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Who arranges your meets?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Suppose this only applies to couples, but is it Mr or Mrs who arranges procedings?

In our case it's me, Jack. I usually do the prospecting, and the messaging. I show Kate the pics and we decide together whether to take it further

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

He (J) has had more luck than me! I am polite, talkative and all the rest of it. There's loads of people we chat to that I've got in touch with. All actual meets have came via J though! Which is funny as he doesn't spend that long on line, his spelling is really poor and he doesn't to 'chatty' like I do - but it seems to work! I'm always aware of what's going on though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Kate rarely goes online here, as she says it's too easy to pull on here

I have to work bloody hard to get anyone interested in us as a couple though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its usually me mrs jnp who is online so its mostly me who arranges our meets,and like the other poster said Paul is always in the loop and i always show him emails and profiles before i said yes to a meet x

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

MrH here who usually arranges our meets, although MrsH does have her own profile which she uses to arrange the surprise.

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I do (mrs) (that'd be because he doesn't have the password to this profile!!) - although he has been known to look at SM profiles on his own profile and get them to message me about a meet

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

My mum.

....oh shite, typing out loud again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He arranges our meets and does all the browsing of profiles and winking (and wanking) at the profiles he likes. I look at them if they message us back

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

lastminute.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My nan through a meduim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my hubby but he lets me say yes or no before we go for it .. and he's never done me wrong yet xxx love him so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're a couple and it's me, Mr P, who does all the browsing, mailing and selecting, maybe largely because joining this site in the first place was my idea. If it comes to possibly arranging meets, then Mrs P looks at the profiles and messages and we make the eventual decisions together.

In writing to couples, I think I find it about 50/50 whether it's the man or the woman writing ... or they don't say and it's impossible to tell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we both read messages together , we both browse together , we choose together , we decide together, we play together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always me (Mrs) - will show pics and give Mr a sum up but he trusts me implicitly and if I dont like them then neither does he x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My social secretary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was always "him" that did the searchin and most of the arrangin always left mail for me to read etc to see if we both happy

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By *eetle201Couple
over a year ago

dunfermline

my hubby arranges meets and so far he has done a good job i havent been disapointed.

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By *nnTonCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"My social secretary. "

A job with perks?

T xxx

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

Its me, Jane, who does all the trawling, reading and answering of messages, sifting through the chaff etc. Hubby is just too busy to be bothered with the nitty gritty. When I find a possible meet we talk it over and he has a read of the profile and a perve at the pics.

It works for us.

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently no one, haven't had a meet in months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meets what are those???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meets what are those??? "

EXACTLY lol

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

I do (Brian) Katee gives me carte blanche to look through profiles and begin chatting with singles/couples. Once I decide on a profile I show it to Katee, if she is happy with what is written and the messages back and forth between us, we go forward and arrange to meet.

So I do the browsing and she does the final selection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we dont often approach cpls but when we do its normally mrs btwb with hubbys approval

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mum.

....oh shite, typing out loud again... "
...... ~!~ SHIT !!! we spoke to your mum first oh lol ~!~

* CreEps roUnd gRaveyArd *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do mrs G X and then let him look see what he think or i pick for myself .. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mum.

....oh shite, typing out loud again... ...... ~!~ SHIT !!! we spoke to your mum first oh lol ~!~

* CreEps roUnd gRaveyArd * "
well nice to see your getting out of graveeyArd alot more xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to sort them together.. I quite often find that Master has been chatting to people on my behalf and I will get told to go and look at a profile and see.

We always plan meets together too..

Katie. x

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By *eighleedsMan
over a year ago

leeds


"We tend to sort them together.. I quite often find that Master has been chatting to people on my behalf and I will get told to go and look at a profile and see.

We always plan meets together too..

Katie. x"

To me tahst how it should work in a sub /Dom relationship like you two have

There are plenty of Doms / Dommes. who will say you are shagging so and so tonight thats my choice and you are doing it

soem people are of course happy with taht scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we do everything together

we both chat and message

then sort out the meets together

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By *nnTonCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

Sir does the initial filtering of messages and browse results purely because he has a proven track record of being better at sorting the wheat from the chaff and apparantly more "private" pc time than me. (Says something about levels of filter in work situations. & the fact that his lappy has a privacy screen methinks! Lol)

Once he has swopped initial messages I will be given the opportunity for my own input. Often f/f chat is the best way forward anyway and then my opinions count very much.If that happens in a social setting then we have agreed subtle codes to confirm our personal thoughts but have only very seldom needed to use them as we are so much in tune! A personal veto is always honoured however.

And then comes the fun bit of co-ordinating diaries!!

Tanni

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We browse and sort mail etc together, with me (mrs) doing the majority of typing, chat etc. Sometimes hubby will say no (no reason given and none asked for)sometimes I will. If we both agree onve all the chat and everything else is ok then I will contact the other party myself and arrange everything.Ultimately, the decision is mine though.x

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

i arrange my own, my ex hubby used to arrange mine but never told me till that day and i had to go on my own, never knew who or what the guy was like till i went, then i snapped and decided enough was enough so i left him he was a control freak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me cos im a big girl now and im allowed

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By *urlybird 75Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

Caz does, she works from home so gets time to go through everything during the day, then shows to Paul in the evenings!!!! good so far!!

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