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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why is that fab seems to have so many abusive people these day . people who dont meet or just pic hunters these people are ruining. it for all gen swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get much bother on here to be honest

I've had the odd abusive come back from guys I've said no thanks to but that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only get abuse in forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly ever get any abusive messages..so when I do I just laugh and block..no point getting all het up about the odd wanker who cant take rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't ruin it for me and shouldn't have any affect on anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore it. Saddos who never leave their darkened bedroom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers guys xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I know there are people on here who take online abuse to heart but its easy to ignore. Abusive message? Report and block. Fake photos? report and block. no show? Report and block. Abusive forum post? Report to mods.

Ignore, ignore, ignore. I know its difficult when they abuse is directed at you, but after a while you'll become inured and will laugh at their crass behaviour.

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

We probably block 2 or 3 people a week due to abusive messages when we say no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know there are people on here who take online abuse to heart but its easy to ignore. Abusive message? Report and block. Fake photos? report and block. no show? Report and block. Abusive forum post? Report to mods.

Ignore, ignore, ignore. I know its difficult when they abuse is directed at you, but after a while you'll become inured and will laugh at their crass behaviour."

Couldn't of put it better, sadly cretins exist all over the place, just got to report, and help keep the site genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't even know you so can't abuse you really.

Idk some people are just cunts, and not in a sexy way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They don't even know you so can't abuse you really.

Idk some people are just cunts, and not in a sexy way."

If they don't know you, who cares what they think.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Unfortunately, you get all sorts on here, just do as you would in the ' real world's, ignore.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

mostly the abusive messages come when a polite thanks but no thanks reply to them has been sent, we just block, report, and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mostly the abusive messages come when a polite thanks but no thanks reply to them has been sent, we just block, report, and move on "

I used to thank people like that for confirming my decision to not want to meet them as the correct one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've only had abusive messages a couple of times equally divided between taking umbrage at my opinion in the forums or spitting their dummy out because we won't meet. On another site there was the infamous "ginger pensioner" incident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people grasp the negatives how can you rejoice in blocking someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people grasp the negatives how can you rejoice in blocking someone "

Oh easily !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people grasp the negatives how can you rejoice in blocking someone

Oh easily ! "
hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people grasp the negatives how can you rejoice in blocking someone "

I think its probably more to do with having the last word. Pretty immature but some people just are!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I rejoice when I discover I am blocked

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

A sub girl sent me a horrible message, I sent her an abusive reply.... She loved it !

Only a joke before anyone gets there knickers in a twist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A sub girl sent me a horrible message, I sent her an abusive reply.... She loved it !

Only a joke before anyone gets there knickers in a twist"

I did chuckle at this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have many a sleepless night getting about being blocked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

looks like block button going get plenty of use . cheers peeps xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people grasp the negatives how can you rejoice in blocking someone

I think its probably more to do with having the last word. Pretty immature but some people just are!"
hey why burn bridges ,just don't chat anymore, I don't see the point of bringing a negative to a negative ,try a different approach if someone says something you perceive to be negative reply with a compliment eg you look stunningly beautiful

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Because things are always much better in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know there are people on here who take online abuse to heart but its easy to ignore. Abusive message? Report and block. Fake photos? report and block. no show? Report and block. Abusive forum post? Report to mods.

Ignore, ignore, ignore. I know its difficult when they abuse is directed at you, but after a while you'll become inured and will laugh at their crass behaviour."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get much bother on here to be honest

I've had the odd abusive come back from guys I've said no thanks to but that's all"

This

Amazing the power of two little words - I went from sexy to fat dog today after saying 'no thanks '

Who knew 'no thanks ' was so powerful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people grasp the negatives how can you rejoice in blocking someone

I think its probably more to do with having the last word. Pretty immature but some people just are! hey why burn bridges ,just don't chat anymore, I don't see the point of bringing a negative to a negative ,try a different approach if someone says something you perceive to be negative reply with a compliment eg you look stunningly beautiful "

I totally agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never ever had abuse from messages.

I get all my abuse trolling the forums... Which is fair enough

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