FabSwingers.com forum: Proper use of site.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I see many complaints, mainly directed toward single guys, about obnoxious and nasty comments when people refuse to meet them.

This is one of the reasons why most other guys on here get a bad image.

I just wish those idiots and people in general would use the site properly eg.

Only contact others who are looking for your people of your gender.

If replying to a refusal to meet, be polite and thank them for responding.

After being turned down, don't keep on pestering the other person.

Doubtless there are many other things I could list here.

Get it together guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most other guys don't mess things up for you.

No reply = not interested. People interested will reply.

The decent guys, with something to offer, stand out as decent because they're so rare.

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By *elle2016Woman
over a year ago

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"Most other guys don't mess things up for you.

No reply = not interested. People interested will reply.

The decent guys, with something to offer, stand out as decent because they're so rare.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But you see what I'm saying though.

For example, if you constantly had messages from guys asking to meet and you said no, then they verbally abused you in return, you would be less likely to even so much as reply to me, even though I'm nice guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've got 400 unread messages, some from friends as well.

i don't reply to everyone, can you understand why not?

and yes i have had my filters on all weekend and have blocked all guys from messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But you see what I'm saying though.

Some things do make me not want to reply actually, forgot i made this topic a while back. (on my old account).

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/366275

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

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"I see many complaints, mainly directed toward single guys, about obnoxious and nasty comments when people refuse to meet them.

This is one of the reasons why most other guys on here get a bad image.

I just wish those idiots and people in general would use the site properly eg.

Only contact others who are looking for your people of your gender.

If replying to a refusal to meet, be polite and thank them for responding.

After being turned down, don't keep on pestering the other person.

Doubtless there are many other things I could list here.

Get it together guys!"
. I don't think that any member need worry about how others use the site or who !ay or may not send obnoxious messages .

On fab you just need to market yourself with a detailed well written profile and good pictures . There is no need to worry about how other members use the site

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