FabSwingers.com forum: Small talk to play talk

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im going to a club soon as a man rather than my Tgirl guise. Usually I get approaches from people to play so dont usually have to suggest having sex. But Im wondering how when chatting to a woman how to get from "Hi how are you" to "do you want to go and play". Do I wait for the lady to suggest this or us there a good way to segway from chat to playtalk? Sounds naive but I dont want to offend by being too upfront or enthusiastic. I dont think I should go from "Hi, nice dress" to "nice boobs" to can I fuck you"

Any thoughts?

By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Seaside Sussex

Hello Svetlana.

There are no hard and fast rules on this. Like with any human interactions. Sometimes people just hit it off and taking things further just seems to happen other times or with other people, it's not going to happen.

Best to go to the club/ party with no pressure on yourself.- Enjoy every encounter you have. When it comes to moving to another level, listen to your own instincts and respect everyone else's.

You will have a great time

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks babe was beginning to think id get no replies!

Anyone else like to advise?

By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Seaside Sussex

"Thanks babe was beginning to think id get no replies!

Anyone else like to advise?"

'Welcome darling. It's not that they're even my ideas. If you search the forums for chat up lines, small talk id similar phrases you will see that most of the responders give similar advice

Just relax, smile, be friendly and people will warm to you without you having to work.