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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can totally understand people hiding their profiles when taking a break or trying to catch up with message, but I have just been sent a very short message,from a couple, along the lines of "love your profile!" and 'signed' by the female half. Went to view their profile and I can't! Most couples who msg me have a bi/curious female so I would normally let them know I'm not interested.

Not here to moan as such as I've already hit the delete button but wondering if anyone else has same happened to them and why would people hide their profile yet still look for playmates/friends?

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

They might have forgotten it was hidden?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I've had it too. A young lady sent a friends invite, I could look at her private pics but not her profile write up as it was hidden.

I PM'd her and she came back to say she was curious and wasn't sure it was for her.

Bit odd, but she was friendly about it and I wished her well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

happened to me a few times, I ask for details when messaging back as I can't view the profile, they usually come back with all I need to know, but your right, why hide if your actively messaging people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They might have forgotten it was hidden?"

yeah, there is that too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"happened to me a few times, I ask for details when messaging back as I can't view the profile, they usually come back with all I need to know, but your right, why hide if your actively messaging people "

tbh it wouldn't be so bad if they had sent a half decent msg.....could be a bloke with a couples profile lol Oh the paranoia!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had it too. A young lady sent a friends invite, I could look at her private pics but not her profile write up as it was hidden.

I PM'd her and she came back to say she was curious and wasn't sure it was for her.

Bit odd, but she was friendly about it and I wished her well. "

didn't realise you could do that....how do you hide profile but not pics?

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By *ev and TrevCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

This happened to us a while ago. Had a message from a couple saying they loved our profile and would love to meet up for a drink. when I went to have a look at theirs it was hidden so I mailed back thanking them asking them if we could have a look at their profile.

Their reply? Sorry our profile is hidden as at the moment we are having family problems and not meeting (???).

I then asked if they could just show their profile for 5 mins so we could take a look or at the very least send us a pic, the answer to both of these questions was no!

Needless to say we didn't go for that drink!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that happens I ask them to unhide it so I can look it happened yesterday and ended up talking to a great guy his was hidden as he'd had some stalker so that may be the case

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"I've had it too. A young lady sent a friends invite, I could look at her private pics but not her profile write up as it was hidden.

I PM'd her and she came back to say she was curious and wasn't sure it was for her.

Bit odd, but she was friendly about it and I wished her well.

didn't realise you could do that....how do you hide profile but not pics?"

I was able to look at them as I shamelessly accepted her friends invite and she had winked me so she showed on my winks list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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didn't realise you could do that....how do you hide profile but not pics?"

i think its just how it is, if you hide your profile anyone can still click on the gallery button and see your public pics, friends can still see your private gallery pics - only pics that you tick as private/to send in messages only are completely private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is hidden atm. Im

having a break from swinging but enjoying some 1 2 1. With this in my i would not dream of mailing anyone. As gives the wrong idea from the start.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"My profile is hidden atm. Im

having a break from swinging but enjoying some 1 2 1. With this in my i would not dream of mailing anyone. As gives the wrong idea from the start. "

Fair play. This exactly what the hide option is for in my mind.

I think some people also use it so that they can look for their own meets without getting hundreds of messages every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had my profile from time to time simply because the amount of messages i get can get out of hand, when i already have guys on msn im trying to arrange meets with theres really no point keep having new men mailing me as i just cant fit them in and some guys can get really arsey when you explain you just dont have time at the mo

But when its hidden i do tend to forget and just carry on the site as normal lol

i would imagine if you had miled them asking if you could have a look at their profile because it was hidden they would have let you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile is hidden atm. Im

having a break from swinging but enjoying some 1 2 1. With this in my i would not dream of mailing anyone. As gives the wrong idea from the start.

Fair play. This exactly what the hide option is for in my mind.

I think some people also use it so that they can look for their own meets without getting hundreds of messages every day. "

I think so too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its strange happens a few times to us

we keep meaning to hide ours but keep forgetting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is hidden, thought it meant people couldn't contact you...obviously not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile is hidden, thought it meant people couldn't contact you...obviously not! "

Best to crank up your message filters... you can block everybody in on foul sweep

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"My profile is hidden, thought it meant people couldn't contact you...obviously not! "

People can still contact you via the forums or if you have previously sent a message to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile is hidden, thought it meant people couldn't contact you...obviously not!

People can still contact you via the forums or if you have previously sent a message to them"

That's what I thought but I've been receiving unsolicited messages from people not via the forums, and I've not written to them previously!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Can still get messages....

But as they cant see your profile.....gawd only knows why they bother

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