FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Bean Crushers...

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Over a few meets I have noticed more and more that some guys are more violent towards my bean than is necessary... why do some guys feel the need to do this?

We usually pick experienced guys and assume that they know how to treat a lady's bean... lol

I now feel like I have to let new peeps know that I don't like having my bean crushed... I have even thought about putting this on our profile... Bean crushers not welcome... pmsl

Can you imagine the uproar if I grabbed hold of some guys nuts and and squeezed the life out of them...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't apply to me..never been able to find one

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Some guys simply have no idea! I think they watch too much porn and think it's real. One idiot a few years ago actually made me bleed by biting mine, never again! I just ask them to stop if they're too rough down there, Z

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some guys simply have no idea! I think they watch too much porn and think it's real. One idiot a few years ago actually made me bleed by biting mine, never again! I just ask them to stop if they're too rough down there, Z"

Omg that is bad... yeh same here - I also ask hubby to "have a go" he then knows that they are getting to excited with my bean... lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know exactly what you mean and have experienced this, i always instinctively move away and clasp my legs tighter and Chris knows the signs and tells them to go gently. I cannot stand rough sex

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WTF is a bean?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Another word for the clitoris

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never personally had this.. but do like it played with in a variety of manners..

Actually not many men seem to go for their, unless with oral.

Katie.x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you were unfortunate and have only met guys that previously worked in a coffee plantation

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another word for the clitoris"

wtf is a clitoris

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Another word for the clitoris

wtf is a clitoris "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe you were unfortunate and have only met guys that previously worked in a coffee plantation "

Lmao next time I will ask what they do for a living before we meet up with them...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Another word for the clitoris

wtf is a clitoris "

Hmmm wonder if your a prime candidate for bean crushing... pmsl

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another word for the clitoris

wtf is a clitoris

Hmmm wonder if your a prime candidate for bean crushing... pmsl "

nah.i have the touch of a pianist....

i said pianist

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Another word for the clitoris

wtf is a clitoris

Hmmm wonder if your a prime candidate for bean crushing... pmsl

nah.i have the touch of a pianist....

i said pianist"

lol mmm

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 13/02/11 16:43:06]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should've known this would'nt be about coffee !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you were unfortunate and have only met guys that previously worked in a coffee plantation

Lmao next time I will ask what they do for a living before we meet up with them... "

And keep your fingers crossed that they ain't mortuary technicians pmsfl

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *dultfunscotland2000Man
over a year ago

Scotland and beyond


"

Lmao next time I will ask what they do for a living before we meet up with them... "

I'm a bean taster a skill that involves the tip of the tongue.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Lmao next time I will ask what they do for a living before we meet up with them...

I'm a bean taster a skill that involves the tip of the tongue."

lol mmm a love oral and never have a prob it is when they go hell for leather on it with their hand/fingers hurts like hell...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe you were unfortunate and have only met guys that previously worked in a coffee plantation

Lmao next time I will ask what they do for a living before we meet up with them...

And keep your fingers crossed that they ain't mortuary technicians pmsfl "

Omg don't even go there... pmsl

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

[Removed by poster at 13/02/11 17:01:57]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley


"Over a few meets I have noticed more and more that some guys are more violent towards my bean than is necessary... why do some guys feel the need to do this?

We usually pick experienced guys and assume that they know how to treat a lady's bean... lol

I now feel like I have to let new peeps know that I don't like having my bean crushed... I have even thought about putting this on our profile... Bean crushers not welcome... pmsl

Can you imagine the uproar if I grabbed hold of some guys nuts and and squeezed the life out of them... "

This is the reason why we specifically mention this on our profile.We have met couples in the past where both the guy and he lady use their hands/fingers very firmly...its ok when we tell them that we prefer slow,relaxed,gentle sex.Sure a little firmness in the right place at the right time is great but "crushing the bean" just turns us both off!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Over a few meets I have noticed more and more that some guys are more violent towards my bean than is necessary... why do some guys feel the need to do this?

We usually pick experienced guys and assume that they know how to treat a lady's bean... lol

I now feel like I have to let new peeps know that I don't like having my bean crushed... I have even thought about putting this on our profile... Bean crushers not welcome... pmsl

Can you imagine the uproar if I grabbed hold of some guys nuts and and squeezed the life out of them...

This is the reason why we specifically mention this on our profile.We have met couples in the past where both the guy and he lady use their hands/fingers very firmly...its ok when we tell them that we prefer slow,relaxed,gentle sex.Sure a little firmness in the right place at the right time is great but "crushing the bean" just turns us both off!!"

Lmao sounds like u no exactly what am talking about - just read ur profile... hmmm does it work???

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have told peeps to stop what they were doing if they were hurting me.

Don't care if they did not like it. If I was not enjoying myself, why should they?!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley


"Over a few meets I have noticed more and more that some guys are more violent towards my bean than is necessary... why do some guys feel the need to do this?

We usually pick experienced guys and assume that they know how to treat a lady's bean... lol

I now feel like I have to let new peeps know that I don't like having my bean crushed... I have even thought about putting this on our profile... Bean crushers not welcome... pmsl

Can you imagine the uproar if I grabbed hold of some guys nuts and and squeezed the life out of them...

This is the reason why we specifically mention this on our profile.We have met couples in the past where both the guy and he lady use their hands/fingers very firmly...its ok when we tell them that we prefer slow,relaxed,gentle sex.Sure a little firmness in the right place at the right time is great but "crushing the bean" just turns us both off!!

Lmao sounds like u no exactly what am talking about - just read ur profile... hmmm does it work??? "

Yes,it does work.....just need to let each other what you like and what you dont....always open to new things and experiment..but gentle,slow,erotic!

Noticed on ur profile that you do say "love it rough" ....maybe it gives the wrong idea when you also say "submissive" in that you may mean ou prefer the guy to take the lead and be firm but not rough?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eppersCouple
over a year ago

telford

Very true pearl, we had a play on monday daytime and kaz's nipples have only just stopped hurting, why do guys feel the need to try and suck her tits off.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 13/02/11 18:34:41]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley


"Very true pearl, we had a play on monday daytime and kaz's nipples have only just stopped hurting, why do guys feel the need to try and suck her tits off."

We think its becuse they think more is better..when in fact its down to understanding ,listening to the lady and technique

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very true pearl, we had a play on monday daytime and kaz's nipples have only just stopped hurting, why do guys feel the need to try and suck her tits off."

.

Mine are very sensitive, and peeps do not believe me when I tell them how sensitive they can be.

They would soon find out as I have been known to push peeps away if they are too rough with them!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Over a few meets I have noticed more and more that some guys are more violent towards my bean than is necessary... why do some guys feel the need to do this?

We usually pick experienced guys and assume that they know how to treat a lady's bean... lol

I now feel like I have to let new peeps know that I don't like having my bean crushed... I have even thought about putting this on our profile... Bean crushers not welcome... pmsl

Can you imagine the uproar if I grabbed hold of some guys nuts and and squeezed the life out of them...

This is the reason why we specifically mention this on our profile.We have met couples in the past where both the guy and he lady use their hands/fingers very firmly...its ok when we tell them that we prefer slow,relaxed,gentle sex.Sure a little firmness in the right place at the right time is great but "crushing the bean" just turns us both off!!

Lmao sounds like u no exactly what am talking about - just read ur profile... hmmm does it work???

Yes,it does work.....just need to let each other what you like and what you dont....always open to new things and experiment..but gentle,slow,erotic!

Noticed on ur profile that you do say "love it rough" ....maybe it gives the wrong idea when you also say "submissive" in that you may mean ou prefer the guy to take the lead and be firm but not rough?"

Yeh think u might be right... will think about how to re-phrase it... I did mean love rough sex but not rough bean play... lol thanks for the suggestion!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top