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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you've been chatting to someone for a while, got on well. Loads of messages going to and fro. Lots n lots of flirting. You get to the point where you want to meet. So you both agree you'd like to meet, even say how you can't wait to!

Then all goes quiet on the western front!! Turns out they're a timewaster. Do you report them or just put it down to experience?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What would you report them for?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Did they arrange a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless they failed to show up for an arranged meet no it's not something to report. Anyone can change their mind at any point during a conversation

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"If you've been chatting to someone for a while, got on well. Loads of messages going to and fro. Lots n lots of flirting. You get to the point where you want to meet. So you both agree you'd like to meet, even say how you can't wait to!

Then all goes quiet on the western front!! Turns out they're a timewaster. Do you report them or just put it down to experience? "

These things happen. People get cold feet or simply change their mind all the time. To me that isn't a time waster.

Personally we wouldn't even bother reporting someone for not turning up at agreed meet. What are admin/site going to do!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair enough. No solid arrangements in place. Just frustrating. Gggggrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you've been chatting to someone for a while, got on well. Loads of messages going to and fro. Lots n lots of flirting. You get to the point where you want to meet. So you both agree you'd like to meet, even say how you can't wait to!

Then all goes quiet on the western front!! Turns out they're a timewaster. Do you report them or just put it down to experience? "

No people are allowed to change their minds

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Fair enough. No solid arrangements in place. Just frustrating. Gggggrrrrrrr "

Onwards and upwards as they say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take it personally, women get many more chances to meet than the genuine single guys, just move on to the next one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Women may get many more chances guys but I seem to have a knack of finding the timewasters! It's so frustrating when all I want is to play. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report them for what, not replying to you anymore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women may get many more chances guys but I seem to have a knack of finding the timewasters! It's so frustrating when all I want is to play. Lol "

Maybe you need to look at the people your messaging if you seem to attract that type of person then that really is down to you.. not meaning to sound cheeky or that though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and move on, jaysus if people could report for that the poor mods would be flooded!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women may get many more chances guys but I seem to have a knack of finding the timewasters! It's so frustrating when all I want is to play. Lol

Maybe you need to look at the people your messaging if you seem to attract that type of person then that really is down to you.. not meaning to sound cheeky or that though"

They message me! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women may get many more chances guys but I seem to have a knack of finding the timewasters! It's so frustrating when all I want is to play. Lol

Maybe you need to look at the people your messaging if you seem to attract that type of person then that really is down to you.. not meaning to sound cheeky or that though

They message me! Lol"

Maybe it's my boobs attracting them! I know, it's the smile!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I think that the more you talk the less likely you will actually meet them.

I will not flirt, or get into banter with people above discussing the likes and arranging a meet x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Women may get many more chances guys but I seem to have a knack of finding the timewasters! It's so frustrating when all I want is to play. Lol

Maybe you need to look at the people your messaging if you seem to attract that type of person then that really is down to you.. not meaning to sound cheeky or that though

They message me! Lol"

May be you said something they didn't like.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Take control and start messaging people you look the like of

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Like the look of

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By *hebagsCouple
over a year ago

worcestershire

It's happened to us!!! You try to think if it's something you may have said then you realise we're not all genuine!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, I'm shocked I got a message back!! Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Well, I'm shocked I got a message back!! Lol. "

Must have felt his ears burning.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Does he read the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does he read the forums"

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Does he read the forums"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He doesn't read the forums as far as I know.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

He may have decided not to meet as you seem to be someone who likes to play all your disappointments out for all to see, that for some will be very off putting

Hope things improve

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

What constitutes time wasting varies from person to person.

Speaking to someone about potential meeting, potential arranging and then it all falling through is part of the course. It could be a piss taker or it could be someone who's got nervous or simply decided they dont want to meet. How they tell you of the latter varies, if they tell you at all other than going silent.

There's certainly plenty of piss takers & gamers about. It can be anything from someone faking it to grab priv pics from others to actual arranging to meet then no showing etc etc.

It's a sad reality & risk of the online scene. Quite a few cpls I've known over the years have given up with the online scene and gone back to clubs. The face to face aspect of clubs is too risky for piss takers, gamers and their heroics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean , it happens a lot but hey onwards and upwards !

Hate people that do this but don't let it get you down

just purse your lips a whistle , and always look on the bright side of life !

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

You can't report someone for changing their mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He may have decided not to meet as you seem to be someone who likes to play all your disappointments out for all to see, that for some will be very off putting

Hope things improve"

Thanks for that!! I like you!! He has got back in contact again. We are sorting it. Thanks.

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