FabSwingers.com forum: wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I see a lot of profiles and also messages where "lasting all night" or "great stamina" or other things to suggest a long session are written.

Am I the only one who is put off by this?

I cum incredibly quickly and only rarely cum more than once, so for me an hour long session would be awful. I'd be bored if I'm quite honest

My perfect meet would last half an hour from start to finish. Is there anyone else like me about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is three minutes good enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am with you on this when you have cum it's not going to keep up so you may as well leave totally agree with you.

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By *ill.willMan
over a year ago

Depends on the mood to be honest. Sometime a quickie can be amazing, lots of passion and intense fucking.

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By *igjohn78Man
over a year ago

lincoln

yes but only on a very good day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see a lot of profiles and also messages where "lasting all night" or "great stamina" or other things to suggest a long session are written.

Am I the only one who is put off by this?

I cum incredibly quickly and only rarely cum more than once, so for me an hour long session would be awful. I'd be bored if I'm quite honest

My perfect meet would last half an hour from start to finish. Is there anyone else like me about?"
I like long sessions with Mr... Or gangbangs but if I met single guys id be like you and want them to be in, unload and go away too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'm the same....hours of mindless fucking just hurts my hips lol.

give me 30 good minutes of total passion and I'm yours lol

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By *anther and gothic angelCouple
over a year ago

fairy land

Omg the longer the better but not just banging away like a road drill lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the guy would have to be extremely hot to turn me on enough for a quick wham bam. but i did used to play this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take a long time to cum, if I do cum so I love lots of foreplay, like oral sex, but I don't like loads of penetrative sex so my heart sinks when the guy says they can go for ages.

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By *amjoyceMan
over a year ago

london

Now I don't think that any man would last long before they cum... But for me a good session ends when both collapse spent then continue the day after... There's so much more to sex than to piston fuck... Haven't you heard about multiple orgasms for both men and women? Am I the only one thinking that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rather a meet that is more sensual based. Lots of foreplay, oral, massage, teasing, kissing etc. Not one for banging away for hours.

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I like an evening of fun..chatting, laughing, fucking. Even an hour or two is nice. Ive had too many fuck n go's and felt dissatisfied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take a long time to cum, if I do cum so I love lots of foreplay, like oral sex, but I don't like loads of penetrative sex so my heart sinks when the guy says they can go for ages."
see I rarely orgasm from a meet anyway.. I get off if its just a sex meet on what I give the guy and getting a nice facial... That is what I meet guys for..( different when as a couple meeting a couple ) but I wouldn't want long drawn out session with anyone apart from my partner if I'm totally honest

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Sometimes half an hour is enough if its good, I prefer men who cum quick.

I prefer if they only stay for about an hour, if I wasn't married it might be different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quick, but repeat, so best of both sides lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see a lot of profiles and also messages where "lasting all night" or "great stamina" or other things to suggest a long session are written.

Am I the only one who is put off by this?

I cum incredibly quickly and only rarely cum more than once, so for me an hour long session would be awful. I'd be bored if I'm quite honest

My perfect meet would last half an hour from start to finish. Is there anyone else like me about?"

That's our preferred meet too

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"I rather a meet that is more sensual based. Lots of foreplay, oral, massage, teasing, kissing etc. Not one for banging away for hours."

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Not for me, I would never stay the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't arrange a meet and after I cum say I'm done now off you go, And I wouldn't go to a meet if that's all the Woman wanted either

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No sure I worded this post quite right (but thanks for the blow and go offers

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I did mean penetrive sex, I enjoy being pleasured not oral but other methods and enjoy giving oral. But when it comes to penetration sex I'd rather it lasted less than half an hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't "pump away" for hours, but I really like building up, playing and just enjoying each other. So sex for me lasts hours even in penetrative sex is just 15-20 mins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't "pump away" for hours, but I really like building up, playing and just enjoying each other. So sex for me lasts hours even in penetrative sex is just 15-20 mins. "
(ideally)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't "pump away" for hours, but I really like building up, playing and just enjoying each other. So sex for me lasts hours even in penetrative sex is just 15-20 mins. "

Or even days

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I rather a meet that is more sensual based. Lots of foreplay, oral, massage, teasing, kissing etc. Not one for banging away for hours."

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm making a note of all the women agreeing with the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no... I much prefer longer sessions. Even weekends

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By *icker988Man
over a year ago

Exeter

Hi with a nice hairy pubes I'd chum be for I got in gorgeous

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"I'm making a note of all the women agreeing with the OP

I agree with your general point and preference OP, and believe the all-night tonguers of quim generally to bekeyboard fantasists (the main component of guys on here) but my profile does make a particular denial of being part of the "wham bang, thank you ma'am" brigade, and I do feel that there is some middle ground here regarding length of sexual encounter....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half an hour??...it's not worth getting ready for or the hotel cost. I prefer a much more drawn out and relaxed time.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I prefer all nighters can't do the fuck and go

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Half an hour??...it's not worth getting ready for or the hotel cost. I prefer a much more drawn out and relaxed time."

If I had a meet that was less than the time it takes me to do my make up I'd be pissed off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No sure I worded this post quite right (but thanks for the blow and go offers

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I did mean penetrive sex, I enjoy being pleasured not oral but other methods and enjoy giving oral. But when it comes to penetration sex I'd rather it lasted less than half an hour. "

In fairness you said you preferred the meet to last half an hour?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Now all nighters do have a special appeal...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take a long time to cum, if I do cum so I love lots of foreplay, like oral sex, but I don't like loads of penetrative sex so my heart sinks when the guy says they can go for ages."

totally with you on this one - I could forgo the sex and just have the foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm making a note of all the women agreeing with the OP

I was kidding of course...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, about an hour is enough for me too. I love the passion of a relatively quick meet and would get bored if it lasted ages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does surprise me a little that its mainly the single Women who like this, I would assume it would be the couples who liked the quick meets,

Waiting for more single ladies to say they like over night meets

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Won't do rushed or short meets. I'm not a hole.

Lots of playing, chatting, fucking, chilling, fumbling, giggling and starting all over again.

Lots of stamina for a big gal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree 30 mins of amazing foreplay and rough sex . I'm happy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't "pump away" for hours, but I really like building up, playing and just enjoying each other. So sex for me lasts hours even in penetrative sex is just 15-20 mins. (ideally) "

Works for me

It's about being with someone not just the physical act of sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like an hour or so of play fuck cum chat repeat. And if that can be repeated 2 or 3 times then all is good. Being banged for hours is cunt numbing

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Yeah, about an hour is enough for me too. I love the passion of a relatively quick meet and would get bored if it lasted ages! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like an hour or so of play fuck cum chat repeat. And if that can be repeated 2 or 3 times then all is good. Being banged for hours is cunt numbing"

This

going at it like a drill hammer makes the mind wonder to other things...like the decoration of the room and work that needs doing...kind off putting and ends up making it last longer with no conclusion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing the majority of the people who prefer quick 'fuck and go' meets are in a relationship?

If a guy came and went within an hour, let alone half an hour - I'd be left unsatisfied and feeling like shit!

A good meet, to me, lasts all evening - with conversation, flirting and mind-blowing sex with lots of foreplay and loads of penetration/position changing.

If guys don't want that then they meet someone else - it's very simple!

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By *miley-8-pinkCouple
over a year ago

Nr Taunton

"Yeah I'm the same....hours of mindless fucking just hurts my hips lol.

give me 30 good minutes of total passion and I'm yours lol

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By *miley-8-pinkCouple
over a year ago

Nr Taunton

"I take a long time to cum, if I do cum so I love lots of foreplay, like oral sex, but I don't like loads of penetrative sex so my heart sinks when the guy says they can go for ages.

totally with you on this one - I could forgo the sex and just have the foreplay"

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"I like an hour or so of play fuck cum chat repeat. And if that can be repeated 2 or 3 times then all is good. Being banged for hours is cunt numbing"

Sounds perfect to me too. Get sore when they are just banging away and I have to tell them to stop because I am bored which doesn't usually go down too well lol

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

"I rather a meet that is more sensual based. Lots of foreplay, oral, massage, teasing, kissing etc. Not one for banging away for hours."

This!

If all I want is a quick fuck.... I'll go to a club

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

"I'm guessing the majority of the people who prefer quick 'fuck and go' meets are in a relationship?

If a guy came and went within an hour, let alone half an hour - I'd be left unsatisfied and feeling like shit!

A good meet, to me, lasts all evening - with conversation, flirting and mind-blowing sex with lots of foreplay and loads of penetration/position changing.

If guys don't want that then they meet someone else - it's very simple!

yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quick rough sex every time does it for me, I like to be 'used'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rather a meet that is more sensual based. Lots of foreplay, oral, massage, teasing, kissing etc. Not one for banging away for hours."

I am with you on this. Love the sensual sides of meeting people and just getting to know every part of there bodies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us in our own play sessions it's rarely all night. Average about 40 mins, max probably an hour and a half.

I could go longer, in essence as long as I'm "augmented" to prevent any flops in terms of time to cum its near infinite for me. Not because I'm some sort of sexual god or anything but because I actually have to switch up my body in order to achieve orgasm. It's actually rather difficult for me, I've had a few sexual partners who never managed it at all.

In fact L is the only partner I've ever had who set herself the challenge of getting me off outside of that "mode". She has succeeded once, hitherto the only person to achieve it. A fact she is immensely smug about. But even that took extreme dedication and skill.

For me, beyond an hour is A: Pushing my cardiovascular limits, B: Likely to be pushing my abs towards their limits since I tend to vary up the angle and the depth a lot to keep things interesting, and C: Frankly a bit boring. There's only so long you can keep at the same session before the moment drops and it's just a chore. With any woman.

Multiple shorter sessions are the way with me. And even then rarely more than 3 in a day.

I pride myself on not NEEDING that much time to get the job done. A typical session with L will be around 40 mins in which there will usually be 3 oral orgasms, perhaps 2-3 penetrative ones and hopefully if the gods are smiling one of those will be a squirt :D

Any more than 6 is just greed :P

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By *ollypop2000Woman
over a year ago

Derby

"I see a lot of profiles and also messages where "lasting all night" or "great stamina" or other things to suggest a long session are written.

Am I the only one who is put off by this?

I cum incredibly quickly and only rarely cum more than once, so for me an hour long session would be awful. I'd be bored if I'm quite honest

My perfect meet would last half an hour from start to finish. Is there anyone else like me about?"

My life, right there

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