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Cheats...naughty or hot?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone get off by shagging someone else's partner or cheating on their own? Does sleeping with a married guy/girl excite you?

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Personally no, I hate that I do it and would much prefer to do it with my partner but he just isn't that way inclined

I've known a lot get off on the fact I'm married though

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Personally no, I hate that I do it and would much prefer to do it with my partner but he just isn't that way inclined

I've known a lot get off on the fact I'm married though "

And for those about to say if I hated it that much then I wouldn't do it.... Maybe you are right, but sex is a NEED within me that he just can't satisfy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. It's not something I get off on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

We are here on fab to meet swingers not cheats.

Of course if they lie about being single then it is very hard to uncover the truth but if we know we prefer to avoid.

The possibility of an outraged spouse appearing is a complication we would prefer to avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot do find it hot and a turn on having sex with another's guys wife with their consent. As a lot of fems do play solo.

But as for cheating no.

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford


"Personally no, I hate that I do it and would much prefer to do it with my partner but he just isn't that way inclined

I've known a lot get off on the fact I'm married though

And for those about to say if I hated it that much then I wouldn't do it.... Maybe you are right, but sex is a NEED within me that he just can't satisfy "

I respect your honesty, although I'm sure you'll be lambasted for it. If you were a bloke you'd already have pitchfork wielding forumites at your door.

Back on topic, we don't go out of our way to meet "cheats" and as far as I know it's not a frequent thing. If someone chooses to tell you they are single then I'm not going to ask for proof otherwise.

While neither of us get off on going with people with unknowing partners, I really do have enough to worry about in my own life without being judge and jury for someone else. None of us are perfect and one thing I've learnt in life is, things are rarely as simple as they seem. People have their reasons. I'm not here to judge, I'd like the option to be able to make an informed choice but beyond that I don't concern myself with it. In other words - I don't really care, but don't get off on it.

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally no, I hate that I do it and would much prefer to do it with my partner but he just isn't that way inclined

I've known a lot get off on the fact I'm married though

And for those about to say if I hated it that much then I wouldn't do it.... Maybe you are right, but sex is a NEED within me that he just can't satisfy

I respect your honesty, although I'm sure you'll be lambasted for it. If you were a bloke you'd already have pitchfork wielding forumites at your door.

Back on topic, we don't go out of our way to meet "cheats" and as far as I know it's not a frequent thing. If someone chooses to tell you they are single then I'm not going to ask for proof otherwise.

While neither of us get off on going with people with unknowing partners, I really do have enough to worry about in my own life without being judge and jury for someone else. None of us are perfect and one thing I've learnt in life is, things are rarely as simple as they seem. People have their reasons. I'm not here to judge, I'd like the option to be able to make an informed choice but beyond that I don't concern myself with it. In other words - I don't really care, but don't get off on it.

D"

I couldn't have worded it better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We personally wouldn't meet anyone that we know is having an affair but each to their own. No-one has the right to judge what anyone does or doesn't do.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Back on topic, we don't go out of our way to meet "cheats" and as far as I know it's not a frequent thing. If someone chooses to tell you they are single then I'm not going to ask for proof otherwise.

While neither of us get off on going with people with unknowing partners, I really do have enough to worry about in my own life without being judge and jury for someone else. None of us are perfect and one thing I've learnt in life is, things are rarely as simple as they seem. People have their reasons. I'm not here to judge, I'd like the option to be able to make an informed choice but beyond that I don't concern myself with it. In other words - I don't really care, but don't get off on it."

This kind of mirrors our feelings about it too. Having listened to many people, we understand there are those who have needs that are not being satisfied by those they love. It's incredibly difficult and fraught for those in that situation and we try to be as understanding as possible.

We try avoid those playing outside of their relationships not because we disapprove but because we would not wish to become embroiled in anything unpleasant should someone find out.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

no why would it?

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By *ndrew1972Man
over a year ago

Roscrea


"Personally no, I hate that I do it and would much prefer to do it with my partner but he just isn't that way inclined

I've known a lot get off on the fact I'm married though

And for those about to say if I hated it that much then I wouldn't do it.... Maybe you are right, but sex is a NEED within me that he just can't satisfy "

Same here, although I haven't met anyone particularly got off on the fact that I am married. There does seem to be far more tolerance towards married women than married men. I've had abusive replies from couples and women and yet some of them had verifications from married women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cousin used to. She loved the idea of a married guy cheating with her, it made her feel like the married guy liked her more than the wife he never left for her.

I personally don't find cheating hot, can't think of anything less sexy than fucking someone who is willing to emotionally damage someone else.

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By *ebbsBamCouple
over a year ago

halifax

Personally I prefer somebody to be honest if there single or not as sometimes it comes with baggage that's so unexpected plus as a couple we go into this both fully knowing what we get upto think it's very unfair when there's somebody's other half totally clueless as to what's going on behind there back so yeah would like to know up front so can say thanks but no thanks honesty best policy I may be a swinger but I do have some morals lol

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

No.

I don't get off on potentially fucking up another persons life.

If that's his thing then great, just leave me out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get off on messing someone's relationship up at all. I have been with married women before but they have split with them which is different

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have no issue with people meeting whatever their status, it's none of my business

But I find fuck all hot about shagging someone else's loved one,, I think God help me if I did, I would want to understand why I needed to feel something like that

It speaks to some kind of insecurity, but that's only my interpretation

Enjoy if you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I am married and meet married men, but I don't get off on it, I just meet the people I like where the arrangements suit.

If I get a hint someone wants to meet me because of being married not despite being married, I'm not interested. The fetishisation of adultery doesn't appeal at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will ask my ex husband if he got off on it next time I see him x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get off on it, but I don't frown upon it either. Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've slept with married people but only with the explicit consent of their partner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do and seen few, the chemistry is electrifying of the naughtiness

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Personally no, I hate that I do it and would much prefer to do it with my partner but he just isn't that way inclined

I've known a lot get off on the fact I'm married though

And for those about to say if I hated it that much then I wouldn't do it.... Maybe you are right, but sex is a NEED within me that he just can't satisfy

I respect your honesty, although I'm sure you'll be lambasted for it. If you were a bloke you'd already have pitchfork wielding forumites at your door.

Back on topic, we don't go out of our way to meet "cheats" and as far as I know it's not a frequent thing. If someone chooses to tell you they are single then I'm not going to ask for proof otherwise.

While neither of us get off on going with people with unknowing partners, I really do have enough to worry about in my own life without being judge and jury for someone else. None of us are perfect and one thing I've learnt in life is, things are rarely as simple as they seem. People have their reasons. I'm not here to judge, I'd like the option to be able to make an informed choice but beyond that I don't concern myself with it. In other words - I don't really care, but don't get off on it.

D"

Well said xx

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Personally no, I hate that I do it and would much prefer to do it with my partner but he just isn't that way inclined

I've known a lot get off on the fact I'm married though

And for those about to say if I hated it that much then I wouldn't do it.... Maybe you are right, but sex is a NEED within me that he just can't satisfy

I respect your honesty, although I'm sure you'll be lambasted for it. If you were a bloke you'd already have pitchfork wielding forumites at your door.

Back on topic, we don't go out of our way to meet "cheats" and as far as I know it's not a frequent thing. If someone chooses to tell you they are single then I'm not going to ask for proof otherwise.

While neither of us get off on going with people with unknowing partners, I really do have enough to worry about in my own life without being judge and jury for someone else. None of us are perfect and one thing I've learnt in life is, things are rarely as simple as they seem. People have their reasons. I'm not here to judge, I'd like the option to be able to make an informed choice but beyond that I don't concern myself with it. In other words - I don't really care, but don't get off on it.

D

Well said xx"

I will also add I'm very open about the fact I'm married so people can make their own choice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally no, I hate that I do it and would much prefer to do it with my partner but he just isn't that way inclined

I've known a lot get off on the fact I'm married though "

Turns me on x

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