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"When do you decide to give up. You have been chatting for a few weeks being patient and non pushy when all of a sudden she stops messaging you when you think your getting on great. Did I overstep ? Should I message even though no replies? Or should I just move on ?" How many messages have you sent with no respond? If more than one forget it and move on. | |||
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"Move on I only send one message at a time, if we are talking and my last message don't get a reply that's it I don't keep messaging " Same here. We always assume that no reply means they don't want further contact. | |||
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"Move on I only send one message at a time, if we are talking and my last message don't get a reply that's it I don't keep messaging Same here. We always assume that no reply means they don't want further contact." Yes and the same here. Plenty of other people to talk to. ![]() | |||
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"Well plenty of pics on her profile and chatting its pretty obvious its a woman. So I think you are all right time to move on. Thanks all" Better luck next time ![]() | |||
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"Well plenty of pics on her profile and chatting its pretty obvious its a woman. So I think you are all right time to move on. Thanks all" Unless you chatted on the phone or on cam then I'd be a bit suss...is she verified by photo and other couples or females?? | |||
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"Well plenty of pics on her profile and chatting its pretty obvious its a woman. So I think you are all right time to move on. Thanks all Better luck next time ![]() Thanks and if anyone does want to chat privately I would be more than happy especially if you are local to Manchester | |||
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"When do you decide to give up. You have been chatting for a few weeks being patient and non pushy when all of a sudden she stops messaging you when you think your getting on great. Did I overstep ? Should I message even though no replies? Or should I just move on ?" I know the feeling just yesterday i was getting a long fine chatting mails etc with a couple and just one word out of place and wham.....blocked. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"When do you decide to give up. You have been chatting for a few weeks being patient and non pushy when all of a sudden she stops messaging you when you think your getting on great. Did I overstep ? Should I message even though no replies? Or should I just move on ?" well i've just called my 'non-replier' a timewasting bitch. Lol | |||
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"Maybe she got sick of ya taking so long to ask for a meet, or maybe it was a guy ![]() ![]() | |||
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"When do you decide to give up. You have been chatting for a few weeks being patient and non pushy when all of a sudden she stops messaging you when you think your getting on great. Did I overstep ? Should I message even though no replies? Or should I just move on ? well i've just called my 'non-replier' a timewasting bitch. Lol" How has she actually wasted your time by not replying? I'd say she'd done the total opposite. | |||
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"Well plenty of pics on her profile and chatting its pretty obvious its a woman. So I think you are all right time to move on. Thanks all Unless you chatted on the phone or on cam then I'd be a bit suss...is she verified by photo and other couples or females?? " Your responses are always so subtle and full of empathy.... ![]() | |||
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"When do you decide to give up. You have been chatting for a few weeks being patient and non pushy when all of a sudden she stops messaging you when you think your getting on great. Did I overstep ? Should I message even though no replies? Or should I just move on ? I know the feeling just yesterday i was getting a long fine chatting mails etc with a couple and just one word out of place and wham.....blocked. ![]() ![]() ![]() One word out of place is one word too much | |||
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"When do you decide to give up. You have been chatting for a few weeks being patient and non pushy when all of a sudden she stops messaging you when you think your getting on great. Did I overstep ? Should I message even though no replies? Or should I just move on ?" hey maybe she's been busy at work just keep messaging like nothing's happened ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"When do you decide to give up. You have been chatting for a few weeks being patient and non pushy when all of a sudden she stops messaging you when you think your getting on great. Did I overstep ? Should I message even though no replies? Or should I just move on ? well i've just called my 'non-replier' a timewasting bitch. Lol" Just for not replying ? Sounds out of proportion to me. | |||
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"Just send a message along the lines of; Right you, stop being a prick tease, you know you want it and see what happens ![]() I tried this approach, The judge was not impressed ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Just send a message along the lines of; Right you, stop being a prick tease, you know you want it and see what happens ![]() Yep, that should do it! | |||
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"Maybe she got sick of ya taking so long to ask for a meet" ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Just send a message along the lines of; Right you, stop being a prick tease, you know you want it and see what happens ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Well plenty of pics on her profile and chatting its pretty obvious its a woman. So I think you are all right time to move on. Thanks all Unless you chatted on the phone or on cam then I'd be a bit suss...is she verified by photo and other couples or females?? Your responses are always so subtle and full of empathy.... ![]() And yours full of ![]() | |||
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"When do you decide to give up. You have been chatting for a few weeks being patient and non pushy when all of a sudden she stops messaging you when you think your getting on great. Did I overstep ? Should I message even though no replies? Or should I just move on ? well i've just called my 'non-replier' a timewasting bitch. Lol" .. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Dislike game playing and trying to work out what someone means.... So if it were me I'd say something like... Hi there. All gone quiet so I'll leave it with you. If you fancy meeting drop me a message. If not, wish you well. Then I wouldn't message again. V x " ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"When do you decide to give up. You have been chatting for a few weeks being patient and non pushy when all of a sudden she stops messaging you when you think your getting on great. Did I overstep ? Should I message even though no replies? Or should I just move on ? I know the feeling just yesterday i was getting a long fine chatting mails etc with a couple and just one word out of place and wham.....blocked. ![]() ![]() ![]() That the hard thing about chatting on the online, Its so easy for people to misinterpret things you type, I have made that mistake a few times, Reading it the wrong way and also typing a word or sentence and then wished I had rephrased it better | |||
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"When do you decide to give up. You have been chatting for a few weeks being patient and non pushy when all of a sudden she stops messaging you when you think your getting on great. Did I overstep ? Should I message even though no replies? Or should I just move on ? well i've just called my 'non-replier' a timewasting bitch. Lol Just for not replying ? Sounds out of proportion to me. " well when someone says they want to meet and u arrange something. Then they dont want to reply after that then i call timewasting | |||
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"When do you decide to give up. You have been chatting for a few weeks being patient and non pushy when all of a sudden she stops messaging you when you think your getting on great. Did I overstep ? Should I message even though no replies? Or should I just move on ? I know the feeling just yesterday i was getting a long fine chatting mails etc with a couple and just one word out of place and wham.....blocked. ![]() ![]() ![]() That is true and sometimes I may be a bit harsh,I think that's mainly when I'm not 100% sure about someone and any little thing will tip me to the no thanks side of things | |||
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"Sounds like it to me. I think the motto life is to short to worry about might have beens and maybe i should stop being so polite and nice to people. Might get me somewhere lol" Me too!! No more miss nice!! Lol. One more message to him if no joy then he can jog on!!! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm in a similar situation. Been chatting to a guy for ages. Seen pics etc, so I'm kinda thinking alls good. Been getting on really really well. Anyway,I sent a message asking how he was,(cos he's not been feeling too good). I've heard nothing back. He's been online and read my message. I'm beginning to wonder if I've been had somehow. When I've mentioned meeting he's been well up for it. When I asked if he had a gf or anything he said not for over a year! When I said let's chat on the phone. Oh, my phones broken touch screen doesn't work and I've been too ill to get it fixed!! What do you reckon? Timewaster? ![]() Yep unfortunately | |||
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"When do you decide to give up. You have been chatting for a few weeks being patient and non pushy when all of a sudden she stops messaging you when you think your getting on great. Did I overstep ? Should I message even though no replies? Or should I just move on ? well i've just called my 'non-replier' a timewasting bitch. Lol Just for not replying ? Sounds out of proportion to me. well when someone says they want to meet and u arrange something. Then they dont want to reply after that then i call timewasting " I would say your time is only wasted if you'd made the effort to get ready, take time off work or get child care sorted etc, travelled to the venue only to be stood up with no explanation. Sending a few messages literally takes seconds, I don't see how its time wasting. It happens all the time on here, maybe something was said to put her off or she just wasn't up for meeting but felt she couldn't say why. No point stressing about it or resorting to petty name calling. | |||
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"When do you decide to give up. You have been chatting for a few weeks being patient and non pushy when all of a sudden she stops messaging you when you think your getting on great. Did I overstep ? Should I message even though no replies? Or should I just move on ? well i've just called my 'non-replier' a timewasting bitch. Lol Just for not replying ? Sounds out of proportion to me. well when someone says they want to meet and u arrange something. Then they dont want to reply after that then i call timewasting " Perhaps something came up in her life which was more important, maybe she just changed her mind, maybe she saw your status and decided against it ! | |||
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"Leave it a week since you last heard from her. Then send a polite message, saying "hope you're OK, we haven't chatted in a while". She might have decided that you're not for her, or she might just have other things going on in her life that is preventing her from devoting as much time to swinging (and you). If still no reply, just let it drop." ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Depends how many messages she gets on a regular basis .. us ladies do try to answer as many as possible. ..leave it a while .. then be cheeky and ask for a social meet ... just to break the ice .... some people get a bit nervois . She may well reply this time x" A good idea I shall do that | |||
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"When do you decide to give up. You have been chatting for a few weeks being patient and non pushy when all of a sudden she stops messaging you when you think your getting on great. Did I overstep ? Should I message even though no replies? Or should I just move on ?" Ah bless! You think you were the only guy she was messaging! She's probably chatting to about 15 other guys! If she's concentrating on one or 2 other conversations you'll soon "drop off" the message page. | |||
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"When do you decide to give up. You have been chatting for a few weeks being patient and non pushy when all of a sudden she stops messaging you when you think your getting on great. Did I overstep ? Should I message even though no replies? Or should I just move on ?" I feel that the person who wants to stop the conversation should say so. Sadly i don't think many do that. I always end a chat I am not interested in progressing quite clearly. I find the others have been very appreciative. People should not be left hanging. | |||
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"When do you decide to give up. You have been chatting for a few weeks being patient and non pushy when all of a sudden she stops messaging you when you think your getting on great. Did I overstep ? Should I message even though no replies? Or should I just move on ? I feel that the person who wants to stop the conversation should say so. Sadly i don't think many do that. I always end a chat I am not interested in progressing quite clearly. I find the others have been very appreciative. People should not be left hanging. " ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I am aware that the women on here are rarely chatting to one person and even meeting more than one so its not a jealousy thing . If you dont want to chat just say so. I'm big enough to take rejection as I'm not a "hot guy" so don't expect many replies. Maybe I ask too much for a bit of courtesy to say thanks but no thanks lol" Sadly some aren't and resort to abuse as a way of handling rejection so many people often just end conversations they're no longer wanting to carry on in silence to avoid this possibility. If someone is genuinely interested, they will make the effort. | |||
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