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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondered if you lovely ladies out there are finding men are getting ruder??

Several men this week have been abusive and asking why? What's wrong with me? I always give a polite " no thanks" but if I did go into detail, well ! Now that would be rude.....

And all you sexy men out there....... How are finding us woman???

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nice if you just get a no thanks xx rather nothing ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure whether I qualify as sexy but..... Can't say I've noticed any difference. You are all looking for hot, hunky, six packed, attractive, black etc etc. So nothing much has changed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sod off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Merhh Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered if you lovely ladies out there are finding men are getting ruder??

Several men this week have been abusive and asking why? What's wrong with me? I always give a polite " no thanks" but if I did go into detail, well ! Now that would be rude.....

And all you sexy men out there....... How are finding us woman???

X "

I find a high percentage of men that message me to be extremely rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found majority are not rude.

There has been a couple who dislike the rejection and question it or are just outright mean. I have also had many a message saying thank you for the reply.

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich


"Just wondered if you lovely ladies out there are finding men are getting ruder??

Several men this week have been abusive and asking why? What's wrong with me? I always give a polite " no thanks" but if I did go into detail, well ! Now that would be rude.....

And all you sexy men out there....... How are finding us woman???

X

I find a high percentage of men that message me to be extremely rude"

The quality of these guys ( or Huuuuge lack of it) is appalling ...

I get it loads from the lazy non readers of profiles fuckwit brigade..

Hence having a huge block list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not rude just sometimes a bit stupid and immature in their approach

Bless their little cotton boxers

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I receive plenty of message where I'm simply left wondering where on earth did you learn your social skills.

If I am not interested, I wont reply unless they have sent a decent message - I've had plenty of abuse over the years that I rather just ignore them, if that makes me rude....I don't really care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How are they being abusive by asking "why don't you want to meet me"?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How are they being abusive by asking "why don't you want to meet me"?"

The usual,

Sorry I'm not interested

Not my type

Too far away

Which triggers abuse X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"nice if you just get a no thanks xx rather nothing ... "

Always comment

With a no thank you, but then get the why what's wrong with me.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How are they being abusive by asking "why don't you want to meet me"?"

When the reply stuff like well I didn't want to meet a fat cunt like you anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its very rare theyre rude like maybe 2 or 3 in 8 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rarely get rude or abusive replies but I do get annoyed with the amount who send a cock pic with their first message when I specifically ask them not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rarely do we get a rude message .

But then we don't reply if we aren't interested .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be lucky here. Never had one.

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By *anther and gothic angelCouple
over a year ago

fairy land

Nor me...Angel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We specifically stated in our profile that we don't want contact from single men at this time.

We tried the polite "no thanks" route. It almost always ended up in them trying to wheedle around us, which would then turn abusive.

We tried the ignoring route, it ended up with some abusive messages.

We have also had the "great pictures" messages, which always seem to come attached with their own pictures. You can FAB our photo's to express your appreciation. Why also would you need to send your own pictures when just commenting about our own? This would always end up with the wheedling situation again.

Our block list is full of single men because of this abuse.

So the end result was that we had to turn on the filters to block all single men messaging us. It saddened us that we had to do this because occasionally we would get a message from someone who interested us. It was like a breath of fresh air though.

Now though, we are finding more couple profiles that are just single men. Usually a couple of days old, sometimes also admitting they have made a mistake in selecting the wrong option. We now report and block these. We also turned on the filters for unverified users.

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