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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do some men who state they are straight on their profile then go on to say they are looking for MM couples, men and TV/TS? They even go on to say they would only have oral not anal with a man but they insist they are 100% straight and not bi or bi-curious when i ask them!!

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By *icksfocusMan
over a year ago

Pontefract

Hard to tell what some are thinking, I think they could be trying to cover all the bases to maximise the chance of getting a meet

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

They are split personalities and they are sharing their mind with Julian Clary.

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

we have had that, "oh i didnt realise id ticked that box" but when you look at friends list half are bi and half are tv hello make a decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they don't know what the fuck they want and anyone seeking tvs are bi so beware not every straight man out there is actually straight

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

totally agree with my friend above x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does anger me why not be honest about your sexuality it's not hard x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Must say had plenty myself, I'm bi 48 & smoke but their profile states "straight won't meet smokers & aged 18-40"! What do they expect from me?

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Was contacted by a newbie the other day and his friends list was full of tvs. I asked him if he was bi and he said no. He said they were they only people who spoke to him so he thought it would be rude to ignore them! pmsl

The silly thing is I would speak to a guy who has bi in his profile but don't have the time of day for someone who treats me like I'm stupid! Grrrrr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had that loads of times too

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By *ryanythingonce2Man
over a year ago

barnsley

bi is the way forward what more fun could u ask for cock pussy am in bi heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy today say he is totally straight but when i checked his verifications 2 were from tv/ts and both said he was good a sucking cock, he must think we dont read profiles lol

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

i am straight as i put on my profile but i also have that im looking for couples. you do get couples looking for single guys and the guy is straight. you dont have to be bi to meet a couple x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was contacted by a newbie the other day and his friends list was full of tvs. I asked him if he was bi and he said no. He said they were they only people who spoke to him so he thought it would be rude to ignore them! pmsl

The silly thing is I would speak to a guy who has bi in his profile but don't have the time of day for someone who treats me like I'm stupid! Grrrrr!"

The chances are that this guy was bi, if he had various TV friends etc, but we have a friend on our list who is a TV. Its not a sexual thing, we havent played with him, he is my personal friend.

Maybe its cos the guys start off with high hopes of having loads of meets and great fantastic sex with countless women, pussy on a plate etc, then they find out that noone will meet them, therefore they broaden their horizons.

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"Was contacted by a newbie the other day and his friends list was full of tvs. I asked him if he was bi and he said no. He said they were they only people who spoke to him so he thought it would be rude to ignore them! pmsl

The silly thing is I would speak to a guy who has bi in his profile but don't have the time of day for someone who treats me like I'm stupid! Grrrrr!

The chances are that this guy was bi, if he had various TV friends etc, but we have a friend on our list who is a TV. Its not a sexual thing, we havent played with him, he is my personal friend.

Maybe its cos the guys start off with high hopes of having loads of meets and great fantastic sex with countless women, pussy on a plate etc, then they find out that noone will meet them, therefore they broaden their horizons. "

Possibly Feebs but surely if they are bi it's better to let people know up front. Not everyone judges and may find it a turn on. Personally I don't mind either way so long as it's safe fun all round x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeah I agree, totally. And the reason he gave, when you asked him outright, did sound suspect.

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By *ryanythingonce2Man
over a year ago

barnsley

ok on the single guy front i don't agree with not been true with people i mail but there are some cpls who think just cos your bi your going to try and jump on there guy me i like str8 fun as much as bi and unless a cpl say its bi play they want i would not dream of touching the guy. but thats me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They dont show as bi in profiles as it keeps those that wont meet bi as an option. Or they have a straight profile and a separate bi profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok on the single guy front i don't agree with not been true with people i mail but there are some cpls who think just cos your bi your going to try and jump on there guy me i like str8 fun as much as bi and unless a cpl say its bi play they want i would not dream of touching the guy. but thats me "

Thats very true

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"They dont show as bi in profiles as it keeps those that wont meet bi as an option. Or they have a straight profile and a separate bi profile."

Haha where's your other one then sweetie? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL now that would be telling.

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"LOL now that would be telling. "

Spoil sport, I'll worm it out of you if I have to lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Promises promises

Only one way you'll get it of me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some men who state they are straight on their profile then go on to say they are looking for MM couples, men and TV/TS? They even go on to say they would only have oral not anal with a man but they insist they are 100% straight and not bi or bi-curious when i ask them!! "

We asked one guy mailing us this and he didn't realise he had ticked all the boxes and thanked us. Apparently he had received some male attention and haven't realised why. Maybe some men tick everything in excitement.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

Everyone is different, we're all looking for different things etc etc.

I've taken to not bothering to reply to those people who claim they are straight or have no profile photo.

I don't like being rude but if they are straight then we're not going to enjoy sex much are we? Mind you, there are lots of lovely people out there who are happily bisexual so we're all happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need straight guys plenty of bi and tvs on here to have fun with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmmm....bit like the straight couples that will not have any contact with bi guys, only for them both to message you for a meet and say they dont mind bi guys ?????? go figure !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had that too they say they wanna see what it's like I ain't here to teach anyone too many confusing profiles out there

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay


"Had that too they say they wanna see what it's like I ain't here to teach anyone too many confusing profiles out there "

oh jan i needed a teacher! what am i going to do with these crayons now lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had that too they say they wanna see what it's like I ain't here to teach anyone too many confusing profiles out there

oh jan i needed a teacher! what am i going to do with these crayons now lol x"

I'll teach you anyday it's the spotty 19 year olds I ain't letting playing with my crayons

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay


"Had that too they say they wanna see what it's like I ain't here to teach anyone too many confusing profiles out there

oh jan i needed a teacher! what am i going to do with these crayons now lol x

I'll teach you anyday it's the spotty 19 year olds I ain't letting playing with my crayons "

ha ha thank fook i dont fall in that catagory lol. ok crayons and easel at the ready! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a guy the other day that said he was straight ... now we do not meet bi guys.

NOw this lad has straight on his profile... but all his friends were bi couples.. and tv/ts and he had verifications from bi single men.

MAde us laugh.

KAtie x

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By *Y MAN n MECouple
over a year ago

FIFE


"It does anger me why not be honest about your sexuality it's not hard x"

the straight guys that contact us say they don't have bi or curious on profile coz it puts the women and straight couples off meeting... not every bi guy is guna jump on another guy you know, pleeease get a grip!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does anger me why not be honest about your sexuality it's not hard x

the straight guys that contact us say they don't have bi or curious on profile coz it puts the women and straight couples off meeting... not every bi guy is guna jump on another guy you know, pleeease get a grip!"

THAt's not why we don't meet bi guys....we don't meet them because for me the thought of two men together makes me ill... so wouldn't want a guy that I had known had been with one.

Katie. X

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By *Y MAN n MECouple
over a year ago

FIFE


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THAt's not why we don't meet bi guys....we don't meet them because for me the thought of two men together makes me ill... so wouldn't want a guy that I had known had been with one.

Katie. X "

Each to their own Kate, it would be pretty boring if we were all the same, me on the other hand find bi guy fun a huge turn on except kissing...two guys snogging nnnnooooo not for us. see we all have our preferences.XX Heather

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I dont mind kissing..... as long as they have teeth in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YEs it would but It annoy's me that people assume that couples won't meet because they think the guys would jump them... when for a lot its similar to our reason... I know my _iew sometimes causes offence but It's how I feel.

KATie x
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THAt's not why we don't meet bi guys....we don't meet them because for me the thought of two men together makes me ill... so wouldn't want a guy that I had known had been with one.

Katie. X

Each to their own Kate, it would be pretty boring if we were all the same, me on the other hand find bi guy fun a huge turn on except kissing...two guys snogging nnnnooooo not for us. see we all have our preferences.XX Heather"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two guys together is yummy for me seeing someone bound and collared is not but as you said each to there own

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By *abmamsCouple
over a year ago

near fleet, hants

We were looking for a bi guy once and had loads of responses from straight guys who said they were curious and would probably suck my guys cock. It became blatently obvious that they were desperate for a meet with a couple and would say anything to get it. Needless to say it was a big fat "No thanks" from us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they're in denial. simple!

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By *abmamsCouple
over a year ago

near fleet, hants

Maybe some but not all and when you're arranging to meet a bi guy would you take the chance that when he arrived he wasn't interested at all. I know I wouldn't waste my time with someone like that. If you bi then say your bi!!

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