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"If I wanted to go to a club I would be happy to pay an equal amount as men. I don't want to be seen as bait for people paying for a chance to fuck me,I'd rather it were on an equal footing. In the same vein couples should pay the same as 2 single people. " Completely agree ![]() | |||
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"Oh hey Ann, never realised that was you lol. Yes there does seem to be that intention of club owners purposely allowing women to pay less as a means to get more numbers to come to their club. Personally I think these clubs tend to use women as their "live stock" to pull in as meny men as possible as their real income and profit come from single men mostly really. So they think they gotta reduce the rate of pay to arreact more ladies and increase the price for men all in the act to maintain the ratio of men to women (Which is understandable to avoid a sausage cluster) but actually it's the same excuse in order to make money out of the single men that still come. They just place these price barriers just to further please and pulling in more single women and couples. Really I think some mainstream club are really cheating us because of the above profit formula. I would like to see all of us pay the same basic rate (not cheap but not expensive) and they provide a equal fair limit on the ratio of which ever gender attends. Equal is the key word here ![]() They are businesses and do not owe anyone any favours. The consumer can decide whether the price is reasonable. | |||
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"I wouldn't attend as regularly as I do if I had to pay £30 entrance. Or even half of that. " We regularly have to pay £20 to attend a club as a couple, and when we've bought a couple of drinks and driven to wherever it is we're heading or paid for a taxi, it's an expensive night out which is why we only attend clubs once a month | |||
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"I'd also like to add that most of the clubs I attended, have never made me feel like bait. I've never felt pressured to play or dress down. I feel grateful that my regular club have managed to create an atmosphere, despite a price entry difference, where men don't have an attitude of expecting play or pestering. I do think it's much to do with an individual club's ethos than entry price. " Ahh now that's the trick you see, the club owners want you to feel conferable and welcomed and would heavery enforce rules on single men to calm them down and not overbotber single ladies and couples. The role as bait is to pulling the single men and others as it's there main source of income sadly. But in order to keep the ladies happy the staff would turn to heavy policing with rules (which is truly needed due to the nature of single men) Now let's imagine a club that has a expensive and strict entry admission fee, you would say it's to make the club more pleasant for women and coupes so that half the amount of single men that attends only arrive, but you ever wonder about SOME of these men that pay loads of pounds just to get in. They are the ones that think they payed big money so they deserve and feels Entitled to play, so often they are the ones who would begin "hunting for pussy" often though forceful means. Just another interesting thought.... ![]() | |||
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"I'd also like to add that most of the clubs I attended, have never made me feel like bait. I've never felt pressured to play or dress down. I feel grateful that my regular club have managed to create an atmosphere, despite a price entry difference, where men don't have an attitude of expecting play or pestering. I do think it's much to do with an individual club's ethos than entry price. Ahh now that's the trick you see, the club owners want you to feel conferable and welcomed and would heavery enforce rules on single men to calm them down and not overbotber single ladies and couples. The role as bait is to pulling the single men and others as it's there main source of income sadly. But in order to keep the ladies happy the staff would turn to heavy policing with rules (which is truly needed due to the nature of single men) Now let's imagine a club that has a expensive and strict entry admission fee, you would say it's to make the club more pleasant for women and coupes so that half the amount of single men that attends only arrive, but you ever wonder about SOME of these men that pay loads of pounds just to get in. They are the ones that think they payed big money so they deserve and feels Entitled to play, so often they are the ones who would begin "hunting for pussy" often though forceful means. Just another interesting thought.... ![]() Good point but I don't agree. I think the high price probably reminds the single guys that it is not their environment there and they need to behave. | |||
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"I'd also like to add that most of the clubs I attended, have never made me feel like bait. I've never felt pressured to play or dress down. I feel grateful that my regular club have managed to create an atmosphere, despite a price entry difference, where men don't have an attitude of expecting play or pestering. I do think it's much to do with an individual club's ethos than entry price. Ahh now that's the trick you see, the club owners want you to feel conferable and welcomed and would heavery enforce rules on single men to calm them down and not overbotber single ladies and couples. The role as bait is to pulling the single men and others as it's there main source of income sadly. But in order to keep the ladies happy the staff would turn to heavy policing with rules (which is truly needed due to the nature of single men) Now let's imagine a club that has a expensive and strict entry admission fee, you would say it's to make the club more pleasant for women and coupes so that half the amount of single men that attends only arrive, but you ever wonder about SOME of these men that pay loads of pounds just to get in. They are the ones that think they payed big money so they deserve and feels Entitled to play, so often they are the ones who would begin "hunting for pussy" often though forceful means. Just another interesting thought.... ![]() I don't feel tricked at all. My regular club have a really inclusive environment and I attended a club last night with another female. There were more single males in than females. We were giving access to a room we wanted to use and a key to lock ourselves in. We didn't have to dress down. We had our own agenda and were facilitied. We weren't bait. The environment wasn't heavily policed to keep us from being pressured but the regular single guys are always respectful. We even had a jacuzzi together without once any of the males even coming into the room. I regularly attend a few clubs and I really don't see a lot of this bad behaviour that people report on the forum. I don't see these single males that 'hunt pussy' and if anything the problems I've encountered have been with single females or couples. I'm bored of this bad rep single men have at clubs. | |||
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"I'd also like to add that most of the clubs I attended, have never made me feel like bait. I've never felt pressured to play or dress down. I feel grateful that my regular club have managed to create an atmosphere, despite a price entry difference, where men don't have an attitude of expecting play or pestering. I do think it's much to do with an individual club's ethos than entry price. Ahh now that's the trick you see, the club owners want you to feel conferable and welcomed and would heavery enforce rules on single men to calm them down and not overbotber single ladies and couples. The role as bait is to pulling the single men and others as it's there main source of income sadly. But in order to keep the ladies happy the staff would turn to heavy policing with rules (which is truly needed due to the nature of single men) Now let's imagine a club that has a expensive and strict entry admission fee, you would say it's to make the club more pleasant for women and coupes so that half the amount of single men that attends only arrive, but you ever wonder about SOME of these men that pay loads of pounds just to get in. They are the ones that think they payed big money so they deserve and feels Entitled to play, so often they are the ones who would begin "hunting for pussy" often though forceful means. Just another interesting thought.... ![]() You may be one of the luckey exceptions that manage to avoid such a crowd at these clubs. And yes we all don't want a party overrun by men but the reality is they are everywhere (well almost lol). Another intesting theory is how do clubs capitalise on Couples and women only nights/clubs. I'm sure more numbers feel conferable to turn up due to the absence of single men. Do some single women start to become be predators by forcefully "snatching" the other lady's man? ![]() | |||
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"I'd also like to add that most of the clubs I attended, have never made me feel like bait. I've never felt pressured to play or dress down. I feel grateful that my regular club have managed to create an atmosphere, despite a price entry difference, where men don't have an attitude of expecting play or pestering. I do think it's much to do with an individual club's ethos than entry price. Ahh now that's the trick you see, the club owners want you to feel conferable and welcomed and would heavery enforce rules on single men to calm them down and not overbotber single ladies and couples. The role as bait is to pulling the single men and others as it's there main source of income sadly. But in order to keep the ladies happy the staff would turn to heavy policing with rules (which is truly needed due to the nature of single men) Now let's imagine a club that has a expensive and strict entry admission fee, you would say it's to make the club more pleasant for women and coupes so that half the amount of single men that attends only arrive, but you ever wonder about SOME of these men that pay loads of pounds just to get in. They are the ones that think they payed big money so they deserve and feels Entitled to play, so often they are the ones who would begin "hunting for pussy" often though forceful means. Just another interesting thought.... ![]() 1) Someone/something cannot be the bait if no one knows if they are going to be there. 2) There are people who feel entitled whatever. If they become forceful, they will be removed. | |||
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"Oh hey Ann, never realised that was you lol. Yes there does seem to be that intention of club owners purposely allowing women to pay less as a means to get more numbers to come to their club. Personally I think these clubs tend to use women as their "live stock" to pull in as meny men as possible as their real income and profit come from single men mostly really. So they think they gotta reduce the rate of pay to arreact more ladies and increase the price for men all in the act to maintain the ratio of men to women (Which is understandable to avoid a sausage cluster) but actually it's the same excuse in order to make money out of the single men that still come. They just place these price barriers just to further please and pulling in more single women and couples. Really I think some mainstream club are really cheating us because of the above profit formula. I would like to see all of us pay the same basic rate (not cheap but not expensive) and they provide a equal fair limit on the ratio of which ever gender attends. Equal is the key word here ![]() Didn't you recognise my bum? ![]() | |||
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"Of course women and couples are the bait - obviously not a specific person - but it's frequently stated on these threads that single men wouldn't like it if there were no women in clubs. Ergo, the clubs need women and couples to go to attract the men. Hence the lower prices. If a club got a reputation for having loads of women and couples there it would be popular. If a club got a reputation for having no women or couples and only straight men, it wouldn't. Of course none of that means anyone is being forced to strip or have sex, but the very presence of women and couples is needed for it to work. So bait. " Nothing is guaranteed, so only bait for those who always feel entitled, and those who feel entitled won't get anything. What a vicious circle. ![]() | |||
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"I'd also like to add that most of the clubs I attended, have never made me feel like bait. I've never felt pressured to play or dress down. I feel grateful that my regular club have managed to create an atmosphere, despite a price entry difference, where men don't have an attitude of expecting play or pestering. I do think it's much to do with an individual club's ethos than entry price. Ahh now that's the trick you see, the club owners want you to feel conferable and welcomed and would heavery enforce rules on single men to calm them down and not overbotber single ladies and couples. The role as bait is to pulling the single men and others as it's there main source of income sadly. But in order to keep the ladies happy the staff would turn to heavy policing with rules (which is truly needed due to the nature of single men) Now let's imagine a club that has a expensive and strict entry admission fee, you would say it's to make the club more pleasant for women and coupes so that half the amount of single men that attends only arrive, but you ever wonder about SOME of these men that pay loads of pounds just to get in. They are the ones that think they payed big money so they deserve and feels Entitled to play, so often they are the ones who would begin "hunting for pussy" often though forceful means. Just another interesting thought.... ![]() ![]() I don't feel a lucky exception. I attend a variety of clubs regularly. I would have bumped into these hoards of unruly 'pussy hunting' single men by now. | |||
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"Oh hey Ann, never realised that was you lol. Yes there does seem to be that intention of club owners purposely allowing women to pay less as a means to get more numbers to come to their club. Personally I think these clubs tend to use women as their "live stock" to pull in as meny men as possible as their real income and profit come from single men mostly really. So they think they gotta reduce the rate of pay to arreact more ladies and increase the price for men all in the act to maintain the ratio of men to women (Which is understandable to avoid a sausage cluster) but actually it's the same excuse in order to make money out of the single men that still come. They just place these price barriers just to further please and pulling in more single women and couples. Really I think some mainstream club are really cheating us because of the above profit formula. I would like to see all of us pay the same basic rate (not cheap but not expensive) and they provide a equal fair limit on the ratio of which ever gender attends. Equal is the key word here ![]() ![]() Lol, there were quite a few people that night so I was distracted most of the time ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I wouldn't attend as regularly as I do if I had to pay £30 entrance. Or even half of that. " This is the price I pay to go into my favourite club, I see it as a cheap night out! £30 Entrance, that's about the same as a nightclub, I can speak to like minded friends, have a drink and the potential of a little bit of fun. If people don't pay to go in, then they will never know what sort of friendly people go in there. ![]() | |||
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"I'd also like to add that most of the clubs I attended, have never made me feel like bait. I've never felt pressured to play or dress down. I feel grateful that my regular club have managed to create an atmosphere, despite a price entry difference, where men don't have an attitude of expecting play or pestering. I do think it's much to do with an individual club's ethos than entry price. Ahh now that's the trick you see, the club owners want you to feel conferable and welcomed and would heavery enforce rules on single men to calm them down and not overbotber single ladies and couples. The role as bait is to pulling the single men and others as it's there main source of income sadly. But in order to keep the ladies happy the staff would turn to heavy policing with rules (which is truly needed due to the nature of single men) Now let's imagine a club that has a expensive and strict entry admission fee, you would say it's to make the club more pleasant for women and coupes so that half the amount of single men that attends only arrive, but you ever wonder about SOME of these men that pay loads of pounds just to get in. They are the ones that think they payed big money so they deserve and feels Entitled to play, so often they are the ones who would begin "hunting for pussy" often though forceful means. Just another interesting thought.... ![]() Im sorry but what sort of club do you go into if you expect anything more than to be allowed in? A swingers club does not give anyone a right to play due to the price they paid to get in. | |||
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"Of course women and couples are the bait - obviously not a specific person - but it's frequently stated on these threads that single men wouldn't like it if there were no women in clubs. Ergo, the clubs need women and couples to go to attract the men. Hence the lower prices. If a club got a reputation for having loads of women and couples there it would be popular. If a club got a reputation for having no women or couples and only straight men, it wouldn't. Of course none of that means anyone is being forced to strip or have sex, but the very presence of women and couples is needed for it to work. So bait. " ![]() ![]() | |||
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