after lol

You proberbly shouldn't use numbing creams then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??

Advice guidance please

I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything.

Successful?

Yup, takes away most of the enjoyment of sex for him.

As in makes him last longer?

No, it stops him feeling anything so he doesn't enjoy it at all. he doesn't come because he's not enjoying it.

is it prescription or over the counter

Will it make your vagina less sensitive by transfer of cream

When you say feel nothin do you mean it's like he doesn't feel your vagina at all like he is using his cock but using a strap on ?

It's over the counter.

You must use condoms.

I don't know, I don't have a point of reference. He just says he can't feel anything."

Interesting I did google it and it comes up for 3.82 to 40+ for the same size

Do you know a cost and I suppose you have things like pharmacy direct and boots the chemist , what's a semsible price for it and a chemist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone have any experience or recommendations for desensitising sprays/creams??

Advice guidance please

I use Emla on my partner to stop him feeling anything.

Successful?

Yup, takes away most of the enjoyment of sex for him.

As in makes him last longer?

No, it stops him feeling anything so he doesn't enjoy it at all. he doesn't come because he's not enjoying it.

is it prescription or over the counter

Will it make your vagina less sensitive by transfer of cream

When you say feel nothin do you mean it's like he doesn't feel your vagina at all like he is using his cock but using a strap on ?

It's over the counter.

You must use condoms.

I don't know, I don't have a point of reference. He just says he can't feel anything.

Interesting I did google it and it comes up for 3.82 to 40+ for the same size

Do you know a cost and I suppose you have things like pharmacy direct and boots the chemist , what's a semsible price for it and a chemist "

It's a couple of quid in boots, which is where I always buy it from.

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

Ive tried desensitizing creams as I often cum too quickly.. They really dont work.. A condom does help to slow things down.. A wank beforehand also works.

However for me I quite often stay hard after the first ejaculation so carrying on makes teh second one last much longer..

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