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Do you like to stand out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you like to stand out in a group of people?

Or are you that person who stands out naturally?

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

No I like to blend into the background. I'm not one for standing out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being tall makes me stand out

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

No we don't, one of the crowd and being observant of others is where we like to be.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I like standing out. It is a bit of a pain for my love life though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Do you like to stand out in a group of people?

Or are you that person who stands out naturally? "

I think I stand out naturally on some occasions and not others. I don't mind standing out when I do but I'm also happy to take a back seat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to blend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yea I stand out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to blend in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to hate standing out. Having my condition and a mildly duff leg means people always used to stare etc.

Now? couldn't care less. Go to work in pinstripes, waistcoat, white mad scientist lab jacket, fob watch, smoked aviator goggles and elbow length Black gloves, occasionally wear the Einstein wig to make ' em laugh.

It's fun pulling up next to someone at traffic lights.

life's too short. put on an act, give ' em a show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 5 ft 6 so don't stand out. I like to blend although I like to look smart and smell nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i stand out naturally and never notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I hate it. My height and size makes me stand out especially if I wear heels. If I could lose a few inches and blend in I would be much happier.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

I am tall and always stand out, used to hate it but more comfortable in time. K is quite shy and reserved but, on occasion, when the centre of attention in a club for instance, she just shines, it's lovely to see - although clearly I'm biased lol

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Like in a beer garden? Depends on the weather I suppose, I wouldn't want to stand out in the pissing rain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may stand out in relation to my clothing, I have a quirky dress sense.

But in a large group of people I wouldn't take centre stage or shout loudly. I wouldn't stand out for being loud etc. Im very observant of others behaviour though.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I prefer to go unnoticed.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Always do: can't help it .

Usually end up in charge.

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

I blend in. Much safer.

And whilst I have no qualms with people who stand out "naturally", the people who try extremely hard to stand out often lose sight of why they wish to stand out in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an unnoticed. I didn't even want to be looked at on my wedding day so we ran off to Vegas with no family or friends. Perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm one person whose always in the background. Lack of confidence has me like that. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to hate standing out. Having my condition and a mildly duff leg means people always used to stare etc.

Now? couldn't care less. Go to work in pinstripes, waistcoat, white mad scientist lab jacket, fob watch, smoked aviator goggles and elbow length Black gloves, occasionally wear the Einstein wig to make ' em laugh.

It's fun pulling up next to someone at traffic lights.

life's too short. put on an act, give ' em a show. "

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Picture proof needed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to stand our due to my height and build

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By *tacyTTV/TS
over a year ago

Rotherham

Being a t-girl that is over 6ft I don't really have an option. wish I was about 5ft 8"....oh yeah with size 7 feet LoL

x

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I have pink hair.

Nuff said

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Do you like to stand out in a group of people?

Or are you that person who stands out naturally? "

Second one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6ft+ tall with heels and long red hair....

I don't have any choice lol

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I have pink hair.

Nuff said "

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

At 6"2, I almost always stand out, even if trying to blend. Add to that an engaging and assertive personality...

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I have an unusual sense of dress and have had my hair every colour of the rainbow. Currently back to black as not wanting to stand out right now. Always look a little peculiar though apparently lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm an unnoticed. I didn't even want to be looked at on my wedding day so we ran off to Vegas with no family or friends. Perfect."

Got married by elvis?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, I hate it. My height and size makes me stand out especially if I wear heels. If I could lose a few inches and blend in I would be much happier. "

Well your a stunning lady so no need!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think anyone that's over 6ft3 just stands out naturally which is great! I love being the tallest person sometimes haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I hate it. My height and size makes me stand out especially if I wear heels. If I could lose a few inches and blend in I would be much happier. "

At 5 10 you are a tall woman especially with heels, but a very attractive woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone wants to stand out. Who would want to disappear in to the background??

For me, a smile stands out. There's nothing more attention grabbing than a big smile.

Makes me think they're a happy person and I like being a round happy people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you like to stand out in a group of people?

Or are you that person who stands out naturally? "
I standout I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think everyone wants to stand out. Who would want to disappear in to the background??

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Me! I have no desire to be noticed. I don't crave attention from anyone.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I standout in many situations through ebullience and irrepressibility of character, lol, but if I want to blend in and observe I can become a ninja!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to blend into background,don't like to be centre of attention

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I like to blend into background,don't like to be centre of attention "

I'd so happily make you the centre of my attention for a while..... That grin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think everyone wants to stand out. Who would want to disappear in to the background??

Me! I have no desire to be noticed. I don't crave attention from anyone. "

Really? I think we choose pictures on here which flatter us and we feel would garner attention. Otherwise we'd leave the black avatar and our profiles blank.

That in itself is trying to get the attention of others.

May not be on a night out but it's still a desire to be noticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont want to be invisible but i dont crave to be the centre either xx

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No, I much prefer to blend in rather than stand out in most social situations. Over the years I've perfected the art of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to blend into background,don't like to be centre of attention

I'd so happily make you the centre of my attention for a while..... That grin "
For you I would make an exception

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think everyone wants to stand out. Who would want to disappear in to the background??

Me! I have no desire to be noticed. I don't crave attention from anyone.

Really? I think we choose pictures on here which flatter us and we feel would garner attention. Otherwise we'd leave the black avatar and our profiles blank.

That in itself is trying to get the attention of others.

May not be on a night out but it's still a desire to be noticed."

Being noticed is different from "standing out" in my view. On here I am looking to meet people so I post photos to attract their attention - but I only really want to be noticed by those I want to meet, everyone else can sod off. In real life, no I would far rather blend in and I hate the fact that I can't. It's shit being about half a foot taller than all the women you're on a night out with and sticking out the top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think everyone wants to stand out. Who would want to disappear in to the background??

Me! I have no desire to be noticed. I don't crave attention from anyone.

Really? I think we choose pictures on here which flatter us and we feel would garner attention. Otherwise we'd leave the black avatar and our profiles blank.

That in itself is trying to get the attention of others.

May not be on a night out but it's still a desire to be noticed."

I have no desire to gain Attention on here either at the moment. I'm not looking to meet new people i just like being creative with pictures. Here's a good place to do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in terms of personality as I'm quite quiet in 'real life', but physically yes. You sorta do with turquoise hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation and who I'm with as to whether I stand out or not.

I don't have a need to stand out but I don't necessarily want to remain blended into the background. Somewhere in the middle is perfect for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always considered myself very lucky! I'm nearly 6ft tall in heels and told I 'scrub up well' - so if I make an effort with clothes and make-up I tend to get noticed (unless the room is full of gorgeous women - in which case I'll just perve quietly along with the guys! )

However - I can go out make-up free in baggy clothes and never get a second glance!

I love the fact that I can do both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not in terms of personality as I'm quite quiet in 'real life', but physically yes. You sorta do with turquoise hair "

Bloody love your look!

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"Not in terms of personality as I'm quite quiet in 'real life', but physically yes. You sorta do with turquoise hair

Bloody love your look! "

They stood out a mile in a packed pub full of rugby supporters the other night - a welcome splash of blue in a sea of d*unken red ,

Blimey, that sounds cheesy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I always stand out and I have no problem with it. Aside from usually being the only natural redhead in the room, my style (hair, clothes and make-up) is vintage/retro so I attract attention and compliments. I'm confident, chatty and friendly so even without the looks I don't blend in.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I have always stood out because of my dress sense and general presentation.

I'm so used to it I don't really know any other way and I'm happy with how I feel.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Do you like to stand out in a group of people?

Or are you that person who stands out naturally? "

I don;t have much of a choice. I stand out like a sore thumb.

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

6.3.... Wuite massive build... ... Guess..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like to stand out, I'm quite quiet but I tend to get easily recognised, as you don't tend to see that many 6ft tall guys with long blonde hair and glasses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like to stand out or blend in but being 6:3 wearing a where's wally hat think I do stand out but being a skateboarder no one blends in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to stand out.

Hence the blue hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't go out of my way to stand, but it usually happens due to one reason or other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I like to stand out. I got muscles and with a cool hairstyle, slick back shaved sides

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. I like to stand out. I got muscles and with a cool hairstyle, slick back shaved sides "

Congratulations on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in this weather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not in terms of personality as I'm quite quiet in 'real life', but physically yes. You sorta do with turquoise hair

Bloody love your look! "

Awh thank you! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not in terms of personality as I'm quite quiet in 'real life', but physically yes. You sorta do with turquoise hair

Bloody love your look!

They stood out a mile in a packed pub full of rugby supporters the other night - a welcome splash of blue in a sea of d*unken red ,

Blimey, that sounds cheesy "

Haha and that was us being quiet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not in terms of personality as I'm quite quiet in 'real life', but physically yes. You sorta do with turquoise hair

Bloody love your look!

Awh thank you! x"

I'd marry you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like I am invisible to most people. I don't like being the centre of attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel like I am invisible to most people. I don't like being the centre of attention "

It helps being tall trust me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not in terms of personality as I'm quite quiet in 'real life', but physically yes. You sorta do with turquoise hair

Bloody love your look!

Awh thank you! x

I'd marry you lol "

Oooh the possibility of two rings! bahahahaha

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

Me: Abso-fuckin-lutely. Yes, that was me twerking, wearing no knickers, while standing on a table at the club on Saturday... I like to wear the hottest outfits and the highest heels. Not afraid to do crazy styles or colours on my hair. I love standing out!

Hubby: not so much, but enjoys the attention we end up getting because I often end up turning so many heads.

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

A few years ago, I realised I'd drifted so far from my friends from younger years. "when are you going to grow up, stop doing stupid things, and have a family...?" And I realised that it wasn't that I wasn't grown up, it was that they still cared about conforming to the norm, they still worried what other people thought. It was me that had grown up, and was able to be my own person, and do crazy stuff that made me happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to stand out in public rooms of clubs when fuglees are performing for the masses I never engage eye contact or smile I just wank and touch indiscriminately

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not in terms of personality as I'm quite quiet in 'real life', but physically yes. You sorta do with turquoise hair

Bloody love your look!

Awh thank you! x

I'd marry you lol

Oooh the possibility of two rings! bahahahaha "

Hahaha

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Do you like to stand out in a group of people?

Or are you that person who stands out naturally? "

I think I am the latter and am perfectly happy with that. Sometimes when life is getting on top of me I can be a bit quiet and at those times I tend to blend into the background more.

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