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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

There is a lady on here, whom I met in real life. I discovered her on fab and broached the topic. She gave me the " and so what?" speech. Then followed an awkward stretch of weeks and then we were at it again like rabbits .

Now, she keeps bombarding me with what she sees on my profile ie updates, meet adverts, veris and even what I say in the forum. In the mean time, we are still getting it on.

I don't know what to make of it. I am genuinely confused. Her profile has changed over time from "no black guys" to wanting "only one guy who does not sleep around".

Obviously she can't be wanting only me if she is on here..... or am I missing the point?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Have you asked her directly?

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Have you asked her directly?"

To swing with me or what? Can you come again please?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Broached what topic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd block her...

it shouldn't make any difference if you are 'at it like rabbits' anyway but will stop her questioning everything you do

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"I'd block her...

it shouldn't make any difference if you are 'at it like rabbits' anyway but will stop her questioning everything you do "

I did that ages ago but she says a friend keeps her updated. The funny bit is this friend is A COP in the real world; I kid u not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to her about it, you're both adults doing adult things.

If she hasn't been direct with you about it i'd guess she isn't specifically meaning you on her profile as that one guy, especially as you are meeting other people.

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Broached what topic? "

As in hi x, this is me. I didn't know you were into this. I love it, blah blah blah.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Broached what topic?

As in hi x, this is me. I didn't know you were into this. I love it, blah blah blah.

"

Oh right. Just block and forget. You don't need the hassle.....do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd block her...

it shouldn't make any difference if you are 'at it like rabbits' anyway but will stop her questioning everything you do

I did that ages ago but she says a friend keeps her updated. The funny bit is this friend is A COP in the real world; I kid u not!"

try hiding your profile then...if you take away the ammo she will have nothing to report and will eventually lose interest

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Talk to her about it, you're both adults doing adult things.

If she hasn't been direct with you about it i'd guess she isn't specifically meaning you on her profile as that one guy, especially as you are meeting other people.

"

Interesting! She reckons I don't see her to be good enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you asked her directly?"

Apparently he just did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd block her...

it shouldn't make any difference if you are 'at it like rabbits' anyway but will stop her questioning everything you do

I did that ages ago but she says a friend keeps her updated. The funny bit is this friend is A COP in the real world; I kid u not!"

try blocking the friend as well

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Have you asked her directly?

To swing with me or what? Can you come again please?"

Ask her all the questions you've asked in your OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does she want a relationship or just jealous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talk to her about it, you're both adults doing adult things.

If she hasn't been direct with you about it i'd guess she isn't specifically meaning you on her profile as that one guy, especially as you are meeting other people.

Interesting! She reckons I don't see her to be good enough. "

Because you're seeing other people?

If she has issues and you wanna keep it NSA and not get involved in that then you might need to stop seeing her.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Sounds like she's looking for a boyfriend to me

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