FabSwingers.com forum: Some say yes but mean no.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

when having fun when does no mean no?

With me its when I say No

With my sexual partner at the time (depends what situation is) I agree a safe word if play becomes Dom/sub.

What's your definitions?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

No means no...simples

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Personally I always mean yes when I say yes and no when I mean no. I assume anybody else saying yes or no means it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No means no...simples"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop works for me. He stops. If I say my breast hurts,because I had an op on it last year that he knows about,he leaves it alone. If I say wait,during anal,he stops and waits for me to say go again. A pat on the head when he's biting lets him know that's enough.

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By *rnMrs2017Couple
over a year ago

County Durham

No means no.

But ow doesn't always mean stop

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No means no for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never found myself in a situation yet where no didn't mean no. So no role plays or anything like that. If I did I'd make sure there was an easily rememberable safe word and adhere to it.

Although who am I kidding, I'm never going to find myself in a role play situation like that

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Surely no means no - end of discussion xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just seems a silly question.....

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

It's true No mostly does and should mean No. For me, while a definite no would indeed mean no, I do like to be pushed past any initial reluctance to participate in something I may want to do, but feel hesitant about.

Thankfully my partner knows me and knows when to push. Mostly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No means no in any circumstance.

In sub/dom play the use of safe words should be observered as they are usually only used when the person has reached their limit and or boundary. The safe word should stop play immediately, whether to discuss the boundary or play before resuming or to stop fully.

But no means no.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

Very unwise to perpetuate the myth that when people say 'no' they mean 'yes'. No means no. End of.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Personally I always mean yes when I say yes and no when I mean no. I assume anybody else saying yes or no means it too."

^ this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No means no!! No dressing it up that it's role play or making excuses. It's one of the basic rules of life. If you can't understand that then there are places for you to go - prison.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when having fun when does no mean no?

With me its when I say No

With my sexual partner at the time (depends what situation is) I agree a safe word if play becomes Dom/sub.

What's your definitions?"

It's always good to read the forum posts. No means no. I wouldn't meet up with you...

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