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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lovely singe friend of mine is on a dating site

not one you guys would like as it is for married folk - but she knows what she wants and has her reasons to prefer this method of meeting guys instead of going to the pub

have to say im shocked

not at her being on there - thats her choice - but the profiles of the guys are ALL without EXCEPTION talking in detail about how they love their wives and families but need/want/demand for a relationship on the side as they have lost that spark.

They go on about wanting to find friendship and romantic walks with weekends away and spoiling each other rotten - and on and on it goes - all very sweet and romantic stuff

Her profile is the opposite - it just says she is only interested in sex and not relationships - suddenly all these lovely profiled guys come out of the woodwork with 'yeah baby i will shag you good n hard' - they all revert back to type

Im glad i have my darling in this - im glad we swing together for the fun it brings both of us - and im not shocked people play away from home - i am genuinely shocked at how much bullshit there is out there and once given the opportunity to be real they revert to type

going for a coffee now

ttfn

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I'm not like that.

I'd shag you nice and slow!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol

sorry off course i should have excluded the guys from here

i have mentioned to her before the single guys on here would be worth looking at but i just get abuse for being a bi sexual hungry whore of a swinger

aw well each to their own

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"lovely singe friend of mine is on a dating site

not one you guys would like as it is for married folk - but she knows what she wants and has her reasons to prefer this method of meeting guys instead of going to the pub

have to say im shocked

not at her being on there - thats her choice - but the profiles of the guys are ALL without EXCEPTION talking in detail about how they love their wives and families but need/want/demand for a relationship on the side as they have lost that spark.

They go on about wanting to find friendship and romantic walks with weekends away and spoiling each other rotten - and on and on it goes - all very sweet and romantic stuff

Her profile is the opposite - it just says she is only interested in sex and not relationships - suddenly all these lovely profiled guys come out of the woodwork with 'yeah baby i will shag you good n hard' - they all revert back to type

Im glad i have my darling in this - im glad we swing together for the fun it brings both of us - and im not shocked people play away from home - i am genuinely shocked at how much bullshit there is out there and once given the opportunity to be real they revert to type

going for a coffee now

ttfn "

Well im sorry to say its you girls who fall for it and there lot of bullshiting guys on here as well and thats why some of us single guys the genuine nice guys find it hard to get meets with the single fems but thats life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my years on sites like this i have come across woman like her ...... some have been married some was married ............ thay love married men who play away it gives them power and thay feel thay are lucky ones as get to shag him with passion lust not the wife she just boring at home looking after home and family ... if he could he would be with her but have family and things so cant ,,thay dream up all sorts of things... some get them doing jobs around the house and gifts too... thay feel safe and think the man will not run off like on swingers site after others. And Some like it thay have a wife so not there 24/7.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my years on sites like this i have come across woman like her ...... some have been married some was married ............ thay love married men who play away it gives them power and thay feel thay are lucky ones as get to shag him with passion lust not the wife she just boring at home looking after home and family ... if he could he would be with her but have family and things so cant ,,thay dream up all sorts of things... some get them doing jobs around the house and gifts too... thay feel safe and think the man will not run off like on swingers site after others. And Some like it thay have a wife so not there 24/7."

your probably right - my head buzzes with it all - and this is not about why people do what they do but more how people pretend so much - it was surprise at just how quickly the men adapted to her needs and dropped the pretence of romance etc

so much effort put into being something your not - it just made me hold my breath a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she think doing this .... he will be more of a lover then a swinger .. and she will get the romance and stuff what swinging dont have . I had a friend she would do this just go for married men ,,,,, could not care about there familys it was all about her. And if she get hung-up on one could end up getting so so hurt as most men just looking for sex. She is in a dream world. Love caring and stuff come after years of trust and being together x WHO would really tust her , she can do it with them so she can others. But its her life .... and she will live and learn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i believe everything finds its level eventually

astounding that being a swinger gets such a bad press in comparison to these sites really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would get her on here instead of that dating site for married people least on here they are more less to fall in love with her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would get her on here instead of that dating site for married people least on here they are more less to fall in love with her "
I have tried!

i have tried and tried and tried lol honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never been on a dating site but I know what friends have told me and they can get pretty clingy but I guess if you spoke to some gals on here they would say the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have never been on a dating site but I know what friends have told me and they can get pretty clingy but I guess if you spoke to some gals on here they would say the same "
I dont think we are that different - humans i mean - except on here playing together feels honest

on their it seems they are kidding them selves - and a little bit of honesty on a profile allowed them to prove that

and i dont know why it matters

it just does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some would hate swinging as just sex and friends and move to next ,, some need the love and the dreams and all that ... as unhappy looking for prince charming most are x

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"i believe everything finds its level eventually

astounding that being a swinger gets such a bad press in comparison to these sites really

"

Thats because were in the uk hun if it was in holland or most european countries would people be bothered

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well in the mean time ive told her the single guys over here seem to have 'peachy' bums

(sorry another thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doubt they’re all the same, maybe the ones who contacted her are, but they’ll probably be in the minority, some will say what you want to hear while others will stick to want they want, so hardly all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well in the mean time ive told her the single guys over here seem to have 'peachy' bums

(sorry another thread

"

Get her on here she will have a field day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are only like it because they get away with it, if women stopped sleeping with the idiots the blokes who give men a bad name wouyld just die out.

Not that i'm saying its the girls fault, the guys should be behavine because its the right thing to do, but thats not gonna happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have always played away, both men and women, and will continue to do so as long as we are walking this earth.

Some do it through sites like this, some just do it through chance meets at all sorts of places. Humans have never really ever been monogomous.

Infidelity isn't confined to the more educated or eloquent people around us, and that's probably why we get such a wide range of descriptive and non descriptive profiles.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Women are equally capable of being full of shit. One minute posting about men, married cheats, having standards.... then a good looking, charming and funny married fella comes along and all of a sudden (on the sneaky) they aren't bothered if his wife is still in the hospital after giving birth to their child.

Women are also (imho) the biggest back stabbers when it comes to bagging a man. Men may be statistically more likely to cheat on their partners (60+ % v women at 40+%) but men do generally show a sounder moral code when it comes to not shitting on their mates over a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women are equally capable of being full of shit. One minute posting about men, married cheats, having standards.... then a good looking, charming and funny married fella comes along and all of a sudden (on the sneaky) they aren't bothered if his wife is still in the hospital after giving birth to their child.

Women are also (imho) the biggest back stabbers when it comes to bagging a man. Men may be statistically more likely to cheat on their partners (60+ % v women at 40+%) but men do generally show a sounder moral code when it comes to not shitting on their mates over a shag."

yeah but.... us blokes are supposed to overlook such frivalities when we've got a stiffy

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By *andsomgeorgeMan
over a year ago

Rugby


"Women are equally capable of being full of shit. One minute posting about men, married cheats, having standards.... then a good looking, charming and funny married fella comes along and all of a sudden (on the sneaky) they aren't bothered if his wife is still in the hospital after giving birth to their child.

Women are also (imho) the biggest back stabbers when it comes to bagging a man. Men may be statistically more likely to cheat on their partners (60+ % v women at 40+%) but men do generally show a sounder moral code when it comes to not shitting on their mates over a shag."

I agree with you here Polo. I find women capable of being far more calculating and ruthless than most blokes could. Women are also generally much better at covering up their tracks/thoughts/lies than men. It's quite easy to see when men are not telling the truth. Maybe it's all the years of 'that felt great, I've never cum like that before' that has made ladies so good at this.

It might also account for some of the difference in the statistics quoted. Very refreshing to hear such a balanced, reasoned discussion on the subject though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not like that.

I'd shag you nice and slow! "
...... ~!~ lmfao ~!~ spitroast ¿

* ÇreEps rôÛñd GrÅve¥ard *

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By *andsomgeorgeMan
over a year ago

Rugby


"I'm not like that.

I'd shag you nice and slow! ...... ~!~ lmfao ~!~ spitroast ¿

* ÇreEps rôÛñd GrÅve¥ard * "

Your keyboard OK? I'm not brilliant with some of the symbols I'm afraid GF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not like that.

I'd shag you nice and slow! ...... ~!~ lmfao ~!~ spitroast ¿

* ÇreEps rôÛñd GrÅve¥ard *

Your keyboard OK? I'm not brilliant with some of the symbols I'm afraid GF."
....~!~ yes my iPhone keyboard is Fîñë ~!~

* çreÊps roÙnd grÃve¥aRd *

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay


"I'm not like that.

I'd shag you nice and slow! ...... ~!~ lmfao ~!~ spitroast ¿

* ÇreEps rôÛñd GrÅve¥ard *

Your keyboard OK? I'm not brilliant with some of the symbols I'm afraid GF.....~!~ yes my iPhone keyboard is Fîñë ~!~

* çreÊps roÙnd grÃve¥aRd * "

gothic can i come i bord!!

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By *andsomgeorgeMan
over a year ago

Rugby


"I'm not like that.

I'd shag you nice and slow! ...... ~!~ lmfao ~!~ spitroast ¿

* ÇreEps rôÛñd GrÅve¥ard *

Your keyboard OK? I'm not brilliant with some of the symbols I'm afraid GF.....~!~ yes my iPhone keyboard is Fîñë ~!~

* çreÊps roÙnd grÃve¥aRd * "

Must take you ages to get all those symbols.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lovely singe friend of mine is on a dating site

"

How did she end up singed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know what u mean about the pointless bullshit, just so the guys can get their leg over. Thats why i love this site. Its honest. We all know what we are on here for. And if peeps state they just want nsa, then u know where u stand (most of the time) I dont need all that lovey dovey shite, and i appreciate the blunt honesty that comes from a swinging site.

fabswingers...love ya peeps!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i know what u mean about the pointless bullshit, just so the guys can get their leg over. Thats why i love this site. Its honest. We all know what we are on here for. And if peeps state they just want nsa, then u know where u stand (most of the time) I dont need all that lovey dovey shite, and i appreciate the blunt honesty that comes from a swinging site.

fabswingers...love ya peeps!"

yes thats it!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lovely singe friend of mine is on a dating site

How did she end up singed "
lol rubbish arent i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the best rule to remember that on any dating or swinging site men are after one thing sex - and will do whatever they have to. Women are swayed by the sweet talk, all of us like it and men have learnt this. At least swinging sites are more real but even on here who are you more likely to meet with, the guy with the one liner saying want to fuck your brains out or the guy who describes himself as a gentleman who respects the ladies, gets his pleasure out of pleasuring her for hours and has a great sense of humour and is looking for quality not quantity - in reality both the same, they just want sex and will chase fresh pussy wherever they can get it - god im cynical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course on here its ok cos us ladies just want sex too but the sweet talkers do win you over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its why i love fab its because we all know what we are here for ...... no mucking around ......and no crap..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you ladies can also do a crafty bit of word play too.

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