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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on this site sometime now and just say I've only been approached by a woman once, the rest of the time I'm the instigator. Is this the case for everyone or are there woman out there who do the hunting too ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to be the one who sends the first message also

I've only received messages from couples and always it is the male sending the message

I'm still hoping that some lady's will send and ask the first questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on this site sometime now and just say I've only been approached by a woman once, the rest of the time I'm the instigator. Is this the case for everyone or are there woman out there who do the hunting too ?!"

Never approached by anyone, all says my profile is not interesting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always start the flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have actually been messaged by women first, but almost always off the back of a forum thread.

When Marc and I message people first, it's usually both of us together who send the message.

We've gotten to the point where we don't really actively seek out guys anymore, though. The guys we message first usually don't end up actually meeting, we seem to have better luck when they express interest first.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been messaged by a lady op. I allways try and break the ice 1st

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never message first might get a no haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only actually met people off here who I messaged first

When I'm meeting, more pics go up, filters on.. And I do the initial messaging

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Been on this site sometime now and just say I've only been approached by a woman once, the rest of the time I'm the instigator. Is this the case for everyone or are there woman out there who do the hunting too ?!"

On the rare occasions I've been messaged first by a woman , it has usually turned out to be a man...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

actively message first, often get ignored and I'm fine with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message first even if to just compliment the profile or pictures. Men make the effort too so there are some that message first

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

If there interested the woman will aproch me , why bombard them with huge amounts of mail they know who and what there looking for,

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