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By *uckandbunny OP   Couple
over a year ago

In your bed

Ok I'm not asking on our behalf, however the male of the couple does enjoy the fantasy of cuckolding from time to time.

As part of this I do frequent sites about cuckolding. I understand that alot of people on these sites like myself enjoy the fantasy aspect, whilst not looking to go any further. But it is raised on occasion that some couples get very frustrated at not being able to find a man who is willing to cuck their husband.

Any to get to the point, this is a mainstream swingers site. But would single guys who have met people on this site consider meeting a cuckold couple and playing along with their fantasies. Ie fucking the wife infront of the husband. Or would single guys find this to weird a fetish/kink to join in. Would they have fears of having to sexually dominate the other guy, would the roleplay aspect be offputting.

Cuckolding is obviously a wide ranging scene but I was just curious as to how difficult it would be for a couple to find willing men.

Obviously the difficulty is also pretend couple, but I'm more interested in whether single guys would play along if invited or would this be a no no.

Cheers

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By *uckandbunny OP   Couple
over a year ago

In your bed

Sorry for the tying errors, it's getting late.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be more than happy to be a bull!!

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By *uckandbunny OP   Couple
over a year ago

In your bed

Cheers,

I do find the terminology a bit strange, but I suppose it stops any mix ups between dom men. in the BSDM scene and dom men in the cuckold way.

Bull is probably the only animal name you could call someone without being offensive. Although I would not recommend it in passing conversation.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

lots of bulls on swinging sites,just put up an ad,be sure to chat and explore each others limits first and have fun.

Bull is not offensive,just the accepted term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah Dom and Bull are completely different.

One is fun and the other is just plain horny!!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Yeah Dom and Bull are completely different.

One is fun and the other is just plain horny!!"

bollocks,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bollocks!

Surely it's subjective??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are definitely men on the site that would be more than willing to indulge in the scenario you describe. We know this because we have had emails from some who thought that we were into cuckolding because of our profile. We have since amended some of the profile as it became obvious to us that we weren't explaining what we wanted properly.

As a previous poster said, all you have to do is post that you are looking for bulls and your in box will fill to the brim. lol

Good luck

x

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

There are plenty of guys happy to have sex with the female of the couple while the male watches etc... they then think they are Bulls, however to find a good Bull is something that is a bit harder, there is a lot of Roll play and bounderies need to be sorted before hand.

Just shagging a guys wife infront of him does not make someone a Bull.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Bollocks!

Surely it's subjective??"

Larks! Twas narry a jest I fear my lord!

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By *lassic1Man
over a year ago

bellshill


"There are plenty of guys happy to have sex with the female of the couple while the male watches etc... they then think they are Bulls, however to find a good Bull is something that is a bit harder, there is a lot of Roll play and bounderies need to be sorted before hand.

Just shagging a guys wife infront of him does not make someone a Bull."

I had a daytime meet with the woman of a couple where she wanted lots of photos of the action to share with hubby at night for intimate fun. I found it a massive turn-on.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"There are plenty of guys happy to have sex with the female of the couple while the male watches etc... they then think they are Bulls, however to find a good Bull is something that is a bit harder, there is a lot of Roll play and bounderies need to be sorted before hand.

Just shagging a guys wife infront of him does not make someone a Bull."

Exactly,which is why i made my previous comment.A good bull is a Dom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have played with a cuck couple once before and did enjoy it.

I would definitly be interested in being a regular bull for a couple, it is definitely something that I am keepin my eye out for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have to feel comfortable with the couple, same as I'd have to feel comfortable with a single woman, but happy to play along if it feels right.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"There are plenty of guys happy to have sex with the female of the couple while the male watches etc... they then think they are Bulls, however to find a good Bull is something that is a bit harder, there is a lot of Roll play and bounderies need to be sorted before hand.

Just shagging a guys wife infront of him does not make someone a Bull.

Exactly,which is why i made my previous comment.A good bull is a Dom."

Some times yes and i see you have dom master already but how far is your cuck hubby willing to partake in his duties

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By *arysueCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I love watching Sue being fucked by other men,it a great turn on knowing they are being turned on,One special freind gets to fuck her bareback,and i get to lick the cum from her mmm so horny .

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

have a look at my profile

a real bull without the bullshit and the verifications to back it up too

you would be VERY suprised how many peeps are into the cuck/bull scenario a lot keep it quiet though

i dont

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We had cuckolding up as an interest on our profile - hubby likes to watch, and would like a regular one if possible. However, we had too many aggressive messages who also then wanted the humiliation/ clean up part of the cuckold scene and to belittle my husband and tell him what to do - we just wanted the watching part, and amended our profile accordingly.

You need to figure out what exactly you want and what the 3rd person wants and all go from there - but there are plenty of willing volunteers on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think though that there is a huge difference from those that like to watch their wife/partner with another man to those that actually are into the cuckold scene.. To be fair the cuckold is much more the humilating the husband part..

I think if its just the watching, its more voyeristic.. For instance, there is no way in the world my Master could be considered to be a cuck husband.. but Loves to watch me with another man.

Just my view on it though..

Katie. x

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

there is no difference

if a man likes to watch his partner/wife have sex with other men then he is a cukold

from wikipedia..

A cuckold fetishist is aware of the spouse's activity and derives sexual pleasure from it.[2] This knowledge and tolerance of the spouse's activities makes the person in such relationships a wittol, properly speaking. But among fetishists the pose of reluctance—the victimization of the cuckold—is a major element of the kink so the more familiar word is used. In the fetish cuckolding subculture, the female is typically sexually dominant, while the man takes on a submissive role, only becoming involved with her or her lover when she permits it—sometimes remaining altogether celibate. Other arrangements are certainly possible, however, as wives can have husbands who take female lovers with their full knowledge.

The wife who enjoys cuckolding her husband is sometimes referred to as a hotwife or cuckoldress.[3]

But just like every other kink there are variations so if your a cuck into humiliation then your still a cuck but like the humiliation whereas if you just like to watch then your a cuck who just likes to watch

but then what do i know lol


"I think though that there is a huge difference from those that like to watch their wife/partner with another man to those that actually are into the cuckold scene.. To be fair the cuckold is much more the humilating the husband part..

I think if its just the watching, its more voyeristic.. For instance, there is no way in the world my Master could be considered to be a cuck husband.. but Loves to watch me with another man.

Just my view on it though..

Katie. x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done it a few times with the same couple a few years ago.

The husband use to sit and watch and take no part in what was happening.

The great thing was I did not have to worry where the husband was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there is no difference

if a man likes to watch his partner/wife have sex with other men then he is a cukold

from wikipedia..

A cuckold fetishist is aware of the spouse's activity and derives sexual pleasure from it.[2] This knowledge and tolerance of the spouse's activities makes the person in such relationships a wittol, properly speaking. But among fetishists the pose of reluctance—the victimization of the cuckold—is a major element of the kink so the more familiar word is used. In the fetish cuckolding subculture, the female is typically sexually dominant, while the man takes on a submissive role, only becoming involved with her or her lover when she permits it—sometimes remaining altogether celibate. Other arrangements are certainly possible, however, as wives can have husbands who take female lovers with their full knowledge.

The wife who enjoys cuckolding her husband is sometimes referred to as a hotwife or cuckoldress.[3]

But just like every other kink there are variations so if your a cuck into humiliation then your still a cuck but like the humiliation whereas if you just like to watch then your a cuck who just likes to watch

but then what do i know lol

"

No I would disagree as in all of those it mentions the man being sub and in some way.. Where as my Master is not.. Master watches while he is away and unable to be with me in person. If there Master has had me first, often during and will always be last to have me.

I think that cuckold does not apply to those that like to watch with no humilation and I only have partners that Master agrees to, at times Master agrees to and even the actual evening as Master tells me.

Katie.x

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"there is no difference

if a man likes to watch his partner/wife have sex with other men then he is a cukold

from wikipedia..

A cuckold fetishist is aware of the spouse's activity and derives sexual pleasure from it.[2] This knowledge and tolerance of the spouse's activities makes the person in such relationships a wittol, properly speaking. But among fetishists the pose of reluctance—the victimization of the cuckold—is a major element of the kink so the more familiar word is used. In the fetish cuckolding subculture, the female is typically sexually dominant, while the man takes on a submissive role, only becoming involved with her or her lover when she permits it—sometimes remaining altogether celibate. Other arrangements are certainly possible, however, as wives can have husbands who take female lovers with their full knowledge.

The wife who enjoys cuckolding her husband is sometimes referred to as a hotwife or cuckoldress.[3]

But just like every other kink there are variations so if your a cuck into humiliation then your still a cuck but like the humiliation whereas if you just like to watch then your a cuck who just likes to watch

but then what do i know lol

No I would disagree as in all of those it mentions the man being sub and in some way.. Where as my Master is not.. Master watches while he is away and unable to be with me in person. If there Master has had me first, often during and will always be last to have me.

I think that cuckold does not apply to those that like to watch with no humilation and I only have partners that Master agrees to, at times Master agrees to and even the actual evening as Master tells me.

Katie.x"

There are so many combinations and permutations in the cuckold world you could fill this whole forum with them like things like key holders and keepers and breeders

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"There are plenty of guys happy to have sex with the female of the couple while the male watches etc... they then think they are Bulls, however to find a good Bull is something that is a bit harder, there is a lot of Roll play and bounderies need to be sorted before hand.

Just shagging a guys wife infront of him does not make someone a Bull.

Exactly,which is why i made my previous comment.A good bull is a Dom.

Some times yes and i see you have dom master already but how far is your cuck hubby willing to partake in his duties "

Ahhh but my husband isnt cuck.....i learnt about the scene when i first wanted a Dom,but the fact is my husband believe in freedom and does not think possesion is part of love.

My activities with kev are totally separate to my activities with my Master.

Aint the range of human sexuality grand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if the hubby like to watch his wife to have sex with males and not wanted to be involved then that is called 'Voyeurism'

If you look up on this website on the interests page, it will explain the difference between cuckolding and voyeurism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well there are many forms of "cuckolding" guys who have no knowledge presume its all about being able to fuck the wife like hubby never could,and to put him down,degrade him etc etc. We make it quite clear on our profile what we want....I like fucking guys,and lucky for me hubby loves to see me do it lol...but it has nothing to do with the fact hubby cant perform...he more than fucks me well lol..its just the fact we loooooove me having fun with others

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

exactly


"well there are many forms of "cuckolding" guys who have no knowledge presume its all about being able to fuck the wife like hubby never could,and to put him down,degrade him etc etc. We make it quite clear on our profile what we want....I like fucking guys,and lucky for me hubby loves to see me do it lol...but it has nothing to do with the fact hubby cant perform...he more than fucks me well lol..its just the fact we loooooove me having fun with others "

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By *uckandbunny OP   Couple
over a year ago

In your bed

Cheers people. It's good to see such a full range of views. I think in the end cuckold is probably how the husband/partner views himself. It maybe voyuerism and he is not a cuckold, the same activity for another guy could be very degrading and therefore he see's himself as a cuckold..

For me it's not just the watching as I've watched my wife with men and women and it's just felt like sexy fun that was shared. I would not say I was a cuck in those situations as sometimes I would also participate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have loads of cuck films

its fun to watch but i dont know if itd be sexy to do it. be a bit of a and to funny

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By *vor Bigun 69!Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Id love to offer my services!!

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By *uckandbunny OP   Couple
over a year ago

In your bed


"we have loads of cuck films

its fun to watch but i dont know if itd be sexy to do it. be a bit of a and to funny"

I guess for me, it would be horny to do it and I would enjoy the element of humiliation, whilst my wife and the man where fucking. What I would not enjoy would be having that man become a permanent fixture in our lives. Or being made to do this on every occasion. It would be occasional and one off. After the moment of humiliation and getting dressed and kissing goodbye then life would return to normal.

It would I suppose be roleplay cuckolding to some. But some times I like to be submissive, some times dominant, some times caring and loving and sometimes degrading in return.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"we have loads of cuck films

its fun to watch but i dont know if itd be sexy to do it. be a bit of a and to funny

I guess for me, it would be horny to do it and I would enjoy the element of humiliation, whilst my wife and the man where fucking. What I would not enjoy would be having that man become a permanent fixture in our lives. Or being made to do this on every occasion. It would be occasional and one off. After the moment of humiliation and getting dressed and kissing goodbye then life would return to normal.

It would I suppose be roleplay cuckolding to some. But some times I like to be submissive, some times dominant, some times caring and loving and sometimes degrading in return."

Then you need to find someone who is willing to get to know you and discuss your limits.They are about,not having a regular though will make it more difficult.

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By *uckandbunny OP   Couple
over a year ago

In your bed


"

Then you need to find someone who is willing to get to know you and discuss your limits.They are about,not having a regular though will make it more difficult."

True, that's why we have so far been to swingers clubs, as our lives are just too busy at present with a young family to have a regular expansive sex life.

It's just an added extra really.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"

Then you need to find someone who is willing to get to know you and discuss your limits.They are about,not having a regular though will make it more difficult.

True, that's why we have so far been to swingers clubs, as our lives are just too busy at present with a young family to have a regular expansive sex life.

It's just an added extra really."

That sums up swinging to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi ive been taking the bull role for a few years now,theres a lot fantacise about it and only a few that love to actually carry out the thoughts,have met different couples who vary from a bit of nome calling finishing with the couple having sex to full blown,when hes at best allowed to clean up or one couple were its recorded hes made to watch after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have been looking for a cuck couple to act on my fantasy of this,would love to fuck a wife in front of hubby and all the other things involved in cuckolding

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"i have been looking for a cuck couple to act on my fantasy of this,would love to fuck a wife in front of hubby and all the other things involved in cuckolding"

may i say its not about fucking guys wife in front of him always better make him face the wall or make him stand outside the bedroom door then do his duties afterwards

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"i have been looking for a cuck couple to act on my fantasy of this,would love to fuck a wife in front of hubby and all the other things involved in cuckolding

may i say its not about fucking guys wife in front of him always better make him face the wall or make him stand outside the bedroom door then do his duties afterwards "

That really depends on what the couple want to get out of it...

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"i have been looking for a cuck couple to act on my fantasy of this,would love to fuck a wife in front of hubby and all the other things involved in cuckolding

may i say its not about fucking guys wife in front of him always better make him face the wall or make him stand outside the bedroom door then do his duties afterwards

That really depends on what the couple want to get out of it..."

oh so true just wish some guys would do some research and find out what being a bull is all about

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

i know exactly what its all about thats for sure!

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By *uckandbunny OP   Couple
over a year ago

In your bed

At least this post has answered my query. How difficult is it to find a 'Bull'?

Not that tricky. I was curious as there are often posts stating looking for a bull. To me I can't understand the difficulty.

The biggest difficulty seams to be chosing.

Cheers All.

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By *strokeC100Couple
over a year ago

chester

The problem is always that of knowing what the others want-and maybe they dont fully know or acknowledge it. We sort of slid into cuckolding from swinging. I enjoy an "assertive" bull (but I'm not really sub either) and realised gradually how much hubby enjoyed watching my enjoyment of "bigger and better" guys.That gave me a kick too. As we met different guys some introduced more stuff and pushed boundaries. So we now do things which we would have recoiled from (although maybe secretly excited by) if suggested at first. I now describe hubby as an "obedient cuck". The bull can decide what he wants-but I like it when he expects cuck to "prepare" etc. I sometimes make him wear a chastity cage too. Its all roleplay though-we sometimes incorporate cuckold teasing when alone-but often not. And always keep things anonymous-its just fun!

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By *rs WhiteCouple
over a year ago

South

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By *ovesit101Man
over a year ago

Bridlington

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By *ovesit101Man
over a year ago

Bridlington

I have enjoyed the cuckhold scenario many times to to enjoyment and pleasure of all concerned a lot of the fun is enjoyed by the couple reliving it after the event whilst alone. I would love to do this again and again lol. It's about respecting the cpls wishes desires and limits not male domination. Love to hear from others interested in meets for cuckholding xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok, here goes.....we are a cuckold couple, we have seen this thread ticking over for the last couple of days and have been interested by the various responses that it has attracted.

Firstly, for us certainly, there is a real power exchange. She is very much empowered to seek what she wants with the emphasis eventually on finding someone that can visit regularly to take things onto a different stage. He, whilst certainly can satisfy her, appreciates that, in her, there is an animal that he can't. He also gets sexually aroused seeing or knowing that she is being sexually satisfied, sometimes better than he can, especially with by a guy who is VWE.

Some people that have commented on this thread and indeed do contact cuckold couples, simply do not understand what it's about, or are dreamers.

It's not about a guy coming round, fucking the wife or girlfriend in front of the husband or boyfriend. It never has been that and won't be. For the woman, thats just sex, for him, that's just him being a voyuer....it's not cuckolding!

There is also a seemingly large misunderstanding of what makes a bull....a bull isn't someone that says 'I would love to be your bull', it's something that someone becomes.

Also, and here's a few tips guys...if you approach a cuckold couple, spell it properly...it's a bit of a giveaway when you are trying to introduce yourself as less of a bull and more of a bullshitter if you can't spell it!

Cuckold couples are generally more mature in their outlook, not necessarily age. However, certainly in our experience, a real bull is likely not to be under 30. As part of conversation, no one wants to have to discuss when they are due to finish Uni!

Nor does any cuckold couple want to be thought of as anything other than people that should be treated (as a couple) with respect.

it has been said on this thread that it's easy to meet bulls...no it's not! There are a huge amount of timewasters that THINK they know what it's about, there are very few that do actually know and appreciate what its about.

Bearing in mind that true bulls are actually rare, they are a commodity.....and with this in mind, it's also worth understanding that the true cuckold community is quite small.....and we do talk! We do compare experiences and make introductions to each other. There can be quite a bond between cuckold couples, even though their kink is possibly one that is kept most secret.

We have made some good friends in the swinging world, however, we always cherish other cuckold couples and true bulls above all as it is our lifestyle choice after all.

We aren't trying to pour scorn on some of the views on this thread, but cuckolding threads do seem to be over run and manipulated most of the time by people that simply DO NOT understand what its about.

Take care all

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

That has got to be the most sensible and true account of what a cuk/bull scenario is about and i have to thank you guys for saying it as it is

too many peeps THINK they know all about everything but most dont know jack about the cuck side of swinging at all.

If carlsberg made bulls i would be a truck load


"ok, here goes.....we are a cuckold couple, we have seen this thread ticking over for the last couple of days and have been interested by the various responses that it has attracted.

Firstly, for us certainly, there is a real power exchange. She is very much empowered to seek what she wants with the emphasis eventually on finding someone that can visit regularly to take things onto a different stage. He, whilst certainly can satisfy her, appreciates that, in her, there is an animal that he can't. He also gets sexually aroused seeing or knowing that she is being sexually satisfied, sometimes better than he can, especially with by a guy who is VWE.

Some people that have commented on this thread and indeed do contact cuckold couples, simply do not understand what it's about, or are dreamers.

It's not about a guy coming round, fucking the wife or girlfriend in front of the husband or boyfriend. It never has been that and won't be. For the woman, thats just sex, for him, that's just him being a voyuer....it's not cuckolding!

There is also a seemingly large misunderstanding of what makes a bull....a bull isn't someone that says 'I would love to be your bull', it's something that someone becomes.

Also, and here's a few tips guys...if you approach a cuckold couple, spell it properly...it's a bit of a giveaway when you are trying to introduce yourself as less of a bull and more of a bullshitter if you can't spell it!

Cuckold couples are generally more mature in their outlook, not necessarily age. However, certainly in our experience, a real bull is likely not to be under 30. As part of conversation, no one wants to have to discuss when they are due to finish Uni!

Nor does any cuckold couple want to be thought of as anything other than people that should be treated (as a couple) with respect.

it has been said on this thread that it's easy to meet bulls...no it's not! There are a huge amount of timewasters that THINK they know what it's about, there are very few that do actually know and appreciate what its about.

Bearing in mind that true bulls are actually rare, they are a commodity.....and with this in mind, it's also worth understanding that the true cuckold community is quite small.....and we do talk! We do compare experiences and make introductions to each other. There can be quite a bond between cuckold couples, even though their kink is possibly one that is kept most secret.

We have made some good friends in the swinging world, however, we always cherish other cuckold couples and true bulls above all as it is our lifestyle choice after all.

We aren't trying to pour scorn on some of the views on this thread, but cuckolding threads do seem to be over run and manipulated most of the time by people that simply DO NOT understand what its about.

Take care all"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some great points and have enjoyed many scenarios.

All about choice really....

Theres plenty of Bulls about could invite 2 at a time ...

What about switching roles though where a lady is a Cow and the wife is a duck ??

Quite like to see this and imagine many others would ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I'm not asking on our behalf, however the male of the couple does enjoy the fantasy of cuckolding from time to time.

As part of this I do frequent sites about cuckolding. I understand that alot of people on these sites like myself enjoy the fantasy aspect, whilst not looking to go any further. But it is raised on occasion that some couples get very frustrated at not being able to find a man who is willing to cuck their husband.

Any to get to the point, this is a mainstream swingers site. But would single guys who have met people on this site consider meeting a cuckold couple and playing along with their fantasies. Ie fucking the wife infront of the husband. Or would single guys find this to weird a fetish/kink to join in. Would they have fears of having to sexually dominate the other guy, would the roleplay aspect be offputting.

Cuckolding is obviously a wide ranging scene but I was just curious as to how difficult it would be for a couple to find willing men.

Obviously the difficulty is also pretend couple, but I'm more interested in whether single guys would play along if invited or would this be a no no.

Cheers

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Of course many men find this both comfortable and good.

Speaking as a 'bull' there is one important rule I always follow with a 'cuck' couple. That is that THEY set the boundaries. It may simply include the cuck hubby watching (or sometimes just listening) to a degree of verbal or (mild) physical abuse. The key point is it is THEIR rules which the good bull follows. I have been in situations where I have taken the fem away or met them on their own - so they can talk about it later. Other times the 'cuck' simply likes to watch (and wank), other times to take pictures (which I am fine with), sometimes to be tied up and watch or to 'wait on' - as a servant etc. It is not uncommon for the cuck to 'clean-up' after I have fucked his wife/gf etc. Certainly cleaning her - just once only cleaning me as I am str8 and not always comfortable with that. If anyone wants to know more - feel free to message me.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

I have played with a cuckold couple and it was good fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always cracks me up when you get topics about certain things like this and they are half filled with guys offering their services

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By *azz_JazzCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I think it just depends on the couple, for example.

We both find every stage of the interaction a massive turn on, from the initial contact, and her reaction to his message, to the response she sends him. Then if it progresses to texting or phone contact the flirty manner in which they interact. This all turns us on and brings us closer together tremendously!

Then if we meet someone - the first kiss they have, to me/us is all cuckolding, the feelings it generates are so erotic!

We are very much in our early stages, but so far so good! I think if the woman and her lover, or Bull depending on what you call it, may progress to greater levels of domination or cuckolding, but it would be as I can see the woman and the bull knowing what buttons to press to highten the sexual chemistry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah Dom and Bull are completely different.

One is fun and the other is just plain horny!!

bollocks,"

Ooh, I wish Question Time on TV was more like this, I'd wanna watch it then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its as hard to find the couple too,been around this site for some time and dont get enough response,think its not the site for actual cuckold more about the fantasy ,i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is a lot of misconception about cuckolding and admittedly I don't know much ab out it as we are not into it.

But we do play with single guys and my OH enjoys watching. Many single guys will message and say 'oh ill satisfy you and he can watch how its done'. Lots of guys insinuate that my OH is perhaps a cuckold and in play they are the ones with the power pleasuring me.

This couldn't be further from the truth. In a threesome play situation my OH is the dominant one. If I'm playing with a guy then he will suggest different positions and he'll tell the guy, 'don't do it like that, she likes it like this' and he'll move around for the best view and basically he'll ask for what he wants to see. There is never the illusion in play that he is a quiet unassuming partner sitting in the corner. He's not demanding and overbearing and all guys have said that its him that puts them at ease, but its obvious that he's a strong character and in control. And of course when he's had enough of watching he will just take me there and then. We're definitely not a cuckold couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"always cracks me up when you get topics about certain things like this and they are half filled with guys offering their services "
not all men are willing to lick woman after other mans cum inside her this is part of the turn on for alot seeing him doing that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes your right game4it2

most women think im mad wen ive admiited ive licked up another mans mess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a great thread so many people on here list cuckolding as an interest without knowing what it involves making people with a genuine interest hard to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife's happy with letting me watch or telling me about the next man that she wants to have but thats as far as she'll take things as she's not into the whole roleplay side of things.

I'm actaully bi so as far as cleaning her after another guys cum in her yes I would if she'd let me but again not her thing hence why it don't say so on the account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a great thread so many people on here list cuckolding as an interest without knowing what it involves making people with a genuine interest hard to find"

That's because it's entirely subjective. Just out of interest, what does cuckolding involve from your point of view?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckold is a historic derogatory term for a man who has an unfaithful wife. The word, which has been in recorded use since the 13th century, derives from the cuckoo which gives up nurturing its own by laying eggs in other birds' nests.

In modern terms, a cuckold can also mean a male fetishist who gains sexual gratification from watching his partner have intercourse with other people or having a wife who dates other men, often with the husband's approval.

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