FabSwingers.com forum: would you trest a girl yo a sexy pair of heels if she met you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If a hirl asked for a treat, i.e somthing for a meet to wear like a pair of heels or some lingerie would you pay for it for the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm not a mug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no.its not really 'treating' her if she's demanded it in exchange for sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a hirl asked for a treat, i.e somthing for a meet to wear like a pair of heels or some lingerie would you pay for it for the meet"

It's generally a good idea to not give girls things especially if it looks like they need it

Things like perfume ,soap , shampoo , mouthwash as presents do not go down well

As to givibg shoes in a date that is just weird , did you expect her to throw away her old shoes and wear the ones you bought her or walk round with two pairs of shoes alright ?

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

It's a form of prostitution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a hirl asked for a treat, i.e somthing for a meet to wear like a pair of heels or some lingerie would you pay for it for the meet

It's generally a good idea to not give girls things especially if it looks like they need it

Things like perfume ,soap , shampoo , mouthwash as presents do not go down well

As to givibg shoes in a date that is just weird , did you expect her to throw away her old shoes and wear the ones you bought her or walk round with two pairs of shoes alright ? "
I don't think he meant meeting for dates haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a hirl asked for a treat, i.e somthing for a meet to wear like a pair of heels or some lingerie would you pay for it for the meet"

is this another one of your social experiment questions or do you genuinely wish to know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. And I don't meet men who offer it, even if I otherwise would have.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Umm, no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a hirl asked for a treat, i.e somthing for a meet to wear like a pair of heels or some lingerie would you pay for it for the meet

It's generally a good idea to not give girls things especially if it looks like they need it

Things like perfume ,soap , shampoo , mouthwash as presents do not go down well

As to givibg shoes in a date that is just weird , did you expect her to throw away her old shoes and wear the ones you bought her or walk round with two pairs of shoes alright ? I don't think he meant meeting for dates haha "

I suppose you could buy her some scuba diving flippers if she is after new shoes

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"If a hirl asked for a treat, i.e somthing for a meet to wear like a pair of heels or some lingerie would you pay for it for the meet"

No I wouldn't. It would put me off wanting to meet anyone that felt it was OK to ask for gifts.

We've brought chocolates and small bits for people before but NOT because they've asked. It's been because we knew it was their birthday etc.

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By *buse my girlfriendCouple
over a year ago

Derby

I think it is acceptable to buy outfits for roleplay or some sort of fetish that the other wouldn't ordinarily own. If that's what you mean?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Forgot to add....I wouldn't meet anyone who offered to buy me gifts of lingerie etc either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dont see how your a prostitute for aking for a sexy outfit that you want the girl to wear for your meet lol..

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Dont see how your a prostitute for aking for a sexy outfit that you want the girl to wear for your meet lol.."

Is it you asking or the girl? Either way it is about someone shelling out something financial in order to complete a sexual act. That's the very definition, surely?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"If a hirl asked for a treat, i.e somthing for a meet to wear like a pair of heels or some lingerie would you pay for it for the meet"

No chance. I'd say "on ya bike" (if she had one).

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"If a hirl asked for a treat, i.e somthing for a meet to wear like a pair of heels or some lingerie would you pay for it for the meet

No chance. I'd say "on ya bike" (if she had one). "

What do you say, if she doesn't have one?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If a hirl asked for a treat, i.e somthing for a meet to wear like a pair of heels or some lingerie would you pay for it for the meet

No chance. I'd say "on ya bike" (if she had one).

What do you say, if she doesn't have one?

He would offer to buy her one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had guys offer to buy me things because they wanted it, like underwear or knickers that appeal to them.

So they're buying that stuff for themselves really, and i declined. I'm nobodies fuck puppet.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"If a hirl asked for a treat, i.e somthing for a meet to wear like a pair of heels or some lingerie would you pay for it for the meet

No chance. I'd say "on ya bike" (if she had one).

What do you say, if she doesn't have one?

He would offer to buy her one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman demanded it no.

If a man wanted me to wear something specific that I didn't already own yes.

If I already owned it/them and he wanted to ruin it/them,he can waste his own money.

I was seeing someone who liked buying me stuff specifically to wear for him. It wasn't a lot or expensive. Some of it is still sitting in a bag no longer worn.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"If a hirl asked for a treat, i.e somthing for a meet to wear like a pair of heels or some lingerie would you pay for it for the meet

No chance. I'd say "on ya bike" (if she had one).

What do you say, if she doesn't have one?

Well, crikey.....I'd be at a loss for words. I do stretch to a coffee* though because it's a social thing to do.

*not a big one though, greedy cow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, crikey.....I'd be at a loss for words. I do stretch to a coffee* though because it's a social thing to do.

*not a big one though, greedy cow."

What about a hot cross bun?

Sarah

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"If a hirl asked for a treat, i.e somthing for a meet to wear like a pair of heels or some lingerie would you pay for it for the meet"

Course not. Why, would you??

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Well, crikey.....I'd be at a loss for words. I do stretch to a coffee* though because it's a social thing to do.

*not a big one though, greedy cow.

What about a hot cross bun?

Sarah "

Rather!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont see how your a prostitute for aking for a sexy outfit that you want the girl to wear for your meet lol.."

that doesnt even make sense...you said before it was a women asking for something, not that the person she met wanted her to wear something specific...very different..

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"If a hirl asked for a treat, i.e somthing for a meet to wear like a pair of heels or some lingerie would you pay for it for the meet

No chance. I'd say "on ya bike" (if she had one).

What do you say, if she doesn't have one?

Well, crikey.....I'd be at a loss for words. I do stretch to a coffee* though because it's a social thing to do.

*not a big one though, greedy cow."

Tight arse!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"If a hirl asked for a treat, i.e somthing for a meet to wear like a pair of heels or some lingerie would you pay for it for the meet

No chance. I'd say "on ya bike" (if she had one).

What do you say, if she doesn't have one?

Well, crikey.....I'd be at a loss for words. I do stretch to a coffee* though because it's a social thing to do.

*not a big one though, greedy cow.

Tight arse!

Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no

I've never been that desperate for sex I've had to give offerings for it

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I wouldn't accept any 'gift'. And if anyone offered to treat me if I agreed to meet them, even if I had been interested in them before things would end there and then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a hirl asked for a treat, i.e somthing for a meet to wear like a pair of heels or some lingerie would you pay for it for the meet"

No.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Shoes for a shag

Let me think.....

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Not for someone off here; but with my regular female freinds, we are always giving each other presents.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please buy me shoes..............i have a problem don't i??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for someone off here; but with my regular female freinds, we are always giving each other presents....."

Mutual presents between friends is very different from buying someone shoes as payment for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please buy me shoes..............i have a problem don't i??

Shoes are necessary. You always need more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is more to life than shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never do this...it's called prostitution if buying her something specific/expensive is a condition for meeting.

I have bought stuff for ladies on here...but not for/on a first meet and not because I was asked.

Niceasyoungirl (sadly not recently active) was a several times meet. Her profile pic is wearing the basque I bought her....but that was as a "treat" on our third meet and was as much for my pleasure as hers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, But if we was meeting regularly I would ask her if their was anything she wanted to keep it fresh and kinky in the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please buy me shoes..............i have a problem don't i??

Shoes are necessary. You always need more."

Yes i do

....thank you for recognising this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have my own we can share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is more to life than shoes

True, but shoes are good place to start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got bought an electric blanket because my bedroom was cold last time we met..does that count haha

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