FabSwingers.com forum: New to all this. Point me the right way

By *agicmike1985 OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford upon Avon

Hi all.

I am new to all this and need a few pointers.

Club meets are not my thing I don't think.

I am a very confident person and wanting to meet new people since my divorce but just cannot put confidence into words.

No piss takers please.

Thanks in advance

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

First rule of fight club!....

Actually first rule of posting threads is once the thread has been posted, you have no control over what happens and where it goes. Asking for no piss takers tends to bring out the worst in some of us. A much better strategy is to expect the worst and join in if necessary.

You need a smile, a happy demeanour and a sense of humour.

Congrats on your first post and welcome

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Hello.

What would you like pointers on?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Hello. I have a couple of profile suggestions......

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By *agicmike1985 OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford upon Avon

"Hello. I have a couple of profile suggestions......"

Fire away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Declaring yourself "lonely" is unlikely to turn anyone on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And moany statuses will make people stop right there and not bother reading your profile.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Hello. I have a couple of profile suggestions......

Fire away"

You're sticking your tongue out in a photo. Do you do that to ladies in bars or that you flirt with at Waitrose.

Another photo shows photos of children in the background.

You can't accommodate and people will wonder why?

What is it about you that people might find interesting?

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By *agicmike1985 OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford upon Avon

Thanks everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst we're here can I get some input on my profile ?

Thanks

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Whilst we're here can I get some input on my profile ?

Thanks "

Do a forum search for 'profile advice' is my advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he never actually asked for a profile critique....just for some pointers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"he never actually asked for a profile critique....just for some pointers

It's why I asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also apologies for hijacking the thread

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Also apologies for hijacking the thread "

It's ok. Guys with beards get let off.

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