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Is there a stigma associated with Viagra?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I read the Little Blue Pills thread with interest. Years ago, when they first came out, I seem to recall there was a stigma associated with taking Viagra or similar pills. ( I could have imagined it.) Is that the case today?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I haven't read the other thread but the only time we met a man who had taken it despite not needing it I got a bit bored. I personally wouldn't stigmatise a person for using it if they needed it.

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

I just use it as an insurance.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"I read the Little Blue Pills thread with interest. Years ago, when they first came out, I seem to recall there was a stigma associated with taking Viagra or similar pills. ( I could have imagined it.) Is that the case today? "
. Some women are a bit insulted if it is used and others are very pleased with the end result . Those ladies who disapprove like to think that they have done the work , not the pill.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

I prefer not to have sex with men who have taken artificial erection-builders. If they don't fancy me without artificial help, I don't want them to resort to chemicals, just so they can have sex. Also, I find that men who have taken Viagra last "too long" for me, or else don't reach ejaculation point at all.

That said, it's not a "stigma" - Viagra definitely has a place for men who have a medical need for it.

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Just a question slightly off subject but have any regular users of Sildenafil Citrate, tried any of the alternatives to Viagra such as Kamagra, Suagra, or Tandefil.

If so how effective were they and what if any side effects.

I use the pills as "insurance" and is has nothing at all to do with the attractiveness or otherwise of the lady in question.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I read the Little Blue Pills thread with interest. Years ago, when they first came out, I seem to recall there was a stigma associated with taking Viagra or similar pills. ( I could have imagined it.) Is that the case today? . Some women are a bit insulted if it is used and others are very pleased with the end result . Those ladies who disapprove like to think that they have done the work , not the pill. "

I wouldn't be insulted if a man had a genuine medical need but as a woman who isn't interested in being penetrated for hours on end or repeatedly I'm not interested in men who take it when they don't need to, it's not disapproval it's boredom.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


"I prefer not to have sex with men who have taken artificial erection-builders. If they don't fancy me without artificial help, I don't want them to resort to chemicals, just so they can have sex. Also, I find that men who have taken Viagra last "too long" for me, or else don't reach ejaculation point at all.

That said, it's not a "stigma" - Viagra definitely has a place for men who have a medical need for it."

Hmmmmm ........ I've had a few blokes who went on and on and on ...... never thought to ask if they had popped a pill in. The sex was great though so not complaining lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get them for 20p each so couldnt care less about stigma there has cheap has chips

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"I get them for 20p each so couldnt care less about stigma there has cheap has chips"

Absolutely no chance that they are genuine for that price and if fake, you have no way of knowing what crap has been added.

(Unless of course they are stolen genuine)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get them for 20p each so couldnt care less about stigma there has cheap has chips

Absolutely no chance that they are genuine for that price and if fake, you have no way of knowing what crap has been added.

(Unless of course they are stolen genuine)

"

Not if you get them on NHS prescription from your gp, though it comes out to more like 30p a pill...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get them for 20p each so couldnt care less about stigma there has cheap has chips"

Are these on t'internet from India? It has been said most of these are well fake and some are actually dangerous....I'd take care fella!

If they are genuine then you should PM all the guys on here to reveal your source lol!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I have asked this before but if you don't need it why take it? If I don't have a pain I don't take a painkiller or is it more complicated than that?

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"

Not if you get them on NHS prescription from your gp, though it comes out to more like 30p a pill... "

Very good point. Had t thought of that!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

If someone has a medical condition that means they need to take viagra then surely there is no stigma.

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"I have asked this before but if you don't need it why take it? If I don't have a pain I don't take a painkiller or is it more complicated than that?"

People take them to "improve" their performance. This only usually becomes a sticky issue when guys then use it for their own gratification rather than than of their partner.

Hence the comments on other related threads about guys banging on for ever and expecting to spend all night at a "quickie gand bang".

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple
over a year ago

walsall

They only work if the guy is sexually aroused so if he doesn't fancy u or find you attractive then it's still a no go

Don't mind the lasting a little longer as last ng as it ain't 3 hours

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"I prefer not to have sex with men who have taken artificial erection-builders. If they don't fancy me without artificial help, I don't want them to resort to chemicals, just so they can have sex. Also, I find that men who have taken Viagra last "too long" for me, or else don't reach ejaculation point at all.

That said, it's not a "stigma" - Viagra definitely has a place for men who have a medical need for it."

If they had no sexual interest in you they wouldn't get an erection even with viagra so I wouldn't worry in that regard, if it's hard he's interested trust me!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have asked this before but if you don't need it why take it? If I don't have a pain I don't take a painkiller or is it more complicated than that?

People take them to "improve" their performance. This only usually becomes a sticky issue when guys then use it for their own gratification rather than than of their partner.

Hence the comments on other related threads about guys banging on for ever and expecting to spend all night at a "quickie gand bang".

"

Ok, I understand, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I should think that using the medication to improve performance or fight off nerves was quite a common use. I am sure I am not the only male that wouldn't want the stress or worry of disappointing my partner, especially that as a single male you may only have one chance to impress.

However, that aside, an interesting question arises (excuse the pun) just how long do women want their man to last?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I should think that using the medication to improve performance or fight off nerves was quite a common use. I am sure I am not the only male that wouldn't want the stress or worry of disappointing my partner, especially that as a single male you may only have one chance to impress.

However, that aside, an interesting question arises (excuse the pun) just how long do women want their man to last?"

The answer to that is as individual as each woman. I personally find if a man is focussed on the penetration part of sex he tends to forget the rest for me the build up is more important and I don't want prolonged penetration but other women will want a long stayer

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now


"However, that aside, an interesting question arises (excuse the pun) just how long do women want their man to last?"

I'm one of those who don't want men banging on for hours. "A few minutes longer than me" would be my answer, i.e. no more than 15-20 minutes.

And thanks, whoever up there ^^^ said that Viagra can't stimulate an erection in a man who doesn't already have sexual desire ... I feel a lot better now

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"However, that aside, an interesting question arises (excuse the pun) just how long do women want their man to last?

I'm one of those who don't want men banging on for hours. "A few minutes longer than me" would be my answer, i.e. no more than 15-20 minutes.

And thanks, whoever up there ^^^ said that Viagra can't stimulate an erection in a man who doesn't already have sexual desire ... I feel a lot better now "

That's ok

Viagra is used for other conditions as well (one called pulmonary hypertension for example) and the people on it for that don't walk round with a permanent stiffy trotting round asda for example, it's only when they are sexually excited that it has an affect in that area

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