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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey Fabbers !

I have come across and seen this in many profiles and meet pics now

Why are guys wearing cock rings to stay hard ?

And

Does it bother women they are wearing them to meet you ?

Naughty thoughts please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me.

Idk why they use them, i've met mostly guys who don't and one who is massive already.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you have to fake a hard dick maybe it's not a meet worth having is what I'm wondering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's still a hard dick though, even if it has some help staying hard.

Some people have erectile problems, this doesn't necessarily mean they aren't turned on it can mean there's some problem in the structure of their penis.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My apologies I am not judging people with medical issues

I'm referring more to a young guy creating a fake hard dick - does that not put women off that he's not that into that he can't get naturally hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a vibrating cock ring that does something for me as well I'm all in otherwise no thanks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a bit like going to fuck a lady but she lubes her pussy 1st....she cant be that turned on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah not a durex other brands available cock ring

I mean just a hard on maker ring

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol true but that's more for her comfort and pleasure

Or maybe she's just not that into you

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By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda

I think cock rings are great especially vibrating ones they keep the guy hard longer and give the lady more pleasure and after all it is about giving the lady pleasure is it not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol true but that's more for her comfort and pleasure

Or maybe she's just not that into you "

It was a example

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah vibrating ones fine

I'm more on about rings just to keep male hard

More so seen on the VWE men

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Its a bit like going to fuck a lady but she lubes her pussy 1st....she cant be that turned on "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol it's ok mate maybe you should spend more time down there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My apologies I am not judging people with medical issues

I'm referring more to a young guy creating a fake hard dick - does that not put women off that he's not that into that he can't get naturally hard "

Dunno. Maybe he's nervous? Never experienced that myself but people are good at hiding things.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Its a bit like going to fuck a lady but she lubes her pussy 1st....she cant be that turned on

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By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda

Just saying that any guy that didn't set out to please the lady has failed before he starts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very true

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

How can it be fake? It's hard or its not regardless of what may be used to make or keep it hard.

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By *hrobinhoodMan
over a year ago

arnold, Nottingham

Ive had no trouble getting erections but do enjoy cock rings as wel as they make you harder and bigger lol

But cock rings are good if you use condoms as well as condoms can kill erections in some men lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I used to have a playmate who never ever had a problem getting 9r staying hard but when he wore a cock ring he was rock solid and I loved the feeling while playing .

Some do need them for erectile problems but I'd say most use them to enhance what they already have

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

For some it's essential due to erectile dysfunction issues, for some it's to aid staying power as they cum too quickly otherwise and for others it's to enhance their own experience as they like how it feels

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By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda

I don't have a problem geting hard but I find a ring helps me last longer and increase the pleasure for the lady especially the vibrating ones

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Loving the responses

So women love hard wood rather than long ropes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought that cock rings were to enhance what was already there, rather than to aid in getting there in the first place

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By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda


"I always thought that cock rings were to enhance what was already there, rather than to aid in getting there in the first place "

That is what I use it for I didn't think it could help a guy to get hard on the first place

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I can masturbate and orgasm using my fingers.

It's better if I use my vibrator.

Does that mean I am cheating somehow and using my vibrator is wrong? Would you assume I can't reach orgasm without my vibrator because otherwise I wouldn't use it?

Cock rings are an enhancement that some enjoy. I don't see the problem.

I can't see why you'd assume men who use them can't get or stay hard without them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loving the responses

So women love hard wood rather than long ropes "

For us, sex is not all about a hard cock. There is far more to be experienced than just that.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I always thought that cock rings were to enhance what was already there, rather than to aid in getting there in the first place

That is what I use it for I didn't think it could help a guy to get hard on the first place"

The guy still has to be turned on, so you are correct.

I think the OP doesn't understand cock rings very well.

This seems to me to be another case of someone trying to make themself look better by putting others down. In this post it seems to be a not so subtle swipe at men with larger than average penises. It smacks of insecurity to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always thought that cock rings were to enhance what was already there, rather than to aid in getting there in the first place

That is what I use it for I didn't think it could help a guy to get hard on the first place

The guy still has to be turned on, so you are correct.

I think the OP doesn't understand cock rings very well.

This seems to me to be another case of someone trying to make themself look better by putting others down. In this post it seems to be a not so subtle swipe at men with larger than average penises. It smacks of insecurity to me."

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"I always thought that cock rings were to enhance what was already there, rather than to aid in getting there in the first place

That is what I use it for I didn't think it could help a guy to get hard on the first place

The guy still has to be turned on, so you are correct.

I think the OP doesn't understand cock rings very well.

This seems to me to be another case of someone trying to make themself look better by putting others down. In this post it seems to be a not so subtle swipe at men with larger than average penises. It smacks of insecurity to me."

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By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda


"I always thought that cock rings were to enhance what was already there, rather than to aid in getting there in the first place

That is what I use it for I didn't think it could help a guy to get hard on the first place

The guy still has to be turned on, so you are correct.

I think the OP doesn't understand cock rings very well.

This seems to me to be another case of someone trying to make themself look better by putting others down. In this post it seems to be a not so subtle swipe at men with larger than average penises. It smacks of insecurity to me."

true well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think the OP doesn't understand cock rings very well.

This seems to me to be another case of someone trying to make themself look better by putting others down. In this post it seems to be a not so subtle swipe at men with larger than average penises. It smacks of insecurity to me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously never felt what it's like to wear one...that tight, ready to burst feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That being said...I have actually had complaints whilst wearing one

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"

This seems to me to be another case of someone trying to make themself look better by putting others down. In this post it seems to be a not so subtle swipe at men with larger than average penises. It smacks of insecurity to me."

This. And then some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are guys wearing cock rings to stay hard? "

Clue may be in the question

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Why are guys wearing cock rings to stay hard?

Clue may be in the question "

Pffft! Away with you and your logic and observational skills!

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By *xBadGirlxxTV/TS
over a year ago

truro

And they can help delay an orgasm which most ladies appreciate...

Most people here seem to be assuming that they get you hard, they don't, but when you do get hard it definitely seems harder and bigger and as mentioned above for longer. It most certainly is not a cure for or a sign of erectile dysfunction, that's what Viagra is for, and they wouldn't have researched and prescribed Viagra at great expense if a simple band around a cock and balls would have done nicely thank you very much...

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By *hrobinhoodMan
over a year ago

arnold, Nottingham

Also I might add a lot of porn star men wear them while filming, that's why they always look so hard and there balls are further away from their bodies. They either use flesh coloured rings or elastic bands work too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And they can help delay an orgasm which most ladies appreciate...

Most people here seem to be assuming that they get you hard, they don't, but when you do get hard it definitely seems harder and bigger and as mentioned above for longer. It most certainly is not a cure for or a sign of erectile dysfunction, that's what Viagra is for, and they wouldn't have researched and prescribed Viagra at great expense if a simple band around a cock and balls would have done nicely thank you very much... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock rings can help with erectile disfunction to keep the blood in the cock once it's flowed in there and to keep someone hard who might have trouble staying hard.

And Viagra was a heart drug, they just discovered it helped some guys with ED as a side effect.

ED is nothing to be ashamed of.

Yeah people might not actually be using them for that reason but still they can be used to help those people and there's nothing for a guy to be ashamed about if his body doesn't quite work as he wants it to. Same for ladies who don't get that wet, nothing wrong with you either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock rings can help with erectile disfunction to keep the blood in the cock once it's flowed in there and to keep someone hard who might have trouble staying hard.

And Viagra was a heart drug, they just discovered it helped some guys with ED as a side effect.

ED is nothing to be ashamed of.

Yeah people might not actually be using them for that reason but still they can be used to help those people and there's nothing for a guy to be ashamed about if his body doesn't quite work as he wants it to. Same for ladies who don't get that wet, nothing wrong with you either."

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By *hrobinhoodMan
over a year ago

arnold, Nottingham


"Cock rings can help with erectile disfunction to keep the blood in the cock once it's flowed in there and to keep someone hard who might have trouble staying hard.

And Viagra was a heart drug, they just discovered it helped some guys with ED as a side effect.

ED is nothing to be ashamed of.

Yeah people might not actually be using them for that reason but still they can be used to help those people and there's nothing for a guy to be ashamed about if his body doesn't quite work as he wants it to. Same for ladies who don't get that wet, nothing wrong with you either."

Anything that help people enjoy sex more is always a good thing, Cock rings always give me an extra inch as well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock rings can help with erectile disfunction to keep the blood in the cock once it's flowed in there and to keep someone hard who might have trouble staying hard.

And Viagra was a heart drug, they just discovered it helped some guys with ED as a side effect.

ED is nothing to be ashamed of.

Yeah people might not actually be using them for that reason but still they can be used to help those people and there's nothing for a guy to be ashamed about if his body doesn't quite work as he wants it to. Same for ladies who don't get that wet, nothing wrong with you either.

Anything that help people enjoy sex more is always a good thing, Cock rings always give me an extra inch as well lol"

Extra inch is always good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey Fabbers !

I have come across and seen this in many profiles and meet pics now

Why are guys wearing cock rings to stay hard ?

And

Does it bother women they are wearing them to meet you ?

Naughty thoughts please "

I dont have erection problems, i sometimes use a cock ring as it enhances the pleasure for both sides

you need certain amount of blood presure for them to work so you need be slightly aroused to start,

they do make you harder and bigger,

when the pressure builds the feeling is intense and when you cum you explode,

op maybe you should try one first see for your self,then ask yourself the same question

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre

I agree with the above posters , it does tend to make you harder and bigger , bought one once on a shopping trip with a friend best £3.50 i ever spent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a bit like going to fuck a lady but she lubes her pussy 1st....she cant be that turned on "

why do most peeps on here have lubes,

not all women are wet all the time despite being aroused,

just like you and all other men we cannot just get hard to order, sometimes we get hard when we don't want to and other times we cant get hard when we do want to,

just as women cant just make thier pussy wet on demand,

experience will teach you that we all function in slightly different ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's still a hard dick though, even if it has some help staying hard.

Some people have erectile problems, this doesn't necessarily mean they aren't turned on it can mean there's some problem in the structure of their penis."

Well said. Thankyou. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's still a hard dick though, even if it has some help staying hard.

Some people have erectile problems, this doesn't necessarily mean they aren't turned on it can mean there's some problem in the structure of their penis.

Well said. Thankyou. Xx "

No problem. Not sure why this topic was started, i did think it was so they could learn information but not so sure any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey Fabbers !

I have come across and seen this in many profiles and meet pics now

Why are guys wearing cock rings to stay hard ?

And

Does it bother women they are wearing them to meet you ?

Naughty thoughts please "

some don't need any prop to stay hard to repeat all that is need is sensually sexy ppl xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Topic started to see if women are put off that men need sexual aids rather than natural lust

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By *ikeC2012Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

I wear a ring from time to time, not as any aid, but because I feel it helps me show off my tackle when I want to. I have a metal one and I like the weight around my cock and balls too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah vibrating ones fine

I'm more on about rings just to keep male hard

More so seen on the VWE men "

That would be because of the amount of blood needed to keep a guy who's well endowed is greater than what's needed for the average sized guy so might need a little help sustaining doesn't mean he isn't turned on just he has poor circulation or other medical reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Topic started to see if women are put off that men need sexual aids rather than natural lust "

Try quoting your replies so people know who you're replying to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im amazed at the shaming people are doing in here. Its pathetic!

Erictile dysnfucntion is nothing to ashmed of its a condition medically recognised ffs. And like people have said its not even for that its to keep it hard for longer and ive no complaints about that.

And before the nasti arses say it, no its not because they are not with someone sexy enough like your obviously 100% perfectselves

Dear god give me strength!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a discussion topic leave your emotions at door

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Topic started to see if women are put off that men need sexual aids rather than natural lust "

In my experience it's always been an enhancement rather than an aid. I have toys, why shouldn't a male partner? I've been with guys that have used them and believe me, it's got nothing to do with priapic difficulty and more to do with trying a different sensation. I even bought one as a present for a regular meet once since he wanted to know what one felt like. Weird at first but pleasurable was the resulting conclusion.

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By *elbourne69Man
over a year ago

Melbourne


"after all it is about giving the lady pleasure is it not?"

I prefer the idea of us all having pleasure, man or woman....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a discussion topic leave your emotions at door "

Its a public forum and i will take them wherever i please thankyou.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a discussion topic leave your emotions at door "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol Vara

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have a cock ring but it's the pierced kind

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I used to have a playmate who never ever had a problem getting 9r staying hard but when he wore a cock ring he was rock solid and I loved the feeling while playing .

Some do need them for erectile problems but I'd say most use them to enhance what they already have

"

This.

I wear one and I didn't get it because of any erectile problem.

As well as sometimes wearing it for sex I wear it occasionally when I'm not expecting to have sex.

It's a cock'n'ball ring and it makes my balls feel fab all day.

I get a load more semi's through the day and it just feels mmmmmm with shaven balls.

Try the cock'n'ball ring - you might like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took the words right out of my mouth
"I used to have a playmate who never ever had a problem getting 9r staying hard but when he wore a cock ring he was rock solid and I loved the feeling while playing .

Some do need them for erectile problems but I'd say most use them to enhance what they already have

This.

I wear one and I didn't get it because of any erectile problem.

As well as sometimes wearing it for sex I wear it occasionally when I'm not expecting to have sex.

It's a cock'n'ball ring and it makes my balls feel fab all day.

I get a load more semi's through the day and it just feels mmmmmm with shaven balls.

Try the cock'n'ball ring - you might like it."

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

My knob is quite thick normally, but angel won't let me anywhere near her arsehole when i put one on, it's kinda like popeye eating his spinach

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Topic started to see if women are put off that men need sexual aids rather than natural lust "

And yet you don't seem to have grasped, despite numerous comments explaining, they aren't a sexual aid and they are neither an alternative for or an indicator of a lack of "natural lust".

Asking the question and refusing to take on board the answers suggests you only raised the subject as a means to put other men down. That's pretty pathetic.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Never personally used one but found it interesting that it's mainly other blokes judging those that do. Personally reckon if it makes anyone feel better female or male alls good! judgement doesn't add anything to anyone's enjoyment.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Never personally used one but found it interesting that it's mainly other blokes judging those that do. Personally reckon if it makes anyone feel better female or male alls good! judgement doesn't add anything to anyone's enjoyment. "

Also, it's mostly blokes who aren't open-minded about sex toys or enhancements and haven't actually tried them for themselves.

Does the judgement of closed-minded, unimaginative men actually count for anything?

Personally I prefer my men adventurous, experimental and open-minded.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Someone once told me the greatest sex organ ever is about 3inches then held their thumb and fore finger about 3" apart and put them to the top of the head!!

Best lesson ever imagination and intent is 99% of all your successes in most things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've actually been using viagra after a night out I don't need to use it but I love how it heightens the blokes orgasm more intense sensitive it even makes your legs shake it amazing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have to fake a hard dick maybe it's not a meet worth having is what I'm wondering "

Is this some hidden message way to say you are an amazing performer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive used them and i can definitely say they keep you harder for longer as long as you dont keep it on too long then it gets dangerous lol

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