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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I keep wondering why some men cannot be nice to a woman they hope to meet. It is in their interest but they still cannot overcome their compulsion to be abusive! Don't they realise no one will see them after that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as long as the female is equally nice after...ceteris paribus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I will...

In therapy

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"as long as the female is equally nice after...ceteris paribus "
Must admit i get more abuse of women , dont remember haveing any of a male x

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"I keep wondering why some men cannot be nice to a woman they hope to meet. It is in their interest but they still cannot overcome their compulsion to be abusive! Don't they realise no one will see them after that?"

it works both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It always pays to be nice

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"I keep wondering why some men cannot be nice to a woman they hope to meet. It is in their interest but they still cannot overcome their compulsion to be abusive! Don't they realise no one will see them after that?

it works both ways "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gonna get idiots in all walks of life, be it on fab or the street . It's life, block and move on I say

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By *aturelover2016Man
over a year ago

London

Don't let the eegits get to you. You look mighty fine to me xx

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

It's a great filter! Sorts the good from the bad

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a great filter! Sorts the good from the bad"

Totally agree with this. I'd rather not meet abusive people, feel free to show yourselves for what you are before i bother fucking you, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Obviously they just get blocked and ignored. The question was not about who gets more abuse, men or women. It was about a man who STILL WANTS to meet saying things to the woman he STILL WANTS TO MEET that are sure to make her very unwilling to meet him. So why do they do it?

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"It's a great filter! Sorts the good from the bad

Totally agree with this. I'd rather not meet abusive people, feel free to show yourselves for what you are before i bother fucking you, thanks."

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By *ERGIE6Man
over a year ago

irvine

Sadly some users can't handle rejection so get abusive

For the best part most fabbers are nice but always the minority that ruin it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously they just get blocked and ignored. The question was not about who gets more abuse, men or women. It was about a man who STILL WANTS to meet saying things to the woman he STILL WANTS TO MEET that are sure to make her very unwilling to meet him. So why do they do it?"

Dunno, i just try and deal with weirdos and make my life better without them in it. I don't care to figure out why they're weird coz it'll be nothing i've done that makes them that way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Obviously they just get blocked and ignored. The question was not about who gets more abuse, men or women. It was about a man who STILL WANTS to meet saying things to the woman he STILL WANTS TO MEET that are sure to make her very unwilling to meet him. So why do they do it?

Dunno, i just try and deal with weirdos and make my life better without them in it. I don't care to figure out why they're weird coz it'll be nothing i've done that makes them that way."

I do the same thing but there seem to be too many of them. They dig themselves into a hole and then wonder why we don't help them out.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Sadly some users can't handle rejection so get abusive

For the best part most fabbers are nice but always the minority that ruin it"

I would say the minority are abusive but.they only ruin it for themselves, not others who remain their natural pleasant unabusive selves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously they just get blocked and ignored. The question was not about who gets more abuse, men or women. It was about a man who STILL WANTS to meet saying things to the woman he STILL WANTS TO MEET that are sure to make her very unwilling to meet him. So why do they do it?

Dunno, i just try and deal with weirdos and make my life better without them in it. I don't care to figure out why they're weird coz it'll be nothing i've done that makes them that way.

I do the same thing but there seem to be too many of them. They dig themselves into a hole and then wonder why we don't help them out."

I wait for the more socialised people to get in touch, wel i cba for that even so blocked all messages.

I've said it before but the internet makes it easy for the lazy, liars, abusive, and selfish to try and get what they want with very little effort. Heck, they can do it from the toilet while taking a dump even lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep wondering why some men cannot be nice to a woman they hope to meet. It is in their interest but they still cannot overcome their compulsion to be abusive! Don't they realise no one will see them after that?"
why would a guy be unnecessarily abusive ? Sorry not understanding what you mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I keep wondering why some men cannot be nice to a woman they hope to meet. It is in their interest but they still cannot overcome their compulsion to be abusive! Don't they realise no one will see them after that? why would a guy be unnecessarily abusive ? Sorry not understanding what you mean "

Hm... Say, you go to a club (send a message on Fab, etc.) and want to play with a woman. She says no, or maybe suggests you spend some time just chatting (meet for a coffee and chat, etc.). You respond to that that (only e.g.) because she is already in a club (on Fab / has met a lot of other men) she cannot afford to be picky.

Any similarities to real-life people are unintentional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must just be the types you are going for I can't see anything wrong with getting to know the person via chatting and coffee and really don't see why they would be abusive even under duress on here I've never been abusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously they just get blocked and ignored. The question was not about who gets more abuse, men or women. It was about a man who STILL WANTS to meet saying things to the woman he STILL WANTS TO MEET that are sure to make her very unwilling to meet him. So why do they do it?"

Maybe out of sexual frustration!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Must just be the types you are going for I can't see anything wrong with getting to know the person via chatting and coffee and really don't see why they would be abusive even under duress on here I've never been abusive "

How profound. Most "types" do not behave like this, this is exactly why it puzzles me.

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By *heclitmaster84Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"I keep wondering why some men cannot be nice to a woman they hope to meet. It is in their interest but they still cannot overcome their compulsion to be abusive! Don't they realise no one will see them after that?"
So true love

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