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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My girl struggles with me being with someone she thinks is more attractive than her. I don't have that issue (he can be fit as).

Would like to know if other couples have this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"My girl struggles with me being with someone she thinks is more attractive than her. I don't have that issue (he can be fit as).

Would like to know if other couples have this?"

I dont see and have never met anyone who is more attractive that my partner. I personally dont think you see nsa people in the same light as you do your partner, so not applicable to me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"My girl struggles with me being with someone she thinks is more attractive than her. I don't have that issue (he can be fit as).

Would like to know if other couples have this?"

No we don't.

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By *irtycpl7980Couple
over a year ago

Northumberland

Your missus looks beautiful so can't imagine you will have that many people that are 'better looking' than her.

That being said, I'm with you, i love it when I see Lucy really into who she meets as at the end of the day she is going home with me no matter what the other person looks like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. The hotter the woman the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think swinging works if you have those kinds of hangups

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think swinging works if you have those kinds of hangups"
Purely our thoughts...its only a game so why play it if your insecure feelings get in the way, recipe for disaster

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)


"I don't think swinging works if you have those kinds of hangups"

Definitely! You might want to discuss this problem with your partner rather than here in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging in general can cause jealousy within the couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most unattractive thing is no confidence. ..I'm surprised that swinging works for you when your partner feels the way she does ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think swinging works if you have those kinds of hangups"

This. With knobs on. Big knobs.

Every bloke that's joined in our fun has either been more toned than me or has a bigger willy than me. Or both. The bastards.

And looks? Hard for me to say but at least one was a "bit of alright".

It's all part of the fun and the FANTASY. Still got my babe to cuddle up with and be my soul mate. It's just a bit of raw animal fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly? Yep. Always had massive self-confidence issues, it's something that I am trying to work on. If I was bisexual then I think it would be a completely different ball game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're absolutely stunning - I don't think you should worry hun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My girl struggles with me being with someone she thinks is more attractive than her. I don't have that issue (he can be fit as).

Would like to know if other couples have this?"

I'd say your partner just needs reassurance!

Is she swinging because she really wants to though - or because you want her to?

If she wants to swing then she just needs to accept that other women will come along - some of whom may be more physically attractive than her - but at the end of the day she's the one you're choosing to have a relationship with! For women with confidence/self esteem issues it will be hard watching you enjoy having sex with another woman!

This is why I play with so few couples - I need to know they're both 'solid' as a couple and completely happy with the lifestyle before I'll play with them!

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"This is why I play with so few couples - I need to know they're both 'solid' as a couple and completely happy with the lifestyle before I'll play with them! "

I'm with you on this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think swinging works if you have those kinds of hangups"

Never a more true word said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My girl struggles with me being with someone she thinks is more attractive than her. I don't have that issue (he can be fit as).

Would like to know if other couples have this?

I'd say your partner just needs reassurance!

Is she swinging because she really wants to though - or because you want her to?

If she wants to swing then she just needs to accept that other women will come along - some of whom may be more physically attractive than her - but at the end of the day she's the one you're choosing to have a relationship with! For women with confidence/self esteem issues it will be hard watching you enjoy having sex with another woman!

This is why I play with so few couples - I need to know they're both 'solid' as a couple and completely happy with the lifestyle before I'll play with them! "

You talk too much sense for my liking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly? Yep. Always had massive self-confidence issues, it's something that I am trying to work on. If I was bisexual then I think it would be a completely different ball game."

You have nothing to worry about, from what I see your pretty hot yourself!!

My only criticism is your non preference for bald men!!!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks Shame we couldn't see in ourselves what others see. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks Shame we couldn't see in ourselves what others see. X"

You sound just like my wife!! She's incredibly stunning and I tell her every day without fail but she shakes her head in disagreement! She's amazed whenever people fab her pics!

Trust me, and I'm sure I speak for a majority of males on this site (and no doubt quite a few females) your definitely a stunning, sexy lady and, just like me, your man is a lucky guy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope not a problem with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of couples. I do on occasion refuse to meet because I deem the lady in the couple much more attractive than me... But l refuse more because I don't want her partner to take one for the team so to speak.

Mr would love for me to take a nice looking younger guy but I wont... For the same reasons and no matter what he says... I wont do anything I see or feel is could make Mr feel bad.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

My husband doesn't mind if they are much younger or attractive, the only thing he doesn't like is if they keep texting me or want to see me too often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My girl struggles with me being with someone she thinks is more attractive than her. I don't have that issue (he can be fit as).

Would like to know if other couples have this?

I'd say your partner just needs reassurance!

Is she swinging because she really wants to though - or because you want her to?

If she wants to swing then she just needs to accept that other women will come along - some of whom may be more physically attractive than her - but at the end of the day she's the one you're choosing to have a relationship with! For women with confidence/self esteem issues it will be hard watching you enjoy having sex with another woman!

This is why I play with so few couples - I need to know they're both 'solid' as a couple and completely happy with the lifestyle before I'll play with them!

You talk too much sense for my liking "

I talk too much full stop! But there ARE ways of shutting me up!

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By *oBananas78Couple
over a year ago

London

I know where you are coming from, have had similar issues at clubs not always but it always surprises me. Just have to go with situations when we are both comfortable at that moment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honestly? Yep. Always had massive self-confidence issues, it's something that I am trying to work on. If I was bisexual then I think it would be a completely different ball game."

Presume this is Charlotte talking? You are very very pretty and love your tattoos can't imagine why you have even the slightest bit of self confidence issues.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I talk too much full stop! But there ARE ways of shutting me up! "

I imagine you do after reading your profile, which is really funny btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol luckily she's much better looking than me so wouldn't be an issue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I talk too much full stop! But there ARE ways of shutting me up!

I imagine you do after reading your profile, which is really funny btw "

Thanks!

Glad it made you smile! That was the intention!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your input chaps, funny to log on and see a thread discussing my apparent insecurities!

I'm actually not an insecure person normally, and we've never yet been in the situation that J talked about, only looked at pics on the site. So looking forward to meeting a hot couple and proving him wrong if there's any takers Paloma

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"My girl struggles with me being with someone she thinks is more attractive than her. I don't have that issue (he can be fit as).

Would like to know if other couples have this?"

I would have this issue. (F)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insecurity about looks is entirely normal, and common in a relationship - this has very little to do with recreational sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't mind.

We prefer to play with bi fem couples anyway so we both get a good end of the deal but i'm happy for mister to play with whomever he finds attractive, after all, it'd be a bit shit if i only "allowed" him to have sex with people less attractive as it really restricts on who you can meet and there has to be attraction to have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope i don't mind. I'd rather she be with someone she finds attractive. Wouldn't bother me if he was a hottie . Good on her I'd say

Tbh she has met a few good lookin lads in the past

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