FabSwingers.com forum: What do men look for?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering what it is about a profile/picture that takes your fancy leading to you sending a message.

What kind of thing do you look for in women on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think they like boobs and bums hun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think they like boobs and bums hun x

Haha well that's true I'm sure, there's got to be more than that surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"Think they like boobs and bums hun x

Haha well that's true I'm sure, there's got to be more than that surely?

A sense of humour and a streak of playfulness and not a huge list of Dos and Don'ts rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet."

I'm real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet."

Your not wrong... Deleted... Deleted... Deleted... Gets tiresome

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.

I'm real

You certainly are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brains bum legs looks sence of humour is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet."

Exactly the same from our side ppl not reading profile then find out after chatting they're married or not what I'm looking for. Oh and I'm real single female lol xx

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.

Exactly the same from our side ppl not reading profile then find out after chatting they're married or not what I'm looking for. Oh and I'm real single female lol xx"

Glad to hear it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.

Exactly the same from our side ppl not reading profile then find out after chatting they're married or not what I'm looking for. Oh and I'm real single female lol xx"

Yes and thats often the case..the real ones are unavailable because they are miles away,working,washing their hair or for a plethora of other reasons..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup yup!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think they like boobs and bums hun x

oh and other things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think they like boobs and bums hun x

oh and other things

Lol most definitely I keep those pics friends only lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think they like boobs and bums hun x

oh and other things

Lol most definitely I keep those pics friends only lol xxx"

Oh you got one too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.

Exactly the same from our side ppl not reading profile then find out after chatting they're married or not what I'm looking for. Oh and I'm real single female lol xx

Glad to hear it

Thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering what it is about a profile/picture that takes your fancy leading to you sending a message.

What kind of thing do you look for in women on fab? "

Smile, or a pic where they are actually clothed, even if partially. Shows they are normal. Boob pics are really boring There 10 to the penny now. As are almost naked pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think they like boobs and bums hun x

oh and other things

Lol most definitely I keep those pics friends only lol xxx

Oh you got one too

Lol yep xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think they like boobs and bums hun x

oh and other things

Lol most definitely I keep those pics friends only lol xxx

Oh you got one too

Lol yep xx"

bet mines bigger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering what it is about a profile/picture that takes your fancy leading to you sending a message.

What kind of thing do you look for in women on fab? "

I can tell you that us men don't look or event care what you look like it what you write we send a blanket cut and paste to all women see if we get a reply and then decide if we want to meet them or want to take it further

No point wasting time sending messages to people that are not interested

It's numbers game as theoretically a group of 10 women has

3 on their period

3 are too busy and just looking at mails as waiting for bus

3 are having a bad day

Only one is actually looking at that moment so no point wasting time on the others

You look for new members , members online and then message them you send a load of messages on a Sunday evening as that's when most women have time to do stuff

There's going to be a few that make a success of Internet dating ( I can and do very very well when I use Pof) by using this technique

ONce we have your attention then we make the decision as to wether we are interested

This is why women suddenly get guys go quiet in them or stand them up .

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet."

Bitter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.

Bitter "

Haha,,oh so predictable,...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.

Bitter

Haha,,oh so predictable,..."

Bitter ex ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leg man myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering what it is about a profile/picture that takes your fancy leading to you sending a message.

What kind of thing do you look for in women on fab? "
cuddly toy every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stockinged legs and heels yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.

Bitter

Haha,,oh so predictable,...

Bitter ex ? "

Not even that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering what it is about a profile/picture that takes your fancy leading to you sending a message.

What kind of thing do you look for in women on fab?

No point wasting time sending messages to people that are not interested

It's numbers game as theoretically a group of 10 women has

3 on their period

3 are too busy and just looking at mails as waiting for bus

3 are having a bad day

Only one is actually looking at that moment so no point wasting time on the others

You look for new members , members online and then message them you send a load of messages on a Sunday evening as that's when most women have time to do stuff

There's going to be a few that make a success of Internet dating ( I can and do very very well when I use Pof) by using this technique

ONce we have your attention then we make the decision as to wether we are interested

This is why women suddenly get guys go quiet in them or stand them up .

Wow!!

Thanks for that!

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman
over a year ago

Bathwyche

"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet."

Tbh, i dont reply to any messages from guys with cock profile pics.

Why?

Hardly imaginative and suggests a level of smuttyness.

Personally, im discerning like that and perhaps thats what you are finding? Otherwise i try to respond to 80% of messages, and always if they are more than a one liner.....

Perhaps its about meeting a person as opposed to a cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything nicely proportioned, in and out in all the right places and nothing that looks like it is from a 70's German porn film, or worse.

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman
over a year ago

Bathwyche

"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.

Your not wrong... Deleted... Deleted... Deleted... Gets tiresome"

So wouldnt delete you....id query the non accom though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few pictures that give me a good idea of what kind of body..boobs...bum the lady owns. Then a quick scan of the profile to see it im what there looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.

Your not wrong... Deleted... Deleted... Deleted... Gets tiresome

So wouldnt delete you....id query the non accom though!"

Thank you Mrs Wallace... You can query no problem and if it was cool I would explain in a private setting

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Just wondering what it is about a profile/picture that takes your fancy leading to you sending a message.

What kind of thing do you look for in women on fab? "

If we're talking profiles, then I like to see something that suggests some humility and kindness. Anything that makes them sound selfish, arrogant or has that whiff of entitlement about it will just turn me off totally.

In photos, nice hips or a peachy bum. Long dark hair. Or the holy grail...a hairy pussy! That would get my attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A blonde with big boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics help, but its whats said in the profile which really counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its location first then tits as I love them then how I think we will get along by reading their profile.

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By *ustina1954TV/TS
over a year ago

cardiff

I think you're probably right Delia but most are just looking for a girl who will say YES !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks, distance, what and who they are looking for then the general feel of their profile

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By *hrobinhoodMan
over a year ago

arnold, Nottingham

"Just wondering what it is about a profile/picture that takes your fancy leading to you sending a message.

What kind of thing do you look for in women on fab? "

I love boobs and rear shots lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a bit of dust on my laptop, so look, appeared as fook!

I am looking for new glasses I think!

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering what it is about a profile/picture that takes your fancy leading to you sending a message.

What kind of thing do you look for in women on fab? "

I've just started a sister post to yours, OP - What do women look for? Hope you don't mind, imitation being the finest form of flattery, and all that....

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Anything that moves, irrespective of age, sex, location or timing.

When men want sex it's NOW.

(it's a bit tedious tbh)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just wondering what it is about a profile/picture that takes your fancy leading to you sending a message.

What kind of thing do you look for in women on fab?

I've just started a sister post to yours, OP - What do women look for? Hope you don't mind, imitation being the finest form of flattery, and all that...."

Don't mind at all

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do men look for?

Seems a pulse is enough here...

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

Generally erotic sexy pics rather than 'porno' pics get me hotter under the collar.

The profile can then add to the sex appeal, or remove it altogether!

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By *rchie300Man
over a year ago

Hamworthy

Apart from the obvious than its will to talk and meet single guys and more importantly the age preference .... Being over 40 in my case .... I like your pics and profile .... You should visit me x

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Think they like boobs and bums hun x

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haha that's a good start then the rest follows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do men look for?

Seems a pulse is enough here...

Sadly, many of the blokes on here seem to be 'pulse optional'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do men look for?

Seems a pulse is enough here...

Sadly, many of the blokes on here seem to be 'pulse optional'."

True...but that's because they're' brain optional' themselves.

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By *entle giraffeMan
over a year ago

Minehead

I always look to find a bit of the real person. Someone who is kind, thoughtful and a bit flirty. But then, the friendship comes first for me before the sex.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.

Bitter

Haha,,oh so predictable,..."

Course you are to make a statement of ... 'Most are fake'...

If your experiencing 'fake' females then try a different method of what your doing.

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By *herealdeal90Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

A beautiful face goes a long way

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

Pretty eyes, a nice figure, and a profile that demonstrates some intelligence/good attitude is what grabs my attention!

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Sorry thought this was a lost keys thread

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By *rKentMan
over a year ago

South East

Rarely message woman/couples but like playful looking woman. Not worried about close ups of genitalia. Always look for and read veri's.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

A good hamburger shot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men generally look for reply first off, at the end of the day all the bullshit women put up were all here to get laid just cut to the chase and get your knickers off

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

A pulse?

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.

Your not wrong... Deleted... Deleted... Deleted... Gets tiresome"

I'd disagree with the 'fakes' comment.

And if you're not what a person is looking for (assuming you have bothered to read their profile) they're probably well within their rights to just delete.

If you're confident you're what they're looking for maybe send a follow up a bit later down the line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every delete is 1 step closer to a reply

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Men generally look for reply first off, at the end of the day all the bullshit women put up were all here to get laid just cut to the chase and get your knickers off"

I don't understand what you are trying to say ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men generally look for reply first off, at the end of the day all the bullshit women put up were all here to get laid just cut to the chase and get your knickers off"

Not even a kiss 1st just knickers straight off

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"A pulse? "
nice pair of knockers, let's see the nipples too

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Men generally look for reply first off, at the end of the day all the bullshit women put up were all here to get laid just cut to the chase and get your knickers off

Not even a kiss 1st just knickers strøaight off

Do you think he is successful ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men generally look for reply first off, at the end of the day all the bullshit women put up were all here to get laid just cut to the chase and get your knickers off

Not even a kiss 1st just knickers strøaight off

Do you think he is successful ?"

Just a guess...but i bet hes right hand as blisters

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Men generally look for reply first off, at the end of the day all the bullshit women put up were all here to get laid just cut to the chase and get your knickers off

Not even a kiss 1st just knickers strøaight off

Do you think he is successful ?

Just a guess...but i bet hes right hand as blisters

Yes...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men generally look for reply first off, at the end of the day all the bullshit women put up were all here to get laid just cut to the chase and get your knickers off

Not even a kiss 1st just knickers strøaight off

Do you think he is successful ?

Just a guess...but i bet hes right hand as blisters

Yes...lol"

I use lube avoids chafing ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway you asked what most men look.for not what I look for

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By *heclitmaster84Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

A nice smile followed by a fantastic bottom

and come to bed eyes lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A nice smile followed by a fantastic bottom

and come to bed eyes lol xx"

Amen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like many others a nice photo attracts attention. Not necessarily a graphic one, I tend to like those that leave a little to the imagination.

Also something said in a status or on the forums may lead me to look at a profile. More often than not I don't match their criteria but if I do I may message.

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman
over a year ago

Bathwyche

"Pretty eyes, a nice figure, and a profile that demonstrates some intelligence/good attitude is what grabs my attention! "

Wowzers....everything then!

Don't we all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont really bother messaging females now as most are fake or dont reply. I get the occasional fem messaging me which is fine and that sometimes works up to a meet.

Your not wrong... Deleted... Deleted... Deleted... Gets tiresome

So wouldnt delete you....id query the non accom though!"

I didnt realise there was a virtual branch of the marriage guidance counsel on here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pulse?

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