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By *ugatits76 OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow

Can someone help me out please im curious to know when you arrange a meet with someone you've never met before are you comfortable in dressing up? I understand in the club environment it's the norm but if it was at either ones home are you confident to answer the door in say a basque and stockings?women seem to get these requests from men and speaking for myself I don't feel comfortable at all, don't get me wrong I will in the bedroom or if I have met someone a few times but I'm too self concious on a first meet is it just me???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone help me out please im curious to know when you arrange a meet with someone you've never met before are you comfortable in dressing up? I understand in the club environment it's the norm but if it was at either ones home are you confident to answer the door in say a basque and stockings?women seem to get these requests from men and speaking for myself I don't feel comfortable at all, don't get me wrong I will in the bedroom or if I have met someone a few times but I'm too self concious on a first meet is it just me??? "

I've never tried dressing up for a meet. Not many women want a guy to dress like that. I'll be honest I don't think I'd be overly comfortable doing it either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a funny one this. If meeting with my hubby he'll answer the door where I'm waiting in lingerie lol That's IF it's a fun meet. I've met guts at theirs where I've gone dressed normal but had lingerie under my clothes (jeans+top/blouse +jacket etc and I've gone normal but took a bag with my Lingerie in to get dressed later on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet people in jeans t shirts and hoodies generally. I don't enjoy dressing up, so any requests get ignored.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Even in a club I wont dress up. I don't in real life, its not me and I dont do things to please others but for myself.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I meet people in jeans t shirts and hoodies generally. I don't enjoy dressing up, so any requests get ignored."

This. Jeans and nice top for first time meets. Any requests usually put me right off the guy (unless he likes me in jeans and a nice top of course!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wear soemthing that i feel makes me looks sexy - more often this is just something im comfy in as then im relaxed - i get naked to play so easy off things are how i roll

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Can someone help me out please im curious to know when you arrange a meet with someone you've never met before are you comfortable in dressing up? I understand in the club environment it's the norm but if it was at either ones home are you confident to answer the door in say a basque and stockings?women seem to get these requests from men and speaking for myself I don't feel comfortable at all, don't get me wrong I will in the bedroom or if I have met someone a few times but I'm too self concious on a first meet is it just me??? "

It's perfectly understandable, as you don't know the person and wouldn't be so at ease. If you're meeting someone in a public place (non swing club) I presume you'd dress to impress, as first impression counts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think provided it's obvious that an effort has been made that should be all that counts, in other words you've had a shower, done your hair put some makeup on and smell nice that should be all, sexy lingerie is a bonus though and I do enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i wear soemthing that i feel makes me looks sexy - more often this is just something im comfy in as then im relaxed - i get naked to play so easy off things are how i roll "

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By *ugatits76 OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow


"Can someone help me out please im curious to know when you arrange a meet with someone you've never met before are you comfortable in dressing up? I understand in the club environment it's the norm but if it was at either ones home are you confident to answer the door in say a basque and stockings?women seem to get these requests from men and speaking for myself I don't feel comfortable at all, don't get me wrong I will in the bedroom or if I have met someone a few times but I'm too self concious on a first meet is it just me???

I've never tried dressing up for a meet. Not many women want a guy to dress like that. I'll be honest I don't think I'd be overly comfortable doing it either "

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By *CCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Staines

Just dress in what you're comfortable wearing, even it's a t-shirt and jeans. If it's a first meet, It'll make you more relaxed and make the whole thing more enjoyable. On 2nd or 3rd meets, then maybe look at being a bit bolder? If someone insists you wear something that you're not happy with, tell them to take a running jump!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone help me out please im curious to know when you arrange a meet with someone you've never met before are you comfortable in dressing up? I understand in the club environment it's the norm but if it was at either ones home are you confident to answer the door in say a basque and stockings?women seem to get these requests from men and speaking for myself I don't feel comfortable at all, don't get me wrong I will in the bedroom or if I have met someone a few times but I'm too self concious on a first meet is it just me??? "
you having a first meet in your home ? The guys asking you to dress sexy and you've not met him , I don't think it is the way to go but your choice

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By *ugatits76 OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow

Hygiene goes without saying. My point is the men requesting you to turn up/answer the door in short skirts stockings and very little on top. Me personally I will have the sexy underwear on under jeans or trousers and a nice top for the initial hi getting to know you stage then if things progress off with the jeans and top in the bedroom or wherever it maybe

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Can someone help me out please im curious to know when you arrange a meet with someone you've never met before are you comfortable in dressing up? I understand in the club environment it's the norm but if it was at either ones home are you confident to answer the door in say a basque and stockings?women seem to get these requests from men and speaking for myself I don't feel comfortable at all, don't get me wrong I will in the bedroom or if I have met someone a few times but I'm too self concious on a first meet is it just me???

you having a first meet in your home ? The guys asking you to dress sexy and you've not met him , I don't think it is the way to go but your choice"

I don't see where she's said that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone help me out please im curious to know when you arrange a meet with someone you've never met before are you comfortable in dressing up? I understand in the club environment it's the norm but if it was at either ones home are you confident to answer the door in say a basque and stockings?women seem to get these requests from men and speaking for myself I don't feel comfortable at all, don't get me wrong I will in the bedroom or if I have met someone a few times but I'm too self concious on a first meet is it just me??? "

It's your body do what you like with it . If a guy won't meet you because you won't wear what he says then he is not worth meeting and will probably end up a weirdo stalker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I opened the door to Adam in a pvc dress and not much else. He's been hanging around ever since.

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By *CCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Staines

My point is the men requesting you to turn up/answer the door in short skirts stockings and very little on top.

Unless you're an escort or a prostitute getting well paid to do as they ask............ I'd stick you what you are comfy with.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It really annoys me when I've arranged either a social or a play meet and the guy asks me what I'll be wearing!!!!

OP wear what the heck you like

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By *agmanMan
over a year ago

Cockermouth

First meets..........hmmmm.

I would think it depends really what you yourself expect from the meet.

If i'm going along to a previously agreed social meet up - for the purposes of finding out who each other are and there has been an agreement that no play will be on the menu - before making a next step into arranging a play meet for instance - I would still be showered, shaved, smell nice and dress smart but probably casual.

I wouldn't normally wear a suit on a night out these days - and similarly only occasionally would I wear a tie.

If the intention was to make small talk before entering into a play meet within the half hour of meeting.....I'd still be showered, shaved, smell nice and be dressed smart - even though I was probably gonna be naked soon.

Ladies...are different though aren't they.

lol.......if I was to turn up in my jeans and T-shirt and take them off to reveal a silk or crushed velvet red thong..........you'd probably laff like a drain and tell me to get the fuck out........but you (the lady) wearing one under your jeans and T-shirt....that's different - and at the same time........I would only expect you to wear anything.........if it's what you wanted to wear.

If we're all gonna be naked shortly anyway......it's only a teaser for the eyes for a short time.

if you're uncomfortable.........it'll spoil everybody's night.

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By *ugatits76 OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow


"Can someone help me out please im curious to know when you arrange a meet with someone you've never met before are you comfortable in dressing up? I understand in the club environment it's the norm but if it was at either ones home are you confident to answer the door in say a basque and stockings?women seem to get these requests from men and speaking for myself I don't feel comfortable at all, don't get me wrong I will in the bedroom or if I have met someone a few times but I'm too self concious on a first meet is it just me???

you having a first meet in your home ? The guys asking you to dress sexy and you've not met him , I don't think it is the way to go but your choice

I don't see where she's said that."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dress how I would if i was goin on a night out if its at night or jeans and a top if its daytime.. i dress for my comfort, absolutely hate when a guy says to me oh i hope you gonna wear sussie and stocking and lovely high heels, i usually reply with youl be lucky if i have matching bra and knickers dont like it move on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love wearing nice lingerie, stockings and heels. Makes me feel sexy and I like that, so even for a social meet I would be wearing either a dress or skirt & blouse with matching lingerie etc below.

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By *ugatits76 OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow

I'm not implying I'm going to do it. Yes men have asked me in the past and I've point blank refused and my exact words were I'm not a free prostitute if that's what looking for!! I am a very strong minded person meets work both ways. My question was out of curiosity to see if anyone else felt uncomfortable like me or was i the only one who denies these poor men (who would probably turn up themselves in jeans/tracksuits) their fantasies

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By *ugatits76 OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow


"It really annoys me when I've arranged either a social or a play meet and the guy asks me what I'll be wearing!!!!

OP wear what the heck you like "

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Hygiene goes without saying. My point is the men requesting you to turn up/answer the door in short skirts stockings and very little on top. Me personally I will have the sexy underwear on under jeans or trousers and a nice top for the initial hi getting to know you stage then if things progress off with the jeans and top in the bedroom or wherever it maybe "

I don't wear anything to sexy on the outside incase I don't find the person attractive to me when we meet,but on the inside I do

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton


"Can someone help me out please im curious to know when you arrange a meet with someone you've never met before are you comfortable in dressing up? I understand in the club environment it's the norm but if it was at either ones home are you confident to answer the door in say a basque and stockings?women seem to get these requests from men and speaking for myself I don't feel comfortable at all, don't get me wrong I will in the bedroom or if I have met someone a few times but I'm too self concious on a first meet is it just me??? "
I feel self conscious about dressing up so John never pushes me he just tells me wear what you feel comfortable in you can still dress to impress without being to slutty as the slut comes out if I decide to play Jill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not implying I'm going to do it. Yes men have asked me in the past and I've point blank refused and my exact words were I'm not a free prostitute if that's what looking for!! I am a very strong minded person meets work both ways. My question was out of curiosity to see if anyone else felt uncomfortable like me or was i the only one who denies these poor men (who would probably turn up themselves in jeans/tracksuits) their fantasies "

This is the Man half saying I would rather not say anything and wait and see what you wear

If I turned up in a shirt etc looking good and yo looked like a scouser from the 80's I would probably laugh uncontrollably and not be able to get a stiffy

I would walk away if you were dirty and unwashed

Other than that I wouldn't dress a certain way for someone . And find it creepy if women ask thing like can you wear a basque or stockings etc

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By *ugatits76 OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow


"I opened the door to Adam in a pvc dress and not much else. He's been hanging around ever since. "

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By *hrobinhoodMan
over a year ago

arnold, Nottingham


"Can someone help me out please im curious to know when you arrange a meet with someone you've never met before are you comfortable in dressing up? I understand in the club environment it's the norm but if it was at either ones home are you confident to answer the door in say a basque and stockings?women seem to get these requests from men and speaking for myself I don't feel comfortable at all, don't get me wrong I will in the bedroom or if I have met someone a few times but I'm too self concious on a first meet is it just me??? "

Just wear what you are comfortable with x your pics look great

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By *ugatits76 OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow


"Can someone help me out please im curious to know when you arrange a meet with someone you've never met before are you comfortable in dressing up? I understand in the club environment it's the norm but if it was at either ones home are you confident to answer the door in say a basque and stockings?women seem to get these requests from men and speaking for myself I don't feel comfortable at all, don't get me wrong I will in the bedroom or if I have met someone a few times but I'm too self concious on a first meet is it just me???

Just wear what you are comfortable with x your pics look great"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met in a hotel before dressed as requested. Positioned as requested too. He came in without speaking. It was actually very erotic.

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By *ugatits76 OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow


"It really annoys me when I've arranged either a social or a play meet and the guy asks me what I'll be wearing!!!!

OP wear what the heck you like "

Yeah this is exactly what I'm talking about it really grinds my gears. I'm all excited for the anticipation of the meet then they drop the what you gonna wear for me hope it's something sexy!! Grrr moment ruined and it makes me feel self concious and was just wondering if other women felt the same way but glad I'm not the only one

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By *ugatits76 OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow


"I have met in a hotel before dressed as requested. Positioned as requested too. He came in without speaking. It was actually very erotic. "

Oooh it sounds it

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I think all my bitches should dress up for a meet and impress

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By *ugatits76 OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow


"I think all my bitches should dress up for a meet and impress "

cheeky

And what will you be wearing to impress your bitches?

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"I think all my bitches should dress up for a meet and impress

cheeky

And what will you be wearing to impress your bitches? "
meet me and find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet people in jeans t shirts and hoodies generally. I don't enjoy dressing up, so any requests get ignored."

This from me pretty much too.

I wore a proper shirt and all that on my first meet here and within about ten mins she just came out with 'you don't normally wear shirts do you..'

She clocked how uncomfortable I was in all that shit so never again.

Jeans..my beloved old magnum boots..hoodie or t shirt normally. If I'm feeling very snazzy I have a casual short sleeve shirt type thing that if you squint might look like a proper shirt but that's rare to come out and you can fuck off if you think I'm ironing all my shit any more....

not because I'm lazy though but because I'm too tight...I took my iron on a meet and forgot it in the hotel and im not buying another

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By *ugatits76 OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow


"I think all my bitches should dress up for a meet and impress

cheeky

And what will you be wearing to impress your bitches? meet me and find out "

I ain't never been or ever will be someone's biatch thank you

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"I think all my bitches should dress up for a meet and impress

cheeky

And what will you be wearing to impress your bitches? meet me and find out

I ain't never been or ever will be someone's biatch thank you "
never been somones biatch? Don't know what your missing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think all my bitches should dress up for a meet and impress

cheeky

And what will you be wearing to impress your bitches? meet me and find out

I ain't never been or ever will be someone's biatch thank you never been somones biatch? Don't know what your missing "

Then enlighten us and tell us of your experiences of being a bitch?

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"I think all my bitches should dress up for a meet and impress

cheeky

And what will you be wearing to impress your bitches? meet me and find out

I ain't never been or ever will be someone's biatch thank you never been somones biatch? Don't know what your missing

Then enlighten us and tell us of your experiences of being a bitch?

"
I'm never the bitch mate !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think all my bitches should dress up for a meet and impress

cheeky

And what will you be wearing to impress your bitches? meet me and find out

I ain't never been or ever will be someone's biatch thank you never been somones biatch? Don't know what your missing

Then enlighten us and tell us of your experiences of being a bitch?

I'm never the bitch mate !"

Oh...you seemed to know what people were missing was all

My bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone help me out please im curious to know when you arrange a meet with someone you've never met before are you comfortable in dressing up? I understand in the club environment it's the norm but if it was at either ones home are you confident to answer the door in say a basque and stockings?women seem to get these requests from men and speaking for myself I don't feel comfortable at all, don't get me wrong I will in the bedroom or if I have met someone a few times but I'm too self concious on a first meet is it just me???

It's your body do what you like with it . If a guy won't meet you because you won't wear what he says then he is not worth meeting and will probably end up a weirdo stalker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really annoys me when I've arranged either a social or a play meet and the guy asks me what I'll be wearing!!!!

OP wear what the heck you like

Yeah this is exactly what I'm talking about it really grinds my gears. I'm all excited for the anticipation of the meet then they drop the what you gonna wear for me hope it's something sexy!! Grrr moment ruined and it makes me feel self concious and was just wondering if other women felt the same way but glad I'm not the only one "

I hate it when they say that and it's only a social. If I like them I might just ignore it and meet anyway. Usually I just cancel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever meet someone in a bar or coffee shop as I prefer this. So I dress smart but casual. Casual jacket , shirt , chinos. If we get on and the chemistry is there then I'm quite happy too remove them later

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

If it's after work it is normally troucers, shirt and jumper

If it is a social but looking to play then jeans and shirt or jeans, shirt and jacket

If it is coffee and going to football then football top

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I love wearing nice lingerie, stockings and heels. Makes me feel sexy and I like that, so even for a social meet I would be wearing either a dress or skirt & blouse with matching lingerie etc below.

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

I feel at my best when I'm dressed up so yes, I make an effort with everything.

Mostly for me but also a tiny part of me does love to dress to please too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happy if the woman's happy, end of really. If they asked what they want to wear or what I'd like them to wear etc, I'd suggest they wear something they feel comfortable or sexy in, purely depends on location, chemistry, etc. I don't meet really so I shouldn't contribute but wanted to join in, as I think some overthink it. Just be yourself and feel happy and comfortable with what you've got

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel at my best when I'm dressed up so yes, I make an effort with everything.

Mostly for me but also a tiny part of me does love to dress to please too. "

V here.

I absolutely dress to please and I'm not ashamed to admit it

Nothing I love more than the look on A's face when he comes in and I'm dressed in something slutty looking hot. Feels amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't feel comfortable doing that unless I actually got to know the person/people really well beforehand.

We have some swinger friends on here that i'd be cool with doing that but most other people no. I will make sure i'm wearing matching undies and that's as far as i go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone help me out please im curious to know when you arrange a meet with someone you've never met before are you comfortable in dressing up? I understand in the club environment it's the norm but if it was at either ones home are you confident to answer the door in say a basque and stockings?women seem to get these requests from men and speaking for myself I don't feel comfortable at all, don't get me wrong I will in the bedroom or if I have met someone a few times but I'm too self concious on a first meet is it just me??? "

I wouldn't do a first time meet at someone's house as a single person so I guess that answers that question, but if I did I wouldn't go underwear first.. I would be happy to if I had met them before and was inviting them over to mine for a play meet but not right out the gates, I like to get to know someone first, what if I don't like then, what if they turn up and look nothing like they looked online etc.

Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly ever dress up now. I found the men who asked me to dress up were turned on by the clothing and not me. This made the sex boring and predictable. I do it occasionally when I feel like it,but it all ends up coming off quickly anyway

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

Wear wat you comfortable in hun as I use to get request dress sexy to answer dr but usually be my dressing robe sexy underwear or mainly day to day clothes if didn't like knew where the dr was dress as u want it's your body hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You dressed exquisite for me xx . Never be nervous of how you look you are pure stunning xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would much prefer a woman to dress in normal day clothes, jeans and tshirt or whatevery for a first meet. Being in dressed in lingerie or some form of uniform would put me off unless i knew them after a few meets

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By *ugatits76 OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow

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By *ithardscotMan
over a year ago

Kelty

If I were asked to dress in a certain way, I would certainly try to oblige. It would make the anticipation more exciting!

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By *ugatits76 OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow


"You dressed exquisite for me xx . Never be nervous of how you look you are pure stunning xx"

Oh hello haha, that's because I had met you previously and I was comfortable with you. Now that was a full on kinky dressed up night x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think provided it's obvious that an effort has been made that should be all that counts, in other words you've had a shower, done your hair put some makeup on and smell nice that should be all, sexy lingerie is a bonus though and I do enjoy it."

If someone doesn't like makeup, doesn't have hair that needs styling, and doesn't enjoy wearing 'sexy' lingerie, would you still think they'd not made an effort?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think provided it's obvious that an effort has been made that should be all that counts, in other words you've had a shower, done your hair put some makeup on and smell nice that should be all, sexy lingerie is a bonus though and I do enjoy it.

If someone doesn't like makeup, doesn't have hair that needs styling, and doesn't enjoy wearing 'sexy' lingerie, would you still think they'd not made an effort?"

I don't do any of the above and I make all the right efforts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think provided it's obvious that an effort has been made that should be all that counts, in other words you've had a shower, done your hair put some makeup on and smell nice that should be all, sexy lingerie is a bonus though and I do enjoy it.

If someone doesn't like makeup, doesn't have hair that needs styling, and doesn't enjoy wearing 'sexy' lingerie, would you still think they'd not made an effort?

I don't do any of the above and I make all the right efforts "

You should try putting some make up on, so that it looks like you've made a proper effort. :D

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By *aycee70Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Yes dress as requested, nice all in one yesterday covered by coat and skirt. Last week just the coat, have to say though we are pretty confident due to our prior conversations that fun will be had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually meet from work so I'm in office attire, otherwise it depends on where, when & who I'm meeting. I've met for socials in anything from Pilates gear to jeans & a top.

Unless it's part of a role play that's been decided between us already, I wear what I want too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually meet from work so I'm in office attire, otherwise it depends on where, when & who I'm meeting. I've met for socials in anything from Pilates gear to jeans & a top.

Unless it's part of a role play that's been decided between us already, I wear what I want too."
for me you could wear a crossing ladies coat and hat and I would still find you sexy but I digress

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