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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok guys... So I've given a fair few blow jobs and try to please a variety of tastes (pardon the pun). I know every man is different but what makes a good BJ for you?

Tip play? Taking it so deep you gag? Sucking balls? Wet and sloppy? Slow and sensual?

Throw a girl a bone! (See what I did there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you don't bite through the head, you're golden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO TEETH for starters

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Ok guys... So I've given a fair few blow jobs and try to please a variety of tastes (pardon the pun). I know every man is different but what makes a good BJ for you?

Tip play? Taking it so deep you gag? Sucking balls? Wet and sloppy? Slow and sensual?

Throw a girl a bone! (See what I did there? "
deep throat for us, very intimate and kissing in between is special

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I would guess that there are as many preferences with how us blokes like blowjobs as women like their oral .. Just go easy with your teeth lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm patient.. I'll let you practice on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1: The gagging thing is mental. The sight and sound and situation is a turn on. But the sensation comes from the head (tongue, teeth, lips and your hand)

2: lots of lube (saliva, a drink or something else)

3: lots of hand action - wank him as much as, or more than you're using your mouth.

4: don't try and make him cum. Just enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as you don't bite through the head, you're golden."

Oops.

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By *ssexcokMan
over a year ago

southend

No teeth on head and dont try to pull it off with your hand firm but not to tight

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I'll second the teeth bit a definite passion killer!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As long as you don't bite through the head, you're golden.

Oops. "

Haha!! So remove my dentures? Check!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have mostly been given normal bj's, and had it slurped on with saliva coming up, now my ideal bj is how the pro's does it, extreme face fucking where all her make up runs down as the eyes are watering as she takes the whole shaft in and as she comes up she vomits on the cock. It sure would be a messy one mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much hand stroking for me, but up and down with your mouth, and rub my balls please

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I have mostly been given normal bj's, and had it slurped on with saliva coming up, now my ideal bj is how the pro's does it, extreme face fucking where all her make up runs down as the eyes are watering as she takes the whole shaft in and as she comes up she vomits on the cock. It sure would be a messy one mmmmm "
we sometimes go for this scenario and it's beautiful actually!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm reading this thread with interest, always good to hear what guys like

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Plenty of lips, tongues and EYE CONTACT

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

I like a sloppy deepthroat blow... A bit of biting.. A bit o slaping.. Wet and deep... I like a wild woman...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A great bj is knowing the lady is enjoying doing it. Men can tell if a lady is going through the motions and just doing it because she thinks it's expected on a meet. I would rather not have one then feel like that xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So actual vomit??

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Ok guys... So I've given a fair few blow jobs and try to please a variety of tastes (pardon the pun). I know every man is different but what makes a good BJ for you?

Tip play? Taking it so deep you gag? Sucking balls? Wet and sloppy? Slow and sensual?

Throw a girl a bone! (See what I did there? "

Much more mouth action then hand action going on

You seem to have the rest covered

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By *isdirtygirlCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"1: The gagging thing is mental. The sight and sound and situation is a turn on. But the sensation comes from the head (tongue, teeth, lips and your hand)

2: lots of lube (saliva, a drink or something else)

3: lots of hand action - wank him as much as, or more than you're using your mouth.

4: don't try and make him cum. Just enjoy. "

And show enthusiasm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So actual vomit?? "
Yes, but not sure what is in the movies I see there, or if it is a huge saliva load that comes up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have mostly been given normal bj's, and had it slurped on with saliva coming up, now my ideal bj is how the pro's does it, extreme face fucking where all her make up runs down as the eyes are watering as she takes the whole shaft in and as she comes up she vomits on the cock. It sure would be a messy one mmmmm we sometimes go for this scenario and it's beautiful actually! "
Nice one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vom on your cock??!!!..you what lol...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting!! Ok I'm learning something here...

There's a lot to remember! I guess they don't call it a 'job' for nothing

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Slowly down then up again. Down as far as you can .. Smiles ..big puppydog eye contact .. Lip licking and cupping balls in your hands... And repeat til he cums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just get stuck right into it and really enjoy it.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I have mostly been given normal bj's, and had it slurped on with saliva coming up, now my ideal bj is how the pro's does it, extreme face fucking where all her make up runs down as the eyes are watering as she takes the whole shaft in and as she comes up she vomits on the cock. It sure would be a messy one mmmmm we sometimes go for this scenario and it's beautiful actually! Nice one "
thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vom on your cock??!!!..you what lol..."
Yes, it is something I want t experience lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but if anyone vomited on my cock that would be the end of any meet

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"just get stuck right into it and really enjoy it.

"
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretend your sucking a lollypop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gagging is good. No teeth!!!! They hurt. Wanking while sucking is good too! For a bj slow and sensual doesn't work for me, you have to be fair vigorous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1: The gagging thing is mental. The sight and sound and situation is a turn on. But the sensation comes from the head (tongue, teeth, lips and your hand)

2: lots of lube (saliva, a drink or something else)

3: lots of hand action - wank him as much as, or more than you're using your mouth.

4: don't try and make him cum. Just enjoy. "

^^ This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like eye contact, Changing of speed and depth but not gagging just using your tongue then finishing using a hand preferable into your mouth or on your lips,

Throw in lots of enthusiasm and describing what you're doing/going to do,

That with 2 Women and you would have my perfect bj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different uses of ur tongue. Round like u are licking an ice cream cone. Flat and soft for up and down the shaft. Firm tip for teasing the japs eye. Soft and flicking around the head. Swirling it round the cock as u slide ur mouth up and down its length. The better ur tongue technique the better performance for the fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much tooth as possible, and slowly crush each testicle..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow and deep.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As much tooth as possible, and slowly crush each testicle.. "

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By *ullbackbuttMan
over a year ago

Purton


"I have mostly been given normal bj's, and had it slurped on with saliva coming up, now my ideal bj is how the pro's does it, extreme face fucking where all her make up runs down as the eyes are watering as she takes the whole shaft in and as she comes up she vomits on the cock. It sure would be a messy one mmmmm "

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By *ogamuffinMan
over a year ago

slough

Try licking the very tip, by the external urethral orifice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grab it at the base with both hands and suck up and down for england....watch your nails dont scratch my cock thou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need help

.......just saying

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By *ullbackbuttMan
over a year ago

Purton


"I'm reading this thread with interest, always good to hear what guys like "

Sunshine happy to meet and put different methods to the test.

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By *ssexcokMan
over a year ago

southend


"As much tooth as possible, and slowly crush each testicle.. "

Will definitely last longer that way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just before he cums ram 3, dry fingers into his ass.

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

I believe that by keeping the rythem going steady is the key to them cumming through bj too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just before he cums ram 3, dry fingers into his ass. "

Now that's an interesting one... I've done this with guys who have then looked horrified!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Ok guys... So I've given a fair few blow jobs and try to please a variety of tastes (pardon the pun). I know every man is different but what makes a good BJ for you?

Tip play? Taking it so deep you gag? Sucking balls? Wet and sloppy? Slow and sensual?

Throw a girl a bone! (See what I did there? "

Yup, all of the above!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically suck his cock like its the last one you will ever suck

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

Ice cubes in you mouth whilst slowly sucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Different uses of ur tongue. Round like u are licking an ice cream cone. Flat and soft for up and down the shaft. Firm tip for teasing the japs eye. Soft and flicking around the head. Swirling it round the cock as u slide ur mouth up and down its length. The better ur tongue technique the better performance for the fella."

Not all men like tongue. All lick,no suck as a friend one said,does nothing for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just before he cums ram 3, dry fingers into his ass. "

Noted

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By *hrobinhoodMan
over a year ago

arnold, Nottingham

No teeth and vary the things you do otherwise it gets boring, So suck balls, stroke slow then fast, lick head etc, variety is the key to a good bj

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Find out what the guy in question likes.

Do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just before he cums ram 3, dry fingers into his ass. "

One well lubed finger will do just fine. And prepare to be glazed like a donut!

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East


"I don't need help

.......just saying "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beginning to Wonder now if anyone on this site has ever actually had sex with a real person. Sorry op n but really??!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't need help

.......just saying "

I can vouch for that..

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Had a meet a while ago who asked me to grate my teeth up and down his wang and bite the end.

Wasn't into anything else painful, just said he liked the sensation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't need help

.......just saying "

Haha... A fully rounded CV of men then?

I'm new to this so need a little assistance

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Beginning to Wonder now if anyone on this site has ever actually had sex with a real person. Sorry op n but really??!!"
so it's OK for a woman to ask about bjs but blokes are supposed to know instinctively?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Beginning to Wonder now if anyone on this site has ever actually had sex with a real person. Sorry op n but really??!!"

You mean the question posed or the responses given?

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"1: The gagging thing is mental. The sight and sound and situation is a turn on. But the sensation comes from the head (tongue, teeth, lips and your hand)

2: lots of lube (saliva, a drink or something else)

3: lots of hand action - wank him as much as, or more than you're using your mouth.

4: don't try and make him cum. Just enjoy. "

Number 4 is the most important for me. Just enjoy it and I will enjoy it too

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beginning to Wonder now if anyone on this site has ever actually had sex with a real person. Sorry op n but really??!!so it's OK for a woman to ask about bjs but blokes are supposed to know instinctively? "

Nope. We learn from experience and the best learning is from current partner. I say the same to both sexes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best way to learn is to talk and ask if they like what you are doing, or ask them what feels good and be prepared for some strange comments. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's only meant to be a bit of fun... Just a straw poll if you like, of likes and dislikes. I'm not going to print out responses and tick them off during my next session

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best way to learn is to talk and ask if they like what you are doing, or ask them what feels good and be prepared for some strange comments. Lol"

Haha true that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best way to learn is to talk and ask if they like what you are doing, or ask them what feels good and be prepared for some strange comments. Lol"

Last time i asked the reply was do you really need to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beginning to Wonder now if anyone on this site has ever actually had sex with a real person. Sorry op n but really??!!so it's OK for a woman to ask about bjs but blokes are supposed to know instinctively? "

They should know what they like shouldn't they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's only meant to be a bit of fun... Just a straw poll if you like, of likes and dislikes. I'm not going to print out responses and tick them off during my next session "

You didn't specify that at the beginning

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By *igboy10essexMan
over a year ago

Upminster

I love lots of saliva & the tip peeled right back & flicked with the tongue.

Am happy for a lady to use her teeth on my shaft if she likes too.

Pretty much anything goes.

I do love having the tip rubbed when cumming as is sooo sensitive.

What's your fav? X

Ps fab pics on your profile too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth'

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Beginning to Wonder now if anyone on this site has ever actually had sex with a real person. Sorry op n but really??!!so it's OK for a woman to ask about bjs but blokes are supposed to know instinctively?

Nope. We learn from experience and the best learning is from current partner. I say the same to both sexes."
haha .. That was sneaky posting the same response on both threads lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love lots of saliva & the tip peeled right back & flicked with the tongue.

Am happy for a lady to use her teeth on my shaft if she likes too.

Pretty much anything goes.

I do love having the tip rubbed when cumming as is sooo sensitive.

And thank you kindly

What's your fav? X

Ps fab pics on your profile too x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love lots of saliva & the tip peeled right back & flicked with the tongue.

Am happy for a lady to use her teeth on my shaft if she likes too.

Pretty much anything goes.

I do love having the tip rubbed when cumming as is sooo sensitive.

And thank you kindly x

What's your fav? X

Ps fab pics on your profile too x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth'"

"Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth'

"Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad. "

Was a joke... Bone (boner) get it?

Plus also it was a post for guys so if you don't want to play nice then play in another playpen

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By *igboy10essexMan
over a year ago

Upminster


"I love lots of saliva & the tip peeled right back & flicked with the tongue.

Am happy for a lady to use her teeth on my shaft if she likes too.

Pretty much anything goes.

I do love having the tip rubbed when cumming as is sooo sensitive.

And thank you kindly

What's your fav? X

Ps fab pics on your profile too x "

Why the last sad face after the smileys x

Ps having balls sucked by 2 ladies together as they pull away from each other is up there in my top 10 bjs lool xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth'

"Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad. "

Not even mentioning the title!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth'"
You could always ask the guy what he likes when you meet him. Lots of guys like different things. Some like it hard and rough. Some like it soft and sensual

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By *iverpoolad2000Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Love being deep throated me along with my balls being sucked ,just can't get enough of it tbh ??

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By *AA123Couple
over a year ago

Lichfield

I like A to kiss her way up my cock to the top after sucking my balls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth'

"Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad.

Was a joke... Bone (boner) get it?

Plus also it was a post for guys so if you don't want to play nice then play in another playpen "

Aww I'm sorry.....you didn't specify in your op for guys only. Crack on guys. Tell the lady what works for you. It's bound to help with her next.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth'

"Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad.

Not even mentioning the title! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get the teeth out, guys love it really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth'

"Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad.

Was a joke... Bone (boner) get it?

Plus also it was a post for guys so if you don't want to play nice then play in another playpen

Aww I'm sorry.....you didn't specify in your op for guys only. Crack on guys. Tell the lady what works for you. It's bound to help with her next."

It's in the thread title... And generally the guys are the ones with the dicks no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gagging is nice but not essential. Certainly no teeth kills the sensation. Twisting at the tip and spitting is good loads of libs and a good rhythm then fast works like a dream for me X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get the teeth out, guys love it really "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Different uses of ur tongue. Round like u are licking an ice cream cone. Flat and soft for up and down the shaft. Firm tip for teasing the japs eye. Soft and flicking around the head. Swirling it round the cock as u slide ur mouth up and down its length. The better ur tongue technique the better performance for the fella.

Not all men like tongue. All lick,no suck as a friend one said,does nothing for him. "

That's for starters.. sucking is always the way to go. But apparently too many people suck up and down and up and down with nothing else to offer. Ur tongue is a vital tool in a good bj.

I only go by my own experiences of course. But having regular blow and gos I know how to get someone off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth'

"Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad.

Was a joke... Bone (boner) get it?

Plus also it was a post for guys so if you don't want to play nice then play in another playpen

Aww I'm sorry.....you didn't specify in your op for guys only. Crack on guys. Tell the lady what works for you. It's bound to help with her next.

It's in the thread title... And generally the guys are the ones with the dicks no? "

Ok. Good luck with trying out the tips

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth'

"Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad.

Was a joke... Bone (boner) get it?

Plus also it was a post for guys so if you don't want to play nice then play in another playpen

Aww I'm sorry.....you didn't specify in your op for guys only. Crack on guys. Tell the lady what works for you. It's bound to help with her next.

It's in the thread title... And generally the guys are the ones with the dicks no?

Ok. Good luck with trying out the tips "

Thanks (and yet you're still here looking at the tips)...

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

Now now ladies play nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth'

"Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad.

Was a joke... Bone (boner) get it?

Plus also it was a post for guys so if you don't want to play nice then play in another playpen

Aww I'm sorry.....you didn't specify in your op for guys only. Crack on guys. Tell the lady what works for you. It's bound to help with her next.

It's in the thread title... And generally the guys are the ones with the dicks no?

Ok. Good luck with trying out the tips

Thanks (and yet you're still here looking at the tips)... "

Lol just entertaining myself.....I'm not meeting and already married for 20+ years thanks

....think i know all i need to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth'

"Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad.

Was a joke... Bone (boner) get it?

Plus also it was a post for guys so if you don't want to play nice then play in another playpen

Aww I'm sorry.....you didn't specify in your op for guys only. Crack on guys. Tell the lady what works for you. It's bound to help with her next.

It's in the thread title... And generally the guys are the ones with the dicks no?

Ok. Good luck with trying out the tips

Thanks (and yet you're still here looking at the tips)...

Lol just entertaining myself.....I'm not meeting and already married for 20+ years thanks

....think i know all i need to "

Awesome!! He must be a very special man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well the inference was there when I said 'what makes a good BJ for you' and not 'please instruct me with an idiots guide on how to pleasure the phallus with my mouth'

"Throw a girl a bone' together with the wording of the op suggested otherwise. Seems my bad.

Was a joke... Bone (boner) get it?

Plus also it was a post for guys so if you don't want to play nice then play in another playpen

Aww I'm sorry.....you didn't specify in your op for guys only. Crack on guys. Tell the lady what works for you. It's bound to help with her next.

It's in the thread title... And generally the guys are the ones with the dicks no?

Ok. Good luck with trying out the tips

Thanks (and yet you're still here looking at the tips)...

Lol just entertaining myself.....I'm not meeting and already married for 20+ years thanks

....think i know all i need to

Awesome!! He must be a very special man

"

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Some days I love the forums...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway please men....don't be sidetracked by me. Help the op with her bjs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some days I love the forums... "
Me too. It beats telly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes... As you were gents ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some days I love the forums... Me too. It beats telly "

Yea just a shame how snarly some posters get.. Strange

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By *arah_11TV/TS
over a year ago

Yeadon/Leeds


"Ok guys... So I've given a fair few blow jobs and try to please a variety of tastes (pardon the pun). I know every man is different but what makes a good BJ for you?

Tip play? Taking it so deep you gag? Sucking balls? Wet and sloppy? Slow and sensual?

Throw a girl a bone! (See what I did there? "

Practice makes perfect x

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By *igboy10essexMan
over a year ago

Upminster


"Yes... As you were gents ... "

After looking at your pics, alert & standing to attention like a meerkat

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Interesting cat fight, ladies. Seems they crop up quite often. Talk about a passing contest! Married swingers showing off now ..... is this the pinnacle of existence we are all aiming at? Back to the thread, although I have a technique, it depends on the vibe with the person I am with. I am also fascinated to see how my partner gives a bj, as he is a bi male and gives me great oral ... are these skills transferable? I think the thing that has been established is that everyone likes something a little different, so being with the same man for twenty years (albeit alsi being on a swinger site) doesn't mean jack shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some days I love the forums... Me too. It beats telly

Yea just a shame how snarly some posters get.. Strange "
oh and yes I like a bj

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Yes... As you were gents ...

After looking at your pics, alert & standing to attention like a meerkat "

"Standing to attention like a meerkat"

This thread is the gift that keeps on giving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat his cock like your favourite ice lolly that you just love the taste of and don't want to eat too quick. Lots of licks and deep in your mouth, but really, no teeth unless you very very gently nibble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes... As you were gents ...

After looking at your pics, alert & standing to attention like a meerkat

"Standing to attention like a meerkat"

This thread is the gift that keeps on giving. "
Might use that for a chat up line. Mine arnt working so nothing to lose

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By *igboy10essexMan
over a year ago

Upminster


"Yes... As you were gents ...

After looking at your pics, alert & standing to attention like a meerkat

"Standing to attention like a meerkat"

This thread is the gift that keeps on giving. Might use that for a chat up line. Mine arnt working so nothing to lose "

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton


"Ok guys... So I've given a fair few blow jobs and try to please a variety of tastes (pardon the pun). I know every man is different but what makes a good BJ for you?

Tip play? Taking it so deep you gag? Sucking balls? Wet and sloppy? Slow and sensual?

Throw a girl a bone! (See what I did there? "

Head straight for the balls and play about with the shaft however you like at that moment, its yours.

Sucking balls Wet and sloppy Slow and sensual Taking it so deep you gag meh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha... Very funny!!

So I'm sucking, licking, tip playing, gagging, vomming, ball sucking, giving puppy eyes, make up running, fingering ass and whistling Dixie!

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Wetter the better

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Haha... Very funny!!

So I'm sucking, licking, tip playing, gagging, vomming, ball sucking, giving puppy eyes, make up running, fingering ass and whistling Dixie! "
you sound like an old Pepsi advert

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By *igboy10essexMan
over a year ago

Upminster


"Haha... Very funny!!

So I'm sucking, licking, tip playing, gagging, vomming, ball sucking, giving puppy eyes, make up running, fingering ass and whistling Dixie! "

Oh bring on the puppy eyes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me teeth are a big no go, complete turn off.

I like my tip played with but also seeing a girl take the whole length is pretty hot too. Eye contact is such a turn on. And as someone has already said, don't necessarily try and make me cum, just enjoy yourself and the rest will follow.

Hope I've been helpful, absolutely fab pics on your profile too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting cat fight, ladies. Seems they crop up quite often. Talk about a passing contest! Married swingers showing off now ..... is this the pinnacle of existence we are all aiming at? Back to the thread, although I have a technique, it depends on the vibe with the person I am with. I am also fascinated to see how my partner gives a bj, as he is a bi male and gives me great oral ... are these skills transferable? I think the thing that has been established is that everyone likes something a little different, so being with the same man for twenty years (albeit alsi being on a swinger site) doesn't mean jack shit"

Yes everyone likes something different ....so no one can actually answer the op......apparently though i know nothing.

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By *rnMrs2017Couple
over a year ago

County Durham

Having only ever given them to one person I've read this thread with interest!!

How long do you spend on a blow job?

I've been known to spend up to an hour down there cos I'm a tease apparently. In that hour he'll be on the edge several times, just don't let him go over til I'm done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember not to take it literally.....don't BLOW, It isn't a trombone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vom on your cock??!!!..you what lol...Yes, it is something I want t experience lol."

errrr no you don't lol, it's not like gagging in porn, I can assure you of that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only do it one way...and I've never had any complaints

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By *rnMrs2017Couple
over a year ago

County Durham


"Remember not to take it literally.....don't BLOW, It isn't a trombone!"

Ah but blowing cold air on the tip has produced interesting results, especially if you then switch to a hot wet mouth without warning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It.

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest


"Different uses of ur tongue. Round like u are licking an ice cream cone. Flat and soft for up and down the shaft. Firm tip for teasing the japs eye. Soft and flicking around the head. Swirling it round the cock as u slide ur mouth up and down its length. The better ur tongue technique the better performance for the fella."

This lady is a very good cock sucker! We haven't met, but as a bi man who has had very good feedback when sucking cock too, recognise those techniques and great advice.

Keep the teeth away, use the tongue when it's in your mouth and keep varying the techniques. Start slowly, build up speed and slow down as you feel abd hear the stimulation increasing.

It's not a race, the longer you keep him on the edge, the greater the amount of cum for your reward.

Focus on pleasing him and keep thinking about how turned on he is, especially towards the end. I don't know if it's just me, but whenever I focus on thinking he's going to cum, that's when he does shoot his load.

Also, make sure you're well hydrated and have a wet mouth throughout. There are many techniques, some preferred, some not, but a gentle strokng of the balls or a light pull can go down well. Some like s hard tug, but you'll be told if that's the case.

All in all, enjoy yourself and make sure you're in a comfortable position. Try sucking from different angles, on your knees when he's standing, on the bed from the top or the feet or on your side.

Whatever works best for you too, of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will to guinea pig in Hampshire for a steak dinner.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I only do it one way...and I've never had any complaints "

Never had any complaints either but I know by my standards some haven't been as good because there isn't the same spark, or it doesn't ignite in the same way. I can say that now looking at when I met guys on my own, what I do with my OH is totally different, although he gets a massive kick seeing me with a cock down my throat ... and the feeling is mutual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only do it one way...and I've never had any complaints

Never had any complaints either but I know by my standards some haven't been as good because there isn't the same spark, or it doesn't ignite in the same way. I can say that now looking at when I met guys on my own, what I do with my OH is totally different, although he gets a massive kick seeing me with a cock down my throat ... and the feeling is mutual"

Oh could what i have said be actually true then. Fuck all to do with technique ??........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vom on your cock??!!!..you what lol...Yes, it is something I want t experience lol.

errrr no you don't lol, it's not like gagging in porn, I can assure you of that! "
I see yes and it wouldn't feel the same either I think

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I only do it one way...and I've never had any complaints

Never had any complaints either but I know by my standards some haven't been as good because there isn't the same spark, or it doesn't ignite in the same way. I can say that now looking at when I met guys on my own, what I do with my OH is totally different, although he gets a massive kick seeing me with a cock down my throat ... and the feeling is mutual

Oh could what i have said be actually true then. Fuck all to do with technique ??........ "

I mean its very different with each and every man and even different with the same man .... but for me, its never the same as with my OH, never as good ...and he doesn't read the forums so I am not just saying that. He's watching match of the day waiting for me

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By *ssexcokMan
over a year ago

southend

Try useing Tabasco sauce rub it all over his cock first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's different for every man.

However for me it depends on my mood.

Sometime deep and in the throat other times soft sensual play of the head. Other times sloppy and soft. Now and again so hard she makes me bleed.

I know I know. It doesn't help but you asked what we like lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only do it one way...and I've never had any complaints

Never had any complaints either but I know by my standards some haven't been as good because there isn't the same spark, or it doesn't ignite in the same way. I can say that now looking at when I met guys on my own, what I do with my OH is totally different, although he gets a massive kick seeing me with a cock down my throat ... and the feeling is mutual

Oh could what i have said be actually true then. Fuck all to do with technique ??........

I mean its very different with each and every man and even different with the same man .... but for me, its never the same as with my OH, never as good ...and he doesn't read the forums so I am not just saying that. He's watching match of the day waiting for me"

Yes..so that differs from what i said how?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's different for every man.

However for me it depends on my mood.

Sometime deep and in the throat other times soft sensual play of the head. Other times sloppy and soft. Now and again so hard she makes me bleed.

I know I know. It doesn't help but you asked what we like lol. "

Wow, bleed! Thats a new one

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I only do it one way...and I've never had any complaints

Never had any complaints either but I know by my standards some haven't been as good because there isn't the same spark, or it doesn't ignite in the same way. I can say that now looking at when I met guys on my own, what I do with my OH is totally different, although he gets a massive kick seeing me with a cock down my throat ... and the feeling is mutual

Oh could what i have said be actually true then. Fuck all to do with technique ??........

I mean its very different with each and every man and even different with the same man .... but for me, its never the same as with my OH, never as good ...and he doesn't read the forums so I am not just saying that. He's watching match of the day waiting for me

Yes..so that differs from what i said how?"

I don't know, I didn't read it in so much detail .... I dont go back and track through the threads, just go with the last comment ... just maybe that being married twenty years doesn't make someone more or less of an expert because everyone is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only do it one way...and I've never had any complaints

Never had any complaints either but I know by my standards some haven't been as good because there isn't the same spark, or it doesn't ignite in the same way. I can say that now looking at when I met guys on my own, what I do with my OH is totally different, although he gets a massive kick seeing me with a cock down my throat ... and the feeling is mutual

Oh could what i have said be actually true then. Fuck all to do with technique ??........

I mean its very different with each and every man and even different with the same man .... but for me, its never the same as with my OH, never as good ...and he doesn't read the forums so I am not just saying that. He's watching match of the day waiting for me

Yes..so that differs from what i said how?

I don't know, I didn't read it in so much detail .... I dont go back and track through the threads, just go with the last comment ... just maybe that being married twenty years doesn't make someone more or less of an expert because everyone is different"

So you didn't even read what i said just thought you'd assume? I never claimed to be an expert. I don't believe anyone can. That is my point.

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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury


"Haha... Very funny!!

So I'm sucking, licking, tip playing, gagging, vomming, ball sucking, giving puppy eyes, make up running, fingering ass and whistling Dixie! "

Sounds perfect,

But to make it special you just need to juggle with the remaining free hand. Lol

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By *eteinhantsMan
over a year ago

Southsea


"Haha... Very funny!!

So I'm sucking, licking, tip playing, gagging, vomming, ball sucking, giving puppy eyes, make up running, fingering ass and whistling Dixie! "

If you can do all that at he same time im sure there will be a que form in front of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only do it one way...and I've never had any complaints

Never had any complaints either but I know by my standards some haven't been as good because there isn't the same spark, or it doesn't ignite in the same way. I can say that now looking at when I met guys on my own, what I do with my OH is totally different, although he gets a massive kick seeing me with a cock down my throat ... and the feeling is mutual

Oh could what i have said be actually true then. Fuck all to do with technique ??........

I mean its very different with each and every man and even different with the same man .... but for me, its never the same as with my OH, never as good ...and he doesn't read the forums so I am not just saying that. He's watching match of the day waiting for me

Yes..so that differs from what i said how?

I don't know, I didn't read it in so much detail .... I dont go back and track through the threads, just go with the last comment ... just maybe that being married twenty years doesn't make someone more or less of an expert because everyone is different

So you didn't even read what i said just thought you'd assume? I never claimed to be an expert. I don't believe anyone can. That is my point. "

In my experience, what works for one guy won't work for the next.

I think you have to go for it & be prepared to change it to suit his desires.

The only expertise that's required is a flexible approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is getting silly now. Just suck cock. If he moans it's good if not its crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from the obvious teeth etc, reading the man's reaction and following this as well as showing your own enjoyment (i.e. Not just sucking up and down constantly)

X

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By *angtidy10Couple
over a year ago

wolves


"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It."
Iv just said pretty much the same thing to my Hubby

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well it's been entertaining.. Thank you all!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I only do it one way...and I've never had any complaints

Never had any complaints either but I know by my standards some haven't been as good because there isn't the same spark, or it doesn't ignite in the same way. I can say that now looking at when I met guys on my own, what I do with my OH is totally different, although he gets a massive kick seeing me with a cock down my throat ... and the feeling is mutual

Oh could what i have said be actually true then. Fuck all to do with technique ??........

I mean its very different with each and every man and even different with the same man .... but for me, its never the same as with my OH, never as good ...and he doesn't read the forums so I am not just saying that. He's watching match of the day waiting for me

Yes..so that differs from what i said how?

I don't know, I didn't read it in so much detail .... I dont go back and track through the threads, just go with the last comment ... just maybe that being married twenty years doesn't make someone more or less of an expert because everyone is different

So you didn't even read what i said just thought you'd assume? I never claimed to be an expert. I don't believe anyone can. That is my point. "

I read and respond then read the reply, I dont go back tracking through everyone's responses. I sped read since I do so much reading in my everyday life, I don't deeply analyse people's posts, its easy to read between the lines and get the message of the post. Plus, if you are anything like me, my opinion alters as I hear that of other people, that is the whole point of being n the forum for me, and its basic learning theory, we adapt or become more entrenched depending on what others say and what our brain does with their responses, on most things I do shift my thinking, so I would go back through to re analyse every post because the one thing I do assume is that that people's opinions change .... with some people it always seems a battle though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's different for every man.

However for me it depends on my mood.

Sometime deep and in the throat other times soft sensual play of the head. Other times sloppy and soft. Now and again so hard she makes me bleed.

I know I know. It doesn't help but you asked what we like lol.

Wow, bleed! Thats a new one "

Only a little bit the feeling of it building harder and harder the longer it goes on.

It's like mind blowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow sensual and soft for me... tip play, don't like to make anyone gag, prefer to enjoy it as much as I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No teeth and i prefer no hands but thats just preference. You have to start by licking the shaft and then taking your tounge straight to the head try wrapping your tounge around the cock and start to suck slowly but make sure that tounge is working the cock whilst its in your mouth so its not just your lips that are doing the work. Hope that helps. I loved getting blowjobs of my ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It."

Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No man here likes the gentle run of teeth across th tip when its sensitive and wet?

Ive met a few that ask for it or loved it when done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It.

Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x"

My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too

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By *iverpoolad2000Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It.

Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x

My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too "
hot ass I must say don't mind me saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It.

Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x

My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too "

You weren't the one having a go at the OP. Oh, I said MEN not women

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over a year ago


"1: The gagging thing is mental. The sight and sound and situation is a turn on. But the sensation comes from the head (tongue, teeth, lips and your hand)

2: lots of lube (saliva, a drink or something else)

3: lots of hand action - wank him as much as, or more than you're using your mouth.

4: don't try and make him cum. Just enjoy. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It.

Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x

My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too

You weren't the one having a go at the OP. Oh, I said MEN not women "

I know what you were saying....but it would follow from your statement that the need to look elsewhere (I wasn't aware the gender was important here) was because what was being offered wasn't working? Just seemed like an odd conclusion to draw to me.

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over a year ago


"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It."

This 100% i will try tips but whenever people ask how or whatever i always say im an 'in the moment person'. All depends what feels right at the time

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over a year ago


"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It.

Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x

My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too

You weren't the one having a go at the OP. Oh, I said MEN not women

I know what you were saying....but it would follow from your statement that the need to look elsewhere (I wasn't aware the gender was important here) was because what was being offered wasn't working? Just seemed like an odd conclusion to draw to me. "

Good job I wasn't talking to you then Courtney isn't it.

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over a year ago


"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It.

Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It.

Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x

My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too

You weren't the one having a go at the OP. Oh, I said MEN not women

I know what you were saying....but it would follow from your statement that the need to look elsewhere (I wasn't aware the gender was important here) was because what was being offered wasn't working? Just seemed like an odd conclusion to draw to me.

Good job I wasn't talking to you then Courtney isn't it. "

I suppose it is. But I'm still saying that I don't get the point of your comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago


"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It.

Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x

My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too

You weren't the one having a go at the OP. Oh, I said MEN not women

I know what you were saying....but it would follow from your statement that the need to look elsewhere (I wasn't aware the gender was important here) was because what was being offered wasn't working? Just seemed like an odd conclusion to draw to me.

Good job I wasn't talking to you then Courtney isn't it.

I suppose it is. But I'm still saying that I don't get the point of your comment "

That's fine, I never asked you to.

But, did you read the full thread, or are you just up arse like most on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It.

Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x

My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too

You weren't the one having a go at the OP. Oh, I said MEN not women

I know what you were saying....but it would follow from your statement that the need to look elsewhere (I wasn't aware the gender was important here) was because what was being offered wasn't working? Just seemed like an odd conclusion to draw to me.

Good job I wasn't talking to you then Courtney isn't it.

I suppose it is. But I'm still saying that I don't get the point of your comment

That's fine, I never asked you to.

But, did you read the full thread, or are you just up arse like most on here? "

I read the whole thread. I don't agree with Scarlet but I also don't get the relevance of your comment. But then you didn't ask me specifically so I suppose it's none of my business....just as Scarlet's conversation with the OP was none of yours, I suppose...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It.

Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x

My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too

You weren't the one having a go at the OP. Oh, I said MEN not women

I know what you were saying....but it would follow from your statement that the need to look elsewhere (I wasn't aware the gender was important here) was because what was being offered wasn't working? Just seemed like an odd conclusion to draw to me.

Good job I wasn't talking to you then Courtney isn't it.

I suppose it is. But I'm still saying that I don't get the point of your comment

That's fine, I never asked you to.

But, did you read the full thread, or are you just up arse like most on here?

I read the whole thread. I don't agree with Scarlet but I also don't get the relevance of your comment. But then you didn't ask me specifically so I suppose it's none of my business....just as Scarlet's conversation with the OP was none of yours, I suppose..."

Maybe I shouldn't have commented, but you do get the same people, day in and out trying to belittle. I don't like it.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I start off slow and plenty of eye contact!

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over a year ago


"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It.

Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x

My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too

You weren't the one having a go at the OP. Oh, I said MEN not women

I know what you were saying....but it would follow from your statement that the need to look elsewhere (I wasn't aware the gender was important here) was because what was being offered wasn't working? Just seemed like an odd conclusion to draw to me.

Good job I wasn't talking to you then Courtney isn't it.

I suppose it is. But I'm still saying that I don't get the point of your comment

That's fine, I never asked you to.

But, did you read the full thread, or are you just up arse like most on here?

I read the whole thread. I don't agree with Scarlet but I also don't get the relevance of your comment. But then you didn't ask me specifically so I suppose it's none of my business....just as Scarlet's conversation with the OP was none of yours, I suppose...

Maybe I shouldn't have commented, but you do get the same people, day in and out trying to belittle. I don't like it. "

Some do yes thats the problem with words on a screen they can be taken the wrong way. I wasnt sure of your point either but to me it read as belittling. Like you meant well you cant be any good if he needs to have sex with men??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*gets naked and does the helicopter*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*gets naked and does the helicopter*"

Tried that...broke my fucking nose!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*gets naked and does the helicopter*"

At the risk of sounding like an idiot...but as im ised to that. Whats the helicopter??

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over a year ago


"*gets naked and does the helicopter*

At the risk of sounding like an idiot...but as im ised to that. Whats the helicopter?? "

Had a guy do this in front of me at a foam party at xtasia. Quite an experience

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over a year ago


"*gets naked and does the helicopter*

At the risk of sounding like an idiot...but as im ised to that. Whats the helicopter??

Had a guy do this in front of me at a foam party at xtasia. Quite an experience "

But what is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It.

Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x

My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too

You weren't the one having a go at the OP. Oh, I said MEN not women

I know what you were saying....but it would follow from your statement that the need to look elsewhere (I wasn't aware the gender was important here) was because what was being offered wasn't working? Just seemed like an odd conclusion to draw to me.

Good job I wasn't talking to you then Courtney isn't it.

I suppose it is. But I'm still saying that I don't get the point of your comment

That's fine, I never asked you to.

But, did you read the full thread, or are you just up arse like most on here?

I read the whole thread. I don't agree with Scarlet but I also don't get the relevance of your comment. But then you didn't ask me specifically so I suppose it's none of my business....just as Scarlet's conversation with the OP was none of yours, I suppose...

Maybe I shouldn't have commented, but you do get the same people, day in and out trying to belittle. I don't like it.

Some do yes thats the problem with words on a screen they can be taken the wrong way. I wasnt sure of your point either but to me it read as belittling. Like you meant well you cant be any good if he needs to have sex with men??"

Zzzzz you again?!?. Commenting on almost everything I say!

She said, she didn't need tips as being married 20 odd years must mean she's doing ok, yeh?. She also 'tried to' ridicule the OP. Well you seen my comment..... That's it really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It.

Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x

My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too

You weren't the one having a go at the OP. Oh, I said MEN not women

I know what you were saying....but it would follow from your statement that the need to look elsewhere (I wasn't aware the gender was important here) was because what was being offered wasn't working? Just seemed like an odd conclusion to draw to me.

Good job I wasn't talking to you then Courtney isn't it.

I suppose it is. But I'm still saying that I don't get the point of your comment

That's fine, I never asked you to.

But, did you read the full thread, or are you just up arse like most on here?

I read the whole thread. I don't agree with Scarlet but I also don't get the relevance of your comment. But then you didn't ask me specifically so I suppose it's none of my business....just as Scarlet's conversation with the OP was none of yours, I suppose...

Maybe I shouldn't have commented, but you do get the same people, day in and out trying to belittle. I don't like it.

Some do yes thats the problem with words on a screen they can be taken the wrong way. I wasnt sure of your point either but to me it read as belittling. Like you meant well you cant be any good if he needs to have sex with men??

Zzzzz you again?!?. Commenting on almost everything I say!

She said, she didn't need tips as being married 20 odd years must mean she's doing ok, yeh?. She also 'tried to' ridicule the OP. Well you seen my comment..... That's it really. "

do i?? Thats funny cant say ive ever noticed you. I dont think she was trying to ridicule her at all. But as you are clearly incapable of being mature in your response i'll say whatevs trev

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It.

Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x"

Does he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*gets naked and does the helicopter*

At the risk of sounding like an idiot...but as im ised to that. Whats the helicopter??

Had a guy do this in front of me at a foam party at xtasia. Quite an experience

But what is it?"

In my experience...it's when a guy takes off his clothes and twists his hips so that his dick goes in circles like helicopter blades...but when I saw it there was foam going everywhere too

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over a year ago


"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It.

Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x

My husband has sex with other women. I must be shit in bed, too

You weren't the one having a go at the OP. Oh, I said MEN not women

I know what you were saying....but it would follow from your statement that the need to look elsewhere (I wasn't aware the gender was important here) was because what was being offered wasn't working? Just seemed like an odd conclusion to draw to me.

Good job I wasn't talking to you then Courtney isn't it.

I suppose it is. But I'm still saying that I don't get the point of your comment

That's fine, I never asked you to.

But, did you read the full thread, or are you just up arse like most on here?

I read the whole thread. I don't agree with Scarlet but I also don't get the relevance of your comment. But then you didn't ask me specifically so I suppose it's none of my business....just as Scarlet's conversation with the OP was none of yours, I suppose...

Maybe I shouldn't have commented, but you do get the same people, day in and out trying to belittle. I don't like it.

Some do yes thats the problem with words on a screen they can be taken the wrong way. I wasnt sure of your point either but to me it read as belittling. Like you meant well you cant be any good if he needs to have sex with men??

Zzzzz you again?!?. Commenting on almost everything I say!

She said, she didn't need tips as being married 20 odd years must mean she's doing ok, yeh?. She also 'tried to' ridicule the OP. Well you seen my comment..... That's it really.

do i?? Thats funny cant say ive ever noticed you. I dont think she was trying to ridicule her at all. But as you are clearly incapable of being mature in your response i'll say whatevs trev "

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*gets naked and does the helicopter*

At the risk of sounding like an idiot...but as im ised to that. Whats the helicopter??

Had a guy do this in front of me at a foam party at xtasia. Quite an experience

But what is it?

In my experience...it's when a guy takes off his clothes and twists his hips so that his dick goes in circles like helicopter blades...but when I saw it there was foam going everywhere too "

Oh god i think i may have to google it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It.

Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x

Does he?"

I've been married for 18 years and will not profess to doing it perfectly for my man.

The OP was only asking.

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over a year ago


"I think since reading the forum my brain doesn't work the same way as others. Sorry if i offended but i don't understand the preconcieved way of doing things. I don't think about stuff much before doing it so really don't get all the thought that goes into sexual acts as i just do what feels right at the time. I don't mean to sound superior but It has proved to Work for me for the last 20+ years. Clearly loads actually think about this stuff. Sorry i don't get It.

Hmmm maybe it doesn't work?!?. Your husband turns to men for 'fun'. Just saying x

Does he?

I've been married for 18 years and will not profess to doing it perfectly for my man.

The OP was only asking. "

So are you saying that if a wife is shit at oral it'll turn a man to other men? Is that how low you value somebody's sexuality?

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